Accountability and Falling In Love

Accountability and Falling In Love

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Accountability and Falling In Love. Ade and Sally were crazily in love. It was like love out of the novels. They were so much into each other. But they kept their love life secret. In no time, situations beyond them arose, and they are unable to handle it, so the relationship was ruined. You see, life has a way of dealing you things beyond your wisdom and often people who have gone through what you are going through are the ones that can help.

The Johnsons who are married found each other in similar scenario. The husband believes there should be no third party. In the end, the wife felt oppressed and their relationship nosedived quickly, enveloped with attitudes, withdrawals, and sexlessness too!

Accountability and Falling In Love.

I remember I was accountable as a student when I fell in love on campus in 1996. Even though our pastor was a student then, we still remained accountable. Before I asked my wife out, I informed our fellowship pastor and he encouraged me! May God not send you to a person who will talk you out of God’s plan for your life. Many people’s dreams have been killed by the people they trusted. Mephibosheth was entrusted to his nurse, but the nurse “dropped” him and he became lame!

Accountability is a spiritual exercise that protects your relationship. When you are accountable, it helps you to be cautious and to consciously stay away from pre-marital sex. It also helps you to report each other or even report yourself.

Most sexual sins are perpetuated when your relationship is shrouded in secrecy. The moment one party is saying you should not tell anybody, then something is wrong somewhere.

Accountability and Falling In Love.

After the wedding, accountability continues. It is a powerful principle you shouldn’t joke with. The couple should agree on who will mentor them. In marriage, when there are issues, it is wrong to pick up your phones and report each other to your parents or friends. When you do that, the situation will aggravate. Parents will be biased towards their children, friends will also be biased. You need somebody who has nothing to lose, is not biased, and is ready to be truthful to the two of you.

As couples, do you have somebody you can call on the phone when there are issues behind you? I do that for a lot of couples around the world, and situations that have degenerated into serious issues for days are often resolved in minutes, not so much because I know so much, but because of the grace of God upon my life. 

As I conclude on Accountability and Falling In Love, I have discovered that if a couple can do these three things, all other issues are just minor.

These three things are

1. Stay away from cheating and unfaithfulness

2. Forgive each other quickly and stay accountable

3. Pray together regularly
I pray that God will grant you more understanding.

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Attraction Factor In Relationships and Marriages

Attraction Factor In Relationships and Marriages

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Attraction Factor In Relationships and Marriages

Were we attracted to each other? Yes, and certainly!  A lot of deeply spiritual folk will tell you that attraction doesn’t matter, but I am telling you right now, it matters.

Marriage is truly made in heaven, but it is lived here on earth. You can receive your spouse from heaven, but both of you will eventually tabernacle here on planet earth!

After marriage, all other people will not suddenly become ugly. That is why people who have no fear of God still go into extra-marital relationships.

Attraction Factor In Relationships and Marriages

I have had to counsel people who are in a relationship and would say they didn’t really like their partner but since God said he or she is the one. You see, something is obviously missing here. God is not an author of confusion, and He would not lead you to somebody you dislike forever. 

Yes, it is possible you do not resonate with a particular person God leads you to when you are busy looking elsewhere, but the moment you embrace God’s plan, you will indeed love the person.

But there would never be a situation where God forces you to marry somebody you don’t like or somebody you hate.

A situation where you get depressed over how your spouse looks three days after the wedding needs not happen!

You won’t believe that the reason a lot of people are scared about asking God for who to marry is that they don’t want God to lead them to somebody they will hate. God is intelligent, much more intelligent than all the intelligence of the entire brains of the human race combined!

Attraction Factor In Relationships and Marriages

It is only God that knows the person who will be attracted to you and you will be attracted to, not just today, but also in some ten and twenty years’ time. People change over time.

Beyond physical attraction, therefore, there must be an inner attraction. Beyond the fact that she is thin or slim or lepacious, you must love her because, over time, a lepacious woman can become orobo! Figure eight can fast become figure football! What happens after that?

The reality you must accept is that your spouse will not look the same after twenty or thirty years of marriage. Attraction must be deeper than physical appearance because appearance changes over time!

For me, I have remained slim like I used to be, I only added a little and my tummy has been trying to come out, but I have been casting out all the calories. My wife is more rounded, but she has been trying to lay aside the weight as well.

Attraction Factor In Relationships and Marriages

As married couples, do not look on when you see the weight is traveling to where you don’t want to camp. Follow her to the gym if you have to. Take precautions. Do not eat late. Reduce taking “swallow” if you have to! Stay with each other and walk the walk together. 

As married couples, keep the attraction on fire. Keep dressing for him within and without the home. He is moved by sight! Never forget that! Good morning

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I Am Carried

I Am Carried

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I am carried! You are carried. How many times have you spoken against God because of some little pressure? How many times have you had emotional outbursts at God because you don’t understand what you are going through? Watch the short video below before you read on. Respond accordingly to the prayers if you need to do so before you read on!

Look at the scripture again:

Isa 46:4 (AMPC) Even to your old age I am He, and even to hair white with age will I carry you. I have made, and I will bear; yes, I will carry and will save you.

Gid promised to carry you! No wonder at those times you went through the most difficult times, the times you were suicidal, the times you were sure you would die, the times you fell so deep into the dark pit with no flicker of light, the times you went through grief that seemed to lead to the grave, and yet, you came out alive…it is because you are carried! I am carried!

God has been carrying you all along! The Message translation says God will carry you on His back! Wow!

A quarter of what you went through sent others six feet below and you are thinking it is because you are strong? No, you are carried?

And you know what? God isn’t the one to drop you! God is not like the Nurse that dropped Mephibosheth!

2Sa 4:4 (KJV) And Jonathan, Saul’s son, had a son that was lame of his feet. He was five years old when the tidings came of Saul and Jonathan out of Jezreel, and his nurse took him up, and fled: and it came to pass, as she made haste to flee, that he fell, and became lame. And his name was Mephibosheth.

Oh yeah, men will dop you! They are not designed to be able to carry you for long! Sugar Daddies can’t carry you for long, they are only looking for the Sugar in you. Like the nurse, they will drop you at the last!

The only one who will carry is God. Like an eagle, He would bear you up! I am carried!

Deu 32:11 (MSG) He was like an eagle hovering over its nest, overshadowing its young, Then spreading its wings, lifting them into the air, teaching them to fly.

I only have one piece of advice for you this morning, dear singles and married!

Don’t jump off his back! So many things will endear you in order to entrap you, don’t jump! Hold him tight! Let His love radiate and envelope you. Let His glory surround you!

Don’t jump off at the beckon of the mammon spirit. Don’t jump off at the lure of lustful spirits.

Let Him carry you! And while at it, give Him thanks! Stop complaining and let God do His work in your life! I am carried!

I pray for you, God will intervene in that situation in Jesus’ name! If you need some repenting to do because you’ve spoken against Him, use the video above!

Good morning! I am carried! Did you get blessed? Hit the share button! Send to WhatsApp too and reach others! God bless you as you do so!

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Who Are You Voting For?

Who Are You Voting For?

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Who are you voting for? The Batists, the Artikulates, or the Obidients? In Nigeria’s political landscape today, we have three main contenders and they have creatively given themselves brand names, as derived from the names of the presidential aspirants.

