Handling A Difficult Spouse

Handling A Difficult Spouse

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Handling A Difficult Spouse. Yesterday, we looked at four of the ways we can handle a difficult spouse. We looked at:

1. Prayers

2. Patience

3. Perspective

4. Praise

We continue from here.

Handling A Difficult Spouse

5. Persist in doing good

1 Pet. 3:1-4 talks to women about dealing with a difficult husband. They should have a quiet and calm spirit (sweet spirit). It’s difficult but possible with the help of the Holy Spirit. Keep your smiles. Don’t retaliate. Avoid arguments. Avoid talking back or answering rudely.

 Just keep calm. Don’t give fire for fire, it can burn down the house. You believe God is already fighting for you. Keep the atmosphere cool by being full of thanksgiving, worship, and praise.

1Pet 3:7 talks to husbands dealing with difficult wives. They should see their wives as the feminine part of the covenant of marriage that deserves to be treated with honor or else their prayers will be hindered.

When husbands treat their wives well in tenderness and with honor, God usually rewards them with abundant prosperity. Avoid yielding to the temptation to retaliate. Understand that there are some things you can never understand about being a woman. You just love her all the same and seek to be there for her. It is not everything you will criticize, pass judgment and try to fix.

Handling A Difficult Spouse

6. People’s intervention

This is important especially since not all types of difficult spouses or situations can be handled on your own. Sometimes you might need the intervention of professional counselors, therapy and someone to help you through with a difficult spouse. Especially in cases of infidelity. It must also be noted that you should be careful who you talk to about your spouse. Confidentiality must be maintained. Such a person should handle the issue maturely, offering solutions and not judgment or criticism 

7. Packaging

This is keeping your soul and body together. Avoid pity parties and self-pity. Anything you put pity on does not heal on time. You feel bad about what is happening but keep faith alive. Faith will make you smile and give you a reason to dance. God is the judge and your covenant witness between the husband and wife. He still restores and compensates the offended.

Look good, because the truth is that there is still a lot of good in you. No body should determine your joy. Look good physically, intellectually and emotional. Don’t yield to depression. Tell yourself never again. Pick up yourself. Even God is saying, arise and shine.

Your marriage will thrive.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
My marriage will work. I will give myself to prayers, patience, I will have a better perspective, I will be persistent in doing good, so help me God.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Father give me your wisdom and strength by your Holy Spirit to navigate this times of difficulty

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Husbands, you in turn must treat your wives with tenderness, viewing them as feminine partners who deserve to be honored, for they are co-heirs with you of the “divine grace of life,” so that nothing will hinder your prayers. 1 Peter 3:7 TPT 

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY 
Follow the steps to dealing with, your spouse whenever he/she is proving difficult

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
1 Pet 3

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Dealing with A Difficult Spouse

Dealing with A Difficult Spouse

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Dealing with A Difficult Spouse. Whether a spouse is perceived as difficult or they are actually difficult we need to arm ourselves with what to do. It also becomes a handy tool in helping others who are going through difficulty in their marriage.

We are to be reminded that the standard in our marriage is that of being Christ-like.

The same principle is used to solve little issues as well as big issues in marriage. Marriage is supposed to be till death do us part and we should not see divorce as an easy way out. 

We are therefore to equip ourselves with tools to enable us to cope and manage in times of crisis.

Note that these steps do not exclude seeking and going for counseling (professional intervention) and seeking therapy for more difficult issues like infidelity, abuse of any kind, etc

Dealing with A Difficult Spouse.

The seven steps are:

1. Prayers

Please don’t underestimate the power of prayers. By prayers, I don’t mean complaining. There are principles in prayers. Don’t complain about your spouse to God, pray about and for him/her.

Prayer changes you, changes the atmosphere in the marriage, and changes your spouse. Our prayer has to be done in faith. We are to align our thoughts, actions, and words with our prayers. Don’t pray for your spouse and then nullify the prayers by talking evil of your spouse. Don’t talk about the situation, talk about the solution. Receive wisdom from God and walk in that wisdom.

