Breaking Unhealthy Soul Ties Part 2. We started this yesterday and we will conclude this morning
4. Gifts
Gifts can symbolize a binding agreement within a soul tie. To break free from these ties, it’s necessary to eliminate any special gifts, such as rings, jewelry, or tokens that may carry symbolic significance. Disposing of these items is essential to sever any demonic connections they may represent.
5. Fasting and Prayer
Humbling your soul through fasting can weaken the bonds of soul ties. While fasting, you draw closer to divinity, and your spiritual ties are loosened. Engage in deliberate prayer, mentioning the name of the person involved, and sever all ties while declaring your freedom. Seek the support of a spiritual authority figure, such as a spiritual leader or pastor, to join you in this endeavor.
Breaking Unhealthy Soul Ties Part 2
6. Break Vows with a Vow
Making a vow unto God by offering a seed can be a powerful way to break ungodly soul ties. Destroy any vows you’ve made by pledging a financial vow to God and His work. Seek God’s remembrance of your offering and ask for deliverance from all ungodly and demonic strongholds.
Psa 50:14-15 (KJV) Offer unto God thanksgiving; and pay thy vows unto the most High: [15] And call upon me in the day of trouble: I will deliver thee, and thou shalt glorify me.
7. Praise
Consistent praise to God empowers you in the spiritual realm. Praise equips you with a spiritual sword, allowing you to exercise judgment over the works of the devil in your life. Through praise, you can execute the judgment written against all wickedness.
Psa 149:6-9 (KJV) Let the high praises of God be in their mouth, and a twoedged sword in their hand; [7] To execute vengeance upon the heathen, and punishments upon the people; [8] To bind their kings with chains, and their nobles with fetters of iron; [9] To execute upon them the judgment written: this honour have all his saints. Praise ye the LORD.
In conclusion, I declare, as a servant of the Lord, that every unhealthy soul tie is broken in the name of Jesus.
Through the power of praise and spiritual intervention, you are now free from the snares that once bound you. Be blessed.
Today, we are focusing on how to break free from them. Let’s delve into the steps to break these soul ties.
1. Repentance:
The initial and crucial step in breaking unhealthy soul ties is to repent. This repentance should encompass any sins, iniquities, or disobedience associated with the person you have a soul tie with. It’s essential to recognize that one cannot sever a soul tie while still engaging in any form of sexual sin with that person.
Repentance signifies a genuine desire for freedom and the willingness to let go of sin and disobedience. These negative elements only serve to strengthen the soul ties further.
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2. Forgiveness:
In breaking unhealthy soul ties, forgiveness plays a dual role. Firstly, you need to forgive the other person involved in the soul tie, especially if you’ve discovered that they’ve been deceptive, manipulative, or have disrespected your dignity. Such experiences can be deeply hurtful and may lead to bitterness.
Secondly, you must also forgive yourself. Self-forgiveness can be a challenging endeavor, often necessitating the assistance of the Holy Spirit. For instance, victims of traumatic experiences like rape may find forgiveness difficult, yet scriptures affirm that total healing is unattainable until one learns to let go and let God. Holding onto bitterness only tightens the emotional bond between two souls.
Job 21:25 (KJV) And another dieth in the bitterness of his soul, and never eateth with pleasure.
Breaking Unhealthy Soul Ties
3. Renunciation:
Soul ties are often established and can also be severed through the spoken word. Your words are powerful, as they are like spirits that never die. However, you can assert authority over these words. If you’ve made covenants, vows, or verbal commitments with the person you have a soul tie with, it’s imperative to renounce them.
Statements such as “I will die with you,” “I will love you forever,” or “I will never love anyone else but you” can be appropriate within a marital context but problematic when made to multiple partners simultaneously.
Pro 6:2 (KJV) Thou art snared with the words of thy mouth, thou art taken with the words of thy mouth.
What is that one thing that is also important in considering who to marry? His faith is important.
Mostly because his faith will influence yours.
It is his faith in God, that will cause him to have the fear of God.
If he has the fear of God, he will never cheat on you.
He would rather protect you and care for you.
He would have the wisdom to live with you and raise a godly family because the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom.
Never ever get married to a man who has no regard for God.
It would be the greatest mistake ever!
Well, no matter how much you love him, no matter how much preparation you have made, no matter how much has been spent, if he does not have a relationship with God, pick your bags and bolt!
Run for your life.
Preserve your destiny with your choice.
2Co 6:14-15 (MSG) Don’t become partners with those who reject God. How can you make a partnership out of right and wrong? That’s not partnership; that’s war. Is light best friends with dark? [15] Does Christ go strolling with the Devil? Do trust and mistrust hold hands?
In marriage, there is a “knowing” at the highest level as love is consummated.
The husband becomes the cover and the head of the family.
God forbids that the head is sick, for he would only transfer the sickness.
He can only give what he has.
God forbid that the head is foolish, he would only disseminate the foolishness and no more.
He would make foolish decisions and affect the wife and the children, and sometimes, the children’s children!
The mouth of the foolish poureth out foolishness.
