First of all, Happy New Month to all members and partners of Kisses and Huggs Club. We love you. thanks for your prayers, support and love even as we keep reaching more people! Blessings!
It’s easy to get caught up in the chaos of this world and forget to appreciate the little things.However, taking the time to express love and gratitude through words can deepen the bond between partners and create lasting memories. In this devotional, we’ll explore how simple expressions of appreciation can transform ordinary moments into romantic ones.
This devotional is going to give you example words you and your partner can learn and exchange from time to time.
Expressing Gratitude in Romantic Moments
One of the most powerful ways to nurture a relationship is by expressing gratitude. Take a moment to reflect on the qualities you admire in your partner and the ways they enrich your life. Then, find opportunities to share your feelings with them.
Imagine sitting across from your partner, holding hands, and gazing into each other’s eyes. Softly, you say, “I want you to know how much I appreciate everything you do for me. Your unwavering support, your attentive listening, and your encouragement mean the world to me. You’re not just my partner; you’re my rock, my confidant, and my greatest cheerleader.”
In response, your partner smiles and says, “I feel the same way about you. Your love, kindness, and belief in me sustain me through the challenges of life. You make me feel valued and cherished in ways I never thought possible. Your presence brightens my darkest days and fills my heart with warmth.”
Deepening Connection with Romantic Moments
Words have the power to deepen the emotional connection between partners. When you express appreciation and love, you affirm the strength of your bond and create a sense of intimacy that strengthens your relationship.
With shining eyes, you continue, “You make me feel like I can conquer the world when we’re together. Your love is my anchor, providing stability and comfort in turbulent times. I treasure our late-night conversations, our shared laughter, and the adventures we embark on together. You are my partner in every sense of the word.”
Moved by your words, your partner responds, “I am grateful for you as well. You are my best friend, my soulmate, and my constant source of joy. I promise to cherish, support, and adore you for as long as we’re together. Your presence fills my heart with happiness and brings balance to my life.”
Taking Action in Romantic Moments
While verbal expressions of love are essential, actions also play a crucial role in nurturing relationships. If you find it challenging to articulate your feelings, consider writing a heartfelt letter or poem to your partner. These written expressions of love can be just as meaningful as spoken words and provide a lasting reminder of your affection.
And for married couples, don’t forget the power of physical affection. A tender kiss or embrace can convey love and appreciation in ways that words cannot.
In conclusion, creating romantic moments with words is a simple yet powerful way to strengthen your relationship. By expressing gratitude, deepening your connection, and taking action, you can cultivate a love that withstands the test of time.
So, take a moment today to tell your partner how much they mean to you. You’ll be amazed at how a few heartfelt words can transform an ordinary day into something truly special.
Ten Ways to Show Appreciation for Your Partner’s Efforts
In this article, we’ll explore the ten ways to show appreciation for your partner’s efforts and pragmatically express your love.
1. Verbal Affirmation.
Choose moments with your partner, look into their eyes, and lovingly tell them what their efforts mean. Let sincerity ring in each word so they feel the warmth of love in your voice, and the strength to continue in the marital journey. It is abusive to never express and affirm your love!
2. Quality Time.
In a busy world, it’s easy to forget your loved one. Create spaces to unplug, listen with focus given only to them, and invent pleasurable times together, however small. Whether it’s a date night or a weekend getaway, make time for each other.
3. Acts of Service.
Lovingly lighten each other’s load. Through small deeds done without being asked, show your love and affection to your partner.
4. Written Notes.
Words can outlive a moment. Capture your feelings for them on paper and leave them as surprises to discover. Simple notes may become treasures kept and re-read to remember they have a place in your heart.
5. Gifts.
Thoughtful gifts don’t just gather dust – they say “I listened, I care, I want to see you smile.” Find what sparks joy for your loved one and present it regularly to watch their eyes light up with joy.
6. Support.
A partnership is giving strength when the other has none left. Celebrate each win together, and in times of struggle stand beside them as shelter from the storm. Your steady faith in them will help bear them through all the ups and downs.
7. Quality Touch.
Our bodies know languages that words cannot say. With touch, express the wordless ways you find comfort in being close. Casual moments of contact can speak volumes of the bond you share. Physical touch releases oxytocin, the love hormone, which strengthens your bond and shows your partner that you care.
8. Help with Chores.
Lending helping hands with chores to show them their rest and dreams are as important as your own. Teamwork makes any task lighter.
9. Surprises.
Keep the magic alive with surprises. Surprise them with fun, thoughtful gestures, with passion and care. Surprises say “I was thinking of only you in this moment and wanted to bring you joy.”
10. Gratitude.
Say thanks for all they are to you each day, not just grand gestures but small kindnesses. Gratitude is the simplest love language – so speak it with your eyes, smile, touch, and heart.
Showing appreciation is a powerful way to build a stronger relationship and marriage, so take the time to show your partner that you value and appreciate their efforts.
One of the greatest elements of the foundation of our relationship and marriage was prayers. Oh yes, we prayed. There were no mobile phones in those days, but it was made possible because we attended the same college! We prayed like our lives depended on it, and yes, our lives depended on it!
Today, you have phones and other gadgets, so distance should not even be an issue for you in praying together.