2. Patience

You need patience. We obtain the promise (of a better marriage) by faith and patience. Sometimes it takes time before what we pray for manifests in the physical. Be patient and have a good attitude while at it. You will feel like giving up, don’t. If you give up, you give up too soon.

3. Perspective

You may just need to change the way you view the situation. What may be causing you sleepless nights may be solved by changing your perspective. If you will just show a little empathy. Try to be understanding. For example, if your spouse is frigid, don’t just scream at her. Understand and help her through the fact that she had been abused sexually. Understand your spouse’s background, and personality and use that to evaluate the issue.

4. Praise

When your spouse is being difficult, don’t throw away the baby with the bath water. There are still some good qualities in them. Focus on their good and praise them for those good virtues. The truth is that when we are having issues with our spouse we tend to see their weaknesses. Don’t yield to the temptation of complaining and nagging about their weaknesses.

These are four of the steps in Dealing with A Difficult Spouse. I will continue tomorrow by God’s grace.

Your marriage will thrive

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
My marriage will work. I give myself to the study of God’s word to know what to do. I have wisdom

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Father give me your wisdom and strength to navigate this times 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
And now let me speak to the wives. Be devoted to your own husbands, so that even if some of them do not obey the Word of God, your kind conduct may win them over without you saying a thing. For when they observe your pure, godly life before God, it will impact them deeply.  1 Peter 3:1 – 2 TPT 

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Follow the steps to dealing with your spouse whenever he/she is proving difficult

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
1 Pet 3

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The Last Two Stages In Marriage

The Last Two Stages In Marriage

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The Last Two Stages In Marriage. I started this topic yesterday and I pointed out that there are three stages every marriage will go through.

Knowledge or light is very powerful at whatever stage you are in. You navigate each stage seamlessly and beautifully when there is wisdom and knowledge.

The stages are

1. Opposite attract

2. Opposite frustrate 

3. Opposite exchange.

I will continue where I stopped yesterday. The Last Two Stages In Marriage

2. Opposite frustrate:

It is the most critical stage in marriage. Most marriages get stuck here. Most married couples divorce at this stage. Those who don’t divorce, live like strangers or enemies. Not living up to the full potential of their marriage. Definitely, not fulfilling God’s mandate for their marriage. 

At this stage, the cracks that were covered are being exposed. Wives that have been treated badly, husbands that have been enduring, at this stage “things fall apart and the center cannot hold”. 

If you are presently at this stage, all hope is not lost. If you will get the relevant knowledge and apply the knowledge wisely, walking in wisdom, you will experience restoration.

This is the stage where the opposite causes friction. There is frustration because each of their needs are not been met. They are both unfulfilled. Each feels the other doesn’t love him/her. They don’t sense any good or any commensurate benefit from the marriage. At this stage, the unpleasant, cruel side of each other is experienced.  It is at this stage the devil toils with their minds and the thoughts of divorce or separation are entertained.

When this stage is managed well by the wisdom of God, the couple pass to the last stage.

3. Opposite Exchange

This is the stage where the couple begins to enjoy themselves. They enjoy their obedience to God’s word where husbands love their wives as Christ did and the wives have respected their husbands.

Two are better than one, because they have a good [more satisfying] reward for their labor; 
Ecclesiastes 4:9 AMPC

They begin to enjoy the oneness and unity God promised in His word. They enjoy the power of agreement at the highest level. Their reward or result is multiplied, and they experience ten times multiplied result.

This is the stage where the couples begin to rub on each other. Where they begin to exchange and partake of each other’s strength. The Choleric becomes more gentle and relaxed while the phlegmatic becomes more goal-oriented. The Sanguine becomes more serious and the Melancholy becomes more joyful and playful. 