The populace is divided into these three camps, and sentimentally too.

So, Who are you voting for?

Whoever you vote for or whoever has the most votes will become the president of this nation. His ideas would be foisted over 200 Million people.

His policies will be given the time of day! He will decide for us. He will rule over us.

The populace will leave through his ideas and policies. We will be constrained by his intellect and thought patterns.

He will decide for us. He will sign papers that might be beneficial or detrimental to us and our generations!

Before you vote, think!

But that is not where I am going this morning, the Nigerian political landscape is just helping me to arrive at a spiritual landscape.

Who you vote for takes control of your life via police and decisions at the National level.

So this is where I am going. Who are you voting for?

Rom 6:12 (MSG) That means you must not give sin a vote in the way you conduct your lives. Don’t give it the time of day.

Don’t give sin a vote! If you do, sin will take control of your life! Sin will dictate the direction of your life and will keep you bound, often leading you to where don’t want to go! You remember “They are carrying me to where I want to go o!”

That is exactly what sin does. It holds you by the jugular and leads you into dark areas of life.

But I want to be free! I want to leave my life! Let me freely vote for who I want.

Well, here is the response:

Romans 6:16 (MSG) Hardly. You know well enough from your own experience that there are some acts of so-called freedom that destroy freedom. Offer yourselves to sin, for instance, and it’s your last free act. But offer yourselves to the ways of God and the freedom never quits. All your lives you’ve let sin tell you what to do.

Voting for sin becomes your last free act, just as voting for aspirants becomes your last free act for the next four or eight years! They take charge after that. That is what sin does!

God wants you back! Will you consecrate yourself afresh this morning? Will you stay away from that sexual sin? Will you focus on your spouse and stop dining with the devil on the adulterous dining table?

Who are you voting for?

I choose to vote for God like Joseph did when Mrs. Potiphar wanted to fry his destiny! He ended up in the palace.

I choose not to vote for sin as Samson did and his freedom was taken when his eyes were gouged out! He ended up taking his life!

Who are you voting for?

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Don’t Lose Hope Now!

Don’t Lose Hope Now!

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Don’t Lose Hope Now! Hey, dear Singles and Couples! So, God has helped us and it has been over two decades of marriage! But to tell you the truth, it has not been one straight road. There have been bends, curves, potholes, and more! But His goodness, love, and benevolence never left us once!

So many crooked ways along the way, but God did promise to make the crooked places straight! Don’t Lose Hope Now!

Isa 45:2 (KJV) I will go before thee, and make the crooked places straight: I will break in pieces the gates of brass, and cut in sunder the bars of iron:

So much heat along the way, enough heat to dry up every ounce of marital ecstasy, but God did promise that the heat will not smite us! 

Psa 121:6 (KJV) The sun shall not smite thee by day, nor the moon by night.

Marital waters so deep we thought we would be drowned and completely submerged but God did not allow it! 

So much fire, so intense and fiery we thought we will come out completely baked into some burnt loaves that couldn’t be served, but we are still fresh like the five loaves, Jesus was still handing us out to be blessings because he said the fire would not burn us! Don’t Lose Hope Now!

Isa 43:2 (KJV) When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow thee: when thou walkest through the fire, thou shalt not be burned; neither shall the flame kindle upon thee.

Turns, twists, and meanders that navigated into the wilderness, and all ways seemed blocked,  but they were momentary, the GOD GPS system worked right there, and the course was charted! 

Isa 43:2 (KJV) When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow thee: when thou walkest through the fire, thou shalt not be burned; neither shall the flame kindle upon thee.

I can go on and on, but I am simply here this morning to let you know, that God is with you and will not leave you alone. 

The challenges as a single are overwhelming, I know, the situation as a couple is intense and fiery, yes I know, but do not lose hope in Him. His love for you is eternal, His assurance for you is steadfast, His grace for you is unlimited and His mercy is everlasting! Don’t Lose Hope Now!

Heb 10:35 (KJV) Cast not away therefore your confidence, which hath great recompence of reward.

Call upon Him now! He promised to listen! Yes, He promised to listen! Have a conversation with Him. Consecrate yourself this morning and start over with Him. He will hold you by the right hand, strengthen you from within, and carry you into victory! Don’t Lose Hope Now!

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More Causes of Marital Delay 

More Causes of Marital Delay 

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More Causes of Marital Delay. We started on this yesterday and we will continue this morning 

3. You have taken over God’s business

Again, you can bring delay when you try to take over God’s job in your decision of who to get married to. God wants to lead but when you decide to lead yourself, you can bring unnecessary delays.

There are some jobs that are meant for Jehovah, but you are human. Only God knows the right spouse for you. It is good to seek His face and then trust His direction because most of the time, what God is telling you does not settle with your reasoning.

This is not to say that God will lead you to somebody you dislike or you hate and you will now be forced to marry somebody you don’t like. There is nothing like that. God is not an author of confusion. You may not like the person God shows you the very first time you set eyes on him or her, because he or she is still a stranger. But as you get close and become friends, you will come to love this person. Don’t ever marry somebody you dislike or you don’t love because God is “leading” you. There is nothing like that.

4. You have unrealistic wishes

When you have unrealistic wishes, it can actually cause delays. Too many romantic novels, Korean movies, Indian films, and all that can actually drive you to a place of wishful thinking and desires that are unrealistic.

Marriage comes with pressures and frictions caused by temperamental differences and personality disparities, which are visible even at the friendship stage. If you keep getting out of relationships out of the slightest provocation, then you are causing delays. Once you are led by God, the person is born again, Spirit-filled, has the fear of God, has a vision and a purpose, and you are attracted to the person, leave the rest to God!

5. You disregard and disrespect people 

People are easily turned off when you have a negative attitude, or you are not courteous. It can actually turn away a potential suitor. Nobody wants to marry an angry, negative-attitude person. It is good to work on yourself when your parents, pastor, friends, and siblings have complained about the same thing. They are not all wrong, you are the one that needs to make amend with the help of the Holy Spirit

6. The purpose and sovereignty of God

Finally, there can be some form of delay because of the sovereignty of God. The purpose of God actually transcends your personal desires. Interestingly, the same purpose of God can speed up marriage when you are not even thinking of it.

If it is the purpose of God, what you see as delay will eventually bring smiles to you because you will rejoice at the end.

Conclusively, make sure you are not bringing a self-imposed delay on yourself with the aforementioned.

The other twist is those who are already married and feel God has not answered their prayers about their spouse’s salvation. Let me encourage you, God will answer your prayers. Keep praying, and never give up, until you see the travails of your heart. God is listening to every bit of your prayers and  He will answer you with surety.

I pray that God will help you to make needed changes as a single and lead you into His plans for your lives. You will not be confused.

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Causes of Marital Delay 

Causes of Marital Delay 

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Causes of Marital Delay. When I mean delay, I mean those that have been waiting for a while.

For some, nobody is showing up at all. For some, a few people are showing up and for some, too many people are showing up, just that they don’t seem to be the right people. For some others, it is always “un-marriageable” people. Here are a few scenarios that you need to check to know that all is well from your end.

