The Rise of The Watchmen. I come to Kisses and Huggs Club this morning as a watchman, and I speak to some of you as watchmen.
I come this morning blowing the trumpet and sounding an alarm upon this land regarding pre-marital sex and other perversions. There is war upon the land! There is aggression from hell marching vigorously to render the marriage covenant useless and make rubbish of sexual purity.
The enemy is advancing. I hear the sound of the trumpet. The Rise of The Watchmen
Eze 33:3-7 (MSG) and if the watchman sees war coming and blows the trumpet, warning the people, [4] then if anyone hears the sound of the trumpet and ignores it and war comes and takes him off, it’s his own fault. [5] He heard the alarm, he ignored it—it’s his own fault. If he had listened, he would have saved his life. [6] “‘But if the watchman sees war coming and doesn’t blow the trumpet, warning the people, and war comes and takes anyone off, I’ll hold the watchman responsible for the bloodshed of any unwarned sinner.’ [7] “You, son of man, are the watchman. I’ve made you a watchman for Israel. The minute you hear a message from me, warn them.
I am here to warn you. I saw what Daddy Freeze wrote in response to a certain instance on social media and saying the Bible is not against premarital sex.
War in the land! How many people slept with each other and broke their sanctity on the days when this sound was made?
Most of the conclusions on social media are sadly unscriptural and straight from hell. The sound coming from social media is muffled and confused. A deliberate attempt to confuse a generation that is within confusion already. A generation beleaguered with sexual looseness, intricately woven together in a trilogy of lust, power, and mammon spirit.
You cannot draw the truth from social media! Do you want the truth? Go back to the beginning. The law of Moses came with some permissions. Jesus summarized the drama when he said
Mat 19:8 (KJV) …but from the beginning it was not so.
Whatever lapses you see in Old Testament came through the law. To get the truth, we go back to Adam and Eve.
Sex at random, pre-marital sex, one-night stands, and the like will remain a stench to heaven. Oral sex, anal sex, and all the cousins will remain a sin! Technology and AI will not later that!
As a watchman, talking to watchmen, hear the voice of the Lord this day! The Rise of The Watchmen
Eze 33:26 (MSG) You rely on the sword, you engage in obscenities, you indulge in sex at random—anyone, anytime. And you still expect to own this land?’
To own your portion in this land, to fulfill God’s counsel, to preserve your soul, sex at random and other perversions will remain a sin.
I have done my job as a watchman this morning. Do your job as a watchman as well.
Stop sleeping with your fiancée. You are not married yet. Stop desecrating her if you really love her. Stop twisting the scriptures to feed your lust.
Stay faithful to your spouse. Small girls with big gods will end up in regrets, both the gods and the girls.
What does God want? The Rise of The Watchmen
Eze 33:11 (MSG) “Tell them, ‘As sure as I am the living God, I take no pleasure from the death of the wicked. I want the wicked to change their ways and live. Turn your life around! Reverse your evil ways! Why die, Israel?’
Thus saith the Lord this morning, “Turn your life around! Reverse your evil ways! Why die?
You will not die in Jesus’ name, because you will not ignore this sound.
Now as watchmen, go ahead and make the right sound. It is our responsibility to release the right sound from heaven to swallow up every sound of sexual perversion!
Bedroom Matters For Singles and Married. The Johnsons have been married for six years, but their bedroom stories have been unpleasant, to say the least. One thinks the other has too much voracious sexual appetite for a human being, while the other is amazed at how one can be so disinterested in that area. So conflicts arose from the inner chambers that seeped into the living room and even followed them to work, affecting workplace productivity. Oh I forgot, vulnerabilities increased, and along with that came the biting of forbidden fruits, which later morphed into gravels in their mouths. The pain came upon their marital dentition, foaming in the mouth and grinding of teeth resulted from the libido mismatch! Needless to say, their carelessness and ignorance in the bedroom became the pedestal upon which other issues were predicated.
On the other hand, Sally who is single and desperate wanted a wedding so much that she felt for the bait of “you can’t find a man who will not ask for pre-marital sex!”
Who says? When was the census conducted? Bedroom Matters For Singles and Married
Did I hear that a certain man was asking for scriptures that show fornication is a sin? Oh, that is not clear enough? How far and crazy can it get?
Where is the scripture that tells us that we should go to the toilet and poo? Where is the scripture that tells us that we should not use rat poison as an ingredient to cook our food? Where is the Scripture that says we would go to University or college?
We often use the scripture to validate or excuse our bond with iniquity! It is like playing a sport with one’s destiny! Some things are too clear in the scripture!
Fornication will always remain a sin, it will not change. Technology and AI will not change that. The high number of compromisers and end-time teachers will not change that as well.
To the married, you are to enjoy your spouse! Your body belongs to one another! We treated this extensively on our Whatsapp Community yesterday and we will continue in the next meeting! From oral stuff to anal adventures, we treated them yesterday!
1Co 7:2-5 (MKJV) [2] But, because of the fornications, let each have his own wife, and let each have her own husband. [3] Let the husband give to the wife proper kindness, and likewise the wife also to the husband. [4] The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband. And likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife. [5] Do not deprive one another, unless it is with consent for a time, so that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer. And come together again so that Satan does not tempt you for your incontinence.
Bedroom Matters For Singles and Married
To the single, keep your chastity! If chastity has been blown apart, retrace your steps and make things right! You cannot be offering your body all over the place and be so generous when you are not an NGO! Keep yourselves. Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit!
Why You Can’t Tolerate Bitterness. The Johnsons have been married for six good years! But they have not been good to themselves. Mrs. Johnson got to discover some things about her husband and she became livid with anger.
Different times of confrontations with her husband yielded nothing other than strong denial.