Pro 15:2 (KJV) The tongue of the wise useth knowledge aright: but the mouth of fools poureth out foolishness.
Take a look at the Message Translation:
Pro 15:2 (MSG) Knowledge flows like spring water from the wise; fools are leaky faucets, dripping nonsense.
May you not have a leaky faucet of a head, dripping nonsense over your destiny!
Knowing Who To Marry
I tell you, as a counselor, that can be frustrating!
How beautiful is it, to have a praying man over your life, to have a man who is faithful to you, who will never cheat on you, not because he doesn’t feel like it but because he fears God!
You wouldn’t need to add the unrest, suspicion, insecurity, disagreements, and bickering that goes with knowing your spouse is cheating on you to your daily pressures.
Go for peace of mind.
If you are already married and have issues, please don’t give up too quickly. Pray and intercede! Go for therapy as well! Don’t keep quiet and watch things degenerate until it becomes too late!
Divorce is not always God’s direction unless life is threatened.
Take time to intercede and trust God for intervention and you will surely see the salvation of the Lord in Jesus name!
But there are handsome men who are good men and faithful men.
That is what you should pray for, that is what you should trust God for, that is what you should aspire for, and that is what you should settle for.
The face is the pulchritude, the heart is the hidden man.
Find out about the hidden man before you fall in love with the face.
His behaviors will not come from his handsome face, they would take source from the heart.
Beware of the heart that despises God.
Never fall in love with such hearts.
Beware of the heart that mocks God.
Beware of the heart that belittles your God.
Beware of the heart that disregards your God.
If he can disregard your God, he will disregard you!
Beware of a handsome face sitting upon an ugly heart.
The ugliness would eventually extend to the face in no time.
Beware of the handsome man who wants you to compromise your faith in order to satisfy his rush of adrenaline.
Beware of the one that can combine an ugly heart with a handsome face.
Fine man, but he beats his wife!
Handsome man, but irresponsible!
Lord, give me a spouse handsome within and without.
Lord, give a spouse beautiful within and without.
I pray for you, God will honor your prayers!
You will not regret your actions in Jesus’ name.
You will not spend the major part of your life agonizing and living in pain over a fine face, but an ugly heart.
God will guide you, lead you, and honor you in Jesus’ name.
You will not miss it!
For those who are already married, God will make your union a beautiful one within and without.
Psa 144:12-14 (KJV) That our sons may be as plants grown up in their youth; that our daughters may be as corner stones, polished after the similitude of a palace: [13] That our garners may be full, affording all manner of store: that our sheep may bring forth thousands and ten thousands in our streets: [14] That our oxen may be strong to labour; that there be no breaking in, nor going out; that there be no complaining in our streets.
Having a sexual relationship outside marriage is a sin in itself and God doesn’t approve of that kind of arrangement. However, within marriage, withholding intimacy is one way that a person can be abused emotionally, by using withdrawal to control the other person.
In the sanctity of a marriage relationship, you are not supposed to deny each other. The scriptures say that you should not defraud one another.
Married ladies should not use sex to punish their husbands as that may lead to more vulnerability.
Signs of Abusive Relationships Part 2
9. Words like arrows
Another sign of emotional manipulation is when you are called names, given unpleasant labels, derogatory nicknames, and the use of biting cutting remarks.
Words are powerful and you are what you hear everyday. A guy goes to Medical school, listens to medical classes for seven years and then becomes a Medical Doctor. The same thing with a lawyer.Invariably, you are what you are hearing. You should therefore not allow anybody to constantly pull you down and trample on your esteem all in the name of love.
Love will not constantly put you down! Love will not crush your esteem day after day. If one or more of these signs are prevalent in your relationship, you may need to pause and review it.
Listen to me, marriage does not change abusers. It is better to remain single and wait for the right person than to rush into a marriage with an abuser because of the pressures around you.
When the abuse takes a toll, all the people putting pressure will not be seen around you.
The last day you would see most of them is on your wedding day to eat your food!
As my wife would always says, you will live with your choice!
Signs of Abusive Relationships Part 2
10. Personal information
Lastly, abusers can often resort to using your personal information and secrets against you and to control you. This is why you have to beware of people who are always asking for your nude pictures.
Why would a person who claims to be a child of God be asking for your nude pictures?
There is something perverse about that.
Is it to masturbate or what? Or to sell the pictures? Young ladies, don’t ever send you nude pictures to anyone in the name of love.
He would eventually use your pictures to manipulate and control you, and when you call his bluff, you would find your nude pictures all over the internet.
Several young girls have committed suicide when they couldn’t bear with the shame of having their nude pictures and videos all over the internet. So, don’t ever make that mistake.
Remember the scripture we saw earlier? Your souls has escaped like a bird out of the snare of the flower!
Fly away from all demonic and manipulative relationships.
Pro 6:5 (KJV) Deliver thyself as a roe from the hand of the hunter, and as a bird from the hand of the fowler.
Cut off that relationship where you are being oppressed.Let the wrong person go so that the right person can show up! I pray that God will grant you more understanding!