Causes of Marital Delay 

1. You are looking for the perfect person

If you are looking for the perfect person, there will always be some form of delay. You want that person that is totally packaged from heaven, spiritual, sound, can dissect the scriptures, can quote the scriptures and can engage you in spiritual discourse.

The reality is that you will never be able to know that perfect spiritual person because everybody is a project in the making. Knowing a spiritual person is not by the tongues such a person is speaking or by the activities in the church, all that can be successfully staged.

Again, there are many people who sound and appear spiritual as singles but become the most carnally minded after marriage because of the pressures that come with marriage.

Your judgment of who is spiritual and who is not may cause delays, because people usually come as raw materials and not finished products.

This is not to say that you should settle for an unbeliever, but if you are going to eliminate this tendency, you will need to appreciate the people that God sends into your life and not discard them like a piece of paper because they fell short in a certain area.

I still remember the brother who broke up with a sister because all her tongue was “sandal, sandal, sandal… the brother wondered when she will get to buy shoes!

Causes of Marital Delay 

2. You are looking for the handsome or beautiful person

Attraction is necessary for deciding who to marry and I always say you should make sure you are attracted to the person you will eventually marry. 

But when you are looking for that perfect person in terms of appearance that you have in your mind, you can actually delay yourself.

You see, there is a downside to everybody. Nobody will perfectly fit into the exact picture and definition of “completely handsome” or completely beautiful” in your mind. You will need to eventually drop some of your “stiff and strict” qualities if you really want to get married. After all, it is not as if you are perfect in your own appearance as well.

I will give you an example. You have always wanted a tall and fair lady. Now God sends Sister Sube into your life and she is tall and fair. She matches exactly the picture you have in mind, but the only thing is that she doesn’t fit into one of your desired qualities, which is the fact that she doesn’t have a straight nose. Her nose is flat, but you wanted somebody whose nose is straight like the lady you saw in that film as a teenager! For that reason, you concluded it is not God’s will. You may be wrong!

Another example, Brother Zerubabbel is the exact picture of the husband you’ve been praying for. He is spiritual, he has a hunger for knowledge, he can pray, he is a graduate, he has a good job, he has the exact height you want, he is dark and you have become close friends. The only thing is that his pronunciation is not polished. For example, He pronounces “three” as “tiri” and that irritates you. He pronounces “computer” as “kon-poo-taa” and that irritates you more. For that reason, you said it couldn’t be God!

Well, you may be wrong! Insignificant issues that can be conquered with some learning, polishing, fine-tuning, and adjustments should not be turned into gargantuan reasons for not getting married to a particular person

I will conclude on the Causes of Marital Delay tomorrow. Good morning!

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5 Reasons Why She Is Emotional 

5 Reasons Why She Is Emotional 

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5 Reasons Why She Is Emotional. Women are simply emotional beings! They are sentimental. Their way of thinking is miles apart from that of a man and they can be very illogical. You must understand and embrace this part about them and help bring the much-needed balance without creating issues. 

That was how I got married and then any little thing somebody would be crying. I was like, what’s this? Lol…

By the way, today is my wife’s birthday! Some of you will be used to that now….anniversary yesterday, birthday today. Help me say a word of prayer for her!

Back to our topic, why are the womenfolk sentimental? I will be writing about women, both singles and married, so that men can understand who they are dealing with. 5 Reasons Why She Is Emotional 

  1. Their Instincts 

Yes, their instincts are responsible for why they can be very emotional. Particularly, the maternal instinct can make them overly protective and have exaggerated responses to something a man will be cool with.

Every man has to understand this or else there will be unnecessary issues here and there.

5 Reasons Why She Is Emotional 

2. Past Traumatic Event 

If there has been some traumatic experience while growing up, especially if it has to do with some form of abuse, this can affect responses to people and issues. It would be so subtle that it wouldn’t be noticeable, but it would be there.

As the man, you must be willing to lovingly help out till there is total healing in the emotions. 

5 Reasons Why She Is Emotional 

3. Their Hormones

Estrogen hormones can cause fluctuations. When there is a surge of this hormone, several emotions can run, fly, swim and do all together at the same time.

They become even more emotional during their cycles and there are different things that happen during this time. Some women can be in pain for a whole week because of this while some just breeze through like nothing is happening! Hormonal imbalance can add more to the waterworks. 

5 Reasons Why She Is Emotional 

4. Women use their brains more

Men use the left side of their brains, which is why they are logical. Women use both sides of the brain! They can interpret situations in more depth than men! 

They feel more, they sense things more, and little things affect them more. 

Rather than the man saying something like” Why would this small thing make you cry or withdrawn? The wise man should show empathy. 

5 Reasons Why She Is Emotional 

5. Their Stress Level 

When someone is feeling stressed, the Oxytocin hormone is released. When a man is stressed, their testosterone reduces the effects of oxytocin, which makes them aggressive and angry.

However, women have Estrogen, which enhances oxytocin. When this happens, the effects make her feel calm and caring.

Men hardly express their feelings and thoughts, so they react with anger or aggression. Instead of solving things by talking, they are always ready to “fight.” 

On the other hand, women tend to want to talk it out so they can express their feelings that way.

Men feel like fighting their way out of their problems.
Women want to talk their way out of any problem.

Understand this and know peace! Good morning! 

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I Want To Apologize!

I Want To Apologize!

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I Want To Apologize! Today is our 23rd wedding anniversary! God has been good! It has been an interesting journey! There have been ups and downs, but God has taken all the glory all the way! It has been stormy, windy, and dusty, but we are still here, serving the Lord, joyfully and tenaciously holding on to the call.

This morning, I want to apologize!

It’s been 23 years! God is good!


Wow, Pastor has done something really terrible? Well, we’ll see! You love “jist” and you want to know what Pastor has done? See how you are glued to your phone and reading with all rapt attention! lol… sometimes your spouse needs that kind of attention!

This morning, I want to quickly address married couples and singles! I want to bring out some choice words from the intricacies of my heart this morning as we take the 23rd floor of the marital mansion!

Back to my apology! I want to apologize to all the wives on KHC and beyond…

To all the wives, I want to apologize on behalf of your husband. I know some of you are hurt, oh…hurt is an understatement. Deeply hurt and intensely too. You’ve been keeping on the appearances, just going through the religious and domestic motions…but very disappointed and lacking energy within. Hurt and bitter. It’s just that you can’t get better by being bitter! You’ve attempted to cover the tears with powder and pomade. I want to say sorry! You have hibernated into your shell and withdrawn your affection! Sorry! Perhaps, you have begun or beginning to channel your thoughts to another…hey! It’s a trap to entangle your soul!

To all husbands, I want to apologize on behalf of your wives! She may not even know she has offended you, but you are withdrawn emotionally and just acting alone. You are succumbing to the trap of the stranger’s bosom gradually! Hey! It’s not the way to go! It’s the way of ruin! Focus only on her breasts…that is what you are covenanted to!

You have been disrespected and she doesn’t seem to understand! Sorry! You are the man! Brace up and give leadership by forgiving. Show the way by being faithful to the wife of your youth!

I Want To Apologize!

