It’s a generationwhere husbands and wives are cheating on each other, even within the church. People have a lot of excuses why it had to happen.
It’s all sounding as if God has revised the scriptures and is now accommodating such lifestyles, but truthfully, the scripture remains the same. God still frowns at it!
The devil is a master strategist. From the very day you are married, he begins to plot and twist, all in a bid to bring you against your maker. You must do well not to slide into his slimy descent of deception.
As couples, you have to stay chaste and stay faithful no matter the pressures!
Have you found yourself where you ought not to? Here are three simple steps you can take to exit!
God wants you to exit, not try to edit the whole thing!
1. God Exit You have to settle with God first. Your relationship with Him which has been damaged as a result of disobedience has to be repaired. This is done with a genuinely repentant heart.
“But if we freely admit our sins when his light uncovers them, he will be faithful to forgive us every time. God is just to forgive us our sins because of Christ, and he will continue to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”
(1Jn 1:9, TPT)
God forgives!
However, you must make up your mind not to go back into that sin again.
After settling with God, the next is your spouse.
2. Spouse Exit This is the difficult part but very much necessary. You need that openness to demonstrate your honesty and resolve to change. Remember, however, that after disclosing it, you may be relieved, but for your spouse, a cycle of pain, and struggling with forgiveness just began. It might take a while to earn trust back. You must be careful not to break that fragile trust again.
3. Counsel Exit Here you need someone you are going to be accountable to who will also help you navigate the terrain of rebuilding trust and staying true to your resolve not to dabble into the murky waters of adultery again!
May God help you indeed!
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY I choose to cooperate with my spouse
PRAYER FOR THE DAY Lord, help me to cooperate with my spouse
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 1 John 1:9 (BBE)If we say openly that we have done wrong, he is upright and true to his word, giving us forgiveness of sins and making us clean from all evil.
Today is September To Remember – Day 21. September To Remember Fasting and prayers is called by God to birth greatness in us. Join us as we wait upon the Lord.
Scriptures for Today
September To Remember – Day 21
“And by thy sword shalt thou live, and shalt serve thy brother; and it shall come to pass when thou shalt have the dominion, that thou shalt break his yoke from off thy neck.”
(Gen 27:40, KJV)
“You will live by your sword, But be your brother’s slave. Yet when you rebel, You will break away from his control.””
(Gen 27:40, GNB)
“By your sword will you get your living and you will be your brother’s servant; but when your power is increased his yoke will be broken from off your neck.”
(Gen 27:40, BBE)
Prayer Points
September To Remember – Day 21
1. Begin to thank God for the twenty-first day of the fast.
2. Pray that you will not till the ground in hard labour.
3. Begin to bind every spirit behind slavery; I will not be a slave to any man.
4. Begin to break every yoke of poverty in your life and family; say no to living from hand to mouth.
5. Begin to pray for an increase in your power, to be able to deal with every abnormality in your life.
6. Begin to rebuke every spirit that makes you to be comfortable in affliction.
7. Pray that the elements in heaven and on earth work in your favour.
8. Begin to exercise dominion over all you do.
9. Begin to talk to God about your personal requests
10. Go ahead and thank God.
Confession For Today
September To Remember – Day 21
In the name of Jesus, I reject everything not in consonance with God’s plan for my life. I refuse to accept the workings of the devil over my life, relationship, marriage, finance etc. By the mercies of God, I break off my neck every evil yoke I have carried thus far. I reject whatever my God has not planted in me. Henceforth, I declare, I am no longer under the control of the devil and his cohorts. Sin shall no longer have dominion over me. As I wait on God, my power is increased. My inner strength is increased. I have the capacity to say NO to the things I do not want. I bind the devil and his agents sent to weary me and slow me down. I make tangible advancement in Jesus mighty name, Amen
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There are many tell-tale signs that will usually show that a lady doesn’t love you and will not likely marry you. Below I have listed some of them. If you find up to five of any of these in your lover, it’s time to sit down and talk and seek counsel.
1. She will take from you and not give; there will be no mutual giving of a gift 2. She will not introduce you to her Pastor. 3. She will easily snap at you, shut you down, and even scream at you as occasion demands. 4. She will not pray about you or about the relationship. 5. She is comfortable not speaking with you for many days. 6. She shows her preferences for other guys and endlessly compares you to other guys. 7. She is only momentarily happy with you when you buy her stuff 8. She allows you to do all the pursuing without making any efforts to reciprocate 9. She embarrasses you in the presence of her friends 10. She lets you know that she is managing you and that you are not her type. 11. There will be disregard and disrespect 12. If a lady is not interested in you, it will show in her value system towards you. 13. It will manifest in disregard for your person and principles. 14. It will show in her utter disrespect for you. 15. She will deliberately ignore your preferences. 16. She will despise your wisdom and won’t care a hoot about what happens. 17. She will see your missed calls and will not make an effort to call back. 18. She will annoyingly ignore your calls and not pick them. 19. She will not introduce you to her friends or parents. 20. She will show that she is not proud of you and all you represent.