Why should you pray? The devil is on the prowl, and you cannot afford to play. A person who does not pray will eventually become a prey.
Here are a few tips that will help you build a strong prayer life in your relationship or marriage:
1. Prioritize it
The first thing in the morning is not checking your phone. The first thing is to worship and pray to your maker. If you are single in a relationship, you and your lover can have a fixed time and wake up one another via calls regardless of your location. If you are already married, it is even much better. I know some couples wake up at different times and pray separately.
That is okay, but ensure you still find other times when you pray together. Carve out some quality time to pray together and create that special connection. It’s about opening up, being real, and bringing God into your relationship.
2. Add Bible Juice.
God’s word is life! Sprinkle some relevant scriptures into your prayer times to add some extra spice. Let your prayers be Bible-based, and make sure you have a word to back up your request like a lawyer would do in court. This will encourage you as partners to dig into God’s word to find relevant scriptures for your prayers.
3. Keep It Real and Vulnerable.
No need to “form” for God! Prayer is all about being raw and open with God and your partner. It’s a safe space to share your deepest dreams, struggles, and flaws. Embrace that authenticity, yo! Being vulnerable in prayer creates an environment for you and your partner to grow together. Realness breeds a solid connection, and prayer is the perfect platform for that.
4. Make it a Habit
Consistency is the key. The devil fears consistency, and that is why he fights it. Do everything possible to maintain consistency in the timing and the place where you pray. Systemize your prayer times, and you will see God bring systems and structures into your life and finances.
One of the ways to avoid rancour in relationships and marriage is to budget. Not just a budget, but a budget that honors God.
As Christians, we are called to be good stewards of our resources, including our finances. Creating a budget that honors God requires us to prioritize our spending, live within our means, and trust in His provision.
In this devotional, we will explore practical steps to create a budget that aligns with biblical principles and honors God.
Step 1: Identify Your Income
Start by calculating your total monthly income from all sources, including your job, investments, and any side hustles. This will give you a clear picture of how much money you have coming in each month.
Step 2: Categorize Your Expenses
Next, categorize your expenses into needs, wants, and giving. Needs include essential expenses like rent/mortgage, utilities, food, and transportation. Wants include discretionary expenses like entertainment, hobbies, and travel. Giving includes your tithe (10% of your income) and any other charitable donations.
Step 3: Prioritize Your Spending
Prioritize your spending based on biblical principles. Here are some guidelines to consider.
Give first: Set aside your tithe and any other charitable donations as soon as you receive your income. “Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.” – 2 Corinthians 9:7
Meet your needs: Ensure you have enough money for essential expenses like rent/mortgage, utilities, food, and transportation.
Save for the future: Set aside a portion of your income for long-term savings and investments.
Live within your means: Avoid overspending and debt by living within your means.
Step 4: Create a Budget Plan
Using the 50/30/20 rule as a guideline, allocate your income into the following categories.
50% for needs (essential expenses)
30% for wants (discretionary expenses)
20% for giving and savings (tithe, charitable donations, and long-term savings)
Step 5: Monitor and Adjust
Regularly monitor your spending and adjust your budget as needed. Consider using a budgeting app or spreadsheet to track your expenses and stay on top of your finances
Forgiveness is one special gift we have graciously received from God. God instructs us to forgive ourselves and also extend forgiveness to others who offend us. Let’s see the dictionary meaning of forgiveness. I believe understanding what forgiveness is will help us in forgiving others. Psychologists generally define forgiveness as a conscious, deliberate decision to release feelings of resentment or vengeance towards a person who has harmed you, regardless of whether they actually deserve your forgiveness.
This morning, we will look at 10 benefits of forgiveness in marriage.
Emotional Healing: Forgiveness and not holding onto past hurts and resentment heal emotions, promoting a healthy mindset and helping us move forward in marriage.
Promotes Healthy Communication: Couples are better able to communicate freely and openly, leading them to be more vulnerable with each other. Resentment blocks communication channels.
Improves Intimacy: Forgiveness breeds more intimacy, while unforgiveness breeds resentment, strife, grudges, and bitterness, all of which are intimacy blockers.
Better Understanding: There is better understanding when couples forgive, knowing that they are not perfect and are subject to making mistakes and hurting their spouse.
Resilience: Forgiveness strengthens the bond between couples. When forgiveness is genuine, their commitment to each other deepens, and they are able to face any challenges in the future.
Better Atmosphere: Forgiveness creates a loving atmosphere where unity and joy are present, and there’s no animosity and strife.
Marital Fulfillment: Forgiveness gives a sense of fulfillment in marriage where you feel loved and not judged.
Reduces Stress and Tension: Forgiveness will reduce the tension and stress caused by unforgiveness. Couples will enjoy a happier, freer, and more loving marriage.
Children are known to be better, healthier, smarter, and more emotionally stable when parents don’t have resentment towards each other.
Increases Empathy: Forgiveness helps couples to see things better from each other’s perspective and understand one another better, embracing their differences.
Overall, forgiveness helps couples live better, achieve more results as couples, and enables the Holy Spirit to work better in their midst.
Let’s see what the Bible says about forgiveness:
Colossians 3:13 “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” Ephesians 4:31-32 “Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice.
God will strengthen us to walk in forgiveness in Jesus’ mighty name.