To all singles, I want to apologize to God! Many singles who are in “courtship” have deserted the “ship” and only “court” is left, courting disaster! Lord, I say sorry!

The bed has been desecrated, without remorse! It has become a form of greeting yourselves! This is not the faith handed over to us! Sex has become the sustenance of courtship, the spree is unending! Oral sex is the norm and you crave for the taste…how that is held confidently in private and microphone held in public day after day without a dint of repentance requires your pause, stop and return to the Almighty, for you have left Him for too long, and things go awry for those who leave Him!

Shall we enter the room of kinky sex and BDSM? Oh no, that is a forbidden area, akin to the evil forest of the olden days that no Homo Sapien is authorized to trudge!

Dear wife, he is sorry! Find a place for forgiveness, that you do not become headless!

Dear husband, she is sorry! Embrace her, and let her be your help and not your hell.

Dear singles, it’s time to say to your Lord and the lover of your soul, we are sorry! It’s time to make amendments and follow the book! God loves you and will forgive all misdemeanors and won’t even remember again upon repentance!

Let the turnaround begin in our relationships! Let the healing begin in our marriage! This is my prayer for you as we celebrate our 23rd anniversary today!


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May God bless you today and always! Don’t forget to share this devotional on Facebook, WhatsApp, and groups if it blesses you!

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Conflict Resolution In Relationship And Marriage

Conflict Resolution In Relationship And Marriage

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Conflict Resolution In Relationship And Marriage. George and Sally fell in love with each other. They were so happy, they knew God was in it. They had prayed, fasted, and involved their pastors along. They were so sure it is going to be a time of heaven on earth.

Sally had a lot of childhood expectations for herself and the love of her life. She had plans and had her imagination filled with how they would live together in courtship. To her greatest surprise, not too long into their courtship, they started having clashes.

George was insensitive with his words and often passed unpleasant jokes and comments about Sally. Sally on the other hand was being overly sensitive. This continued for a long time until they both began to contemplate going their separate ways.

It was a rude shock to Sally that despite being in the center of God’s will they still have issues. The problem is that she is not even sure what she is doing wrong. If she must save her courtship she must know how to handle issues between them.

She decided to write out the things they were doing wrong in their courtship. She came up with the following.

Conflict Resolution In Relationship And Marriage

  1. They were shouting at each other. 
  2. They were accusing each other. 
  3. They were full of retaliation. 
  4. Rather than listen to one another, they would defend themselves. 
  5. They both wanted to win the argument. 
  6. They were fond of reporting one another. 
  7. They will keep malice for days and they both found it difficult to forgive and let go.   After writing about all the problems they were facing in their relationship, She had a light bulb moment. Those were the things they should never do to each other. They must find a way to eliminate and handle the issues correctly.

On the other hand, the Johnsons have been married for three years and their marriage seems to go through high waters.  They seem to argue over everything.  It didn’t look like they went through courtship. Their differences seem so much and they don’t know how to manage them. Mrs. Johnson could not take any of these again, it was already affecting her health. They tried a few times to stop the incessant quarrels but soon they were back to square one.

There were times it got so bad, and other times they tried managing themselves. What could be wrong with us? She started to ask some questions. As she sat before me, I proffered some solutions to their issues. Here are some things she learned.

Conflict Resolution In Relationship And Marriage

  1. Be positive. Think good of each other. Don’t assume.
  2. Identify the problem. Do not muddle things up
  3. Never attack your spouse. You’re a team.
  4. Express your feelings in love. Be considerate
  5. See any mistake as our mistake.  
  6. Never be too big to apologize. 
  7. Be prayerful and learn to talk to God
  8. Seek a professional counselor, not a family member to help resolve the conflict.

With these tips, she and her husband are on their way to recovering their marriage. Mrs. Johnson was determined more than ever before to do everything in her path to enjoy bliss in her marriage.

In the same way, we must be determined to seek help and do all we can to ensure our marriage is great! Conflict Resolution In Relationship And Marriage

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How To Understand That Special Gender

How To Understand That Special Gender

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How To Understand That Special Gender. Mrs. Johnson has just arrived from the salon where she had gone to make her hair. Mr. Johnson is in the living room, relaxing and watching the Television.

Mrs. Johnson: (knocks on the door)
Mr. Johnson: Who is that?
Mrs. Johnson: My dear, it’s me!
Mr. Johnson: (Stands up and opens the door, takes a look at his wife, and then his countenance changes)Mrs. Johnson: What is it dear?
Mr. Johnson: What is this on your head?
Mrs. Johnson: (She didn’t answer, but walked past)
Mr. Johnson: What kind of useless hairstyle is this?
Mrs. Johnson: But it’s fine now?
Mr. Johnson: You have no mirror, right, this thing on your head that makes your head look like that of a chicken?

Well, Mr. Johnson thinks he is being blunt, but he is actually foolish and unwise. Now, this kind of conversation or communication will devastate any woman. It would even be worse if her love language is “words of affirmation.”

It is okay for Mr. Johnson not to like a particular hairstyle. But it is wisdom for him to have first looked at the many hours spent fixing that hair and appreciated that first. After a week or so, he can just give her some money and ask her to change her hairstyle. That is wiser, simpler, and would save the marriage.

What is the point of being in strife because of hairstyle? This is just one of many examples.

In the school of relationships and marriage, communication is the core curriculum. Communication is so important.

How To Understand That Special Gender. Now, there is no effective communication without a language. Even in non-verbal communication, there is “language”

Language is so important that it was the only thing that God needed to tamper with when the human race got ambitious and wanted to build a tower that would reach into the heavens.

God, Himself looked down and said these people are going to succeed because they have “one language”

“And the Lord said, Behold, they are one people and they have all one language; and this is only the beginning of what they will do, and now nothing they have imagined they can do will be impossible for them.”  (Gen 11:6, AMP)

The only thing God could do to stop their ambition was to garble their language. And that was what He did. The moment they could not understand themselves, the project was impeded and subsequently suspended.

What does that tell you?

When you don’t speak the proper language, a relationship or marriage will have serious issues.

Good and constant communication is the oxygen that relationships and marriage need.

The tower of Babel came to a halt. God simply “scattered” their language.

However, at Pentecost, there was the restoration of languages.

“Then how is it that we hear, each of us, in our own (particular) dialect to which we were born?”  (Act 2:8, AMP)

At Pentecost, they heard themselves in the languages they understood most!

From these, we can see how important languages can be even in the things of the Spirit, how much more in a love relationship?

If your fiancee’s or wife’s love language is words of affirmation, what it means is that she doesn’t really sense any love until you affirm her with words.

The moment you keep ignoring this language, she will never be happy. Love languages are like passwords, so learn to speak her love language.

The greatest mistake is to keep speaking the direct opposite of her love language, which is critical words!

When you keep on doing this carelessly, you will never have the best of her. You may not notice much in courtship, but in marriage, she will never be happy. And that will affect a lot of things.

How To Understand That Special Gender. God wants you to make each other happy. Whenever any of you is unhappy, it can affect or hinder your prayers.

In a relationship or marriage, ladies get hurt through “insignificant issues” These issues are insignificant to men, but they are pertinent issues to them.

A successful relationship or marriage is about understanding the other person and trying to please him or her without displeasing God. That is what makes it work.