The above are signs that she is disenfranchised from you and only holding on because of some favor she is getting from you or using you as an emotional fill-in-the-gap.
I pray that God will grant you more understanding and give you divine direction as to know the right decisions to take in your relationships.
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CONFESSION FOR THE DAY I am not oblivious to the tell-tale signs. My eyes are open.
PRAYER FOR THE DAY Pray that God will deliver you from the person that will not marry you.
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 1 Cor 13:5 (AMP)It is not conceited (arrogant and inflated with pride); it is not rude (unmannerly) and does not act unbecomingly. Love (God’s love in us) does not insist on its own rights or its own way, for it is not self-seeking; it is not touchy or fretful or resentful; it takes no account of the evil done to it [it pays no attention to a suffered wrong].
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY Review your relationship based on the above and be sure the person will marry you.
I suppose you alreadyunderstand what I mean by the word “chamber.”I am not talking about lawyers! Smile…and this is for married couples. This is married couples’ devotionals. If you are single before I count three; Oya! 1…2…Pim!
There are some times that love is made in what we often refer to as a quickie. That is understandable. And it’s one type of doing it. And it’s cool.
However, if you want to make your wife happy and give her an earth-shaking big “O,” then you are going to spend some more time or longer time before the actual thing.
This is because it takes a longer time for her to be ready, in comparison to the man. The mistake an inexperienced husband often makes is to assume she is feeling the same way he feels.
But it’s entirely different for her. A lot of husbands don’t know why their wives are unexcited at it. An inexperienced husband is apt to think she doesn’t really love him. But contrary is the case.
Make it exciting for her. Do not stick and be content being a missionary alone. Do something different, explore! Take a look at the scriptures:
“Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.”
(Pro 5:19, KJV)
God wants you to focus and enjoy your wife’s body!
Take a look at some other translations:
“Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose— don’t ever quit taking delight in her body. Never take her love for granted!”
(Pro 5:19, MSG)
“a loving doe and a graceful deer. Always let her breasts satisfy you. Always be intoxicated with her love.”
(Pro 5:19, GW)
I love that! Get intoxicated with your spouse! There is a blessing in doing just that! Have a great day!
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CONFESSION FOR THE DAY I am satisfied with my spouse. I am thrilled by her love.
PRAYER FOR THE DAY Lord, help me to focus on my spouse alone.
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY Prov 5:19 (AMP)Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant doe [tender, gentle, attractive] — let her bosom satisfy you at all times, and always be transported with delight in her love.
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY Spend more time in the chamber.
This is September To Remember – Day 20. September To Remember Fasting started few days back and has been a blessing. Ensure you join! You will find the video also below this post.
Scriptures for Today
September To Remember – Day 20
That the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give unto you the spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of him:
Eph 1:17 (KJV)
The eyes of your understanding being enlightened; that ye may know what is the hope of his calling, and what the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints,
Eph 1:18 (KJV)
And what is the exceeding greatness of his power to us-ward who believe, according to the working of his mighty power,
Eph 1:19 (KJV)
But God hath revealed them unto us by his Spirit: for the Spirit searcheth all things, yea, the deep things of God.
1 Corinthians 2:10 (KJV)
Prayer Points
September To Remember – Day 20
1. Begin to thank God for the twentieth day of the fast
2. Begin to pray for the Spirit of wisdom and revelation to know what God desires you to do in this season of your life.
3. Pray that the eyes of your understanding is flooded with light, to know the things you have in Christ.
4. Come against every form of blindness – blindness to your provision system, to-be spouse, business, etc.
5. Begin to create your marriage, ministry, business, etc with the mighty power at work in you.
6. Take authority over every negative spirit operating in your life.
7. Begin to pray that the Holy Ghost will open your eyes to know God’s will in your life.
8. Begin to pray for revival in your heart, so that you can be aligned to God per time.
9. Begin to talk to God about your personal requests
10. Go ahead and thank God.
Confession For Today
September To Remember – Day 20
In the name of Jesus, I have the spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of God. I have an unction from God, therefore, I know all things. By the spirit of God, the deep things of God are made known to me. Things about my relationship/marriage are revealed to me. God is opening my eyes to the supernatural dimension to prosperity. I am not lacking in understanding.
The eyes of my understanding are enlightened. I do not grope in darkness. There is illumination on my path. I will not stumble. I will not fall. I have full grasp of what my portion in Christ is. According to God’s power in me, I walk in the supernatural. I receive all I have declared in Jesus mighty name, Amen.
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