Here the beauty of marriage is seen. The wisdom of God is fully experienced that there is no better personality. Every personality is unique, needed, and useful to complete the pack. 

Marriage is like a duet. Each person is important. Each person has a vital part to supply. Each is uniquely needed. No one of the two is superior. The two are needed for the complete success of the marriage.

If the marriage is working, then the couples are working at it. If the marriage is not working the two are contributing to its failure.

Make up your mind to make a success of your marriage. Those are The Last Two Stages In Marriage

Your marriage will thrive.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
My marriage will work. I give myself to the study of God’s word to know what to do. I have wisdom

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Father help me to give myself to learning and light by Gods word.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Two are better than one, because they have a good [more satisfying] reward for their labor;
Eccl 4:9 AMPC 

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
I will gain the necessary knowledge for my marriage to work

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Eph 5

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The Three Stages of Marriage

The Three Stages of Marriage

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The Three Stages of Marriage. Knowledge is power. The success of your marriage is in your hands. Where you invest is where you harvest. 

The kingdom principle is based on seed, time, and harvest. Doctors invest 7years of attending medical lectures and reading medical books. They become changed into medical doctors.

To be good and godly husbands and wives we have to spend hours learning and reading books on marriage. Doctors won’t graduate until they adequately learned all they are supposed to learn. That’s why you can’t graduate to be a doctor until seven years, not six or five.

For some of us, our knowledge about marriage is incomplete. That’s why we have a near blissful marriage.

For this morning, I will like to let us know that there are 3 stages every marriage will go through. Every one of us will pass through these stages. So the earlier we prepare for them the better.

The Three Stages of Marriage
1. Opposite will attract
In God’s wisdom, He always brings two opposite together for the purpose of complementing one another. This is to break the power of superiority. Where you need me and I need you. No matter how gifted a person, you can never become all that God destined you for. God said it is not good for man to be all one.

So by principle, God makes opposite and they will always attract. You will attract someone who has something you don’t have. A choleric will always attract a quiet, reserved, laid-back Phlegmatic.

Let no one despise your personality. No one is the best personality, because together they form the perfect image of God.

A man alone cannot nurture babies nor can a woman alone make babies, it takes a combination of the two.

So the first stage of your marriage is where you attract one another. Some people call it the honeymoon stage. Here you don’t see anything wrong with your spouse.

The Three Stages of Marriage
2. Opposite will frustrate
This is the second stage in every marriage. The time of the second stage varies from couple to couple. Some couples have enough knowledge to keep them in the first stage for a long time. 

Now, how you handle this second stage is based on how much you have given yourself to investing in your marriage through reading, studying, and learning.

I emphasize again that men and women are so different. We can say that the success of the second stage is based on knowledge, a test of how well you have studied your covenant.

What attracts you will begin to frustrate you. You get irritated at each other. Life changes occur and you begin to repel each other. Your wife needs to be loved more in every aspect. Not loved from men’s perspective but love as she sees love. The very thing that men find difficult to do or comprehend. 

The husband on the other hand requires respect. We will continue tomorrow by God’s grace. Your marriage will thrive

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
As a husband, I dwell with my wife based on knowledge that she is different from me. As a wife,I  respect my husband

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Father help me to realize that men and women are different. Grant me wisdom in Jesus name 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Eph 5:33.….husbands love your wives, wives respect your husbands 

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
I will give myself to learning more about my marriage

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Eph 5

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Men Need Respect And Women Need Romance

Men Need Respect And Women Need Romance

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Men Need Respect and Women Need Romance. Men and women are created differently, they function differently and they see things differently. There are three major ways they are different. 

Men and women are different in their personalities, their backgrounds, and their gender.

If we understand these differences, we will be able to relate to ourselves better. Meeting each other’s needs and prioritizing pleasing our spouse should be a big deal.

