The Bible instructs us to judge ourselves so that we are not judged. In other words, judge yourself always!
According to the Bible,
1Co 11:31 For if we would judge ourselves, we should not be judged.
So, in a practical sense, let us utilize yardsticks to evaluate ourselves.
1. How has my prayer and devotional life been?
This, to a considerable measure, decides your connection with God. Have you remained consistent? If you haven’t already, you should make new promises to do so.
If you want your relationship with your lover to be successful, you must first fall in love with God! That’s a lot of wisdom for you!
The Judge and The Judged Of Your Love Life
2. Have I been walking in love?
You are a person. You’ve got toes. There are other people. They have unintentionally stepped on your lovely toes. However, you must forgive and go on.
Do you have somebody on your unforgiving list? You must let go. Don’t allow someone to stymie your spiritual development, since an unforgiving attitude will.
What fresh things have they done for you? How much pain have they inflicted on you that Jesus did not experience? Do you realize the devil fights those he fears? Don’t you realize it’s your fantastic future that’s at stake? What if your family threw you into the pit? What if your family led you to become a houseboy/housegirl? Joseph went through all that!
Forgive and let go, my dear. You will have better days ahead of you. Refuse to be sour. If you do not forgive, your heavenly Father will not forgive you, according to Jesus.
The Judge and The Judged Of Your Love Life
3. Have I been compromising?
You occasionally lose your balance. As long as it is a mistake, God makes allowances. Perpetual sin will destroy you. If it was only a mistake, you should seek God for forgiveness and move on.
If you find yourself repeating the same sin over and over, it’s time to put a stop to it. You can’t go on like this. In the name of the Lord, I implore you to make a decision to stop today! Divorce that life on iniquity, disconnect from that bond of iniquity, and decide to live for God!
God bless you!
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He does not call the qualified. I was a naive nineteen-year-old when God called me, and I did nothing about it until a few years later when I was graduating from high school. Is God asking you to perform anything that appears to be beyond your abilities? That is how it is!
2. God will speak with you in a pattern.
Study that pattern and pay attention to what He says. God speaks in snippets, as much as you can handle at one moment. As a result, always document.
3. Do not be in a hurry.
When God speaks to you, you are burdened. There is a burden of preparation and a burden of performance. When you try to perform when you should be preparing, you may fail.
4. Be calm when leaving a ministry or church, regardless of how you believe you have been treated.
Be prudent. David never retaliated. He was knowledgeable in his behavior. Do not backbite or gossip. Maintain your cleanliness.
Called Or Sense of Calling?
5. It is folly for you to go up against a man of God who has multiple branches or a stronger ministerial standing than you do.
His many branches can absorb all the conflict for a while, but your new work may not.
6. What do you do when you are enraged by some people in the ministry?
The most stupid thing you can do is start gossiping and spreading your pain. That is what your flesh desires, but it is not what the scripture recommends.
7. So, what are you going to do?
You pray for that individual or people in the Holy Spirit. Intercede on their behalf and sincerely ask God to bless them. The bitterness will fade, and the devil’s plan will fail.
8. Never go anywhere without a spiritual covering.
It’s like a baby who wants to go out without his or her birth parents. It is virtually impossible.
Called Or Sense of Calling?
9. Israel is divided into twelve tribes.
There are tribes in ministry, but no tribalism. Find your tribe or spiritual ancestry since that is where your legacy resides. You will always thrive when you are in the proper company. You can’t be friends with everyone. Do not let your attention wander.
10. Avoid spending time with persons who oppose your calling.
Words are like spirits. There are tongue slanderers. Be an avid reader. Be adaptable while being steadfast.
May God give you additional insight.
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God’s word is potent. Keep nourishing your inner man with, books, messages, and church sermons. Your life’s success depends on studying God’s word regularly.
And don’t for a minute let this Book of The Revelation be out of mind. Ponder and meditate on it day and night, making sure you practice everything written in it. Then you’ll get where you’re going; then you’ll succeed. (Joshua 1:8 Message)
God’s word can solve some of your frustrations as singles. Do you realize that studying God’s word can solve some of your biggest questions?
Do you know that God’s word can unravel your deepest mysteries? Do you know God’s word may reveal hidden things that were inconceivable?
All things were made by him; and without him was not any thing made that was made. (John 1:3 KJV)
God’s word will do these in your relationships and Marriage.
The Word In Your Marriage
1. It will erase your past!
The anointed word of God will erase your past! Jesus sacrificed himself for you, which is nearly inconceivable.
Never let the past hold you hostage. You’re free. Today, your past mistakes cannot hold you down!
