Can I Kiss My Fiancé or Fiancée? – Part 3

Can I Kiss My Fiancé or Fiancée? – Part 3

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SINGLES – Dear Pastor, Can I Kiss My Fiancé or Fiancée?

If you are in courtship, be careful. Don’t let the devil trap you. The raging fire in your body will not be doused with kissing; it will only rekindle it until you want to explore more!

In the scripture, When Joab wanted to kill Amasa, he deceived him with a kiss!

And Joab said to Amasa, Art thou in health, my brother? And Joab took Amasa by the beard with the right hand to kiss him. But Amasa took no heed to the sword that was in Joab’s hand: so he smote him therewith in the fifth rib, and shed out his bowels to the ground, and struck him not again; and he died. So Joab and Abishai his brother pursued after Sheba the son of Bichri. – 2Sa 20:9-10 KJV

Yes, it will look harmless. It will sound logical. But it can destroy destinies.

Jesus Christ was betrayed with a kiss!

But Jesus said unto him, Judas, betrayest thou the Son of man with a kiss? – Luk 22:48 KJV

Isn’t something inappropriate with a lady who is leading the church in worship, but who the previous night had been in an intense kissing session with the brother who led opening prayer that same morning?

Live right, for God is not mocked!

There is nothing wrong with a light hug. There is nothing wrong with a light peck by the cheek if that was how you were raised up, but it is better to just stay away! But the problem is will you stop at that stage? Your body will crave more and if you lack self-control, you will yield to it. There are some brothers that can’t talk to a lady unless they touch her or place their hands on her shoulder. Must they tap current before they can talk?

That kissing, touching, and petting you do behind doors will get you into trouble sooner than you think if you don’t put your feet down now. Don’t dabble into those terrains because the song afterward is always, ‘we didn’t want to go all the way,’ but the mistake would have been made.

Resolve to do it right and you will enjoy the fullness of God’s blessings.

I pray God gives you more understanding and help you to stop every form of compromise!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
Lord, I receive wisdom to discern between positive and negative influences in my life and grace to avoid the negative.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
In Jesus’ name, I resist the power of negative influence over my life.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Rom 7:25 MSG The answer, thank God, is that Jesus Christ can and does. He acted to set things right in this life of contradictions where I want to serve God with all my heart and mind, but am pulled by the influence of sin to do something totally different.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Cut off your association with any person, place, or thing that is influencing you negatively.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Gen 30-32

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Can I Kiss My Fiancé or Fiancée? – Part 2

Can I Kiss My Fiancé or Fiancée? – Part 2

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SINGLES – Dear Pastor, Can I Kiss My Fiancé or Fiancée?

Continued from yesterday…

This is because it will always lead to something else! What you did the last time will not satisfy you the next time you meet, and before you know it, there will be a compromise.

If you are kissing someone who is not your wife somewhere and I bump into you as your pastor, what will happen? You will quickly apologize. Why? You are doing something out of place.

On the other hand, if I am kissing my wife somewhere and you bump into us, it is still you that will apologize because you are interrupting us and what we are doing is in place!

I can’t walk into a place now and then you grab my wife to kiss her and then tell me you are greeting her. I will remove my suit and fight you!

But candidly speaking, you may not find any scripture in the Bible that says kissing is a sin, but it will surely lead you into sin because of the law of progression. It is better to stay off.

After marriage, if you decide to kiss your spouse for a whole day non-stop, God will not frown at it, because your bodies belong to each other.

Don’t be deceived that since God says not to fornicate, kissing must then be a way out to relieve pressures!

You cannot kiss strangers you met two hours ago all in the name of expressing your love. The power of life and death lies in your mouth, so says the scriptures. You want to be careful then with whom you get entangled and lock that mouth with!

There are people you kiss and destinies are swallowed up! There are strange lips all over the place and that is why it is important you follow God’s order. I am a Pastor for close to twenty-five years and I can tell you my eyes have seen a little and my ears have heard enough to make them tingle.

Ladies, you cannot submit your lips to a guy as if you are submitting a sheet of paper in the examination hall. Your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost! Guard it. If the guy or the lady is hungry, must it be your lips that would be eaten? Honour yourself and honour God’s word so that God will honour you.

I have seen a guy who only kissed someone he met and he became mentally unstable from then. I have had to pray for a lady who practically lost her mind because of sexual sin!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
Lord, I receive wisdom to discern between positive and negative influences in my life and grace to avoid the negative.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
In Jesus’ name, I resist the power of negative influence over my life.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Rom 7:25 MSG The answer, thank God, is that Jesus Christ can and does. He acted to set things right in this life of contradictions where I want to serve God with all my heart and mind, but am pulled by the influence of sin to do something totally different.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Cut off your association with any person, place, or thing that is influencing you negatively.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Gen 27-29

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Dear Pastor, Can I Kiss My Fiancé or Fiancée?

Dear Pastor, Can I Kiss My Fiancé or Fiancée?

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SINGLES – Dear Pastor, Can I Kiss My Fiancé or Fiancée?

A few days ago, on one of our WhatsApp platforms, a question was raised on the subject of kissing and we had several interesting comments. By the way, if you are single and yet to join our discussion hub on WhatsApp, do so HERE. There are discussions, questions, and answers you can learn from on a daily basis.

I have been asked several times about this issue. A lot of people believe there is nothing wrong with kissing. In fact, most people believe it is godly. The question is, ‘is it right or wrong?’