The number one cause of divorce is irreconcilable differences. The opposite will usually attract initially, if not managed well, these qualities that attract us to one another repel us and become a major source of conflict.

Men and women are made from different materials, so even in creation, they are different. Men were made out of dust but women were from one of the most sophisticated materials, the rib bone. 

Respect for men is not just a cultural need but a scriptural need. 

Ephesians 5:33, instructs women to respect their own husband. Men do things for honor, they are warriors and fighters by nature. So wives you have to be your husband’s number one cheerleader. Let nobody respect your husband more than you.

Affairs naturally develop in a boss-subordinate relationship, like a boss and secretary relationship because there is a natural flow of respect. Men Need Respect, Women Need Romance

Wives, don’t respect your boss, MD, pastor, or any other man more than your husband. You see his weaknesses, so the temptation to not respect him is there because women like to give respect when men do good things. Don’t yield to that temptation.

Understand your husband needs his space and some quiet when he is stressed. That is respect to him. Find new ways of respecting him by asking him, how you can appreciate him more.

Men, it is a crime to marry a woman and don’t give her what she needs most.  Women need and love romance. Men don’t understand romance because naturally, they are rugged.

 Romance is spelled tenderness. It is doing the normal things with a special touch and effect. Being thoughtful in the little things you do. Giving the little things the extra touch. For example don’t just buy your wife a gift, find out her preference. Take time to find out how she likes the gift. Women enjoy the process, so wrap the gift with a beautiful wrapper and present it in a romantic way. Romance doesn’t have to cost you an arm nor do you have to break the bank. It is romantic to just stay with her while cooking and just be with her.

You can just listen to her, give her a reassuring hug and tell her you understand her.

A woman talks for companionship because she is emotional. She tells you things not for you to correct, judge, apportion, blame, or criticize, she tells you, to empathize with her. This is being romantic.

Invest time, energy, effort, and money to meet your wife’s need for romance and you will harvest a happy, loving wife.

Men Need Respect, and Women Need Romance. Your marriage will thrive!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I dwell with my wife based on knowledge of that she is different from me. I respect my husband

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Father help me to realize that men and women are different. Grant me wisdom in Jesus name 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Eph 5:33.….husbands love your wives, wives respect your husbands 

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Husbands be romantic to your wives. Wives respect your husband’s.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Eph 5

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Men Need Acceptance While Women Need Attention

Men Need Acceptance While Women Need Attention

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Men Need Acceptance While Women Need Attention. Nobody enters marriage with the intention of divorcing, but along the line, there is a disconnection and couples have crises.

 Men and women are different species if I can use that term. That’s why it becomes absolutely necessary for them to study and learn about each other’s world. 

God has put so much investment into marriage. The first institution that God created was marriage. He made Adam a husband and a father. Marriage was the first institution before any other institution 

We have successful lawyers, businessmen, and doctors, who have spent years before becoming what they are while not succeeding in their marriage because they failed to learn about marriage. 

Men’s number one need is Acceptance. Women, never confront your husband. Men are warriors and fighters by nature. If you confront him, he will resist you, instinctively because the warrior in him will rise up. 

When you accept him, he knows you are for him. You are an ally, not an enemy.

Women, when you want to get your husband to change don’t confront him. The direct correction will not work. He is not your child which you correct. You are to love your husband and you are to correct your children. 

The rule is to accept your man, don’t confront him.

For example, if your husband dresses roughly, don’t tell him he dresses roughly and he needs to change. Tell him he is a very handsome guy and that he will even look better when he wears complimentary colours and dress sharp. He gets the message or better still, find a time he is more relaxed and tell him he looks finer with colours that match.

Women like to fix things, please don’t try to fix your man. Accept and celebrate him. Men Need Acceptance While Women Need Attention

On the other hand, women need attention. Your wife needs attention. Everything she does, the hair she makes, the cloth she wears, everything is to get your attention. Notice her, verbalize the fact that you notice her. Don’t ignore your wife. Be the first to notice what she’s wearing and comment. Notice when she makes a new hairstyle and make comments.

