How To Prevent Disunity In The Home

How To Prevent Disunity In The Home

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Today, we will be looking at a house that is not united; the causes and consequences and the possible solutions.

God created homes to be united and to be the greatest source of togetherness and unity so that from our homes, unity can spread to the nation, our workplace, and to other relationships we have.

The devil is scared of families. He is scared of the unity in the family. He cannot imagine the havoc that will be done to his kingdom if families are united. He became proactive, and so all his attack is on the family. He wants to prevent unity in our homes and families as much as possible.

Let’s look at the scriptures

But he, knowing their thoughts, said unto them, Every kingdom divided against itself is brought to desolation; and a house divided against a house falleth.-  Luk 11:17

The Amplified version puts it in a better way

But He, [well] aware of their intent and purpose, said to them, Every kingdom split up against itself is doomed and brought to desolation, and so house falls upon house. [The disunited household will collapse.] – Luk11:17

It says a disunited household will collapse. May that not be our portion in Jesus name!

We should try to prevent disunity in our homes. Husbands and wives need to be on the same page. And one major thing that can cause disunity or a breach in the spirit is not being truthful.

Insincerity will break the unity. In the spirit realm, it is like a breach. Quarrels, strife, and suspicion, are all causes of disunity.

Wives not being submissive to their husbands threatens the unity in the home. One degree away from the truth is falsehood. There is no little lie or white lie. A lie is a lie

May God bless us.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am not disobedient to God. I am quick to hear and obey.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, teach me your ways that I may do it your way

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Psa 133:1 (KJV) Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Study the word unity

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
1 Samuel 4-8

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Who Exactly Is A Husband? –Part 2

Who Exactly Is A Husband? –Part 2

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Continued from yesterday…

The son is playing football initially, but the moment he hears the dad’s car horn, he jumps into the living room, opens Modern Biology textbook and starts reading. 

Dad comes in and sees son sweating like Christmas goat. He asks why he is sweating like that and the boy has no choice but to point to the Modern Biology textbook, ‘it’s the Amoeba sir!’

The wife hurries into the kitchen and puts food in the microwave oven, while dad clears his throat. The lion of the tribe of his house has come!

That is not an ideal home, something is defective!
When those children have the slightest opportunity to be outside the home, they will misbehave.

There is something about having a home that radiates with God’s love. The husband and wife must work together to achieve this.

A husband comes home drunk. He comes home late. He beats his wife in front of his children. He scolds his wife in front of his children. He keeps malice with his wife and sometimes with his children. He does not provide for his family. He is involved in extra-marital affairs. He does not eat his wife’s food. The list is endless.

Those behaviours are not ‘house binding’ but ‘animal husbandry!’ The man is unwittingly sowing wrong seeds into his home and when the harvest comes? The scripture aptly says when you sow wind, you will reap whirlwind!

Dear husband, be good. You will enjoy yourself and your family that way. Don’t compromise. Don’t cheat on her. Be faithful!

When you are faithful to your wife, you will enjoy the fullness of God’s blessings, favour and approval. Learn the art of conflict resolution.

Be patient with her! I pray God bless and keep your home and marriage in Jesus name. Amen!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am a great husband. I love my wife like Christ loves the church.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Lord, grant me the grace to be a good husband to my wife and a great example to my children.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Bless your fresh-flowing fountain! Enjoy the wife you married as a young man! –Proverbs 5:18 (MSG) 

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Write out seven special things you can do daily in the coming week to rekindle your marriage and affirm your wife.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ezra 3

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How To Escape Home Invaders In Marriage

How To Escape Home Invaders In Marriage

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There are several factors that could literally put an end to a marriage.

The first in the series of marriage killers we will be looking at is Home Invaders. I always counsel newly married couples – Don’t allow anybody to come and live with you when you are newly married, be it cousins, brothers, sisters, mother or father.

If you want to help your folk, and you should help them, you can make provision for them without necessarily their coming to stay with you. How I wish newly married couples can lend their ears to this wisdom.

