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Handling Doubts About Your Lover. This is Part 2 

Doubts will come, as long as you are human. Even Jesus Christ experienced doubts. This happened at the garden of Gethsemane when he was overwhelmed by the pain and agony he would be going through. 

So how do you prevent unnecessary doubts?

1 Be sure of God’s direction before you take a step

That way, when doubts arise, you will easily identify the source and then you can deal with it. You will know that the doubt is coming to fight you out of God’s will and you will resist it.

But when you are not sure whether it was God or not in the first place, when doubts arise along the way, you are unsure of how to handle it, because inner conviction is absent.

2 Don’t be a in a hurry in your romantic journey 

Don’t be hasty. Don’t fall in love senselessly. Be responsible and surround yourself with good friends and mentors.

3 Do not lgnore authority figures in your life,

While they are not supposed to decide for you, God can often speak through them to warn you about steps you are about to take. Do not despise or disregard their wisdom.

4 Learn to read and study God’s word regularly.

It brings you the wisdom that stabilizes your soul.

Handling Doubts About Your Lover. The next question is what if I am already in doubt?

1. Go back to God to confirm what He said in the first place.

There is nothing wrong with hearing God again.

God hath spoken once; twice have I heard this (Psalms 62:11 KJV)

2. Take time to stay in God’s presence and you will hear Him again.

Sometimes you might have to fast to get your mind quiet.

3. Stay away from every sin.

Ask God to forgive you if you are hooked up with masturbation, pornography, pre-marital sex, or some other sexual perversion.\

5. Learn to pray together.

When you don’t pray, unnecessary issues will arise often and destabilize you.

The last question is how can I be sure a decision is of God?

When a decision you are about to take or have taken is of God, you will have peace. It is an unexplainable peace that doesn’t seem to line up with physical reality sometimes, but the peace will be there that tells you all is well. When this peace is absent, never go ahead with that decision. This is the way of Handling Doubts About Your Lover

And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:7 KJV)

I have the peace of God. I am guided by God’s peace. 


Lord, let there be restoration of all that I have lost.

Php 4:7 (AMPC) And God’s peace [shall be yours, that tranquil state of a soul assured of its salvation through Christ, and so fearing nothing from God and being content with its earthly lot of whatever sort that is, that peace] which transcends all understanding shall garrison and mount guard over your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

Ask you lover pertinent question about the future.

Phil 4


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