Tell her she is beautiful and gorgeous. Be tender towards her like you will do to a baby. Shower her with attention, don’t neglect her for another lady. It’s a No, No. Don’t show another female more attention than you show your wife, under any circumstances.

Couples, learn this about each other and make necessary adjustments.

Your marriage will thrive. Men Need Acceptance While Women Need Attention

 CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I accept my husband. I give my undivided attention to my wife

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Father help me to realize that men and women are different. Grant me wisdom in Jesus name 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Eph 5: 33.….husbands love your wives, wives respect your husbands 

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Be mindful of accepting your husband and giving attention to your wife

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Eph 5

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Understanding Timing In Marriage

Understanding Timing In Marriage

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Understanding Timing In Marriage. I once listened to a message by Bishop T.D Jakes titled, “Timing Is Everything.”

Sometimes what makes one thing bad and the same thing good is just about timing. What makes words spoken to a loved one good, bad or hurting beyond how it is spoken, is timing.

As husbands and wives, we have to study and understand proper timing. A good and skillful wife understands and uses the concept of timing to her advantage.

Women have great power and influence because they were created by God to be needed by men. God made man in Genesis 2, after He had made animals, plants, sun, and moon, He said it is not good for man to be alone. I will make a helper meet for him.

Men are not good (according to God’s standards without their wives).

Women are not just gifted more than men and extremely sophisticated, they are very much needed by men. Their make determines their functionality. Every woman is made and created to nurture and carry babies. God trusted women with the next generation.

Women are so much valuable in men’s life. 

They have to understand this and carry themselves with this mentality. Wives, you have to defend your value. 

You have the responsibility of ensuring you are not devalued for any reason. The value you place on yourself will determine the value placed on you. Have you ever seen a buyer paying more than the value placed on the commodity? Never, the buyer pays the value placed on the commodity.

The wife’s power of influence works better when the right timing is put into consideration. 

The concept of right timing when put to use by the couple makes to things work better in the marriage. 

Eccl 3:1
There’s an opportune time to do things, a right time for everything on the earth: 

A right time for birth and another for death, A right time to plant and another to reap, A right time to kill and another to heal, A right time to destroy and another to construct, A right time to cry and another to laugh,

Understanding Timing In Marriage is crucial for knowing the right time to doing things as couples. 

It becomes the wrong timing for the wife to make her grievances known to her husband when he is already feeling down. Men are territorial beings and will like to be in charge and in control. So telling your husband, you are not happy about something automatically puts his defence up.

Husbands, it becomes wrong timing for you not to consider the fact that your wife is an emotional being and sermonize her over a mistake she is already sorry about.

As couples let us be mindful of the things we do or don’t do considering whether it’s the right timing or not.

Our marriage will thrive!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I have understanding of the right time and seasons in my marriage

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Father give me wisdom to consider the right timing before acting in Jesus name 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 
Eccl 3:1 There’s an opportune time to do things, a right time for everything on the earth: 

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Consider the timing before acting. You don’t act out your feelings everytime

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Eccl 3

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Wives, Appreciate Your Husband’s Efforts

Wives, Appreciate Your Husband’s Efforts

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Wives, Appreciate your husband’s efforts. This morning I will like to write specially to the wives. 

Good women could be frustrating their husbands’ efforts not because they are wicked but because they don’t know. 

Men and women are so differently wired and that’s why it becomes important to learn about the different ways they are wired.

Women’s brains are like spaghetti, so they have things mixed up and jumbled up. Men’s brains on the other hand are like rice. Men separate issues and have the ability to treat events separately. Women, because of the way their brains are wired are tempted to give wrong, discouraging, and demoralizing vibes, when their husbands are trying to make efforts in pleasing them if something else is going wrong in other aspects.