If your fiancee’s or wife’s love language is words of affirmation, you have to go out of your way to speak her language.

I am sorry.
God bless you.
Thank you.
You are beautiful
You are the best.
You are the greatest thing that has happened to me.
You are God’s greatest gift to me.
Anytime I think about you, I cannot but thank God for His favour on my life.
Since I met you, my life has never been the same. You are a fresh breath into my life.

I love this food. You are so great at anything you do! 

I once heard Dr. Albert Oduwole said that it takes nine affirming words from you before criticism can be well received! Learn from that.

Words mean a lot to women. Words are powerful.

“Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones.”  (Pro 16:24, KJV)

But there are also words that can bring bitterness to a lady. Avoid speaking those words to your loved one! Be wise.

You are just stupid!
You are a dunce!
I regret the day I met you!

You are a strange woman, you’ve brought bad luck into my life.
You are so ugly, I am just managing you
!
And so on.

Those kinds of words will tear any relationship or marriage apart. It is a matter of time. 

Find out what her love language is and keep speaking that language. It will eliminate a lot of unnecessary friction.

Read this slowly as I conclude this morning:

“The same goes for you husbands: Be good husbands to your wives. Honor them, delight in them. As women they lack some of your advantages. But in the new life of God’s grace, you’re equals. Treat your wives, then, as equals so your prayers don’t run aground. Summing up: Be agreeable, be sympathetic, be loving, be compassionate, be humble. That goes for all of you, no exceptions. No retaliation. No sharp-tongued sarcasm. Instead, bless—that’s your job, to bless. You’ll be a blessing and also get a blessing. Whoever wants to embrace life and see the day fill up with good, Here’s what you do: Say nothing evil or hurtful;”  (1Pe 3:7-10, MSG)

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The Greatest Investment For Your Lover or Spouse

The Greatest Investment For Your Lover or Spouse

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The Greatest Investment For Your Lover or Spouse. Sally and George talked into the night. The love between them was palpable. As they gazed away at the sky dotted with stars that seem to cooperate with their emotions, Sally turned and looked at George. George was expecting a kiss. At last, she was going to yield.

Thoughts raced through his mind. The earth seems to stand still. George has been transported away in the rapturous romantic setting as he imagined what it would be like locking lips with Sally…and he was enjoying it until his fantasy was rudely interrupted by a question from Sally,

He woke up from his fantasy adventure, rather disappointed.

“George, what do you think would be your greatest investment into my life?”

“Hmmm…”

George had no idea what response Sally wanted exactly and he didn’t want to say something that will douse the romantic fire of the night.

“It would be your quest for knowledge. It would be an ongoing investment in your mind! Sally said.

Chai! This girl doesn’t know the times and seasons at all! George thought!

He sheepishly nodded his head in agreement with what Sally said. “Yes, the mind!” He said.

The Johnsons, who got married a few years back have not been enjoying their marriage as they expected. They couldn’t place their hands on what could be wrong.

Rather than search for answers, they kept on blaming themselves. The quarrels became incessant.

The reality is that every couple comes into the marriage with their baggage. These items of baggage are filled with experiences, opinions, outlooks, and so on.

However, the place of marriage is a place of learning and unlearning!

You have to be open to knowing more and also realize that you don’t know a lot!

What is The Greatest Investment For Your Lover or Spouse?

It is your quest to know more that ensures you will keep working on your marriage, making adjustments, and investing heavily in knowing more! This is The Greatest Investment For Your Lover or Spouse

Who is that woman you are married to?

Who is that man you want to spend the rest of your life with?

Who is that guy you are walking the aisle with?

Who is that lady that will bear your children and be their mother?

How can you keep pleasing each other?

Like the scriptures says:

Pro 1:20-23 (AMPC) Wisdom cries aloud in the street, she raises her voice in the markets; [21] She cries at the head of the noisy intersections [in the chief gathering places]; at the entrance of the city gates she speaks: [22] How long, O simple ones [open to evil], will you love being simple? And the scoffers delight in scoffing and [self-confident] fools hate knowledge? [23] If you will turn (repent) and give heed to my reproof, behold, I [Wisdom] will pour out my spirit upon you, I will make my words known to you.

Wisdom is everywhere. They are in the books. They are encapsulated in people around you!

This is what Kisses and Huggs Club devotionals attempt to do. To daily bring the wisdom of God to you for your relationships and marriage! Bringing to you The Greatest Investment For Your Lover or Spouse on a daily basis

Make up your mind to invest in your relationship and marriage today! It is The Greatest Investment For Your Lover or Spouse

May God bless your relationship/marriage

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Spirituality And Reality Of Soul Ties

Spirituality And Reality Of Soul Ties

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Spirituality And Reality Of Soul Ties. Sally and George have been engaged for only three months. But in the short time they were together, they could not remember as many times as they had been intimate. When they quarreled after three months, they parted ways and went differently.

Somehow they kept thinking of each other. They had moved on differently and each of them even have new relationships but they kept on thinking of each other.

What happened to them? Why couldn’t they move on? Spirituality And Reality Of Soul Ties

The Johnsons, on the other hand, married a few months back and have their issues as well. Mr. Johnson couldn’t enjoy intimacy with his wife without importing the thoughts and images of his exes. He would have to disconnect from his wife and reconnect in his mind to a certain ex before he can reach the crescendo.

What was his issue? Spirituality And Reality Of Soul Ties

Sexual intimacy is created by God for your enjoyment and to bring you closer to marriage. It is the highest level of knowing your spouse. God is so particular about it that He said you must not deny or defraud each other. In other words, satisfy each other.

As a matter of fact, when you starve each other of this great blessing that God has afforded you, you actually make yourselves vulnerable. And the devil is quick to set up such traps in offices and anywhere. So, married couples, learn to satisfy each other, that is exactly what God wants.

The issue that Mr.Johnson has is called soul ties with previous lovers.

For Sally and George, the reality is that they have what is called a “soul tie!”

This is what pre-marital intimacy does! How does this happen? Spirituality And Reality Of Soul Ties

In marriage, it brings a bonding between the couple, because that is one of the purposes of intimacy. It cements the couple and joins them together at the highest possible level. Their souls become knitted together. They become one. They are glued together, and God says nobody should put them asunder.

But in intimacy outside marriage, there is also a bonding. It is just that it is another kind of bonding. It is an illegal bonding that gives access to the operation of demonic entities in one’s life. It is called soul ties.

This is what the scripture is talking about here:

“Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid. What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.”  (1Co 6:15-16, KJV)

Can you see that?

In pre-marital intimacy, the two people also become one body! They are not married, but there is an illegal bonding that gives access to legal operations of demonic activities because of disobedience.

Message Translation puts it this way:

“There’s more to sex than mere skin on skin. Sex is as much spiritual mystery as physical fact. As written in Scripture, “The two become one.””  (1Co 6:16, MSG)

So we see that this is spiritual. As a matter of fact, when you get involved with someone, you are actually having intimacy with everybody that person has had intimacy with! It is not uncommon to see a person suddenly stealing after being intimate with someone that steals!

There is nothing like casual sex. Nothing is casual about it, it is spiritual. There is nothing like a one-night stand. One night stand can lead to an eternity of woes and damnation.