Before, I answer the question; let us look at the scripture that is often quoted to justify kissing in relationships.

Salute one another with an holy kiss. The churches of Christ salute you. – Rom 16:16 KJV

All the brethren greet you. Greet ye one another with an holy kiss. – 1Co 16:20 KJV

Greet one another with an holy kiss. – 2Co 13:12 KJV

Greet all the brethren with an holy kiss. – 1Th 5:26 KJV

From the above scriptures, it looks like a kiss is not a sin, and sincerely, in the context of the above scriptures, it is not a sin.

What is the above context? It is a cultural context. A Jewish kiss is a form of greetings in those days. Nothing more! See an example here:

And his father Isaac said unto him, Come near now, and kiss me, my son. – Gen 27:26 KJV

The issue with us in this part of the world is that we don’t greet with a kiss. You can’t lock your lips with your fiancée for over thirty minutes and then turn around to say you’ve just been greeting her! What kind of greeting was that? What type of greeting were you doing that your heartbeats accelerated and your hands got busy?

The scripture above says to greet one another with a holy kiss. Now, the Jewish kiss may be holy, but I am not sure that the Nigerian kiss is holy!

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
Lord, I receive wisdom to discern between positive and negative influences in my life and grace to avoid the negative.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
In Jesus’ name, I resist the power of negative influence over my life.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Rom 7:25 MSG The answer, thank God, is that Jesus Christ can and does. He acted to set things right in this life of contradictions where I want to serve God with all my heart and mind, but am pulled by the influence of sin to do something totally different.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Cut off your association with any person, place, or thing that is influencing you negatively.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Gen 25-26

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Few Things Marriage Will Not Do For You – Part 2

Few Things Marriage Will Not Do For You – Part 2

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SINGLES – Few Things Marriage Will Not Do For You

4. Marriage will not take pressure away.

It will probably bring more. You have one more life to manage. If you cannot manage yours and you venture into marriage, it will be a disaster. When the children start coming, there will be more pressure. Learn to take pressures head-on by casting your care on Jesus and refusing to worry as the scripture advises.

5. Marriage is not all about lovemaking.

Ask somebody who is married. Yes, sexual intercourse is a marital glue, a healing balm in the soul for couples, and a blessing that keeps couples together. But it is not like you think intercourse in the morning, afternoon, and evening. Average couples actually make love twice or thrice in a week. However, the more frequent it is for married couples, the better for them.

6. Your spouse will neither be a magician nor is he the Holy Spirit.

He will be a human being with his own issues. You will always need God. He might be very anointed on the pulpit and filled with God’s glory while she is ministering in the choir, but at home, he or she is a human being with all the weaknesses complete. Learn to separate the office or position of your spouse from his or her person at home.

7. Marriage is not all about kisses, flowers, cinemas, cakes, chocolates, and vacations alone.

It is about cooking, pampers, crying babies, working, paying school fees, and so on. It is about budgets, plans, strategies, and divine wisdom. It is about submission to your husband who you sometimes think is hard, insensitive, and unloving. It is about loving your wife who you sometimes think is stubborn, does not want to be corrected, and can nag from morning till the next day. Few Things Marriage Will Not Do For You

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I keep on praying over my relationship in season and out of season.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, let your grace rest upon my relationship in Jesus name

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Php 4:6 KJVBe careful for nothing; but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Decide to be a happy single

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Gen 19-21

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Few Things Marriage Will Not Do For You

Few Things Marriage Will Not Do For You

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SINGLES – Few Things Marriage Will Not Do For You

We live in a dissatisfied generation. Those who are short in height wished they were taller. The white is tanning their bodies trying to get dark, the blacks are bleaching trying to get white. The young are tinting their hair white, the old are dyeing their hair black.

Singles are posing with wedding ring, those married forget to wear it, those with beards are shaving off, those with none are using methylated spirit to grow some!

Today, I have a story to tell. Are you ready for it? Here we go. Once upon a time, (time – time), when I was single, I looked forward to marriage. Now that I am married, I missed the time I was single! End of story!

Singles will hardly believe that because all in their mind is to get married so that everything can change. I have been happily married for twenty two years and here are a few things I have learned that might bless you if you are still single.

1. Marriage will not make you happier.

Be happy before marriage. Marriage has no power in itself beyond the two people involved.

2. Marriage will not change you.

Change begins inwardly. Marriage is not a change agent. Marriage will not improve your attitudes, it will expose them. Marriage does not eliminate your weaknesses, it will amplify them. Start working on your attitudes and weaknesses before marriage.

3. Marriage will not cure loneliness.

There are several married people who have their spouses with them by the second, but are extremely lonely. Loneliness is more of a state of mind than availability of people around you.

The loneliest people in the world are sometimes the ones with large number of fans and crowd around them. Only God’s word can cure the root cause of loneliness. Few Things Marriage Will Not Do For You

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I keep on praying over my relationship in season and out of season.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, let your grace rest upon my relationship in Jesus name

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Php 4:6 KJVBe careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Decide to be a happy Single

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Gen 19-21

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Three Types Of Men Ladies Need To Know About – Part 2

Three Types Of Men Ladies Need To Know About – Part 2

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SINGLES – Three Types Of Men Ladies Need To Know About

Continued from yesterday…

2 SCAVENGERS

They capitalize on the weaknesses of ladies with low self esteem. They weaken already weak ladies. They take advantage of their weaknesses.

