Practical Wisdom for Couples

Practical Wisdom for Couples

There are a few things that add spice into your marriage. Apart from praying and doing all the spiritual aspects, the things you do physically matters too.

We need to remind ourselves of some of these things. They are so simple; in fact, some of us vowed to do these things while single, but life happens to us, and then we get overcome by events.

There is no way you can start doing these things and stay committed to doing them that your marriage will not be better and grow intimately.

Let’s take a look at some of those things.

1. Take time to touch daily

a. Hugs – aim at 3-4 hugs per day for atleast 20sec

b. Hold hands for at least 10 mins per day

c. Cuddles – at least 30 mins everyday

d. Massage – at least 10-15 min per day

e. Intimate touch – kissing, caressing & lovemaking.

Physical touch reduces stress and anxiety. Oxytocin release hormones of bonding. It promotes feelings of attachment, closeness & bonding

2. Find something to laugh about daily

a. Schedule laughing time – Set aside time to see a movie

b. Find the humor, laugh at yourself

c. Be playful – playful activities & games that bring laughter & joy in your relationship

d. Share funny stories: funny stories about your past.

These tips are simple yet practical and profound.

God bless our marriages in Jesus’ mighty name, amen.