Being Still In A Marriage Love is a wonderful thing when two hearts beat in unison. It is even more powerful when the couple has learnt how to be still!
I’ll be writing about being still today. If you wish to experience God’s majesty and greatness, you must learn to be still. Not necessarily in terms of inaction, but of being silent and admitting God’s lordship. Recognizing that He is Lord of all or Lord of none, and giving Him the proper place He deserves.
The Bible says in Psalm 46:10 KJV, Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth.’
I really like the Passion translation (TPT). It says, ‘Surrender your anxiety! Be silent and stop your striving and you will see that I am God. I am the God above all the nations, and I will be exalted throughout the whole earth.’
Being Still In A Marriage
If you want to see and experience God in your marriage, you must let go of your worries and efforts and be calm. I’m not sure what the problem is in your marriage. You’ve been striving and worrying for far too long. You cannot resolve the challenges in your marriage on your own.
Be still today, recognize, and understand that God is Lord. How do you become still?
Through worship and adoration With thankfulness and a glad heart Through the study of the Bible and meditation Declaring the word or making a confession By walking in the spirit. By following His directions.
Being Still In A Marriage
You can start accepting Him as Lord today in your finances, health, misunderstandings with your spouse, every thorny issue with your husband, in-law, children, and so on.
There is a time and season for things to break forth in the spirit realm. When the breakthrough happens in the spirit realm then there will a breakthrough on the earth.
I pray to God to provide us with the necessary strength. In Jesus’ name, God bless your marriage.
There is a stirring in my heart to see couples who are unwaveringly loyal and committed to each other. When the covenant of marriage is maximized, this is the true meaning of marriage. When two hearts beat in unison.
When partners play games with each other, the power of the marriage relationship is diminished. Couples are to be open, honest, and transparent with one another.
When they are not completely focused on one other and are not on the same page, their strength cannot be amplified.
The Bible says in Ecclesiastic 4:9 (ERV) Two people are better than one. When two people work together, they get more work done.
The KJV translation Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.
God loves oneness. His presence, power, and majesty will be released. God desires that the power of the godhead be mirrored in marriages. He desires that all marriages reflect His glory.
The Godhead are three separate personalities, but they function in flawless harmony. The Godhead is so in sync that they cannot be divided. They think and act in unison.
“The Father commands it, the Son performs it, and the Holy Spirit seals it,” someone says brilliantly.
The marriage covenant is the same way.
The Bible says in Matthew 19:6: ‘So they are no longer two, but one. God has joined them together, so no one should separate them.”
Nothing can separate a pair who are inseparable. We must strive and pray to be faithful to our marriage. That is all we have been asked to do.
Try to stay on the same page as your spouse. Be committed. Until death do us part. It’s a long-term and lifetime commitment.
It’s a heart connection, a knitted heart. Let go of all bitterness. Allow every offense to pass. If you have beef with your spouse, you cannot be one. You cannot be one if you harbor resentment toward your partner. You must purify your hearts and your thoughts towards your spouse. That togetherness MUST be maintained.
Pray that God may knit your heart together with that of your spouse. God bless our union.
As people discover new techniques and methods of investing, particularly in the business world, hundreds of people have literarily become millionaires and billionaires through large profits from investment over the centuries and decades.
A solid investment can turn one’s financial life around, which can affect practically every other aspect of life. A bad investment, on the other hand, can leave you destitute and full of regrets that you may not be able to recover from for the rest of your life.
The key is to know what investments to make, to have the proper information, and to be brave enough to take the move at the right time and invest.
How To Invest In Your Marriage
Similarly, if we spend wisely in our marriage, gathering the necessary information, we will get enormous rewards.
One good transaction in our marriage, and we are receiving the benefits of investment for the rest of our lives, as well as the lives of our children and their children.
Here are some significant investments you can make in your marriage.
It should be noted that investing in one component of your marriage does not ensure gains in other areas.
1. Make an investment of your time
Life’s currency is time. Take care of your marriage. Never ignore your marriage. From a day old marriage to a fifty-year-long marriage, all marriages require time commitment.