There is nothing like a quickie outside marriage. One quickie and one’s destiny can be quickly set back by five years or more!

This is just the reality! Spirituality And Reality Of Soul Ties

How do you break soul ties from past sexual mistakes?

1. Ask God to forgive you for the mistake
2. Repent and make up your mind not to do it again.
3. Fast and pray and ask God to severe every bonding and soul ties
4. Disconnect from such a person. Stop all the calls and chats
5. Psalm 23 says, “He restoreth my soul!” Ask God to restore your soul
6. Stop living in sin. Jesus told that woman, “Go and sin no more!”
7. Patiently wait for the salvation of God in your relationship. Don’t be hasty. Cooperate with God’s plan.
8. Believe that God has a plan for you and that the plan will become a reality.
9. Keep reading and studying God’s word. Your mind will be renewed over time. For example, if you can follow this devotional consistently, your mind will be renewed in this area and you will get to know a lot of things and be prepared for marriage and as married. A lot of people have testified to that.

I pray for you this morning that God will grant you more understanding.

Right now, I break every form of soul ties that may exist in Jesus’ name. I destroy every plan of hell over your destiny, I declare you free from consequences of past mistakes and I ask in the name of Jesus and by the power of the Holy Spirit that your soul be restored now to God’s desire for you as an individual and in your relationship/marriage….in Jesus name! Spirituality And Reality Of Soul Ties

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This Is For Every Lady And Wife

This Is For Every Lady And Wife

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This Is For Every Lady And Wife. Yesterday, I started writing about how to know if he will not marry you. I will conclude today and I will be writing to singles and married.

4. Authority figures are involved

This Is For Every Lady And Wife

For wives, the greatest thing you can encourage your husband to do is to make sure he submits to at least one authority figure! Such a person will be a mutual mentor to both of you whom you can listen to. There will be days you will need somebody like that to speak into your lives. 

Singles, you can be very sure he will not marry you eventually if he avoids any authority figures in your plans. 

“Don’t let’s talk to our parents now.”

“I don’t want pastors to know for now.”

“Let’s keep this between the two of us only.”

A relationship like this that is isolated and exists only between the two of you is the easiest to end. This Is For Every Lady And Wife

5. Perpetual  life of unfaithfulness

Dear wives, do you suspect your spouse is cheating on you? Your response is important at this time.

Fighting, resorting to anger, retaliating by going out too, and such attitudes would not help. The best you can do is to have your spouse’s back which will begin with him being sincere! Sincerity shows a window for repentance. Denial is a bad sign. Talk. Communicate. Seek help.

“But pastor I don’t want to expose him?”

Well, he will soon expose you if you are not careful and everybody will blame you why you kept quiet and allowing fire to keep burning on the roof of your house!

For singles, you have discovered more than once that he is cheating on you. He keeps begging you that he won’t do it again. But you keep discovering from time to time.

The question is what are you doing with such a person? It is just a matter of time. If somebody is committed to you, he will focus on you.

Let’s even assume he gets married to you. He has been trained to be unfaithful, so you will need to live with that.

And then when you catch him again after marriage, he drops the bomb,

“But you know me before you got married to me! These girls are always disturbing me, what do you want me to do?”

He just told you that you will have to live with it.

May God bless our relationships and marriages. This Is For Every Lady And Wife

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How To Know If He Won’t Marry You

How To Know If He Won’t Marry You

Reading Time: 3 minutes

How To Know If He Won’t Marry You. Sally was downcast. Her whole world seemed to have fallen apart. In the past few hours, she has wept, lamented, and even considered suicide.

She could not believe what happened earlier in the day. Her husband-to-be, whom she loved unreservedly with all her heart, told her that he is no longer interested in marriage. 

No reasons, no explanation, and that was it.

For once, she regretted that she allowed him to have sex with her severally. She felt so used and dumped that she couldn’t even pray. She felt small to even approach God in the place of prayers.

She thought about the mockery that would attend to her from friends and foes. She really loved Ade, and there was nothing that suggested that he would make such a shocking decision.

As she sat before the mirror in her room, she suddenly hated the whole idea of marriage. She looked at herself and concluded, “Maybe I am not beautiful enough.”

She even hated God as well. Why would God allow such a thing to happen to her, of all people?

What Sally doesn’t know is that the tell-tale signs have always been there that something like that would happen, but she didn’t take heed.

The second thing she doesn’t know is that pre-marital sex brings confusion into a relationship and you lose your sense of judgment and discernment because of illegal bonding and soul ties.

What are some of the tell-tale signs that a man would dump you later? What are the subtle signs?

How To Know If He Won’t Marry You. I will be talking to singles and married.

1. He will keep on telling you what you want to hear in order to keep you as long as he wants

He has your password. He knows what to say to keep you begging when there are quarrels even when he is obviously in the wrong. He knows how to manipulate your emotions to his advantage. He will always tell you what you need to hear. In fact, he enjoys quarreling with you because he knows you will always come begging, and begging will always culminate in sex

Ladies that fall to this gimmick often have low self-esteem. The guy is logical and he can see that, so he starts feeding that self-esteem in order to keep getting sex

For married couples, you must keep keep telling each the truth, but in love! Be naked before each other and don’t entertain sinister thoughts about each other because of hurts

How To Know If He Won’t Marry You

2. He will evade discussions on wedding plans

He will try as much as possible to evade discussions on wedding plans. If you trouble him enough, he will give you a date that he would not be committed to.

One other way he does that is to get angry whenever you raise the issue of a wedding and settling down.

Since you love him and you don’t want him to get angry again, you too will avoid it as much as possible discussing such again.

It is a sign that anything can happen.

For married, do not evade meaningful discussions. This is the oil of your marital engine. Keep on talking and don’t increase your vulnerabilities with silence and withdrawal

How To Know If He Won’t Marry You

3. He will never make commitments

When you ask him directly about plans, he will tactically avoid your question with no direct answers. You will spend two hours talking and yet there is no headway. He knows what he is doing. His mind is not made up.

When a guy’s mind is not made up, he would not talk, or at most he would tell you lies.

And because you are in love, you so easily believe the lies. But if you think deeply, you will know that something is wrong somewhere.

Married couples, be committed to each other! Focus on one another as no other person exists. Please each other after pleasing God! May God bless your marriage!

I will conclude this tomorrow!


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Mercy Said No!

Mercy Said No!

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Mercy Said No! Listen to me, you are a candidate for God’s mercy, as long as you are God’s child.

Thank God for His mercies.

Do you remember that song by CeCe Winans? “Mercy said No”

The devil said you will not live long, but mercy said “No!”
The devil said you won’t get married, but mercy said “No!”
The devil said you won’t have children, but mercy said “No!”

As a young man preparing for marriage in the nineties, the devil said to me, that I would not be able to father children, but mercy said “No!” Today, God has given us three boys! Mercy Said No!

The devil told Joseph he won’t realize his dreams, but mercy said “No!

The devil wanted to snuff out the life of Jesus as a baby, but mercy said “No!”

At a time, it looked like it was over for me in ministry when I made a decision to quit pastoring a local assembly and obey God in starting an online ministry, and I thought it was over too, but mercy said “No!”

