We started on this yesterday! We will continue this morning!
3. Out of all my girlfriends, you are the best
This is often a logical way to manipulate the emotions of the lady. As a lady, I don’t know what you are doing with someone who tells you out-rightly that you are not the only one he is seeing.
Are you encouraging adultery after marriage and giving him the go-ahead? Men don’t change after marriage! When a man has the guts to tell you that he has several ladies as lovers including you, then as a lady you should have the guts to walk away from such affliction!
4. We don’t have to tell anybody about this relationship
When a guy begins to make this statement, your antenna should go up! Something is defective right there. There are no commitments when he hides the relationship from friends and family.
There may be occasions when the parents are not interested in marriage and it is wise to keep quiet for some time, but at least, he should be willing to notify his pastor. What if he doesn’t have a pastor? The answer to that is another question. What are you doing with such a person?
5. I am just managing you and you should thank your stars
When a guy doesn’t love you, he will verbalize it one day, one way or the other. If you are sensitive, you can pick it up from his words. When a guy says he is just managing you, that sounds like wickedness to me.
Probably the lady in question has a self-esteem issue, but as a lady, you don’t have any business with anybody who doesn’t value you or appreciate you as a person. After marriage, you don’t want to be treated as a doormat, you want to be valued as a help.
You know, when I read Ephesians 4:32, it got me thinking about something really important for couples.
Eph 4:32 (KJV) And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.
The verse suggests three key things: being kind to one another, having a tender heart, and forgiving each other. I think these are super crucial in marriage and can help iron out a lot of issues, you know?
Imagine having a kind and gentle partner – it’s like having a shield against unnecessary arguments. And being tender-hearted? It’s all about treating each other with the same love and care a mom gives her newborn. What if we could be that tender in our relationships? I bet there would be less yelling and definitely no hurtful words thrown around.
Then, there’s the part about forgiving one another. This one’s powerful. Holding onto bitterness can be toxic, so why not just forgive quickly and completely? I like how The Message translation puts it: “Be gentle with one another, sensitive, and forgive as quickly and thoroughly as God forgave you.”
Taking on this attitude of compassion, understanding, and love can change the game. It can put a stop to shouting matches, violent tendencies, and all the negative stuff. I hope that this understanding and love will seep into your marriage and overcome any challenges that come your way.
I wish you all the best and pray that every obstacle in your marriage gets crushed. Here’s to a blessed and loving marriage journey!
Let’s dive into the respect pool, especially regarding our men. Like, seriously, why is respect such a big deal for them?
It’s not about whether your guy is a superhero or not. It’s more about God’s grand plan – respect and honor are the secret sauce to keeping the relationship vibe alive.
Living life by God’s rules is like sticking to a recipe. No arguing, no adding your secret spices – just follow the script. And guess what? Your opinion doesn’t get a starring role. It’s all about playing by God’s rules.
Now, for all you single ladies out there, respect isn’t just a married folks’ thing. It starts way back in courtship. If you’re dissing your dude-to-be now, turning into a respect queen will be difficult after tying the knot.
And hey, respect and submission are not forced on anyone. The Bible’s like, “Respect and submit to your hubby.” Simple, right? So if a guy is not who you can respect, honor, and admire to the point of submitting to him, DON’T marry him.
Marriage is like a legal pact, and breaking it is a big no-no. So, if you’ve decided to say “I do,” it’s like signing a respect contract.
All attention is placed on the head because that is where the seat of decision, thinking, sight, speech, smell, hearing, and eating is. All vital action takes place in and on the head. Beauty and radiance, intellect, and reasoning are all found on the head.
Yes, the body is very important too. But by design, the head gets the full attention and responsibility rises and falls on the head. The lady or wife is equally important.
Let’s say she is the heart. We know there is no life apart from the heart. The head honors the heart because of its life-giving ability. But the heart is secured and protected because of its makeup and vulnerability.
That is God’s design. And it makes a whole lot of sense, both logical and spiritual sense.
Respect is:
a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements.
admire (someone or something) deeply, as a result of their abilities, qualities, or achievements.
To help you learn respect go through the definition and synonyms of respect and note where you are lacking.