Her anger, attitude, and subtle withdrawal as a result of trust broken and stubborn denial further aggravated Mr. Johnson because he only saw those actions as disrespect.
Mrs. Johnson became bitter as result. She felt “naked” because of the feeling that her husband couldn’t be vulnerable to her as she was to him.
On the other hand, Mr. Johnson felt rattled and was wondering why she delighted herself in digging up what happened in the past, details of which he claimed he could remember all.
Bitterness crept into their marriage and alongside brought its cousins which even added to the damage.
Heb 12:15 (AMPC) Exercise foresight and be on the watch to look [after one another], to see that no one falls back from and fails to secure God’s grace (His unmerited favor and spiritual blessing), in order that no root of resentment (rancor, bitterness, or hatred) shoots forth and causes trouble and bitter torment, and the many become contaminated and defiled by it—
Take note of the following: Why You Can’t Tolerate Bitterness
Watch out for one another. Be interested in yourselves and love yourselves deeply
Exercise foresight and be on the watch to look [after one another]…
God’s grace, which entails favour and blessing can be lost or can fail
…to see that no one falls back from and fails to secure God’s grace (His unmerited favor and spiritual blessing),
3. Bitterness, also referred to as rancour or hatred is a root! Roots are not seen! But the fruits of chaos confusion, losses, bitter torment, and troubles will shoot up if allowed!
…in order that no root of resentment (rancor, bitterness, or hatred) shoots forth and causes trouble and bitter torment,
4. It defiles many other people including children, families, and sometimes friends!
…and the many become contaminated and defiled by it
Conclusion: Why You Can’t Tolerate Bitterness
Bitterness is not worth it. Don’t allow it in your relationship or marriage. Forgive quickly, love one another, and don’t give the devil a legal ground to afflict you!
Three Ways To Change Your Lover And Spouse. Mr. And Mrs. Johnson have long embarked on an endless journey of changing themselves, as they both believed they were each other’s problems. They also believed that if they were able to change their spouse, then their marriage would become heaven on earth. However, their attempt to change each other was the least feeble, and they constantly met a brick wall that stood like the rock of Gibraltar. Their missions failed woefully! How would they change themselves?
It has been said that you cannot change your spouse! And that is very true. Only God can change anybody. But wait, there are things you can deploy and activate to effect a lasting change in your spouse. Ultimately, it is God that will do the job, but there is a man-ward side to be deployed to enter into that economy of God where true change happens.
I want to quickly show you three such things you can do when you have a difficult spouse or an uncooperative spouse. The kind of change you want can be anything ranging from, “I want my spouse to be romantic” to “My spouse is an unbeliever”
If you are still single, and your lover is an unbeliever, there is no need to pray for any change. Just leave because God’s word is extremely clear on that!
What are the Three Ways To Change Your Lover And Spouse?
Through Your Words
Eph 5:26 (KJV) That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
Speak the right words in your relationships and marriage. Keep saying what you want to see and not what is happening. I am not asking you to endorse or endure something wrong, I am saying, rather than sulk, think, get moody, or depressed, open your mouth and declare and activate God’s counsel by the spoken word.
Three Ways To Change Your Lover And Spouse
2. Through Prayers
Jas 5:17-18 (MSG) [17] Elijah, for instance, human just like us, prayed hard that it wouldn’t rain, and it didn’t—not a drop for three and a half years. [18] Then he prayed that it would rain, and it did. The showers came and everything started growing again.
Prayers can do the impossible. Deploy the power of prayers rather than slide into depression. Enter into the realm of God where you can touch the heavens and birth something supernatural in your relationship and marriage!
Three Ways To Change Your Lover And Spouse
3. Through Praise
Psa 149:6 (KJV) Let the high praises of God be in their mouth, and a twoedged sword in their hand;
High praise in your mouth equals a two-edged sword in your hands. Use it effectively and constantly and you will see God’s power in your life and marriage.
The Child In Your Lover and Spouse. It was first an intense attraction, then it became an unending attrition of the same attraction. The Johnsons loved each other so much, and yes it was evident. However, after the wedding, a lot of hidden issues surfaced and they didn’t seem to know how to handle them.
The stubborn posture of the couple added to their issues. Mrs. Johnson believed her husband did not love her, again! Mr. Johnson believed that his wife no longer respected her. Her disrespectful cycle seems so incessant and makes it impossible to love her, so he said!
She said, “I can’t respect you because you don’t love me.” He said I can’t love you because you don’t respect me. It became a vicious cycle, and they landed on an endless rope of frequent quarrels over their posture.
First, they forgot they are to love one another unconditionally, but they had unwittingly attached conditions.
Secondly, they brought their items of baggage and hard-lined opinions from their past into their marriage and they were unwilling to unlearn to learn!
In the story we have been looking at concerning the boy that Jesus healed of dumbness and deafness, I want you to take note of something. Jesus asked the father of the boy that was healed a very important question and I want you to see his response.
Mar 9:21 (KJV) And he asked his father, How long is it ago since this came unto him? And he said, OF A CHILD.
The Child In Your Lover and Spouse
His affliction, or his inability to speak started when he was a little child.
Dear husband and wife, most of the issues you are dealing with in marriage now have been there since your spouse was a child.
Dear single in courtship, you are not only engaged to that guy or lady, there is a little boy and little girl in everybody!
Marriage then becomes a place of patience, a place of prayers, a place of adapting, and a place of continual forgiveness.
Your spouses’ attitudes, opinions, way of life, dispositions, and many more have been there since childhood.
You may be unable to change them overnight.
Patiently and lovingly humble yourselves and work together. God knows that when you lovingly come together in agreement, you will overcome any issues.
Take note of these three things in dealing with The Child In Your Lover and Spouse