A wife will not appreciate her husband’s good deeds if he fails in certain other areas. For example, she will not appreciate her husband’s hard work in providing for the family, if he criticizes her.  

Women are giving to details. So they tend to focus on the little details not working. This could mean women are petty. Wives, Appreciate your husband’s efforts

If their husbands are putting 95% effort into pleasing them and 5% is not working. They tend to put their attention on the 5% not working.

The key here is to put your attention on the aspect where your husband is doing well and praise him. Praise him for the 95% or 5% as the case may be. He will get so excited and intoxicated with the praise that he will want to do more and better in those areas you want him to change. 

Men will run from situations that make them feel pressured. They will rather stay where they are celebrated, that’s why men stay where they perform better eg their works. 

So wives, my advice this morning is to celebrate your husband’s little effort in pleasing you, make a big deal of it and just hint at those areas you want him to improve on.

If you follow your natural wiring of focusing on details, you will keep demoralizing your husband. Praise him when you feel like complaining.

Your marriage will thrive. Wives, Appreciate your husband’s efforts

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am appreciative of who God has given to me as my husband. I celebrate all his effort in pleasing me.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Father give me wisdom and understanding concerning my marriage

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 
Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. Philippians 4:6 KJV 

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Begin to appreciate your husband’s effort to please you.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Phil 4

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Three Things Women Want In Their Husbands

Three Things Women Want In Their Husbands

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Three Things Women Want In Their Husbands. One of the first commandments of marriage is ‘selflessness’. You will find happiness if you make your spouse’s happiness your priority. Husbands, if you truly love your wife, you will want to meet her needs.

Women have many needs but in today’s devotional, I will write about three of those needs.

Three Things Women Want In Their Husbands
1. Affection
The Webster dictionary defines affection as “a feeling of liking and caring for someone or something : tender attachment : fondness”

Women love it when their husbands are fond of them. Husbands can show affection to their wives in a number of ways. The baseline is whatever you do in loving your wife, be thoughtful of her. Like her person and genuinely care for her and about her. 

Let her know you are proud of being her husband. That you are proud of her, you genuinely value her contributions and opinions in your life.

Tender touches also show your affection towards her,  public displays of affection (PDA), like holding her hands, smiling, and looking into her eyes are some other displays of fondness.

2. Meaningful Conversations
Women love talking. Even for the introversive ones, she will still long to express herself by having meaningful conversations with her husband. 

Meaningful conversations like what her desires are, her aspirations, her opinions, and her vulnerability are all that make for meaningful conversations for her. It’s important for a wife to be vulnerable to her husband.

It is a turn-off to conversations when the husband does not listen to understand his wife, and they can’t have a mature conversation. 

Couples will always be different and so will have different opinions. 

When husbands tune off,  wives often feel they don’t care. Strong relationships are built on deep and meaningful conversations and real communication. 

So if your wife says she wants to talk, switch off the TV, put your phone aside and give her your undivided attention.

3. Family Commitment
Women need to feel secured. One of the ways she feels secured is when the wife knows that her husband is committed to her and her children completely. 

Be Committed to your family by putting them first place in your thoughts, and decisions and being considerate of their welfare and happiness.

Let your wife see how important your family is to you. Love your children and be committed to them

Whether your marriage is on the rocks or strong as nails, it will absolutely benefit from examining these needs and applying them to your marriage. Always strive to give your spouse the very best of yourself.

Your marriage will thrive! There are the Three Things Women Want In Their Husbands

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I love my wife. I am affectionate towards her. I meet her needs for meaningful conversations and I am committed to our family.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Let the love of God be shed abroad in my heart towards my wife

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 
In any case, as for you individually, each one of you should love his wife as himself, and wives should respect their husbands.  Ephesians 5:33 CEB 

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Be affectionate and love your wife genuinely. Be committed to your family and have meaning conversions with your wife

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ephesians 5

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3 Things Men Want in Their Wives

3 Things Men Want in Their Wives

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Couples – 3 Things Men Want in Their Wives. The first one is Respect

Men thrive better in marriage when their wives trust and respect them. I believe it is not just a need but how men are wired. They are wired to love and respond to respect.