2. It will give you hope.
After forgiving and forgetting, God’s word will offer you hope. Hope is essential to receiving God’s fullness. Suddenly, hope arises in your heart!
The Word In Your Marriage
3. God’s word will instill victory.
God’s message inspires faith. Faith grows as you hear and read God’s word. Why faith? Faith wins in God!
For whatsoever is born of God overcometh the world:and this is the victory that overcometh the world, even our faith. (1 John 5:4 KJV)
See Message Translation:
Every God–begotten person conquers the world’s ways. The conquering power that brings the world to its knees is our faith. (1 John 5:4 Message)
See that? God’s word-based faith can topple the world and its institutions! Praise God!
4. God’s word will illuminate your path
Direction can be rigorous. The good life is about good judgments. Relying on God to choose a spouse overcomes your human imperfections in marriage because an assurance that God is involved will make forgiveness easy.
5. The Bible will stabilize your marriage.
Embracing God’s word will help you identify good and bad people. Relationships require steadiness. Marriages need God’s help.
You need divine knowledge to avoid divorce and separation.
And wisdom and knowledge shall be the stability of thy times, and strength of salvation: the fear of the Lord is his treasure. (Isaiah 33:6 KJV)
In Jesus’ name, you’ll succeed.
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May God grant you honor on your wedding day! May honor attend to you throughout your marriage.
So, what’s the deal with honor?
Whatever it is, doesn’t it sound good?
Let’s look at the Bible.
1Sa 2:30b (KJV) but now the LORD saith, Be it far from me; for them that honour me I will honour, and they that despise me shall be lightly esteemed.
The scripture is unequivocal in this regard.
God said, “Honor me, and I will honor you; despise me, and I will lightly regard you.”
Let’s look at another translation for clarity.
1Sa 2:30b (GW) “…I will honor those who honor me, and those who despise me will be considered insignificant.
It indicates that if you do not honor God, you will be deemed insignificant!
That sounds like “ouch!”
The best bet is to just decide to honor God.
So, how do you honor God in your relationship?
Here is one way to do that.
Honour Him in your devotion.
Prioritizing God honors God in your devotion. Do not be careless with your devotion to God. On a daily basis, honor Him in your prayer periods. The key to success is consistency.
Pro 8:17 (KJV) I love them that love me; and those that seek me early shall find me.
Let us now look to the Passion Translation:
Pro 8:17 (TPT) I will show my love to those who passionately love me. For they will search and search continually until they find me.
As you pursue God in your devotion on a daily basis, as The Passion translation states, God will honor you in return.
How do I know?
His word is unbreakable!
I pray for you this morning, that God will honor you. In Jesus’ name, God will see you as significant.
As you honour Him, God will honor you back on your wedding day and throughout your marriage!
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Being Still In A Marriage Love is a wonderful thing when two hearts beat in unison. It is even more powerful when the couple has learnt how to be still!
I’ll be writing about being still today. If you wish to experience God’s majesty and greatness, you must learn to be still. Not necessarily in terms of inaction, but of being silent and admitting God’s lordship. Recognizing that He is Lord of all or Lord of none, and giving Him the proper place He deserves.
The Bible says in Psalm 46:10 KJV, Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth.’
I really like the Passion translation (TPT). It says, ‘Surrender your anxiety! Be silent and stop your striving and you will see that I am God. I am the God above all the nations, and I will be exalted throughout the whole earth.’
Being Still In A Marriage
If you want to see and experience God in your marriage, you must let go of your worries and efforts and be calm. I’m not sure what the problem is in your marriage. You’ve been striving and worrying for far too long. You cannot resolve the challenges in your marriage on your own.
Be still today, recognize, and understand that God is Lord. How do you become still?
Through worship and adoration With thankfulness and a glad heart Through the study of the Bible and meditation Declaring the word or making a confession By walking in the spirit. By following His directions.
Being Still In A Marriage
You can start accepting Him as Lord today in your finances, health, misunderstandings with your spouse, every thorny issue with your husband, in-law, children, and so on.
There is a time and season for things to break forth in the spirit realm. When the breakthrough happens in the spirit realm then there will a breakthrough on the earth.
I pray to God to provide us with the necessary strength. In Jesus’ name, God bless your marriage.
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You don’t know who God is or what love is unless you have a relationship with Him.
You are unable to love appropriately without God. You will simply lack the ability.
Be cautious of traveling down to meet that individual you hardly know in the name of desperation. It could result in a story of regrets.
