Every strong building starts with a solid foundation. The taller the building, the deeper the foundation must go. In the same way, everything in life—whether good or bad—has a foundation, including infidelity.
Nobody wakes up one day and suddenly decides infidelity is the way to go. It always starts somewhere.
The devil is strategic in his approach. He doesn’t attack randomly, which is why he often seems so precise in his efforts. All he needs is a crack—a small loophole. Once he finds it, he’s ready to act.
One of the key cracks he exploits is insincerity. Let’s be clear: even a slight deviation from the truth is still falsehood. A lie is a lie. The Bible doesn’t recognize “white lies.”
Proverbs 6:16-19 (GW) There are six things that the LORD hates, even seven that are disgusting to him: arrogant eyes, a lying tongue, hands that kill innocent people, a mind devising wicked plans, feet that are quick to do wrong, a dishonest witness spitting out lies, and a person who spreads conflict among relatives.
Most of us have lied at some point in our lives, but that doesn’t necessarily make us vulnerable to the devil. The scripture above speaks about those who make lying a habit, even when there’s nothing to gain.
If you’re already in the habit of lying, even as a single person, you’re setting yourself up for infidelity in marriage. Why? Because the same heart that lies now will be the same heart you take into your relationship, except you allow Jesus to do a heart surgery for you.
This is dangerous because the Bible clearly shows us who the devil is:
John 8:44 (GW) You come from your father, the devil, and you desire to do what your father wants you to do. The devil was a murderer from the beginning. He has never been truthful. He doesn’t know what the truth is. Whenever he tells a lie, he’s doing what comes naturally to him. He’s a liar and the father of lies.
Let’s analyze it this way: if you have a close relationship with your biological father, he might visit you occasionally. But if the devil is your “father,” he won’t just visit—he’ll move in and make himself at home in your life.
So how do you break free from this terrible habit?
Ephesians 4:25 (GW) Get rid of lies. Speak the truth to each other, because we are all members of the same body.
Treat lies like garbage. How do you treat garbage? Exactly. You dispose of them completely. Speak the truth in every situation. It will save you from unnecessary pain and conflict in the long run.
May God grant us more understanding.

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