They have a way of locating needy ladies and low self esteem ladies who will offer their body endlessly in order to get love which will forever remain elusive. 

The scavenger is not looking for love or romance, he is simply looking for intercourse, and he will feign love and care to get what he wants. The day he stops getting that, he moves on, and the lady is left heartbroken.

What the scavenger does not know is that life is all about seed, time and harvest! He has unwittingly sown bad seeds and the harvest will spring up in time.

How do you avoid a scavenger? Learn new creation realities. Know who you are in Christ. Meditate on his word and develop God-confidence.
 
What do you do as a single if you find yourself here? Stop offering your body! Your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost. Start over and get out of all ungodly relationships

3 GARDENERS

These are the real men and I know this is where you belong! They cultivate their women, make them blossom, fruitful and bring out the best in them.

Ladies, you are like a fruitful vine, tender, yet full of great potentials. You have the responsibility of watching where and who plants you.

The environment (relationship) you agree to get involved with determines whether you will blossom or not.

Is the guy you are going out with a hunter? Is he always draining you financially, telling you it’s ok, promising to marry you? Is he a scavenger? He knows your story of abuse, low self esteem, that you have been deflowered and he feels he is the next person to sleep with you?

Make sure you do not enter into a relationship until you can vouch that the guy is a ‘gardener’, ‘a real man’, a ‘groom’, someone who will cultivate you, lead you and take you on a journey of self discovery and self confidence.

You can do it by God’s grace, if you trust and seek his help.

Always remember this, the wisdom you need to resolve the present issue lies with God.

I pray for you this day that God will surround you with His love.

Ladies, you will blossom in Jesus name. You will burst forth with full manifestation of your gifting in Jesus name.

Men, receive grace and wisdom to be the best that God has called you to be over your wife and your home! Three Types Of Men Ladies Need To Know About

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not fall into the hands of a hunter or scavenger. I am a a fruitful vine.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Father I receive help to be all you desire me to be. I refuse to be the object of abuse of any man.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
‘Thy wife shall be like a fruitful vine by the sides of thine house’ Ps.128:3

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Get yourself out of any abusive relationship. Seek advice and help where necessary.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ezek 16-20

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Three Types Of Men Ladies Need To Know About

Three Types Of Men Ladies Need To Know About

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SINGLES – three types of men ladies need to know about.

1. HUNTERS

They use ladies for their own satisfaction or consumption. They are skilled at searching for beautiful but ignorant and naive ladies. They watch out for rich ladies to service their financial needs. They are in it for what they can get out of the lady.

They look out for ladies living abroad or who have foreign citizenship, who works in juicy places like the Oil and Gas sector to capitalize on.

This is a wrong motive for a relationship and it will always come with its attendant consequences. What the hunter does not know is that he cannot be smarter than God. He is soon consumed in his own lust.

Hunters are manipulators, their headlight is fixed and when they focus on potential prey, they have a way of hypnotizing them.

How do you avoid a hunter?

Stay in God’s word and always seek his face before you take any decision.

Our soul is escaped as a bird out of the snare of the fowlers: the snare is broken, and we are escaped. –Psalms 124:7 (KJV)

What do you do as a single if you find yourself in this kind of relationship?

Deliver thyself as a roe from the hand of the hunter, and as a bird from the hand of the fowler. –Proverbs 6:5 (KJV)

Disconnect! A relationship is not by force, but by choice. You have the power to choose.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not fall into the hands of a hunter or scavenger. I am a fruitful vine.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
I refuse to be the object of abuse by any man. I ask that you help our men occupy their place in destiny, Amen.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Deliver thyself as a roe from the hand of the hunter, and as a bird from the hand of the fowler. –Proverbs 6:5 (KJV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Get yourself out of any abusive relationship

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Prov 6

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Practical Tips To Make Your Fiancée Happy – Part 2

Practical Tips To Make Your Fiancée Happy – Part 2

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SINGLES – Practical Tips To Make Your Fiancée Happy – Part 2

Continued from yesterday…

4. Respect;

As singles, treat her with respect. Don’t ask for sexual intercourse, for that will be asking her to compromise her virtue, and that is not respect. Protect her, and she would love you dearly.  Treat her with dignity and you will have her heart and make her happy.

5. Abuse;

Singles ladies, if you are in a relationship and you are not being treated well, don’t hesitate to back out. It is your life and it is your decision. Don’t stay in a relationship because of self-pity. If you are being verbally abused or physically abused, don’t ever think he will change after marriage; it’s really going to get worse. A word is enough for the wise. Don’t walk blindly into a marriage when you can see all the wrong symptoms.

Don’t go into a marriage with a man who tells you he will quit dating other girlfriends after marriage. If he can have them now, he will keep having them. Have a good self esteem and trust God to give you the best. Don’t marry a man or woman who doesn’t love God and who does not value God. That would be a costly mistake. It is better to end such relationships. A broken heart is still better than a broken life.

Selah!

For you reveling in sin because of ungodly affairs, I pray that God will give you the energy to end that relationship!