Be wary of your ex who appears out of nowhere and requests a time-out. It’s possible that your testimony will be thrown out!
Be wary of the lady you asked out and who has never cooperated since, but now appears in your crib for free.
Sometimes nemesis appears dressed as favour.
How Do You Find Your Soul Mate?
1. The Timing Principle Ecc 3:1 (KJV)
There is a season for everything and a time for everything under heaven:
This signifies that there is a time to start dating.
This also implies that you cannot begin a relationship whenever you desire.
Ecc 3:1 (GNB) Everything that happens in this world happens at the time God chooses.
Finding The Love Of Your Life
God has set out a moment for you. This is what matters.
The idea is that knowing God comes first, and He will then disclose His timeline for your life to you.
God has predetermined your wedding date! Stop wasting time on dating websites; the most important thing is to get to know God!
Then God will reveal His time design for your life.
A fantastic chance can be wasted if your timing is off.
Ecc 3:1 (MSG) There’s an opportune time to do things, a right time for everything on the earth:
Finding The Love Of Your Life
There will come a moment when you will marry. Don’t overlook that moment because amazing opportunities are embedded in God’s timing for your life.
Looking back on how I met my wife, God truly chose a time for me to ask her out because he talked to me about when I should ask her out. God even told me just when I should marry.
I recall God instructing me to marry before the millennium, therefore our wedding took place in November 1999.
And did God come through for us? Massively!
Know God first, singles. God will then speak to you and show you His plans for your life.
And, as you can see, His voice contains the guidance you require right now!
And after the wedding, keep asking God for guidance on every step and decision you will take. That is where success is!
I pray to God to give you more understanding!
We will resume tomorrow.
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There is a stirring in my heart to see couples who are unwaveringly loyal and committed to each other. When the covenant of marriage is maximized, this is the true meaning of marriage. When two hearts beat in unison.
When partners play games with each other, the power of the marriage relationship is diminished. Couples are to be open, honest, and transparent with one another.
When they are not completely focused on one other and are not on the same page, their strength cannot be amplified.
The Bible says in Ecclesiastic 4:9 (ERV) Two people are better than one. When two people work together, they get more work done.
The KJV translation Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.
God loves oneness. His presence, power, and majesty will be released. God desires that the power of the godhead be mirrored in marriages. He desires that all marriages reflect His glory.
The Godhead are three separate personalities, but they function in flawless harmony. The Godhead is so in sync that they cannot be divided. They think and act in unison.
“The Father commands it, the Son performs it, and the Holy Spirit seals it,” someone says brilliantly.
The marriage covenant is the same way.
The Bible says in Matthew 19:6: ‘So they are no longer two, but one. God has joined them together, so no one should separate them.”
Nothing can separate a pair who are inseparable. We must strive and pray to be faithful to our marriage. That is all we have been asked to do.
Try to stay on the same page as your spouse. Be committed. Until death do us part. It’s a long-term and lifetime commitment.
It’s a heart connection, a knitted heart. Let go of all bitterness. Allow every offense to pass. If you have beef with your spouse, you cannot be one. You cannot be one if you harbor resentment toward your partner. You must purify your hearts and your thoughts towards your spouse. That togetherness MUST be maintained.
Pray that God may knit your heart together with that of your spouse. God bless our union.
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As people discover new techniques and methods of investing, particularly in the business world, hundreds of people have literarily become millionaires and billionaires through large profits from investment over the centuries and decades.
A solid investment can turn one’s financial life around, which can affect practically every other aspect of life. A bad investment, on the other hand, can leave you destitute and full of regrets that you may not be able to recover from for the rest of your life.
The key is to know what investments to make, to have the proper information, and to be brave enough to take the move at the right time and invest.
How To Invest In Your Marriage
Similarly, if we spend wisely in our marriage, gathering the necessary information, we will get enormous rewards.
One good transaction in our marriage, and we are receiving the benefits of investment for the rest of our lives, as well as the lives of our children and their children.
Here are some significant investments you can make in your marriage.
It should be noted that investing in one component of your marriage does not ensure gains in other areas.
1. Make an investment of your time
Life’s currency is time. Take care of your marriage. Never ignore your marriage. From a day old marriage to a fifty-year-long marriage, all marriages require time commitment.
Spend time studying and getting to know your spouse. Invest your marriage, and a significant reward will be paid to you. Invest in your marriage for quality rather than quantity.
2. Put your prayers to work
Prayers are about connecting with Divinity and seeking the divine’s assistance in the humane. Every marriage necessitates the investment of prayers. Marriages will always require prayers at various phases. We will all require prayer at some point in our lives.
