In the heart of the African savanna, where golden grass sways under the warm breeze and the great Mukwa Tree stands tall, lived Naledi and Temba. Their village was one of tradition and community, where life followed the cycles of nature and the wisdom of the elders guided daily living. Naledi, known for her grace and strength, and Temba, a respected hunter, were a celebrated couple. However, as time passed, the harmony in their home began to unravel.
Naledi and Temba: The Early Days
Naledi moved with the agility of a gazelle and possessed a beauty that rivaled the first light of dawn. Temba, strong and brave, provided sustenance and security for their people. Their union had been blessed by the elders, but differences in their upbringings led to growing discord. Temba’s dissatisfaction and Naledi’s confusion and hurt became evident in their interactions.
Contrasting Upbringings
Naledi’s upbringing was marked by strength and self-reliance, traits she learned from her resilient mother. In contrast, Temba was raised in a household filled with love and affection, where his mother ensured that her husband felt cherished every day. These differences created a chasm between Naledi and Temba, leading to frequent arguments and misunderstandings.
The Wisdom of Uncle
Noticing the growing rift, the village elder, Uncle, called Naledi and Temba to his hut. Uncle, a man of great wisdom, shared the story of the warrior and the maiden, who faced similar challenges. He advised Naledi and Temba to learn from each other and respect each other’s ways to bridge their differences and find happiness.
Uncle’s Advice for Naledi
Uncle provided specific advice to Naledi on how to make Temba happy:
1. Respect and Honour: Honor Temba both publicly and privately in words, thoughts, and deeds.
2. Shared Decisions: Share her thoughts and listen to Temba’s, allowing him to make the final decision.
3. Cheerfulness: Maintain a cheerful demeanor and share her joys and sorrows with Temba.
4. Playfulness: Engage in playful activities to ease the pressures of life.
5. Avoid Nagging: Speak with kindness and patience, avoiding constant complaining.
6. Intimacy: Embrace moments of love and maintain a warm connection.
7. Priority: Assure Temba that he is not competing for her love or attention.
8. Prayer: Pray for Temba’s wisdom, strength, and understanding daily.
Trials and Tribulations
Despite Uncle’s guidance, a severe drought struck the village, causing the rivers to dry up and crops to wither. Temba’s hunts were unsuccessful, leading to his frustration and resentment. Naledi, feeling overwhelmed by survival demands, found it hard to maintain cheerfulness. Their arguments intensified, but Uncle reminded them to respect each other’s ways and support each other through the difficult times.
A Lesson in Unity
Inspired by Uncle’s words, Naledi and Temba made a renewed effort to support each other. Naledi involved Temba in decision-making, and Temba began to appreciate Naledi’s hard work and resilience. They found joy in simple pleasures and strengthened their bond through playfulness and emotional connection.
The Return of Prosperity
After many moons, the rains returned, reviving the savanna. The village celebrated with a grand feast. Naledi and Temba’s relationship, now stronger, radiated harmony and joy. Uncle praised their transformation, emphasizing the importance of understanding, respect, and emotional connection in love.
The Legacy of Love
Years later, Naledi and Temba became elders, sharing their wisdom with younger generations. Their story became a cherished part of the village’s folklore, reminding everyone of the power of love and unity. The tale of the warrior and the maiden, and Uncle’s wisdom, continued to guide the villagers.
Conclusion
The story of Naledi and Temba teaches that with understanding, respect, and a willingness to grow together, love can endure and thrive. Their journey through conflict and hardship shows the importance of appreciating each other’s strengths and differences. May their story inspire us to nurture our relationships and find strength in unity, no matter the trials we face.
Today, we will be looking at a house that is not united; the causes and consequences and the possible solutions.
God created homes to be united and to be the greatest source of togetherness and unity so that from our homes, unity can spread to the nation, our workplace, and to other relationships we have.
The devil is scared of families. He is scared of the unity in the family. He cannot imagine the havoc that will be done to his kingdom if families are united. He became proactive, and so all his attack is on the family. He wants to prevent unity in our homes and families as much as possible.