They said you will not graduate, but mercy said “No!”

They said you are good for nothing, but mercy said “No!

They said you are not fine, but mercy said “No!” You ended up getting a fine spouse!

They said you will be poor forever, but mercy said “No!”

The devil thought he would end your life because of that mistake you made, but mercy said “No!”

The prodigal son thought it was over for him as he ate the portion that belonged to the pigs, but mercy said “No!

They threw Apostle John into a drum of boiling oil, to fry him alive but mercy said “No!” He just wouldn’t die!

Listen to me, it is too late for the devil. Mercy covers you. Mercy is speaking for you before God. Jesus took His blood, the offering carried by the offerer, and sprinkled all of it on the mercy seat, just because of you.

Where are you this morning? Let the mercy of God locate you. Let that mercy speak for you!

I see God’s mercy bailing you out. Yes, you messed up quite alright, but His mercy will bring out a message from that mess.

Let hope come alive in your spirit this morning. Mercy is here! Mercy is for you and that mercy is holding you by the hand.

“ARISE [ from the depression and prostration in which circumstances have kept you—rise to a new life ]! Shine (be radiant with the glory of the Lord), for your light has come, and the glory of the Lord has risen upon you! [ Zec 8:23 ]”  (Isa 60:1, AMP)

Arise Now! It is not over. That jilting experience cannot define you. That abandonment does not qualify you, because of His Mercies! What if you lost all the money? Start over because of His Mercies!

Rise to a new life! I curse that spirit of depression and despondency right now that seeks to pull your head down! Rise up into the newness of God and Shine! 

Can you shout “Mercy?!” Mercy Said No!

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How To Stop Negative Thoughts

How To Stop Negative Thoughts

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How To Stop Negative Thoughts. How do you stop negative thoughts from ruining your relationship or marriage as single or married? Too many a relationship and marriages have been ruined by the kinds of thoughts that were entertained.

Thoughts are so powerful that they will eventually overwhelm your life and give your life direction.

Thoughts can be so healthy that they would drive sicknesses away. Thoughts can be so sickening to the point of physical paralysis.

How do you convince a man or woman to become a suicide bomber? They simply work on the thought realm. Once the person embraces the proposition in the thought realm, the rest is easy.

Why would a man jump into a river, commit suicide, and end it all? He has first done so in the thought realm, he only acted out what he had done.

Such is the power of your mind.

No wonder, the method through which God will change you daily into becoming who He wants you to be is through the renewal of your mind.

“And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.”  (Rom 12:2, KJV)

Transformation comes as a child of God as you read, study, and meditate on God’s word.

In the same way, the method that the devil would use if he wants to ruin a relationship or marriage is through thoughts. Precisely, negative thoughts and lies!

All the quarrels in a relationship and marriage first of all start in your thoughts. When you are negative-minded and full of doubts and mistrust, the relationship or marriage in question will be shaky.

When you are negative-minded, you will misinterpret every effort of your spouse. You will suspect every move and you will not give your spouse breathing space.

The next question is how do you stop negative thoughts?

Let’s take a look at the process.

“For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh: (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;”  (2Co 10:3-5, KJV)

1. “For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh
Negative thoughts are not just about temperaments. It is beyond that. Never ever say something like, “that is how I am, I always think negatively.” You must wake up to the reality that the spirit realm exists and negative forces would often try to influence your thinking culture.

2. For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strongholds. We cannot solve the problems of negative thoughts by some psychology or some set of therapies alone, we have to look up to God and make use of the weapons of our warfare. This is because you are dealing with strongholds in the mind. What are the weapons of our warfare? God’s word, praying in the spirit, the blood of Jesus, and so on.

3. Casting down imaginations
Negative imaginations will come. Negative suggestions will come, but we must cast them down.

These negative thoughts seek to ride you over, they want to get on top of your thought center, but what does the scripture say? You cast them down!

You deliberately refuse these lies of the devil that he is trying to suggest to your mind. You say with your mouth, “you negative thought, I cast you down in Jesus’ name!

It is not a once and for all exercise, because the devil will not relent in bringing those thoughts. So you keep at it. That is why it says, “Casting…”

4. And every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God
That is how you identify negative thoughts. Those thoughts try to exalt themselves against the knowledge of God’s word. They will challenge the truth of God’s word. For example, a thought that comes that, “There is nothing wrong in having pre-marital sex, everybody does it,” is trying to exalt itself against the knowledge of God’s word. You cast it down!

5. And bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ
Every thought that comes, you bring into captivity. How do you do that? It means to arrest. You arrest every thought and put it captive under God’s word. You use the word of God to judge it. The word will either condemn such words and sentence them into oblivion or acquit such thought as healthy.

Before you act out any thought. arrest it and bring it captive with God’s word. That way, you will deal with negative thoughts and dwell more on God’s word which will advance your relationship, marriage, and life.

I pray for you this morning, every power of negative thoughts in your life is hereby crushed in Jesus’ name.

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All Things Will Be Well

All Things Will Be Well

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All Things Will Be Well. A lady sat before me some three years ago. She told me how nobody ever asks her out. She is worried and thinks there is a curse somewhere. She felt it is abnormal that nobody ever asks her out. I looked at her and told her there was no curse anywhere. I further told her that she would marry a Pastor! She laughed in disbelief. Well today, she is married to a Pastor and with a baby as well.

Pastor, I don’t know what is going on in my life. I don’t understand again. Nothing seems to be working! You know what? God said I should tell you this morning, All things will be well!

2Ki 4:26 (KJV) Run now, I pray thee, to meet her, and say unto her, Is it well with thee? is it well with thy husband? is it well with the child? And she answered, It is well.

Learn to declare it is well regardless of what you are going through! All Things Will Be Well.

Psa 107:1-2 (KJV) O give thanks unto the LORD, for he is good: for his mercy endureth for ever. [2] Let the redeemed of the LORD say so, whom he hath redeemed from the hand of the enemy;

You’ve got to keep declaring that all is well. Let the redeemed of the Lord say so! You will eventually have what you say!

Never give in to negative words! Your words are powerful! Where you are today is a snapshot of your words and thoughts in the past!

Declare words into your future. Declare words into your relationship, wedding day, and or marriage!

Declare words over your spouse and children!

Declare words concerning the fruit of the womb and never give in to depression or despondency!

As you do so, you will see the travail of your hearts! I pray for you this morning, God will honor your words in Jesus’ name! All Things Will Be Well.

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Who’s The Lover God Wants For Me?

Who’s The Lover God Wants For Me?

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Who’s The Lover God Wants For Me? The referee wields a lot of power in the football game. He is the arbitrator and he decides what is clearly a goal or what is a foul.

In life and marriage, there are goals and there are fouls.

When you play to the rule of the game, you will score and your courtship or relationship will lead to marriage.

But when you contravene the rules of the game, it becomes a foul, and the game is affected.

In relationships, there are things God wants and there are things He doesn’t want. They are all clearly spelled out in the scriptures.

Pre-marital sex for example is a foul in the game. It affects the game, really. You lose God’s favour and support when you do what you are not supposed to do. One will just be dribbling up and down with no goal to show for it. 