You can make respect a priority in your marriage consciously. Your husband will always sense your attitude of respect. Respect in words and actions even in the very little things can make your husband calm and not uptight or harsh. With our soft answers, we can make them feel great.

Wives, be wise, don’t answer your husbands with a disrespectful tone or body language.

When he knows he has a wife that respects and celebrates his opinions he won’t want to exert his headship.

 I guess it makes them feel on top of the world. You know like the feeling of being a king. 

As the children grow, it is also essential to teach them and show them by example how to respect the man of the house.

The Bible also gives clear instructions, not a suggestion to wives to respect their husbands in Ephesians 5:33b CEV translation “…and wives should respect their husbands.

Respect can be expressed in so many ways. Ask your own husband how he will like you to respect him. Since respect means different things to different people.

2. Intimacy

Men love it when they know that their wives are devoted to them. All men love it when you touch them. So, don’t allow the day to pass without your rubbing your husband’s back, or head, giving him a hug, a kiss, cuddling when watching a movie, or cuddling in bed. Just touch everywhere and anywhere. He is your husband.

Every Husband wants to know they are attracted to their wives physically. So initiate sex  Let your husband know that he is the best and that he is still the handsome guy you fell in love with.  

Share deep thoughts and feelings with him. Be vulnerable and let your husband know how you feel about issues and communicate without inhibitions.

3. Appreciation

Men do a lot in terms of keeping the family together especially good men. Being a good husband, father and a good provider is not an easy task. This is one of the 3 Things Men Want in Their Wives

So your husband will do well with some praise and appreciation

Be generous with your appreciation and praise. Don’t just appreciate your husband in your thoughts and in your heart. Learn to verbalize your appreciation. Say thank you, to your husband for helping out around the house. Don’t take those things for granted.

Say thank you for every little thing he does. Be quick to notice little and big gestures. Let them be big deals to you. Thanking your husband is very powerful, little wonder it’s one of the magic words

Celebrate his success and achievement. Be passionate about his work or job. Thank him for his effort, hard work, and diligence.

 Let your husband be sure of your praise if any other person doesn’t praise him. 

Leave short notes for him, letting him know how much you appreciate him.

Don’t focus on things you don’t have or the things he doesn’t do. Focus on the things he does and he will do more. It is a law, what you focus on becomes bigger and of course, he will also get better at being a good husband. These are the 3 Things Men Want in Their Wives.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY 
I am a good wife. I focus on meeting the needs of my husband always. I am not weary of doing good.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
I ask for grace to be a doer of what my husband needs in Jesus mighty name 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 
In any case, as for you individually, each one of you should love his wife as himself, and wives should respect their husbands.  Ephesians 5:33 CEV

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Respect your husband, appreciate and be intimate with him

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ephesians 5

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Sleep Through The Storms In Your Marriage

Sleep Through The Storms In Your Marriage

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Sleep Through The Storms In Your Marriage. Jesus provides us as believers so many weapons to use to have victory in life. One thing is sure, we always have one hundred percent victory, a hundred percent of the time especially in our marriage.

It is so beautiful being a child of God. You are just assured that you are an overcomer. Hallelujah. Whether in marriage, on your job, over your health finances, children, or your emotional life, your total victory is guaranteed.

This is the confidence we have in him, that our faith overcomes every situation and challenge. Will you also exercise this faith you already possess as a believer? Sleep Through The Storms In Your Marriage

We face different situations, and in all of these, the Holy Spirit tells us which weapon to use. Whether it is to give a shout of praise, laugh, dance, worship, engage in spiritual warfare, fast and pray, give, or even sleep. Yes, I mean sleep, (rest). But you can’t sleep in the storm if you don’t know the God you believe in. 