Let’s look at the scriptures
But he, knowing their thoughts, said unto them, Every kingdom divided against itself is brought to desolation; and a house divided against a house falleth.- Luk 11:17
The Amplified version puts it in a better way
But He, [well] aware of their intent and purpose, said to them, Every kingdom split up against itself is doomed and brought to desolation, and so house falls upon house. [The disunited household will collapse.] – Luk11:17
It says a disunited household will collapse. May that not be our portion in Jesus name!
We should try to prevent disunity in our homes. Husbands and wives need to be on the same page. And one major thing that can cause disunity or a breach in the spirit is not being truthful.
Insincerity will break the unity. In the spirit realm, it is like a breach. Quarrels, strife, and suspicion, are all causes of disunity.
Wives not being submissive to their husbands threatens the unity in the home. One degree away from the truth is falsehood. There is no little lie or white lie. A lie is a lie
May God bless us.
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY I am not disobedient to God. I am quick to hear and obey.
PRAYER FOR THE DAY Lord, teach me your ways that I may do it your way
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY Psa 133:1 (KJV) Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!
We used to hear this phrase a lot long time ago, but nowadays, we hardly hear such a thing. The world has gone digital, fast and every body seems busy.
Knowledge has made people to replace old values with modern ones. The question is does modernization makes our conclusions about marriage right?
The modern day view of marriage is contractual while the good old days view marriage in Gods eyes as a covenant.
Contractual view says, you do this, then I do that’. While covenant says, I will do this for you because I am committed to you. It doesn’t really matter what you do or don’t do’.
Marriage as a contract is always based on negotiations, convenience, and protection of self. Each spouse maintain their lanes and do what is expected. Otherwise, the marriage contact does not work and they go their separate ways which means separation or divorce.
In this case, marriage is not for a common goal. There is no fulfilling purpose or destiny together on view. There is no sense of purpose or God bringing the couples together to fulfill a mandate or an assignment.
All that is involved is ‘I am attracted to you, and you to me. We have a love connection between us and we are good to go’.
Marriage is for better, for worse. This is a little scary which brings with it a sense of awe. Two hearts and should beating as one is a mystery. That mystery can only be unraveled by the help of divinity.
Here, there is a sense of a divine assignment. Marriage is not just lived on their terms but on the terms of God, who is the covenant witness and judge in the marriage union.
Each couples live their lives following a particular road map created by the creator. That means there is a supervisory role performed by God.
The husband cannot just do whatever he likes to do, neither can the wife do whatever she likes or wishes in the marriage.
There are guiding principles, guiding both husband and wife. There is a race set before each one to run, and each one runs with passion looking to God for grace to accomplish his/her race.
Here the wife is protected as well or as much as the husband is protected too. Both husband and wife have a common father who protects their interest.
It is not based on human standards that the rights of the husband is protected above the wife. Where the woman is subjected to servitude.
Or in some cultures, where the wife is overly protected above the husband.
Marriage is indeed till death so us part.
May God grant us grace to do His will.
God bless our marriage.
CONFESSION FOR TODAY My marriage is blessed.
PRAYER FOR TODAY Lord, help me to live marriage as you ordained.
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY Matthew 19:6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY Go through your marriage vows again.
We will be examining the importance of family today. Your family members are your closest neighbours. They all love you and show this in many ways. Do you also show them the same love they show you?
The second most important commandment says: ‘Love others as much as you love yourself.’ No other commandment is more important than these.” – Mk 12:31 CEV
Family members are the most unappreciated folks. We tend to overlook their feelings and needs because we feel they won’t mind at all.
This is one reason why you shouldn’t take your family members for granted. Appreciate everything they do for you or give to you.
Showing appreciation tells them that you love and care for them. No matter how small their help might be, show some level of appreciation.
As a Christian child you should have passion for God. You should be passionate for the things of God. You must burn with the desire to do things for Him.
The thought that it’s for God must push you more to do things that will bring glory to His name, make Him happy and be pleased with you.
How do you show your passion for God? It shows in your day-to-day activities at home, school, church and anywhere you visit or are.
If your passion for God reflects Him to other people around you, He is more than ready to bless you. You just won a spiritual jackpot!
That should be your number one goal. Wining souls for Him. And the more you do this, the more He gives you the grace to do more.
May the grace of our Lord be with you. May the passion for God and His things fill you u. Amen
Prayer: Lord, make me Passionate for You and everything that concerns You. Amen.
Action point: Read more about how to be passionate.
