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There are many tell-tale signs that will usually show that a lady doesn’t love you and will not likely marry you. Below I have listed some of them. If you find up to five of any of these in your lover, it’s time to sit down and talk and seek counsel.

1. She will take from you and not give; there will be no mutual giving of a gift
2. She will not introduce you to her Pastor.
3. She will easily snap at you, shut you down, and even scream at you as occasion demands.
4. She will not pray about you or about the relationship.
5. She is comfortable not speaking with you for many days.
6. She shows her preferences for other guys and endlessly compares you to other guys.
7. She is only momentarily happy with you when you buy her stuff
8. She allows you to do all the pursuing without making any efforts to reciprocate
9. She embarrasses you in the presence of her friends
10. She lets you know that she is managing you and that you are not her type.
11. There will be disregard and disrespect
12. If a lady is not interested in you, it will show in her value system towards you.
13. It will manifest in disregard for your person and principles.
14. It will show in her utter disrespect for you.
15. She will deliberately ignore your preferences.
16. She will despise your wisdom and won’t care a hoot about what happens.
17. She will see your missed calls and will not make an effort to call back.
18. She will annoyingly ignore your calls and not pick them.
19. She will not introduce you to her friends or parents.
20. She will show that she is not proud of you and all you represent.

The above are signs that she is disenfranchised from you and only holding on because of some favor she is getting from you or using you as an emotional fill-in-the-gap.

I pray that God will grant you more understanding and give you divine direction as to know the right decisions to take in your relationships.

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I am not oblivious to the tell-tale signs. My eyes are open.

Pray that God will deliver you from the person that will not marry you.

1 Cor 13:5 (AMP)It is not conceited (arrogant and inflated with pride); it is not rude (unmannerly) and does not act unbecomingly. Love (God’s love in us) does not insist on its own rights or its own way, for it is not self-seeking; it is not touchy or fretful or resentful; it takes no account of the evil done to it [it pays no attention to a suffered wrong].

Review your relationship based on the above and be sure the person will marry you.

1 Cor 13


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