Pastor, I Need Help In My Marriage

Pastor, I Need Help In My Marriage

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Ever since the fall of man from grace and God’s Glory, man has been involved with one form of struggle or another. Especially in marriage, man has lived to deal with numerous challenges. Most of these challenges and struggles have left our marriages less than the original intention in God’s heart for marriage.

The picture in God’s heart for every marriage is for both man and woman to live like the trinity, like the Godhead, in perfect unity.

So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.  – Gen 1:27 (KJV)

The concept of unity is the original intention of God in marriage. Where this picture or intention is not known, struggles and disunity will be experienced.

Most of us struggle in our marriage and experience heartaches. Spouse cheating, adulterous affairs, spouse not being open, hiding from each other, cold, financially unfaithful, unfriendly, egoistic, dead spiritually, not meeting each other’s needs, lack of intimacy, lack of love and respect, emotional adultery, and so on.

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Not having the original picture that God had in His heart is what brings about all these struggles in marriage.

To put an end to all struggles in marriage, we need to engage the help of the Holy Spirit in helping us see the right picture as was in God’s heart in the beginning. We have to go back to the original intent in the heart of the Father.

Yes, every other thing we try to do will make meaning only after we have a revelation of the Oneness concept.

A blissful marriage is possible. Not that you will not have your differences or different opinions, you will still have because you are different and differently made to fulfill and occupy different roles.

The only way to enjoy peace and harmony is to get back to God’s original intention and God will help us all in Jesus mighty name.

God bless your marriage.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
My marriage will not be an adage.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Oh Lord, restore my marriage to the original mandate.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Gen 1:28 {MSG}God blessed them: Prosper! Reproduce! Fill Earth! Take charge! Be responsible for fish in the sea and birds in the air, for every living thing that moves on the face of Earth.”

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Go back and study God’s plan for your marriage.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Gen 1

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Dear Single, Don’t Allow That Negotiation

Dear Single, Don’t Allow That Negotiation

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This morning, I want to challenge us as we begin a new week to not allow the devil to negotiate you out of the best that God has for you!

My teaching is taken from the below short clip.

The scripture there is

And God blessed them, saying, Be fruitful, and multiply, and fill the waters in the seas, and let fowl multiply in the earth.

Gen 1:22 (KJV)

These were the first words of God to humanity! You can’t allow any nonsense from the devil! Don’t allow him to negotiate with you and come up with all kinds of excuses why your relationship is not working, why nobody is coming your way, why there is an unnecessary delay, and so on and so forth!

Why is the scripture above so important!

This was God’s instructions from the beginning!

That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we have looked upon, and our hands have handled, of the Word of life;

1Jn 1:1 (KJV)

Go back to what God said in the beginning and hold on to that! All other suggestions, instructions, manipulations, adaptations, conclusions, and deductions are inferior to the very first words that proceeded from God!

If your relationship is not fruitful, then something has been tampered with and you cannot settle for it!

It is either fruitfulness or fruitfulness!

And the verse above listed the process involved; hear it, see it, look upon it and let your hands handle it!

This week, I am praying for you, whatever it is that stares you in the face, be it your business, relationship, carrier, ministry, or whatever it is, I declare fruitfulness in Jesus name!

That will be your portion this week in Jesus name! Have a great and fulfilling week!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I refuse to cooperate with the devil

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Oh Lord, take my relationship to how you intended it in the beginning

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
1 John 1:1[ESV] That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we looked upon and have touched with our hands, concerning the word of life

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray in the spirit

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Gen 1

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In The Beginning, It Was Not So

In The Beginning, It Was Not So

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This is a particular statement “In the beginning, it was not so” was declared by Jesus Christ our Lord, when He was asked if husbands could put away their wives, treat them anyhow, or not be compassionate to them.

He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. Matthew 19:8 KJV

Jesus was and is qualified to talk about the beginning because He was there at the beginning of all things. He was there when the heavens and the earth were being formed.

