How to Spot a Faulty Love Life . There are signs that show a friendship probably won’t lead to marriage.
There are signs along the way that a relationship will end or crash.
Most of the time, these signs are clear, but when we are “in love,” we don’t notice them.
The man who will end up hitting you would have given you hints when you were dating.
He would have given you a few hits and punches here and there, but you probably let him off the hook because you thought he would change.
The woman who will bother you all day and night probably gave you hints, but you must have just thought it was her personality.
How to Spot a Faulty Love Life
If a woman didn’t care about your goals and dreams, she would have shown it, but you were so in love with her that all you could see were her hot legs.
The Holy Spirit will often try to guide us and let us know when something is wrong in a relationship. But if we think, “I know everything,” then there’s nothing God can do.
Because He is fair, God will always let you choose for yourself. He won’t change what you want. If God can stop us from doing what we want to do, then everyone should be made to be born again and accept Jesus Christ into their lives.
How to Spot a Faulty Love Life
God won’t do that, though. But if you ask Him and listen to Him, He will always lead, direct, and help you.
I’ll talk about one area where problems often show up, but we don’t pay attention to them: spiritual life.
You need to be very careful with him if his spiritual life is weak and nothing to write home about.
If she doesn’t care about God, she should just watch it.
If he or she doesn’t value God’s word by reading and studying it regularly, there is definitely something wrong.
If he or she doesn’t go to church often, that’s a very bad sign.
Don’t let love make you lose your mind.
He only drinks when he is upset. Really?
He doesn’t use hemp to calm down. Instead, he smokes a few cigarettes. Really?
She is always busy, so she doesn’t go to church.
You are dating, but only both of you know about it. Nobody else! There’s something wrong with that.
You’re dating, but he or she doesn’t call much, sometimes for weeks. Well, if you go into marriage like that, you should already know what you’re getting into.
I’ve always said this: Marriage doesn’t make anyone different.
Already married and bad issues are cropping up? The you want to see help quickly in marriage counseling. The issues you ignore are waiting and brooding into more complex issues, so its better to address them as they show up!
Dear Babe, What Exactly Do You Want? No matter how spiritual a lady is, there are certain things she wants from her man, single or married.
This morning, we will look at a few of them.
1. She wants someone to play with.
There is a little girl inside every woman who always wants to play with the little boy in her lover.
Learn to play with her in your relationship. Don’t always be too serious. Get her to laugh. Have fun with her. Together, go to the movies.
2. She wants a guide, not a teacher.
Every woman wants to be guided and not told what to do.
There are many big differences between the two.
Don’t tell her what to do, because you are not her teacher.
Don’t give her a sermon; you’re not her preacher.
Don’t use Bible verses to get mad at her, that won’t help.
When a mentor is kind, things go better and faster.
3. She wants a man who is honest.
Every woman wants a man who is honest. Cheating comes from the same heart that tells lies. When you tell the truth, you know you are safe.
Make a promise to always tell the truth, no matter what. A man who tells the truth will have children who also tell the truth. It’s as easy as that.
Don’t walk down the aisle with him if he lies on the spot.
4. She wants a guy who will let her say what she wants to say.
Every woman wants to talk and loves to do it. Let her say what she wants. Don’t silence her. Even if you don’t understand what she’s saying, let her talk.
She feels better when she talks and says what’s on her mind. Let her be.
Don’t make her look like an idiot.
5. She wants a guy who is responsible and capable with money.
Lastly, every woman wants a man who is good with money and not careless with it.
A guy who isn’t good with money is a big source of heartache and frustration for the woman.
Some Ways To Make Your Husband Happy. This morning, let’s talk about some ideas on how to make your husband happy
1. Always show your husband respect and deference.
Respect him as the leader. Regard him as the leader. Respect him in public and in private. Respect him with your words, ideas, and actions. Even as singles, respect is a major issue for your fiancé. However, you shouldn’t hop on the bed because you want to “respect” him.
2. Do not constantly cling to your own point of view.
Allow him to make the final call. Do not usurp his power by making decisions without his delegated authority. As singles during courtship, you start learning how to get your opinion across without coming across as rude.
Some Ways To Make Your Husband Happy.
3. Do not go silent on your husband.
Be upbeat. Don’t be a grumpy wife. Men are rational, therefore do everything you can to communicate yourself verbally. Learn to keep the communication flowing.
4. Have fun.
Every spouse has a young boy inside him. He wishes the small boy would come out and play every now and then, simply to relieve the stress of work and life.
Being cheerful and fun improves your health and frees your thoughts.
5. Do not nag your husband.
Pro 27:15 A continual dropping in a very rainy day and a contentious woman are alike.