How To Invest In Your Marriage
3. Understanding
Marriages work because both partners recognize that marriage can be created in heaven but must be lived on Earth. There should be a fundamental understanding of marriage as a covenant and the covenant duties.
4. Belief in God’s Word.
To be successful in everything, especially our lives and marriages, we must make a significant investment in God’s word. (Josh 1:8). The road map to success is provided through God’s word.
In Jesus’ name, may God strengthen us to do His will.
God bless you and your marriage.
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I’m sure you’ve seen the phrase where the mind goes and the man follows before. You’ve probably heard it and similar expressions a lot.
These are excellent phrases. We’re going to look at how crucial it is to gird your mental loins. How to accept responsibility and regain control of your mind.
Our scripture will be taken from
I kg 18:46 KJV And the hand of the Lord was on Elijah; and he girded up his loins, and ran before Ahab to the entrance of Jezreel.
Girding Your Mind’s Loins in Marriage
God was preparing to grant Elijah incredible speed, but he had to gird his loins.
It was something the Holy Spirit would not do on his behalf. You must accept responsibility for your own thoughts.
Negative thoughts can obstruct God’s operation in your life and marriage.
Girding your loins, as Elijah did, meant tying up all the loose ends of his garment so he could run freely with nothing impeding his movement.
We, too, should gird our loins like Elijah. Don’t just let any notions into your mind. You may not be able to stop the thoughts from entering your head, but you should not welcome them. You have a choice; make good use of it.
Make decisions that will help you progress.
Examine every thought. The Bible instructed us on what thoughts we should tolerate in our minds.
Girding Your Mind’s Loins in Marriage
Phil 4:8 KJV Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.
Any idea that contradicts anything on this list should be destroyed, dragged down, or cast down.
2Cor 10:4 (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;) Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ.
You cannot have impure thoughts about your spouse and expect God’s blessing on your marriage.
You can’t be full of sexual thoughts and expect to come up with novel ideas.
Allow God’s thoughts to take over your mind.
In Jesus’ name, I pray that the Holy Spirit will give us strength, and that we will use the strength already accessible in the Holy Spirit to gird our minds.
God bless our union.
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What do you mean, Pastor? I received a phone call from a lady a few years ago. On the phone, she began to bemoan God’s failure to answer her prayers for a suitor and marriage. She went on and on about how she sought God’s face but received no response. She stated that she had been on a seven-day fast even as we spoke, with no success.
Then she threw in a sentence that exposed her folly and ignorance. “Even this man I’m with now hasn’t said anything about marriage!” she exclaimed.
“Which man?” I inquired, curious. “I’m in his house now, and he’s just sleeping with me; he hasn’t said anything about the wedding!” she explained.
Wow! She is fasting and praying, and yet she is sleeping with a married man! God will not be mocked! That is nothing but adultery! God frowns upon it!
Don’t Frolic With Married Folks
God expects you to dedicate your life to Him. You can’t locate the correct person if you’ve already found the wrong one. You cannot consistently pray for God’s guidance while engaging in sexual sin.
Rom 6:14 (KJV) For sin shall not have dominion over you: for ye are not under the law, but under grace.
See it in another way:
Rom 6:14 (TPT) Remember this: sin will not conquer you, for God already has! You are not governed by law but governed by the reign of the grace of God.
Consider how the Good News Bible puts it:
Rom 6:14 (GNB) Sin must not be your master; for you do not live under law but under God’s grace.
Let me simply mention two things concerning sexual offenses, particularly adultery.
Don’t Frolic With Married Folks
An adulterous affair is a form of cheating on your destiny.
Why is this the case? It is a clear breach of God’s values, and as a result, you do not have God’s backing and favor in your life. It’s not worthwhile. Why would you deprive another person of something that is truly theirs while hoping for the best for yourself?
Adultery is a bad idea.
That was said by God, not me. I’m simply repeating what God stated.
But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul. (Proverbs 6:32 KJV)
This is also true for the lady in question. Now look at that in Message translation because the KJV appears to be really nice there.
Adultery is a brainless act, soul–destroying, self–destructive; (Proverbs 6:32 Message)
Brainless! That is not good, but it is the truth!
The passage is saying that if we can think profoundly, we would not engage in adultery for everything in this world.
We can see the connotation of adultery right there.
Expect a bloody nose, a black eye, and a reputation ruined for good. For jealousy detonates rage in a cheated husband; wild for revenge, he won’t make allowances (Proverbs 6:33-34 Message)
Don’t Frolic With Married Folks
The next time someone tries to convince you into making a compromise, tell them that’s a bad idea.