For those whose relationships are of God, I pray for you this day that God will give you the wisdom to make that relationship work. Practical Tips To Make Your Fiancée Happy

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I receive wisdom to understand my partner and to love him/her more and make him/her happy.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
I break free from all wrong mindsets about marriage in Jesus name.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth. (Mal 2:15 KJV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Surprise your partner today. That does not include kissing, petting, sex etc. Reserve those till after marriage.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ezek 9-12

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Practical Tips To Make Your Fiancée Happy

Practical Tips To Make Your Fiancée Happy

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SINGLES – Practical Tips To Make Your Fiancée Happy

George who is in courtship with Lucy is frustrated. Lucy is always vacillating between two extreme emotions and poor George is at a loss on how to make her happy. If I can be experiencing this before marriage, what will happen after? George reasoned.

As a single in courtship, how do you make her happy?

1. Communicate;

It is important you keep in touch daily especially if you are not in the same place. If this all-important communication is not there, trust me, there will be issues coming up from time to time.

2. Apologize;

As singles, stop being egocentric and learn the art of apologizing quickly both ways. Don’t let your courtship be filled with memories of weeping, feeling down and out. It is not a good seed into your marriage.

3. Decisions;

As singles, take decisions together and don’t let her feel you are the superman that can do all things. If she relaxes and you run the relationship all by yourself, she would get used to that style and the help you ought to get from her when you are down will not be there. Don’t muffle her.

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I receive wisdom to understand my partner and to love him/her more.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
I break free from all wrong mindsets about marriage in Jesus name.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth. (Mal 2:15 KJV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Surprise your partner today. That does not include kissing, petting, sex etc. Reserve those till after marriage.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ezek 9-12

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How To Be Sure Of Your Choice In Marriage

How To Be Sure Of Your Choice In Marriage

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SINGLES – How To Be Sure Of Your Choice In Marriage

Being directed or led by God is the most important issue before marriage; when you are not led, it only leads to misery, pains, sorrow, and regrets.

My prayer is that you will not experience these. If your answer to that prayer is amen, now is the time to be sure that the person you are in love with is God’s choice for you.

Just because you are in love with someone does not give you enough basis to enter into a lifetime covenant with the person. It’s very easy to fall in love, all it takes is that person having all the qualities you admire, being physically attractive, spending time together, giving him/her a special place in your heart, thinking about him/her a lot and you’re already in love.

You’ll agree with me that it’s possible to fall in love with more than one person but only one person is qualified to be your wife/husband.

Once you have identified your spouse, you are no longer permitted to desire others, but to only admire them.

GOD then used the rib that he had taken from the Man to make Woman and presented her to the Man. The Man said, “Finally! Bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh! Name her Woman for she was made from Man.” Therefore a man leaves his father and mother and embraces his wife. They become one flesh. –Genesis 2:22-24 (MSG)

The above scripture shows that God himself was very much involved in bringing the man and the woman together.

For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God. –Romans 8:14 (KJV)           

The question is, do you have God’s spirit? Are you born again? If yes, how are you working on your relationship with God? How consistently do you study God’s word?

What service do you render in a local assembly? How well you answer these questions will determine how well your spirit is developed to receive directions from God, not only in matters of your relationships but in all areas.

You must also make sure that the three aspects of you agree with the choice of your life partner.

Man is essentially a spirit; you have a soul and live in a body. Do these three (spirit, soul, and body) agree in perfect harmony.

Is there peace?  Is he/she intelligent and emotionally mature?

Are you friends? Someone said friendship in marriage is about one soul living in two bodies.

Physically, does he/she meet your standard of beauty? Are you attractive to each other?

Go to any length to find adequate answers to these questions. Ask him/her a lot of questions. Find out where he/she is going. Can you fit in?

Is the guy a good leader? How well has he led himself? Can he lead you well?

Becoming sure is all about erasing every doubt or question in your heart about the person, the relationship, and the future. No one can be sure for you. Until you’re totally sure and convinced, don’t say YES!

Don’t tie the nuptial knots until all the knotty issues are resolved. I pray that God will send help your way in Jesus name!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I have direction from God. In my relationship decisions, I am being led by the Spirit of God. I am not confused in Jesus Name. I will not fall in love with the wrong person. The Spirit of God will help me to be sure.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
I destroy every spirit of distraction and deception in Jesus name.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Take me by the hand; Lead me down the path of truth. You are my Savior, aren’t you? Psalms 25:5 (MSG)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Think deeply about your relationships and take an inventory

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Habakkuk

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The Doorway To Your Thoughts

The Doorway To Your Thoughts

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SINGLES- The Doorway To Your Thoughts

Thank God I am not God!  If I were God, probably a lot of folks would have met me up there – “Today, thou shall meet me in Paradise!” And really, thank God you are not God too! Oh my, my…It would have been serious. God is just, truthful, and full of righteousness. His thoughts are different from ours.

If I were God, sincerely, some of the portions of the Bible would not be there. I will not include the adulterous fling and murder committed by our beloved King David; neither will I include the visits to prostitutes of our Macho Man, Samson.

But God in His unfathomable wisdom knew it is the truth that will set us free. A lot of people would not have been set free from suicidal guilt over what they have done, but upon learning that God gave David and Samson a second chance, they realized that there was still hope for them.

But what was the genesis of their problems? You wouldn’t believe one of the things I found out here!

Their eyes! This becomes more interesting when you put in mind that men are moved by sight, one of The Doorway To Your Thoughts. Check out the following scriptures:

And it came to pass in an evening tide, that David arose from off his bed, and walked upon the roof of the king’s house: and from the roof he SAW a woman washing herself; and the woman was very beautiful to look upon.  –2Samuel 11:2 (KJV)

What of Samson?