Spend time studying and getting to know your spouse. Invest your marriage, and a significant reward will be paid to you. Invest in your marriage for quality rather than quantity.
2. Put your prayers to work
Prayers are about connecting with Divinity and seeking the divine’s assistance in the humane. Every marriage necessitates the investment of prayers. Marriages will always require prayers at various phases. We will all require prayer at some point in our lives.
How To Invest In Your Marriage
3. Understanding
Marriages work because both partners recognize that marriage can be created in heaven but must be lived on Earth. There should be a fundamental understanding of marriage as a covenant and the covenant duties.
4. Belief in God’s Word.
To be successful in everything, especially our lives and marriages, we must make a significant investment in God’s word. (Josh 1:8). The road map to success is provided through God’s word.
In Jesus’ name, may God strengthen us to do His will.
I’m sure you’ve seen the phrase where the mind goes and the man follows before. You’ve probably heard it and similar expressions a lot.
These are excellent phrases. We’re going to look at how crucial it is to gird your mental loins. How to accept responsibility and regain control of your mind.
Our scripture will be taken from
I kg 18:46 KJV And the hand of the Lord was on Elijah; and he girded up his loins, and ran before Ahab to the entrance of Jezreel.
Girding Your Mind’s Loins in Marriage
God was preparing to grant Elijah incredible speed, but he had to gird his loins.
It was something the Holy Spirit would not do on his behalf. You must accept responsibility for your own thoughts.
Negative thoughts can obstruct God’s operation in your life and marriage.
Girding your loins, as Elijah did, meant tying up all the loose ends of his garment so he could run freely with nothing impeding his movement.
We, too, should gird our loins like Elijah. Don’t just let any notions into your mind. You may not be able to stop the thoughts from entering your head, but you should not welcome them. You have a choice; make good use of it.
Make decisions that will help you progress.
Examine every thought. The Bible instructed us on what thoughts we should tolerate in our minds.
Girding Your Mind’s Loins in Marriage
Phil 4:8 KJV Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.
Any idea that contradicts anything on this list should be destroyed, dragged down, or cast down.
2Cor 10:4 (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;) Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ.
You cannot have impure thoughts about your spouse and expect God’s blessing on your marriage.
You can’t be full of sexual thoughts and expect to come up with novel ideas.
Allow God’s thoughts to take over your mind.
In Jesus’ name, I pray that the Holy Spirit will give us strength, and that we will use the strength already accessible in the Holy Spirit to gird our minds.
Everyone experiences depression, moodiness, or despair from time to time. Life, as they say, happens, and singles in courtship and couples are not immune.
In most cases, your partner will not be able to solve your mood swings or sadness, but having someone on whose shoulders you can cry can be quite beneficial.
Furthermore, depending on how long you’ve been married, your spouse may lack the appropriate words or acts to make you feel better.
Being patient with your partner will help here. He or she may be coping with troubles of their own and is simply attempting to be strong for you.
It is impossible to overstate the importance of having a personal relationship with the person of the Holy Spirit. He is the greatest source of solace for our souls. He is our fortified. Our helper and comforter.
Job told his friends:
Job 16:2 (KJV) [2] I have heard many such things: miserable comforters are ye all.
The Holy Spirit is the only true comforter!
He provides and brings us joy, gladness, and help.
However, as a pair, we must continue to support one another.
Here are two good strategies to encourage your spouse during difficult times.
Be An Encouragement To Your Lover
1. Communicate with the Holy Spirit.
It is extremely beneficial to have daily communication with the person of the Holy Spirit. Before you lash out at your spouse for acting in particular ways or conclude that he or she is uncooperative, take the situation to God.
Oh, the things we frequently forego.
Oh, what unnecessary suffering we endure because we do not bring all to God in prayer.
Be An Encouragement To Your Lover
2. Express genuine affection to your spouse
A deep and sincere love for your spouse is one method you might give your spouse in such circumstances. Feel compassion for him or her.