As a single, avoid overly pleasant married folks because there is usually an objective behind all the presents you are given. Intention manifests and becomes a reality through time.
God bless you.
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It is acceptable to communicate your feelings for your fiancée, but you must not allow verbal expression to escalate into romantic antic. You certainly understand what I mean! There is a distinction to be made between expressing love and expressing lust. The former leads to regret and sorrow, whereas the latter leads to healthy partnerships.
For couples, keep expressing love to one another, and don’t let it be during bedroom affairs alone!
Take Note of These Facts, Singles
2. In terms of Beauty
Ladies who are not yet in a relationship should recognize that they will not appear attractive to everyone.
If someone thinks you’re ugly, that’s their view. You will be stunning to your spouse! According to the Bible, you are ‘fearfully’ and ‘wonderfully’ constructed. So it is acceptable to feel ‘fearful’ to some people. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
When your spouse sees you, you will be the most beautiful lady on the planet. So don’t stress yourself out unnecessarily.
Take Note of These Facts, Singles
3. Having a Sleepover
Things your parents should not hear and your preacher should not know are primarily inappropriate. It is not the time to spend the night at your fiance’s house cooking and washing singlets and boxers! This is not the goal of courtship. Every sexual compromise leads to confusion of the soul!
Take Note of These Facts, Singles
4. Concerning Group Prayer
Avoid praying together in the middle of the night. Don’t put yourself in a trap. You’re praying together in his room at the evening, and the power goes out, and you’re still looking for a touch light? That is the moment to flee for your life.
It’s not so much that he’s a Christian or a prayer leader as he’s a guy and a human being.
All those prayers you say while wearing something seductive are slowly killing the guy. His eyes are red, his tongues are shifting, and you believe that is because of the anointing? No way, the man is on fire! And the bible states that you cannot carry fire in your bosom without being burned.
For couples, do not stop praying together, especially in the night! Never stop praying!
Hello and good morning!
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Everyone experiences depression, moodiness, or despair from time to time. Life, as they say, happens, and singles in courtship and couples are not immune.
In most cases, your partner will not be able to solve your mood swings or sadness, but having someone on whose shoulders you can cry can be quite beneficial.
Furthermore, depending on how long you’ve been married, your spouse may lack the appropriate words or acts to make you feel better.
Being patient with your partner will help here. He or she may be coping with troubles of their own and is simply attempting to be strong for you.
It is impossible to overstate the importance of having a personal relationship with the person of the Holy Spirit. He is the greatest source of solace for our souls. He is our fortified. Our helper and comforter.
Job told his friends:
Job 16:2 (KJV) [2] I have heard many such things: miserable comforters are ye all.
The Holy Spirit is the only true comforter!
He provides and brings us joy, gladness, and help.
However, as a pair, we must continue to support one another.
Here are two good strategies to encourage your spouse during difficult times.
Be An Encouragement To Your Lover
1. Communicate with the Holy Spirit.
It is extremely beneficial to have daily communication with the person of the Holy Spirit. Before you lash out at your spouse for acting in particular ways or conclude that he or she is uncooperative, take the situation to God.
Oh, the things we frequently forego.
Oh, what unnecessary suffering we endure because we do not bring all to God in prayer.
Be An Encouragement To Your Lover
2. Express genuine affection to your spouse
A deep and sincere love for your spouse is one method you might give your spouse in such circumstances. Feel compassion for him or her.
Love, as they say, is an action word.
Show it, not just say it.
God bless our marriages.
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When you take stock of your life, you will see some ups and downs. You will become aware of several difficulties that almost pushed you or your relationship and marriage off balance.
You may have faced health or financial difficulties, emotional difficulties, feelings of neglect and uncared for, and so on.
As we move on this year, whatever has happened in the previous months should not be utilized to predict what will happen in the following month.
Take a look at what God says.
Psa 81:13-14 KJV (13) Oh that my people had hearkened unto me, and Israel had walked in my ways! (14) I should soon have subdued their enemies, and turned my hand against their adversaries.
Follow The Directions On The Map
In the preceding verse, Jesus just asks for two things from you.
to pay attention to him;
to walk in his ways
Let us consider another translation:
Psa 81:13-14 MSG (13) “Oh, dear people, will you listen to me now? Israel, will you follow my map? (14) I’ll make short work of your enemies; give your foes the back of my hand.
Follow The Directions On The Map
Will you stick to the plan? You’ve always done things your way, and all you’ve gotten is grief and heartache.