 And Samson went down to Timnath, and SAW a woman in Timnath of the daughters of the Philistines.  –Judges 14:1 (KJV)

Then went Samson to Gaza, and SAW there a harlot, and went in unto her. –Judges 16:1 (KJV)

What really made Amnon rape her sister, Tamar?     

So Tamar went to her brother Amnon’s house, and he was laid down. And she took flour, and kneaded it, and made cakes in HIS SIGHT

…he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her.  –2Samuel 13:8,14 (KJV)

From all these, there are two things.

1. Men, watch what you see

2. Ladies, watch what is seen.

How are the guys supposed to achieve this? Never look again? Well, you are permitted to admire, but not desire. There is a difference between a first glance and then a serious look!

There is a difference between looking and getting obsessed with what you see in your thoughts.

No wonder Job said:

I made a covenant with mine eyes; why then should I think upon a maid? –Job 31:1 (KJV)

Another translation says:

I promised myself never to stare with desire at a young woman. –Job 31:1 (CEV)

So what are we supposed to do with our eyes?

My son, attend to my words; incline thine ear unto my sayings. Let them not depart from thine eyes; keep them in the midst of thine heart. –Proverbs 4:20-21 (KJV)

No wonder Jesus Christ said:

The light of the body is the eye: if therefore thine eye be single, thy whole body shall be full of light. –Matthew 6:22 (KJV)

Pornography begins with what you see one day. The seed of fornication is planted when you see what stirs lust.

The sin of masturbation is achieved with what you have seen and stored up in your mind.

I guess this is why God said the book of the Law shall not depart from your eyes. When you keep looking at God’s word, you will not be seeing wrong things! The Doorway To Your Thoughts

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
My eyes are riveted on God’s word. I love God’s word. I am not obsessed with lust as a result of what I see. I have the mind of Christ. My utmost desire will be towards my husband/wife and not towards any other.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
I destroy every spirit of lust in my life in Jesus Name, I receive help from the Holy Spirit to understand His Word.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
I promised myself never to stare with desire at a young woman. (Job 31:1 CEV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Decide never to stare at seductively dressed ladies. Decide not to see films and movies that have nude scenes.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
2King 24-25

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The Truth About Manual Stimulation

The Truth About Manual Stimulation

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SINGLES- The Truth About Manual Stimulation

Masturbation is simply defined as “Manual stimulation of the genital organs (of yourself or another) for sexual pleasure.”

Singles and married people alike often believe that there is nothing wrong with masturbation. When I was growing up, I read a book that says, “95 percent of boys masturbate and the remaining 5 percent lied.” Invariably, that is like saying that everybody masturbates. Today, not just boys, but men, girls, and women masturbate.

Now, some Christians even do so, and with a lot of excuses why they should. Some offer excuses that since God says ‘Don’t fornicate’ and we really are obeying God, masturbation must be God’s way of relieving the pressure build-up. Could that be true?

Some pastors are as confused about the subject as their members on the issue, and some also pointedly say there is nothing wrong with it. This has sent a confusing signal to the body of Christ, thereby making an average believer who might have been struggling with masturbation to have enough reason to continue. Now, the major issue is that masturbation is progressive and what satisfied you the last time will not the next time!

Today, The Truth About Manual Stimulation is that it has gone to another level from hand stimulation to the use of sex toys that were produced for that specific purpose. A lot of folks are addicted to masturbation; they go to bed with dildos, vibrators, and the like.

There are human dolls built to respond like humans, there are several masturbators, and these things are a mockery of the dignity of the Homo sapiens! So, an average believer who has been told nothing is wrong dabbles into it, and before he knows it, he is hooked on pornography and other perversions, and that is the problem!

He will not be satisfied after a while, and this is also why a lot of people found themselves in sickening habits like bestiality, bondage sex, and so on! When you give the devil an inch, he will take a mile!

But is it true the New Testament never addressed the issue of masturbation because God wanted us to masturbate? I don’t think so. As far as I am concerned, that is like saying, “the Bible didn’t say we should not cook our rice with rat poison because he wanted us to commit suicide!

Now I am going to give you just one scripture. Let’s bear in mind that for one to masturbate:

There must be a thought process, a mental image of a man or woman or sex scene or sex pictures, which one focuses on, and then together with the manual stimulation, that brings one to orgasm.

This then means that for one to masturbate; there has to be a mental undressing of the object/person in question and a mental sexual experience!

Now here is what Jesus said:

But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart. –Matthew 5:28 (KJV)

This knocks off masturbation completely. The process that leads to masturbation is what Jesus Christ equated with adultery in the heart!

The message is clear! If you find yourself in this act, sincerely, God does not condemn you! He would not condone it either! In order for you to enjoy God’s fullness of blessings, He expects you to stay away from sin, so why don’t you call upon Him now to help you? He is there waiting to respond to you!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
My body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. I will not desecrate my body with masturbation. I will preserve my virtue and sexual purity. I put my body under. I lose myself from every shackle of the evil one, my mind is covered with the blood of Jesus.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
I break myself free from all mental oppressions of the devil.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Don’t let anyone under pressure to give in to evil say, “God is trying to trip me up.” God is impervious to evil, and puts evil in no one’s way. The temptation to give in to evil comes from us and only us. We have no one to blame but the leering, seducing flare-up of our own lust. Lust gets pregnant, and has a baby: sin! Sin grows up to adulthood, and becomes a real killer. So, my very dear friends, don’t get thrown off course. –James 1:13-16 (MSG)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Destroy and throw away all the sex toys, pornographic materials, sexual films, and all other things that act as masturbation trigger

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Jeremiah 35-36

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How Do I Know If Someone Really Loves Me? –Part 2

How Do I Know If Someone Really Loves Me? –Part 2

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SINGLES- How Do I Know If Someone Really Loves Me?

