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Real Love Or Social Media Illusions? I will be fifty this years old this year, and I tell you, a lot has taken place in the last few decades!

My wife and I were campus sweethearts, falling in love while in school and getting married while she was serving!

Things have changed rapidly over the years. They changed so fast and everybody in my generation witnessed the unveiling of another era. As a matter of fact, some people are still caught in the analog years as their brains refused to cooperate with the present realities.

I recall with nostalgia, how there were no smart phones, there was no Facebook, no Instagram, as a matter of fact there was no internet while I was in courtship with my wife.

Let me make it worse, there were no emails. The first time I  heard the word, “e-mail” I had already graduated from the University and the fellow who told me wanted to charge me three thousand to create email for me! I gladly declined. I was not  about to pay for something I couldn’t fathom!

Real Love Or Social Media Illusions? The present day singles are beleaguered with Social Media life and the pressure is intense.

From IG to TikTok, it’s a race to be relevant, to be an influencer and to make money!

Filled with all manner of sexually appealing content, the extent of unreal life can be overwhelming.

However, you are not going to live a social media life, you are not going to have a TikTok wife, and YouTube children. You are going to have a real human being as spouse and the reality goes beyond the world of social media. There is a difference between Real Love Or Social Media Illusions?

Take a look at the scripture:
Mat 6:2 (MSG) “When you do something for someone else, don’t call attention to yourself. You’ve seen them in action, I’m sure—’playactors’ I call them—treating prayer meeting and street corner alike as a stage, acting compassionate as long as someone is watching, playing to the crowds. They get applause, true, but that’s all they get.

Every time you seek attention and “likes” on social media as against pleasing God, you already got your reward for all you do! Every time you do stuffs for the sake of being noticed, you are defeating the original purpose.

It is important to take your root downward in God’s word, be an authentic person and be spiritual in your dealings with God and man!

Scrolling through a payer app, is not prayer, listening to a YouTube worship is not practicing God’s presence, and so on and so forth!

Learn to drop the phones for a while and be spiritually authentic! Connect with God. When the chips are down, TikTok or IG would be unable to cast out a demon!

Good morning!

I value God and his word. I prioritise God and I please Him always 


Pray that God will leek you focused on Him and Him only 

Mat 6:3 (CEV) When you give to the poor, don’t let anyone know about it.

Spend time in God’s presence today.

Matt 6


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