Today's Devotional For Singles & Couples

Desire That Demands Urgency Is Deception

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | February 3, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. Urgency is not divine confirmation. God does not rush alignment. Scripture establishes that God leads through order, not pressure. Desire that insists on immediacy bypasses discernment. Anything that cannot withstand time is not authorized by truth. 2. Urgency...

Romance That Weakens Discipline Is Corruption

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | February 2, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. Discipline is the evidence of inner government. Discipline is self-rule under God. Where discipline erodes, governance has already collapsed. Romance that weakens discipline does not enhance life; it destabilizes it. "Like a city whose walls are broken through is a...

Intimacy Without Covenant Is Theft

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | February 1, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. Intimacy is governed property, not public access. Scripture treats intimacy as covenant-bound stewardship. Access without covenant violates order. Taking what is reserved is theft by definition. "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall...

Marriage Is a Responsibility, Not a Reward

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | January 31, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. Marriage is an assignment, not a prize. Marriage is not bestowed as compensation for endurance or loneliness. It is entrusted as stewardship. Responsibility precedes companionship. Covenant is given to those capable of governance, not those seeking relief. "The...

Love Without Submission to God Is Rebellion

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | January 30, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. Love is governed, not autonomous. Love does not define itself. God defines love. Any expression of love that operates outside divine authority is self-ruled. Self-rule is rebellion. Scripture establishes order before affection. Where God does not govern, the self...

Marriage Multiplies What You Already Are

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | January 29, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. Marriage is amplification, not transformation. Marriage does not change internal structure. It increases its volume. What exists in the soul before covenant becomes more visible after covenant. Order becomes strength. Disorder becomes pressure. Marriage follows the...

Marriage Is Not a Cure for Emptiness

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | January 28, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

1. Emptiness is a spiritual disorder, not a relational gap. Emptiness is the absence of internal order, not the absence of a partner. A soul without structure cannot be stabilized by companionship. Relationship cannot supply what alignment with God has not produced....

Peace Is the Final Judge of Relationship Direction

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | January 27, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

Peace is not emotional calm. Peace is divine alignment. It is the governing signal of God's approval. Rule means govern, decide, command. Peace is not a feeling to be managed. It is a verdict to be obeyed. "Let the peace of God rule in your hearts."— Colossians 3:15...

God Does Not Heal Through Emotional Escape

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | January 26, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

God does not heal through avoidance. He heals through confrontation. Emotional escape is not rest. It is rebellion disguised as relief. It is the refusal to face what truth demands. "Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord."— Isaiah 1:18 God does not...

Marriage Does Not Heal a Disordered Soul

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | January 25, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

Marriage does not heal a disordered soul. It exposes it. Covenant does not correct character. Proximity does not cure dysfunction. Union does not produce order. Order must exist before union, or union becomes a multiplier of disorder. Genesis establishes sequence. God...

What Healthy Love Looks Like in God’s Eyes

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | January 24, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

Many people define love by feelings, chemistry, or sacrifice. But God defines love by truth, peace, and alignment with His character. Understanding what healthy love looks like in God's eyes protects you from emotional confusion and helps you recognize love that is...

Prayer Alone Won’t Fix a Relationship

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | January 23, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

Prayer is powerful. It softens hearts, brings clarity, and invites God into our situations. But prayer was never designed to replace responsibility, communication, and action. That is why prayer alone won't fix a relationship. Prayer works best when it partners with...

Love Without Accountability Is Dangerous

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | January 22, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

Love feels freeing when it's warm, expressive, and unconditional. But love without structure, truth, and responsibility can quietly become harmful. This is why love without accountability is dangerous—because affection alone cannot sustain emotional or spiritual...

Why “We’re Just Talking” Can Still Break Your Heart

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | January 21, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

"We're just talking." It sounds harmless. Casual. Safe. But many hearts have been deeply wounded under that exact sentence. The reason is simple but painful: why "we're just talking" can still break your heart is because emotional bonds don't wait for labels. 1. Why...

Emotional Intimacy Can Be as Dangerous as Physical Intimacy

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | January 20, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

Many people guard their bodies carefully but leave their hearts completely exposed. We are taught where not to go physically, yet rarely taught where not to go emotionally. The truth many learn too late is this: emotional intimacy can be as dangerous as physical...

How to Love Someone Without Idolizing Them

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | January 19, 2026 | Singles and Married | 0 Comments

Love is beautiful, but when love crosses into idolization, it quietly becomes dangerous. Many people don't realize this shift is happening until they feel anxious, dependent, or spiritually off-balance. Learning how to love someone without idolizing them is essential...

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Rev Dunamis Okunowo
Facilitator at Kisses and Huggs Club. Pastor at Shouts of Grace Center, Ibadan. Pastor, Father, Mentor, Writer, Husband.
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