How to know if he/she really loves.

All Amnon wanted was to satisfy that rush of adrenalin. He went so far, as to think he was in love, but once his lust was pacified, love vanished into thin air.

Love is willing to wait, lust demands immediate satisfaction. Never forget that. True love will not insist that you compromise your virtue. True love will protect. True love will honour. True love will respect.

So what more is true love?

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Amnon feigned sickness and deceived his father!

True love will not pretend, deceive or trap you. He was never interested in the food. Amnon refused to consider the consequences.

True love is not stupid. True love stands to reason in respect to God’s standard Amnon’s love for Tamar was not natural. It was incest.

True love will not enter into perversion to prove itself; Amnon forced Tamar and raped her, despite that Tamar called him ‘brother’

True love will protect, it will not violate your sanctity. Amnon hated Tamar afterward.

True love is not fickle, instant, or temporal, it is enduring and lasting. True love does not go back and forth. It is stable. Even when tried, it still stands strong.

I pray for you today, that God will guide you, lead and help you to differentiate between true love and lust. You will not miss it in Jesus name!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
God loves me. I will comprehend what true love is and operate in its boundaries. I am not confused. I have a sound mind. I receive God’s kind of love

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
I break off from all emotional bondage. Spirit of God, lead me and guide me in my relationship, I resist every spirit of confusion and manipulations.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Better is a dinner of herbs where love is than a stalled ox and hatred therewith. –Proverbs 15:17 (KJV)

 ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Adjust your attitudes and start relating with the one who truely loves

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ezekiel 3-4

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How Do I Know If Someone Really Loves Me?

How Do I Know If Someone Really Loves Me?

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What exactly is true love? How do I know if a man truly loves me? How do I know if a lady truly loves me?

While putting in mind that there are so many definitions and perceptions of what true love is, it is pertinent to remind ourselves that true love can only be defined by Scriptural standards. Why is this so? God is love.

True love can only come from anyone that really knows God. A man that doesn’t know God is incapable of showing true love. He may be caring and nice by your own standards, but as long as He doesn’t know God, he doesn’t understand the dynamics of true love.

That is why we will be going back into the Bible to see the true definition of love.

And it came to pass after this, that Absalom the son of David had a fair sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her. And Amnon was so vexed, that he fell sick for his sister Tamar; for she was a virgin; and Amnon thought it hard for him to do anything to her. –2Samuel 13:1-2 (KJV)

In our devotion this morning, the story of Amnon comes to mind. Verse one of the above scripture tells us that Amnon was in love with his sister.

Verse two tells us that she was so vexed with love that he fell sick. It was no longer a soul’s battle; it became rottenness in his bones.

From the above, one will naturally conclude that this is genuine love. What do you think? Was the love genuine?

For him to fall sick, he must really be in love! Isn’t that how some men come around you and truthfully tell you that they can’t eat again, sleep again because of love? Can we conclude about a man’s love for a woman by virtue of his being “vexed” to the point of sickness?

Look at a few translations:

Amnon was obsessed with his sister Tamar to the point of making himself sick over her…–2Samuel 13:2 (MSG)

Can obsession equal true love?

And Amnon was so troubled that he fell sick…–2Samuel 13:2 (AMP)

Can being troubled equal true love?

And he was so deeply in love that he became ill… –2Samuel 13:2 (BBE)

Can being deeply in love equal true love?                    

Amnon became frustrated to the point of illness on account of his sister Tamar. –2Samuel 13:2 (NIV)

Can being frustrated equal true love?

Well, before we conclude, let’s see what happened a few verses away.

Howbeit he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her. –2Samuel 13:2 (KJV)

Here is the Message translation:

But he wouldn’t listen. Being much stronger than she, he raped her. –2Samuel 13:2 (MSG)

This couldn’t be true love! How would you rape someone you profess to love? Something is not quite right there. Sometimes all he wants is sex. That is not love! Sometimes, all she wants is your money. That is not true love!

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
God loves me. I will comprehend what true love is and operate within its boundaries. I am not confused. I have a sound mind. I receive God’s kind of love

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
I break off from all emotional bondage. Spirit of God, lead me and guide me in my relationship, I resist every spirit of confusion and manipulations.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Better is a dinner of herbs where love is than a stalled ox and hatred therewith. –Proverbs 15:17 (KJV)

 ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Adjust your attitudes and start relating with the one who truly loves

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ezekiel 1-2

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What Do You Do When Speed Becomes An Enemy? –Part 2

What Do You Do When Speed Becomes An Enemy? –Part 2

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SINGLES – What Do You Do When Speed Becomes An Enemy

Continued from yesterday, when we talked about speed as an enemy.

We all have a destination and a desire for our home and marriage. You’ll only get there when you follow His step-by-step guidance. And if you miss “the particular junction” you can never reach that destination until you retrace your steps.