Synonyms: esteem, admire, think highly of, have a high opinion of, hold in high regard, hold in (high) esteem, think much of, approve of, appreciate, cherish, value, set (great) store by, prize, treasure, look up to, pay homage to, venerate, revere, reverence, adulate, worship, idolize, put on a pedestal, lionize, hero-worship, honor, applaud, praise, favor
Eph 5:22 -24 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so [let] the wives [be] to their husbands in everything.
1. Family is Key The family, is more critical than your morning coffee! Forget about your career, work, and even those church runs. Seriously, your family is the real deal. If you’re the man of the house, don’t let anything interrupt your home life. Remember, a peaceful home pays better dividends than Bitcoin.
Because, you know, most prisoners are the offspring of absentee fathers. Who knew skipping family time was a crash course in “How to End Up in Jail 101” Prioritize your family!
2. Let Your Kids Witness Your Epic Love Story The most damaging thing to a kid’s emotions? Watching Dad turn into a WWE wrestler with Mom as the unsuspecting opponent. Let’s avoid emotionally scarred kids, shall we? Show your children the real power of love, God-style. If you love and respect your wife, your kids won’t need therapy. Simple, right? Because, in the chaotic sitcom of life, modeling God’s love is the core responsibility of every sitcom dad.
3. Insist on Home Peace – No Shouting Allowed As a husband, forget screaming.. If you don’t, you’ll end up with kids who think shouting is an Olympic sport. Do you want that on your conscience? Avoid quarrelsome arguments; they’re not Christ-like, and your kids won’t thank you in their acceptance speeches.
4. Daddy’s Domestic Boot-camp Dads, don’t let your kids escape into the virtual world via gadgets while Mom runs a marathon in the kitchen. It’s time for Daddy’s Responsibility Bootcamp. Teach those responsibilities early on, or your little ones might grow up thinking cooking is a special skill reserved for cooking show contestants. Because, seriously, it’s not a good family-safe idea for your kids to be on Facebook while the kitchen’s on fire.
5. Dinner – Bringing Families Closer Eat together as a family. It’s not just a meal; it’s a bonding session. Picture this: forks clinking, laughter echoing, and everyone arguing over who gets the last chink of meat. It’s like a sitcom episode, but real. Eating together brings you closer, enhances togetherness, and improves your chances of winning the “Best Family” award.
And with that, my friends, I’ll stop here today. Have a great day!
In a world captivated by the allure of wedding rings, it’s time to shift our focus from the symbolism to the profound commitment that defines marriage.
The True Essence of Commitment
Many singles embark on the journey to marriage with the sole goal of changing their status, overlooking the depth of commitment required. The beauty of the wedding day often overshadows the lifelong commitment that follows.
Marriage: A Multi-Faceted Journey
Marriage transcends the materialistic desire for a ring; it encompasses spiritual, physical, and emotional facets that demand continuous effort and preparation.
The Real Commitment of Being a Spouse
It’s not merely about acquiring a title but embracing the responsibilities that come with it. For husbands, it means embodying discipline, responsibility, and maturity, relinquishing the bachelor lifestyle.
Husband: The Multifaceted Role
Being a husband involves being a leader, coach, pastor, lover, and confidant. It’s about providing direction, financial support, and overseeing the well-being of your partner.
Marriage: A Financial Commitment
Recognizing that money sustains a home, a husband commits not only emotionally but also financially, making decisions that propel the family towards prosperity.
Vision, Discipline, and Emotional Stability
A husband shoulders the responsibility of charting a course for the family, maintaining discipline, and providing emotional and psychological stability.
The Dedication of Being a Wife
For wives, marriage demands day-to-day dedication, supporting their husband’s decisions, and ensuring the family’s comfort. It’s about saying ‘Yes’ even when sacrifice and inconvenience accompany it.
Trusting God and Sacrifice
Being a wife involves trusting God to meet needs when personal energy and finances are poured into family comfort. It requires sacrificing personal interests for the higher calling of being a help meet.
Shifting from ‘My’ to ‘Our’
Marriage is a transition from ‘my’ to ‘our,’ from individual to collective. It’s about unity in finances, family, and friendships.
Preparation for a Lifetime Commitment
Aspiring couples must reflect on these commitments, preparing for a life that extends far beyond the glittering moment of exchanging rings. It’s not just about the wedding ring; it’s about a lifelong commitment blessed by God.
May your journey into marriage be filled with commitment, love, and the grace to navigate the beautiful complexities of a lifelong union.