Make the decision to follow God. Get rid of your own agenda. Allow God to guide your life, relationship and or marriage!
Some of the things God will advise you to do may seem counterintuitive, but they will shape your future!
Isn’t it wise to follow the one who sees today and knows what will happen tomorrow? Isn’t it good to follow the one who has given hundreds of Saints and Patriarchs a map over the previous 6000 years?
I believe this is an excellent moment to make that decision. Make the decision to do things God’s way.
I pray for you that God would give you inner strength today and always. God will honor you as you choose to honor Him in your life and relationships.
Have a fantastic week!
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I call these mistakes foolish errors because we appear to want a better end, but our actions and judgments, whether good or poor, decide our fate.
Every time, universal law applies. Whether we are aware of it or not.
Seedtime and harvest, cold and heat, will continue as long as the earth exists.
Gen 8:22 As long as the earth continues, there will always be a time for planting and a time for harvest. There will always be cold and hot, summer and winter, day and night on earth.”
This rule applies to everyone. This scripture’s seed symbolizes everything and anything. Every action we take is a seed. This is a harsh reality that must be endured. But we must swallow it since it is the truth that will set us free.
If we understand that every action we take is a seed, we will be more careful not to plant the incorrect seeds in our marriage.
Five Mistakes Men Make in Marriage
1. Failure to recognize the power of unity
Because the husband is the head of the marriage, he is responsible for the family’s orientation.
A husband and wife walking and working together as one have tremendous power. Protect your unity!
2. The blunder of not loving your wife.
Every woman requires wings in order to fly. Every husband should let his wife fly by loving her. You create an environment in which your wife can thrive.
All husbands are commanded by the Bible to love their spouses. It is their obligation to love their wives as Christ loves the church.
1 Pet 3:7 In the same way, you husbands should live with your wives in an understanding way, since they are weaker than you. You should show them respect, because God gives them the same blessing he gives you—the grace of true life. Do this so that nothing will stop your prayers from being heard.
Five Mistakes Men Make in Marriage
3. Making the dumb mistake of engaging in any type of immorality or adultery.
Immorality and adultery are among the destroyers of the marriage covenant. It has the power to bring every marriage to its knees, no matter how high it has risen.
According to Proverbs, it is a dumb sin. It makes no sense because it is preventable and avoidable.
That is why the bible instructs men to drink from their own cistern. Don’t fall for the strange woman’s charm, and don’t let her eyelashes trap you.
In any adulterous episode, the house has been destroyed, and the children have been exposed. It’s pointless.
4. The blunder of failing to be honest, open, and straightforward with your wife.
There is a local adage that claims the dead body does not hide from the one who will bury it.
Your covenant partner is your wife. I’m sure some wives don’t help situations either. They break confidence, cheat, and commit other heinous crimes. But, all else being equal, the spouse should be aware that he is expected to be completely honest.
Five Mistakes Men Make in Marriage
5. Making the blunder of oppressing your wife.
I am against the oppression of spouses and women.
Your wife was not given to you in order for you to oppress her. She should not be trampled beneath your feet. God created a lady from a rib taken from the husband’s side. God designed her to fulfill your most pressing need. She plays an important role in your life.
She is supposed to be your assistant. Most husbands have no financial, spiritual, emotional, or physical support. When you oppress your wife, she is unable to carry out her duties as a helpmeet. Every husband requires assistance. Your wife can provide the assistance you require.
If you treat her with decency and honor, she will protect you and your destiny will be safeguarded.
She will be the best wife, function in her calling, and fulfill destiny if you love her, adore her, honor her, appreciate her, and you are sensitive to her.
God bless you and your marriage.
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Here are some errors to correct as you prepare for marriage.
1. My money is mine.
This is a mindset you must abandon as you approach marriage. You, as a person, no longer have absolute control over how your money is spent. It is now a shared decision.
You must be frugal with your money as a wife or future wife. You can no longer buy everything that catches your fancy. You must first inform your partner before giving gifts or making major financial decisions.
The same is true for the husband. You may wind up in financial trouble if you are reckless with your expenditures. It is no longer just you, you now have a family to cater for.
Correct These Errors Before Wedding
You must actively participate in covenant principles such as tithing and giving to enjoy the fullness of God’s blessing over your finances.
Correct These Errors Before Wedding
2. Marriage is like a Restaurant
Many people have the erroneous belief that marriage is something that can be entered like a store, boutique, or restaurant.
The food in a restaurant is already prepared and ready to be served. People are waiting for you. If the dish does not taste good, you may complain or place a different order. You owe no one a compliment if the dish is nicely prepared. After all, that is why they exist.