That particular junction for you might be,” Be Born Again”, Don’t Marry an unbeliever,” ‘Stop that kissing,” “Don’t Masturbate,” “Stop the Pornography,” and the likes. Sexual intercourse before marriage is a no-go area, don’t even think about it. And until you retrace your steps back there – it is the wrong way! You might just be wasting time, energy, and resources because a wrong way is a wrong way’. You cannot change that; you can only retrace your steps, and be on the right track.

I encourage you to retrace your steps this morning. There is no need to keep on driving in the wrong direction. Change! Switch! Where is the strength? You may ask? The strength comes from God as you take time to feed your spirit with his word, your inner man will be strengthened to say ‘No’ to every form of iniquity and forge ahead in God!

Your destiny and future are bright! That is why the devil has fought you that much. The enemy only fights who he fears! He knows if you can just get it right, he is in trouble. He knows if you can just stop that lustful lifestyle if you can just cut off that sinful relationship if you can just stay more in God’s word…whatever it takes to take charge of your life by His Spirit, decide to do it this morning.

Whoever hath ears, let him hear what the Spirit of God is saying this morning!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
The Holy Spirit is leading me today. His word is a lamp unto my feet. God’s word is life and light for me. I take the right decisions in my relationship. Speed will not be an enemy for me.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Lord, hold me by the right hand and let your word guide me daily.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Listen for GOD’s voice in everything you do, everywhere you go; he’s the one who will keep you on track. Pro 3:6 MSG

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Check the major areas of your life; relationships, family, finances, business, career, spiritual life, etc.  Are you on the right track? If not, get back on the right track by asking God to forgive you of all misdeeds and asking for His help and direction.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Exodus 1-3

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What Do You Do When Speed Becomes An Enemy?

What Do You Do When Speed Becomes An Enemy?

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There are times in your life that speed actually becomes an enemy! I have counseled people that were introduced to sexual perversion as young as when they were just five or six years old. That is when ‘speed’ becomes an enemy. Times when you were hooked up in sexual perversion when you did not even know your right from your left, courtesy of people who were supposed to protect you.

There are a lot of people out there who were dropped by their nurses like Mephibosheth, and consequently broke their ankles while on ‘speed’ But I write to you this morning, not to exile yourself like Mephibosheth, but to reach out to God who will not consult your past to determine your future!  Speed might have been your enemy, but God is a re-writer of history.

Do not allow your background to keep your back on the ground. Rise from the rubbles and shackles of yesterday, because your best days are still ahead of you!

While staying in Lagos, on a particular day, we were to go to another area which is different from where we stayed and so we called a dear sister earlier for direction.

As we later found out, her direction was defective as we were practically driving out of the city! We were on the wrong way for quite some time. Her direction lacked landmarks, signs, or anything that will aid us to be sure if we were still on track.

She just said, “When you get to a particular junction keep going straight,” and we did! But the pathetic thing about it was that we got the junction wrong! So even though we were speeding AND GOING STRAIGHT, speed was not our friend because we were on the wrong path! Her guidance was not precise.

Thank God our God is not like this dear sister. God guides us in specific details, step by step, and then gives us “checks” here and there for us to know if we are still on the right path.

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I have God’s direction in my relationships. I am not confused. The Holy Spirit is leading me today.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Lord, go with me on this journey of life.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Listen for GOD’s voice in everything you do, everywhere you go; he’s the one who will keep you on track. Pro 3:6 MSG

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Check the major areas of your life; relationships, family, finances, business, career, spiritual life, etc.  Are you on the right track? If not, get back on the right track by asking God to forgive you of all misdeeds and asking for His help and direction.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Jer 32-34

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How To Embrace The Love of The Father – Part 2

How To Embrace The Love of The Father – Part 2

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Continued from yesterday…

As you read this, let every hurt and bitterness that you have towards God and man go, for it is an attempt of the devil to draw you into deception and depression. God is gracious! He is willing to stoop low to bless you. As a Father, He is full of compassion. When you begin to think about this, it is amazing how you will experience that compassion. God is good towards you. You are the work of His hands.

Rather than get bitter toward God, think about how His goodness and compassion will get you out of any mess.

As a single, you might have been abused or violated before you reached the age of accountability. Rather than give up and be regarded as part of the unfortunate statistics of sexual abuse, rise from that abyss, get out of the doldrums of yester-years, and look unto Him that is able to save to the uttermost.

He will embrace you and wipe the tears off your face. He will heal every wound, take all bitterness away from your heart, and bring out the best in you.

Think about it. Believe it. His tender mercies are over you. Respond to His love and experience the tender love of divinity coming upon your humanity.

You see, in order to enjoy that fullness of God’s love, you have to synergize with God and cooperate with His principles.

I see you rising from that problem that has kept you down for long. I see light dawning upon your soul. I see God’s word percolating every pressure and dismantling them.

His love is awesome. Thank him for His love. Forget about what you are going through, and dwell on what He went through for you! It changes the whole equation, and the devil will retreat. You will come to know that it is only by responding to God’s love that you understand how to love others and how to be loved!

