What To Do When Love Wanes

What To Do When Love Wanes

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What To Do When Love Wanes

Marriage wine can often dry up, turn sour, or simply lose taste. Relationships can lose the spark, the fun, and the glee!

Love can wane, can grow old, and can fast dissipate. Feelings are fickle, never with a forever status.

What do you do when love seems to wane, when the tummy butterflies have all rested their wings, love birds have no more songs, when his or her words evoke no more feelings, and the blushing, the dimples, and the smiles have all gone?

What do you do at such times?

You are in courtship and everything seems intense, but of recently, you are no longer excited.

You don’t even look forward to hearing from each other and yet you still have peace that you are in the right relationship.

You are married, and the marriage bed has gone cold.

Intimacy used to be a trip but right now it is a complete bore. You could almost be reading a novel while you are at it.
And yet the Bible unequivocally advises that 
Pro 5:19 (KJV)   
Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.

What happened?

Here are a few things that could steal the wine off the marriage shelf, that could sap out and zap off every fun in the union.

What To Do When Love Wanes

1. When you allow pressures to stifle the pleasure

There will always be pressures, especially pressures from work. Wise husbands and wives learn to leave office pressures at the office and not bring them home.

For those in courtship, do not allow work pressures to swallow up fun communication times, times of bonding, and times of aligning the souls.

Decide to enjoy your courtship through vibrant communication and unhindered flow irrespective of the pressures that be

What To Do When Love Wanes

2. When you allow the hustles and bustles of life to steal your rest in God

Whether you like it or not, there will always be issues to deal with.

You must have a commitment to each other in a relationship or marriage to put each other first place after God.

3. When you refuse to spend quality time together

Love will wane when you don’t spend time with each other.

Nothing will ever replace quality time spent together enriched with destiny discussions and plans for the future. 

Those times of fellowship can never be replaced with any other thing

For singles in courtship, this quality time must not be tainted with sexual sins.

With compromise, quality time will become dangerous time, bringing with it, damnation and guilt.

What To Do When Love Wanes

4. When you refuse to give yourself self-development and learn how to please each other

Bringing new wine into a relationship or marriage can be learned.

Both parties must pay attention to learning.

Study temperaments, weaknesses, and strengths.

Learn how to minimize your weaknesses and maximize your strength

What To Do When Love Wanes

5. When you stop praying and the devil starts preying 

When the wine finished at the wedding at Cana in Galilee, they had to enlist the help of Jesus.

There is no doubt that the supernatural is needed to keep the fire of the bedroom hot and to bring fresh wine into relationships and marriages.

Keep your relationship and marriage established on the foundation of prayers!

That is how it is going to last!

Good morning!

May God grant more understanding in Jesus’ name




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How To Get Fresh Wine For Your Marriage

How To Get Fresh Wine For Your Marriage

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How To Get Fresh Wine For Your Marriage. Every once in a while, it is important to attend a place where other couples are sharing their experiences.

We all experience burn out and we often get tired of the whole daily routine of house chores, taking care of the children, wives tending the home and taking care of the husband, going to the market, husbands going to work daily looking for money to pay bills and so on.

All these routines day in day out leave us sometimes frustrated and just getting along.

However, the wine of marriage must be kept renewed from getting stale because of the imminent dangers.

There are marriage ministers and ministry set aside and instituted by God to help us. Marriage could be the greatest blessing and as well the greatest regret of one’s life, depending on how it is handled.

Marriage is highly spiritual and it takes spiritual principles to have a blissful marriage. For example, you cannot be selfish and expect your spouse to live joyfully with you. Because it is spiritual, we often need men of God to speak into our lives and marriage and break satanic strongholds off our marriages.

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Obviously, one of the aims of the devil is to destroy homes, families, and marriages, but thank God He came to give us life and to give it to us in abundance. This life is the very life of God that gives us the capacity to function in the class of God.

Such couples’ program is what we have put together to help your marriage experience the new life and new strength to carry on.

This year’s KHC Marriage Bootcamp is not to be missed. We will be discussing issues like communication, conflict Resolution, spicing your sex life, parenting, finances, health Talk, and lots more.

The venue is the Redemption Camp and it starts today.

Friday, 17th – From 4 pm

Saturday, 18th -All Day

Sunday, 19th – Departure by 5.00 am

Amongst many things, we will be looking at Communication, Conflict Resolution, Spicing Your Sex Life, Parenting, Finances, Health Talk, And lots more!

You don’t want to miss this wonderful opportunity. Plan and prepare to attend. Your marriage is worth all the sacrifice.

Remember, pour into your marriage and invest in it and you will enjoy the dividends thereof.

God bless your marriage!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I make plans to renew and refresh my marriage

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, give me understanding and wisdom in the affair of my marriage

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Heb 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

ACTION READING FOR THE DAY
Register for KHC Marriage Bootcamp

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Eccl 3




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