You get up and depart once the meal is finished. You don’t even pack your plates. You are unconcerned about the dishes or anything else.
Marriage is more like a garden in which you only reap what you sow.
You can’t expect to harvest roses if you didn’t plant them. So it would be best if you were deliberate about not planting thorns through offenses, bitterness, and unnecessary tantrums.
When both partners are committed to making the marriage succeed, it becomes enviable.
May God grant us a deeper understanding.
I’ll stop here this morning!
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Here are a few reasons why you should not leave your marital bed.
Son 2:15 Take us the foxes, the little foxes, that spoil the vines: for our vines have tender grapes.
I want us to take note of three points from the preceding scripture.
1. Take these little foxes.
2. The foxes are little, insignificant issues.
3. Our vines, (marriage) have tender grapes.
Marriage has the ability to produce tremendous results when we operate it with biblical principles.
I want to emphasize that godly ideals are not always easy.
Why You Shouldn’t Leave Your Matrimonial Bed
The following are some legitimate reasons why either the wife or husband would leave their marital bed:
1. My spouse snores and sleeps restlessly. I can’t function without a decent night’s sleep.
2. My wife has just put to bed. She requires ample space to nurse our child.
3. Because I require privacy, let us have separate rooms.
4. I need to teach my wife or spouse a lesson because we haven’t spoken in a long time.
5. My wife is having her monthly period right now. I’ll return when she’s finished.
God’s principles, on the other hand, demolish all forms of this logic.
Why You Shouldn’t Leave Your Matrimonial Bed
You become one flesh after marriage. Leaving your “flesh” in one room is not an option. Accept the person you married, since love is patient.
Do not leave your wife alone to raise your baby. Keep an eye on her, especially at night.
You will not have any privacy if you leave your spouse in one room and go to another. Such actions as a matter of fact leave doors for the devil to invade your so-called privacy.
You deal with your problems by talking about them. Separate quarters will only cause you to drift apart.
Her monthly period is natural. You were aware of this before marrying her, so stick with her. If you can’t stay with her for 5 days in a month, you won’t be able to stay with her for the rest of your life.
God bless you and your marriage.
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Something is certainly wrong with Vivian. She’s not getting younger. Her biological clock seemed to be not only ticking but also sprinting. She wished she could find a pause button.
The story has been told numerous times. She has seen her relationships crumble in front of her eyes like a pack of cards. Nothing appears to work around her.
The tale has always been the same: she will start a relationship today and everything will appear to be normal, then everything will come crumbling down around her. Then it happens again and over again.
She now goes into a new relationship with prayers, not for guidance, but for the relationship not to fail
How do you get out of this mess as a God’s child?
Giving up all offenses
Yes, as easy as it may appear, this is the key to your success. Get rid of all forms of resentment and offense. Frolicking with bitterness is an intentional attempt to prevent anything pleasant from coming your way.
Heb 12:15 (KJV) Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled;
It is referred to as a root in the Bible. Every plant has a root that you cannot see.
That is the nature of bitterness. It can be submerged in the stomach for months without revealing its poisonous fruits until the damage is done.
Yes, your “Ex” hurt you and did things to you that were inconceivable and unprintable. That is insufficient cause to put your life on hold. Your parents did this and that to you.
Your closest companion had deceived you. Someone stabbed you in the rear and then in the front! Don’t let that put a stop to your progress!
Allow God to take over. Do not let hatred and resentment get the best of you. Allow no one else’s folly to become your own folly.
Bitterness is referred to as a root in the Bible. When it appears, it will pollute many other relationships, possibilities, and doors!
When John the Baptist became enraged with his spiritual head, his physical head ease decapitated.
Don’t allow your head to become one of the prizes on award day!
Bitterness and iniquity are close relatives. They collaborate. The sooner you tackle it, the better.
Act 8:23 (KJV) For I perceive that thou art in the gall of bitterness, and in the bond of iniquity.
Solicit God’s assistance. He is more than happy to do so. In Jesus’ name, you will fulfill your destiny! God bless you with further understanding!
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This may seem unimportant to guys, but it is a major issue for women.
Saying “I love you” could be the solution to the crises raging in your home. She wishes to hear it from you as frequently as possible.
As a lady, she will undoubtedly receive compliments from others. The issue arises when the compliments she receives from others outnumber those she receives from her spouse at home.
Women go through a lot and battle a lot with their emotions, which is why they constantly have a mirror with them everywhere they go. Be her mirror!
Learn to affirm your wife as much as possible as a man. It’ll go a long way toward making her feel cherished.