I see you having victory!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I position myself to benefit from God’s tender mercies. Goodness and mercy are following me.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
I uproot every root of bitterness from my life in Jesus Name.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
You are merciful, LORD! You are kind and patient and always loving. You are good to everyone, and you take care of all your creation. (Psa 145:8-9 CEV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Make a list of all who have offended you in the past. Consciously let go and forgive them. It might not look easy, but do it all the same.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Jer 32-33

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How To Embrace The Love of The Father

How To Embrace The Love of The Father

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Every day comes with its pressures. The environment, economy and so many other factors affect an average man in a general sense. This becomes even compounded when you refuse to do things and work by the principles of God the Father. The issues take on a spiritual dimension. When you have to face physical pressures and spiritual battles, you can get wearied quickly.

The LORD is gracious, and full of compassion; slow to anger, and of great mercy. The LORD is good to all: and his tender mercies are over all his works. – (Psa 145:8-9 KJV)

There are times you feel that you are not supposed to face issues and pressures because you are a child of God. But the question is, “did Jesus face pressure while he was on earth? Did everybody believe straightaway that He is the son of God? Did Paul face pressure? What about our spiritual fathers? Did they face any? What of the Patriarchs? Abraham, Moses, David? What of the prophets? You see, there will always be pressures!

However, Jesus made a beautiful statement when he said:

DO NOT let your hearts be troubled (distressed, agitated). You believe in and adhere to and trust in and rely on God; believe in and adhere to and trust in and rely also on Me.Joh 14:1 AMP

Are you troubled to an extent you are wondering whether God has gone on holiday? You might be single, dating, or courting. There is one constant truth you must not forget. It is the nature of God.

The devil strives to present a wrong picture of who God is to us. He knows that once we have a blurred vision of who God is to us, then we will not be able to enjoy the limitless blessings that God has for us.

But, I have to let you know this; God’s love for you is ever unchanging. He loves you absolutely and resolutely.

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am loved of God. His tender mercies are over me. God will satisfy me early with His mercies. He is gracious and He is full of compassion.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Lord, satisfy me early with your mercies.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
You are merciful, LORD! You are kind and patient and always loving. You are good to everyone, and you take care of all your creation. (Psa 145:8-9 CEV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Make a list of all who have offended you in the past. Consciously let go and forgive them. It might not look easy, but do it all the same.

BIBLE READING FOR THE YEAR
Jer 30-31

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Dear Single, Where Are You Going? – Part 2

Dear Single, Where Are You Going? – Part 2

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Continued from yesterday…

Is he or she insisting on pre-marital sex? That is a distraction! You are surely not going to the same place and there is no point holding on in that kind of relationship.

You see, you have to know that except the Lord build a house, they labour in vain that build. If you don’t do it God’s way, all your ‘investments’ of time, money and energy on that relationship will go down the drain. Without God, there would be agony and heartache. A home without God is a playground for the devil and his cohorts.

As singles, you need to know it does not only take money or business acumen to run a marriage. It takes money, yes, plus a lot of wisdom and tact founded on a solid relationship with God. It takes a lot of prayers and determination to love your spouse always!

I pray for you this morning that every distraction on the path of your destiny is destroyed in Jesus name. God will strengthen you and give you all-round victory in Jesus name. May the eyes of your understanding be enlightened to see what you need to know to take you to the next level in God!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I receive grace to cut away from relationships that will distract and pull me back.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me today to choose to walk with people who are in agreement with my destiny.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
When two of you get together on anything at all on earth and make a prayer of it, my Father in heaven goes into action. Mat 18:19 MSG

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Write the names of your 10 closest friends. Strikeout the names of those who are not going in the same direction as you are going.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Jer 26-29

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Dear Single, Where Are You Going?

Dear Single, Where Are You Going?

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SINGLE –

The wisest king of Israel once said that two are better than one because they have a good reward for their labour. That is if they are going the same way

If one falls, the other can help his friend get up. But how tragic it is for the one who is all alone when he falls. There is no one to help him get up. Again, if two people lie down together, they can keep warm, but how can one person keep warm? Though one person may be overpowered by another, two people can resist one opponent. A triple-braided rope is not easily broken. A young man who is poor and wise is better than an old, foolish king who won’t take advice any longer. A young man came out of prison to rule as king, even though he had been born in poverty in that same kingdom. Ecc 4:10-14 GW

But the pertinent question is which two? Is it just any two? It is definitely not so.

God asked a question, and He is still asking in Amos 3:3. Can two walk together except they agree? When God asks a question, it is not because He does not know the answer, but because He wants you and me to think about the question.

Before you enter that relationship, you need to ask yourself four very important questions.

1. Can he/she go with me?

2. Will he/she go with me?

3. Can he/she grow with me?

4. Will he/she grow with me?

If the two of you are not going the same way, then you do not have a business with that person no matter how handsome or beautiful the person is.

Is your decision based on attraction or direction? Your marital journey is sweeter and smoother when the two of you are going to the same place. Your focus and vision are single. You have the advantage of cooperation and joint effort. You are not pulling at each other, distracting yourselves, and moving contrary to each other.

The pain in your relationship may be a signal that you are not going the same way. Please, do not ignore these signals.

If he/she is not born again and you are, it is a dangerous sign. Don’t say yes to an unbeliever or one with a different spiritual standing.

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I receive grace to cut away from relationships that will distract and pull me back.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me today to choose to walk with people who are in agreement with my destiny.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
When two of you get together on anything at all on earth and make a prayer of it, my Father in heaven goes into action. Mat 18:19 MSG

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Write the names of your 10 closest friends. Strike out the names of those who are not going the same direction as you are going.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Jer 26-29

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