In marriage, being unfaithful to your spouse for whatever reason is a foul. It will tamper with the marital covenant and the consequences are rife.

Thank God because He is a forgiving God and He will forgive and forget when you repent genuinely.

The Bible talks about umpire or referee. Take a look.

“And let the peace (soul harmony which comes) from Christ rule (act as umpire continually) in your hearts [ deciding and settling with finality all questions that arise in your minds, in that peaceful state ] to which as [ members of Christ’s ] one body you were also called [ to live ]. And be thankful (appreciative), [ giving praise to God always ].”  (Col 3:15, AMP)

Who’s The Lover God Wants For Me? Do you have questions arising about who to marry? Are you unsure whether he is the one or whether she is the right person?

Do you have anxieties about what to do as a married man or woman or what career path to follow?

The scripture says that there is something that can settle with all finality and tell you exactly what to do.

This is what is called the peace of God. 

The presence of this peace tells you that you are taking the right decision.

The absence of this peace tells you that you are about taking a wrong decision or you are already in the wrong decision.

Who’s The Lover God Wants For Me? What are the feelings you have when there is peace of God about a decision?

1. You will have a feeling of “all is well.”
2. You will have a deep sense of wholeness and assurance that God is with you.
3. You will have an unexplainable calmness that you are taking the right decision

Why do I say unexplainable?

Here it is:

“And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”  (Php 4:7, KJV)

It passes all understanding. It cannot be logically decoded, in fact, it oftentimes defies logic.

It may be difficult to explain, but you will know it is there.

That is what happens when you don’t like the financial status of a loved one, yet you feel the peace of God that all will be well.

Who’s The Lover God Wants For Me? The next question is what feelings do you have when the peace of God is not there?

1. You will have a feeling of “all is not well.”
2. You will have a red card issued in your heart just like the referee issues a red card in a match.
3. You will have unexplainable fear about your decision.
4. Each time you think about the decision, you will have an uneasy feeling.

This is like the feeling you have when all seems set in terms of finances, and the job security of the person you are considering, and yet, this fear that something is wrong deep in your belly exists.

Never ever ignore this feeling. Never ignore the referee! 

You see, as a child of God, He doesn’t want evil to befall you, so He will warn you before taking a decision that would not end well. 

The peace of God within you shows you His will for you. He leads you into His will by His peace.

What happens when you can’t sense anything or when emotions have taken over and you cannot hear God?

You will need to separate yourself in the place of prayer with fasting and then, you will surely hear God. You will also need to fill yourself with God’s word regularly.

If you are already married, and you feel you are outside of God’s will, the immediate thing to do is not to walk away from your marriage but to commit it into God’s hands for His intervention.

Trust me, God answers prayers, when you believe.

I pray that God will give us more understanding on this subject. Who’s The Lover God Wants For Me?

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God’s Leading And Who To Marry

God’s Leading And Who To Marry

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God’s Leading And Who To Marry. Sally wanted what would prevent her from falling in love with the wrong person and wasting her time on what is not going to work. She wanted to save her emotions from roller-coaster rides that lead nowhere. She doesn’t want to spend so much time and resources with George for years and then discovers she’s been hobnobbing with the wrong person. 

Note that the wrong guy or lady is not always a bad person. Someone can be so cool, gentle, born again and spirit filled and yet not meant for you. Mr. Good is not always Mr.Right, but Mr. Bad would never be Mr.Right.

So, the question of praying over an unbeliever is out of it, the scripture is clear on that.

Why should I expect to be led before deciding on my choice of who to marry? God’s Leading And Who To Marry

He promised to lead us! 

For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God. (Romans 8:14 KJV)

You know you are a son or a daughter of God because you are led.

You know you have a relationship with God when He leads you.

The next question is how does God lead?

If I can know how God leads, then I will be able to follow Him. Wouldn’t it be nice to know the wrong man or the wrong lady right away?

What is God’s leading as it relates to relationships and marriage?

God can lead you into a relationship without hearing a single voice or seeing any vision!

The way you will be led is the same way you know you are a child of God!

How are you sure you are born again? How do you know Jesus Christ really came and died for you? How do you know there is a heaven and God is there and Jesus is seated with Him? Have you been there? Did you see Him? You didn’t see Him and meet Him one on one! But the reality of His existence is so deep within you that nobody can talk you out of it. How did you become so sure? It is so simple. The Spirit of God bears witness with your spirit that there is God. It is what is referred to as an inner witness.

Because you simply know within yourself that God is. You may not be able to prove it, but you just know in your ‘knower’ that God exists. You know in your ‘knower’ that Jesus died for your sins. You were not there in Golgotha with him physically, but you just know it happened deep within you.

That is what is referred to as an ‘Inner witness.’

It is an unexplainable knowing, a deep-seated assurance that resides within you!

Don’t let the devil come to you and tell you that the reason you have a troubled marriage is that you didn’t have any dreams or hear a voice!

Even if you have a hundred dreams, you are not supposed to take an action without that inner witness and God’s leading! You see, the devil can manipulate your dreams if you are not grounded, but He cannot manipulate your inner witness. It is either you have peace or you don’t have it about a decision.

This peace of God is what you have when you are being led by God and it is His will on a particular decision. When this peace is not there, then God is not leading you!

This is why it is important to seek God’s leading about a guy or lady before emotions get involved. God’s Leading And Who To Marry

See it described in the scripture

And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:7 KJV)

I like it, particularly in the Amplified version

And God’s peace [shall be yours, that tranquil state of a soul assured of its salvation through Christ, and so fearing nothing from God and being content with its earthly lot of whatever sort that is, that peace] which transcends all understanding shall garrison and mount guard over your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

Did you see that? That peace of God, that transcends every understanding shall garrison and mount guard over your hearts and minds. Garrison! Mount guard! Those are military terms. That is exactly what happens when you allow the peace of God and you are led by Him. His leading is a like a soldier protecting you. Do you know why? God will never lead you wrong! Glory to God! He will not lead you into misery! Thank God for His leadership.

Let’s see one more scripture that describes this peace as I round up.

“And let the peace (soul harmony which comes) from Christ rule (act as umpire continually) in your hearts [ deciding and settling with finality all questions that arise in your minds, in that peaceful state ] to which as [ members of Christ’s ] one body you were also called [ to live ]. And be thankful (appreciative), [ giving praise to God always ].”  (Col 3:15, AMP)

Did you see that? That peace acts as an umpire or a referee in your heart and decides or settles with all finality every question by reason of that peaceful state!

When peace is not there, and you have unexplainable fear, and red light in your heart, you should not go ahead even when everything looks perfect physically!

When everything looks like somehow in the physical, and yet you have peace, you have this feeling that all is well, that you are in His plan, that is a green light that God is leading you.

What if your emotions are already involved and you are unsure? Press the Pause button! Go into the place of prayer, fast, and pray in the spirit for a long time until your spirit can push emotions down and then pick a signal from God on what to do!

God is the one that can re-order our steps when we have made mistakes; He is the one that will lead us into our wealthy place. Stay with God and you will never regret it. Don’t be led by your feelings which can be fickle, be led by the Holy Spirit, and you will be protected! God’s Leading And Who To Marry

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