This is because the newly wedded couple needs as much privacy as possible to be alone and to discover themselves. They don’t need any distractions in those foundational years, especially the first five years.

They need to focus on God and themselves. If a young couple can focus on God and themselves in the first few years, they would have established a solid foundation that will withstand any marital storm or wind that may come.

Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. – Proverbs 5:18 (KJV)

They don’t need anything that might trigger inhibitions in their sexual life. They don’t need anybody to complain about the wife’s inability to cook well or the husband’s uncaring attitude.

Two is a good company, three is a crowd. They don’t need somebody to critique the stew and how the meat didn’t collide well with the catfish.

The young wife needs to focus her love and respect on her husband and she does not need all the additional emotional upheavals and pressures that are often engendered when she has a lot of people to attend to.

They should be left alone to discover themselves. They should be free to walk around their house naked, play together, jump on themselves and have a lot of fun together.

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am full of wisdom to fulfill my role in my marriage.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Lord, open the eyes of my understanding as regards my marriage and fill me with the Spirit of wisdom.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Bless your fresh-flowing fountain! Enjoy the wife you married as a young man! –Proverbs 5:18 (MSG)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Follow the suggestions above

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Luke 8

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How To Show Love When Needed

How To Show Love When Needed

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One of Jesus’ popular messages on earth was centered around love. You should therefore learn how to show love.

Love for God and love for neighbor. Your neighbors includes: your family, friends, teachers and everyone you have an opportunity to meet.

Beyond loving God, God wants you to love everyone of these people and also show them how much you love them.

Showing how much you love your neighbor is proof that you are God’s child and you love God.

How do you show love to these people?

There are several ways to show love to people, I’d help by pointing out a few.

1. By being obedient to your parents.

2. By praying for everyone.

3. By not being a naughty child, either at home or in school.

4. By caring for your friends.

5. By helping out when you are needed.

May God help us to shoe love when needed in Jesus name, Amen.

Prayer:
Help me to be a love being oh Lord.

Action point:
Look out for ways you can show love to those around you.

Declaration:
I show love to all and sundry.

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How To Secure Your Home Through A Soft Answer

How To Secure Your Home Through A Soft Answer

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This morning, by the Holy Spirit, I want to show us something that will help eliminate quarrels that might lead to strife, malice, hurts, and offenses in our marriages. That something is a soft answer.

It looks very simple because I have observed that the things that make for great success in life are simple yet profound. Their simplicity, however does not make them easy to do. If they were that easy, we shouldn’t be having issues in our marriages.

However, because of our pride, ego, human tendencies, selfishness, lack of patience and understanding, we cannot bring ourselves to do it.

What I am talking about is our responses. How we communicate with our spouse. Our response is very important at every point in time. In fact, our response is so important it gives direction to what happens next. The initial words spoken are not as important as our responses.

Pro 15:1 KJV
A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.

As couples, we ought to pay extra attention on how we respond. As a wife, never allow your response to be out of anger. Learn what a soft answer means.

As a husband, learn what a soft answer is. It is better to turn away wrath in your marriage than to prove a point that ‘you are the son of your father’ or that you are the ‘man in the house.’

Does that mean that even when my wife or husband talks harshly to me I should not give it back to him? Well, that is exactly what that scripture is saying.

It is very difficult. That was why I earlier said that something is simple doesn’t make it easy to do. It takes our learning and decision plus determination.

You need to choose whether you want to hold on to your ego and respond to your wife or husband harshly or you want to master the art of a ‘soft answer’. 

No matter how much you are tempted to answer harshly, don’t bulge, choose rather to give a soft answer. If God can have one person in the marriage give a soft answer, God will step in and turn away the wrath, strife, quarrel, offense, malice that will lead to hurt and unforgiving spirit.

God bless your marriage.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will go for wisdom

PRAYER FOR THE DAY

Lord, guard and guide my mouth

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Pro 18:15 (KJV)  The heart of the prudent getteth knowledge; and the ear of the wise seeketh knowledge.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Forgive all hurts

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Genesis 30 – 31