You are pushing your husband away when you nag him.
He will be duped into believing that there is serenity outdoors, away from his wife.
Some Ways To Make Your Husband Happy.
6. Never sexually reject him.
Your hubby enjoys and desires sex virtually all of the time. Don’t force him to beg for it.
Lovemaking should not be viewed as a chore or compulsion. Be eager and ecstatic.
As singles in courtship, sex is a no-go area. Do not give in to a sexual relationship before your wedding!
7. Only God should have precedence over your husband.
Assure him that he is not competing for your affection or attention with anyone else.
No one, not even your children, should take your husband’s position.
Some Ways To Make Your Husband Happy.
8. Pray for your husband on a daily basis.
Please pray for your hubby. Pray for understanding, wisdom, and God’s blessing.
Intercede with God on his behalf.
As singles, in courtship, pray more than have fun all over the place!
Advancing By Caring For Your Lover. The man is always the muscular, stronger gender while his feminine counterpart can be frail, weaker, and vulnerable, physically and emotionally. However, the administrative and justice system of God for any marriage is amazing.
Husbands are to care for their wives. And if you don’t, God is unequivocal about it. Your prayers will be hindered.
Who wants his prayers hindered? Who wants his ways hard? Who wants his life without God’s support? That is not a place to be!
But it is so clear what God wants in the scriptures. Even as singles, you cannot be sowing wild oats all over the place, thinking there would be no consequences. In the ideal dating situation, the guy is the protector of the lady’s body and soul, not the violator of it.
Advancing By Caring For Your Lover
Let’s see how the scripture puts it.
1 Peter 3:7 (KJV) Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
Let’s consider other translations to see what God is saying here!
1 Peter 3:7 (MSG) The same goes for you husbands: Be good husbands to your wives. Honor them, delight in them. As women they lack some of your advantages. But in the new life of God’s grace, you’re equals. Treat your wives, then, as equals so your prayers don’t run aground.
Who wants his prayers to run aground?
1 Peter 3:7 (GNB) In the same way you husbands must live with your wives with the proper understanding that they are more delicate than you. Treat them with respect, because they also will receive, together with you, God’s gift of life. Do this so that nothing will interfere with your prayers.
You must relate with your fiancée or wife with the proper understanding that they are more delicate and they are to be treated with respect.
Advancing By Caring For Your Lover
Pause for a moment and see if you are doing this. If not, this is the time for repentance! And O ye wives, don’t sit back and give attitudes making it harder for him to love! If his prayers are hindered, so are yours! May your prayers not be hindered in Jesus’ name!
If you are still single, the way you are relating with your colleagues, roommates, and friends is an indication of what will play out when a relationship ensues. It is therefore time to start working on yourself!
Where Is The Virtue In My Lover? Many people enter relationships and marriage expecting the other partner to be loving and sweet with little expectation on their part.
They seem to indulge themselves in their weaknesses. We permit ourselves to still linger in our shortcomings, where we are still dealing with our flesh. We expect our partner to be a shoulder we can lean on and a support system to carry all our burdens.
We expect them to be our solution to every problem and to have answers to all our problems.
We expect them to understand us when we are naughty, moody, and unpleasant.
As all these expectations seem wonderful, the reality is that there is no human being capable of fitting into that mold.
The Godhead, that is God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit is the only perfect one that can fit into that mold.
The Bible rightly says in Proverb 20:6 the last phrase, a faithful man who can find?
Pro 20:6 Most men will proclaim every one his own goodness: but a faithful man who can find?
Your search for a faithful man is going to be a long search. The faithfulness of character, and diligence in all things, spiritual and natural comes only when we embrace the virtues of God. When God the Father becomes our father indeed, God the Son becomes our meditation day and night and the Holy Spirit becomes our greatest ally.
The Proverbs 31 Woman paints an incredible picture of a woman of virtue, strength, and character, which happens to be every man’s dream woman. Verse 30b seems to be the most important verse in the whole chapter. I think the whole chapter rests on this verse where the secret of Proverb 31 woman hinges.
Pro 31:30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
The proverb 31 woman fears the Lord.
It is high time we begin to look inwards and begin to develop our own virtue by the fear of the Lord. Whether man or woman, God is the only guaranteed source of our virtue.
An omelet is not better than the eggs that make the omelet. Instead of putting pressure on the other party for performance, let us work at becoming virtuous ourselves. Let us work at being loving, caring, gentle, kind, forgiving, a person of the word and spirit.
Whether in a relationship or in marriage. Let us work at being that powerful person. That person that will be a positive influencer in the relationship and marriage.
