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From Childhood Fantasies into Marital Realities

Everyone especially the ladies had a dream marriage in mind, what we call, childhood dreams. (not necessarily a dream wedding). A marriage is far more important than a wedding. Our childhood dreams of a ‘happily ever after’ can come to pass.

How we love to feel loved, is usually expressed in those dreams.

It is best to start preparing for that dream marriage as a single lady or guy.

The problem is that most people do not take the time to pursue their dreams.

Their dreams are not even clear enough to them. They have not sat down to conceptualize their dreams and know what their dreams require.

It remains as a wish and never gets actualized.

I believe the process of writing the vision and making it plain upon tablets that he may run that read (Hab 2:1) is very important.

Habakkuk 2:2 – 3 NKJV [2] Then the Lord answered me and said: “Write the vision And make it plain on tablets, That he may run who reads it. [3] For the vision is yet for an appointed time; But at the end it will speak, and it will not lie. Though it tarries, wait for it; Because it will surely come, It will not tarry.

As a young person, the dream marriage you have always wanted is not meant to just be a dream, it is meant to be pursued.

Knowledge about marriage, application of what you learned, and prayers are 3 important keys to making your dream marriage come to reality.

Whatever stage you are whether you are single, married, having troubles in your marriage or a relationship about to divorce, you can still pursue your dream.

Here are the 3 keys that can help

1. Knowledge about marriage

Marriage is an institution that requires adequate and proper study. You study and never give up. Be a studious student of marriage before you get married and while you are married.

As a lady, study to understand the guy you will marry and study to know and understand yourself and vice versa. Learn about marriage itself. So many people are making a shipwreck of their marriage at different levels because of a lack of knowledge.

How many books do you have or have you read on marriage is a good question to ask yourself

Remember if wishes were horses, beggars will ride.

2. Application of what you have read.

What you read or learn through books, seminars, and conferences is of no use if they are not applied. It is in the doing that we are blessed.

Knowledge creates awareness. We have Awareness, Application, and Accountability where you become accountable to God who gave you the dream and desire of a blissful marriage

3. Prayers

I believe marriage is not meant to be done outside of God. From choosing the right spouse as a single and being the right spouse ( being compatible) to living and becoming one in marriage. You need God all the way. Prayer allows you to commit yourselves to the author of the marriage institution. You receive the needed guidance and help and you learn to talk to God and listen to Him.

Your dream marriage is worth pursuing. Pursue it and don’t give up. Don’t settle for less.

Good morning

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