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Knowing The Lover Who Is Spiritual. This morning, we continue from where we left off yesterday. How do you know the lover who is spiritual and the one who is not?

3. Availability and willingness to serve

What about the brother or sister that is always there to serve? Morning, afternoon, and evening, he or she is always there serving. Well, the thing is that there is something called “eye service!”

So, this is ruled out as well.

This cannot be exclusively used as a parameter for spirituality.

4. Closeness to Pastor

Brother George is so close to Pastor, which means he is very spiritual!  Well, you cannot use that alone as a yardstick as well. Some of the closest people to pastors can be worse than unbelievers in their dispositions. Remember Judas was close the Jesus. He was a trusted ally and he was the treasurer, but the guy kept stealing!

5. Insight and Revelations

What about a brother or sister that can share revelations and has a lot of insights into the scriptures? Yes, it can often determine how spiritual but not always. I have seen some deeply insightful preachers who are unrepentant adulterers! I have seen some very religious habitual sinners who will give you insight into why they can fornicate and still be anointed.

6. Gifted and Talented

What if somebody is talented and gifted? He must be spiritual, maybe that is why God gave him or her so many talents. Well, some of the most gifted people are also some of the most careless I have seen. Their gifts become a source of pride and they easily become cocky, and there is nothing spiritual in being proud.

7. Niceness

What about those who are very nice? Does it mean that they are spiritual? Well, I have seen some unbelievers that are really nice as well. And again, being nice is not a fruit of the Spirit!

We can go on and on, but then what is the way to know and recognize a spiritual person? 

Here is the answer. It is only by their heart! You know a person by the kind of heart that person has!

Every good thing that a man does comes from the heart. Every bad thing that a woman does comes from her heart. 

” A good man out of the good treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is evil: for of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaketh. ”  (Luk 6:45, KJV)

Now, the challenge is that nobody can see a man’s heart! So what do you do? That is a huge dilemma, but there is a way out.

There are only two ways to know what is in a man’s heart.

1. Through God

Man looks outward, but God sees the heart. Go to God in prayer for who to get involved with

God can see the heart of everybody and anybody. He sees the future of the person. So when He leads you, He cannot lead you wrong. All the above qualities are good to watch out for, but ultimately, God’s direction is what you should follow.

It is only God that knows the one that seems spiritual but is as carnal as anybody can be. It is also God that knows the one that is seemingly carnal but will end up becoming a man of God or woman of God. Let God lead you.

2. Through words

The other way to know what is in the heart of man is what you see in the above verse: out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.

Watch his or her words, those are exact pictures of what lies within. His words will betray him. 

He or she might say he is joking, but the scripture warns about coarse joking.

For married couples, there are a few things you can do together that will help you grow more spiritually. Attend the same church regularly. Pray together. Share scriptures with each other. Exchange books and discuss them. Have a common mentor you see regularly.

May God help us all.


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