Three Things Every Man Should Be Aware Of
2. Attend church together.
The Bible instructs us not to abandon the meeting of the brethren.
Take the initiative as the man and seek out a Bible-believing church to attend.
It is critical that you and your wife are hearing the same thing.
Attending different churches while in the same location is not the way to go.
Grow with one another.
Study together.
Pray as a couple.
It will fortify the marriage.
Three Things Every Man Should Be Aware Of
3. Never raise your hands to beat or hit your wife.
Refrain from hitting your wife. For whatever reason, never do it.
That is what distinguishes men from boys.
Yes, she can be rude, obstinate, haughty, or whatever.
Hitting her will not get you out of this situation.
1Pe 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
Make the decision to never physically assault her.
Decide to honor her, protect her, and look after her.
That is how a man should act.
God bless your marriage.
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Is Your Lover a Dream Interpreter or a Dream Killer? Marriage is lovely. Only God, and no one else, can orchestrate the synergy that the marriage covenant creates. There is no limit to when a man and a woman unite in God. The man takes on the role of a dream interpreter for his wife. And the other way around. The marital pact people sign brings their hidden stuff to the fore.
Man has always desired to accomplish something. He has a dream, but no one can interpret it. Then a woman enters his life, and the dots begin to connect. This is why, as singles, you should incorporate God into your matrimonial decisions.
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The lady had always had this lovely desire, but it had remained a dream. Then God sends a man, and the intricate equation of her destiny is instantly simplified when she enters into a marital commitment with God. Only God can provide such interpreters!
A dream without interpretation might be distressing. One can hunt a thousand, but two can put ten thousand on the run! Having multiple dreams with no meaning is exhausting for the soul.
Gen 40:8 (KJV) And they said unto him, We have dreamed a dream, and there is no interpreter of it. And Joseph said unto them, Do not interpretations belong to God? tell me them, I pray you.
Is Your Lover a Dream Interpreter or a Dream Killer? These men had dreams but no translators, but God sent assistance in the form of Joseph. Joseph quickly realized that interpretations belong to God and no one else.
Every time you pursue relationships without God’s interpretation, you will end up with issues! The status is updated to “It’s complicated!”
May your marital journey be straightforward!
I’m praying for you today, in your marriage endeavor, that God sends you a dream interpreter. There are dream interpreters, and there are dream murderers. There are men who act as walls and men who act as doorways. There are men you contact and then laugh, and men you dabble with and end up in anguish!
Is Your Lover a Dream Interpreter or a Dream Killer?
When Amnon met Jonadab, his royal blood was squandered. Ruth met a man who saved her life. You were all heated up before meeting that sweetheart, and then all the fire was extinguished by the waters of compromise! This should not be the case.
You will not simply meet and marry any guy or woman, but God will provide you with a dream interpreter in Jesus’ name! Because of your marriage…in God…the deepest desires of your heart begin to find magnificent expressions!
I hope you find the interpreter of your dreams!
God bless you with further understanding! Hello and good morning!
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Hullo Sweetie, We Are Married. The phrase “I married you” conveys both a choice and an acknowledgment on the part of the speaker.
These two components are necessary for the continued health of any marriage. The aspect of decision reminds us that we have selected one path in life, and we must adhere to it if we want our marriage to endure.
On the day of your wedding, your guests will rejoice with you, but in the end, you will be left with the outcome of your choice. This is something that I frequently tell individuals who are engaged.
There is no turning back after a couple has exchanged vows and become husband and wife. Your choice is now set in stone and cannot be reversed. You shouldn’t be focusing on changing your decisions; rather, you should be focusing on how to enjoy the ones you’ve already made.
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Hullo Sweetie, We Are Married
When it comes to acceptance, the words “I married you” demonstrate that there is no room for comparison of any kind in the relationship. It indicates that you are aware of what you have done and are clear about your decision.
Marriage is an adventure that lasts a lifetime. There is no purpose in wasting each day dwelling on past wrongs, suffering, and resentment. You do not have an infinite amount of time, therefore you should make the most of each day.
Continue doing what you’re doing and make sure you’re getting the most out of your marriage.
Everything that is happening in your marriage right now is a direct result of the choices you have made.
A marriage s beyond a transaction. it is a covenant, God Himself being the covenant witness. It comes with responsibilities, learning and unlearning, understanding how to live with your spouse, and sacrificing for one another most of the time.
Are you ready to get married? Are you married? Then start thinking about commitment, responsibility, sacrifice, understanding, and adding value to one another!
Good morning!
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