He was there when the foundations of everything started. He was there with the father. He was there when God instituted marriage as a covenant. He was there when God spoke into man. He knew what God spoke to you and me. He was there. So He is qualified to answer this question the right way.

In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.  The same was in the beginning with God.  All things were made by him; and without him was not any thing made that was made.  In him was life; and the life was the light of men.  And the light shineth in darkness; and the darkness comprehended it not. John 1:1 – 5 KJV

He was there in the beginning. All things were made by Him. If this is so, then we need to listen to what He that was from the beginning has to say.

We will continue tomorrow by God grace.

God bless your marriage.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I align my marriage to God’s original intention

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, restore my marriage to the original plan that you had for man in the name of Jesus

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. Matthew 19:8 KJV

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Go back to the beginning.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Gen 1-2

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That Which Was From The Beginning By Pastor Dunamis (15th August 2021)

That Which Was From The Beginning By Pastor Dunamis (15th August 2021)

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That Which Was From The Beginning was taught by Rev. Dunamis Okunowo on the 15th of August 2021 at Shouts of Grace Center, Joke Plaza, Beside Trans Amusement Park, Bodija-UI Road, Ibadan.

In his teaching, Rev. Dunamis made mention of the following important points:

God has a good intention for my life from the very beginning. But the devil comes in to mess it up.

The problem is that we are trying to correct the problems in the now with ‘now,’ but we have to go back to the beginning. The only way to correct the now is to go to that which was from the beginning.

The more you try to run away from your beginning the more you have to face it.

What the devil does is to get you occupied with ‘now’ at the expense of your beginning.

You must be able see and hear that which was from the beginning.

That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we have looked upon, and our hands have handled, of the Word of life;

1 John 1:1 (KJV)

Then you look upon it. Looking upon is you going to that which you have seen, to give it attention. This takes a deep concentration.

What you look upon the most takes ascendency over what you think about the most.

What you see is what you can give. What you see is what you can handle.

The faith process is not complete until you say it.

Two Things You Must Do In Life To Succeed

  1. There must be a clear-cut goal; you must see it
  2. You have to declare and keep saying it

Every word that God has spoken goes on to replicate itself till eternity.

Every time you go through life and you can’t see a reflection of what God has said, don’t just leave it and hope that things will change. You must go back to the beginning and then enforce that which was from the beginning.

You must learn to look upon God’s word until light shines in your soul. It is interesting to note that one can be so anointed but yet can’t see. You must therefore labour to see.

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How To Find Your Lover From The Very Beginning

How To Find Your Lover From The Very Beginning

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Our text this morning comes powerfully shining a spotlight on the very beginning of things.

1Jn 1:1 (KJV)
That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we have looked upon, and our hands have handled, of the Word of life;

From the text above, there was something or someone which was from the beginning.

Your spouse to be or the person you are about to marry is not just about to be decided by God. He already existed in the mind of God, even before you were born.

Both of you have been “chosen” before you were born!
You can now begin to appreciate the scripture which says

Jer 1:5 (MSG)
“Before I shaped you in the womb, I knew all about you. Before you saw the light of day, I had holy plans for you: A prophet to the nations— that’s what I had in mind for you.”

You are wondering whether you just read the right words? Oh yes you did! Before your conception, some things have been decided by God!

No wonder most of all what God wants from you is to listen to Him, follow him and follow that divine map!

Psa 81:13 (MSG)
“Oh, dear people, will you listen to me now? Israel, will you follow my map?

If that is the case then, can all singles go and rest a while and stop disturbing yourselves about who to marry?

No wonder Adam had to go to “sleep” before Eve showed up.

Could it be that you have ben too “awake,” and you have been trying to do your own thing rather than simply cooperate and follow that which was from the beginning?

Oh, how the reality sets in, powerfully and resolutely, God has it sorted out!

I only need to trust Him and believe Him as the Lord my shepherd who will not lead me wrong!

I pray that God will give you more understanding!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I choose to believe God.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, show me what I need to know that I don’t know.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Go and ‘sleep’

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Gen 1-2