If you don’t know God and what He has said, there is no way you can sleep. When your children are ill, when your spouse is wayward, when you don’t have money in your pocket, you can’t sleep. Without knowing God’s promise, you will worry yourself sick.

Jesus was sleeping in the boat during a storm.

Mark 4:37-39
And there arose a great storm of wind, and the waves beat into the ship, so that it was now full. And he was in the hinder part of the ship, asleep on a pillow: and they awake him, and say unto him, Master, carest thou not that we perish? And he arose, and rebuked the wind, and said unto the sea, Peace, be still. And the wind ceased, and there was a great calm.

As we take God at His word, stand on it, declare it (until the reality hits us) and we believe that He can never lie. We trust Him in the midst of whatever storm we face, knowing He is right by our sides. Sleep Through The Storms In Your Marriage

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY 
I am a Word chaser. My soul pants after your word, as the deer pants for the water brooks

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Help me to hunger and thirst for you Word, oh Lord.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 
Mark 4:37-39
And there arose a great storm of wind, and the waves beat into the ship, so that it was now full. And he was in the hinder part of the ship, asleep on a pillow: and they awake him, and say unto him, Master, carest thou not that we perish? And he arose, and rebuked the wind, and said unto the sea, Peace, be still. And the wind ceased, and there was a great calm.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Study God’s word daily and get to know Him.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY 
John 4

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Go Ahead And Laugh at the Devil

Go Ahead And Laugh at the Devil

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This sounds like a preaching topic on a Sunday morning service. But we can also apply this to our marriage. We can’t separate our lives as Christians from our marriage. We have a Christian marriage because we first of all live the Christian life.

We have an enemy, an accuser, an adversary, the one who hates us with perfect hatred, the one who comes to steal everything good in our lives, he seeks to kill everything alive and seeks to destroy everything that gives us joy. 

Look into your marriage, are there things that make you happy, that give you joy? Are there things you are grateful to God for, things that you are excited about?

Know that the devil is working over time, and he desires to put an end to your joy. But thank God for His Mercy, He will never allow this to happen.

Ps 94:17 KJV
Unless the LORD had been my help, My soul had almost dwelt in silence.
 

We are all recipients of God’s mercies. We should never take these mercies for granted.

In learning to cooperate with God in other to get His will totally done and manifested in our lives, we have to be obedient to whatever He asks us to do.

One such instruction is ‘Go Ahead And Laugh at the Devil’. This may sound strange but it is an ‘act’ of faith. How can I laugh at the devil? When he is throwing ‘fiery darts’ at me? I don’t know whether it’s the fire of the dart to deal with first or the pain of the dart. 

Sometimes it could be overwhelming. When you are like that, just laugh out loud!

You know God told the children of Israel to look at a brazen serpent hanging on a pole when they were bitten by real serpents.  It looks ridiculous, but that is where their victory lies.

God will never ask anything that is not an act of faith and that He Himself has not done before.

Ps 2:1-2, 4 KJV
Why do the heathen rage, And the people imagine a vain thing? The kings of the earth set themselves, and the rulers take counsel together, Against the LORD, and against his anointed, saying, He that sitteth in the heavens shall laugh: The Lord shall have them in derision

God Himself laughed at the devil and his cohorts (the heathen that imagine a vain thing against the Lord).

So instead of giving the devil attention, complaining, arguing, murmuring, getting frustrated, depressed, or downcast, just give out a good laugh.

First, the devil will be confused. Then he will flee. Light and darkness can’t stay together, darkness has to bow and go. 

One of the surest ways to get the devil off your back fast is when you do the opposite of what he expects.

Sometimes he even expects us to be binding and loosing, sweating with unbelieving prayers. Just act out in faith. Do the extraordinary and laugh.

In famine and in war, you shall laugh. He has put laughter in your mouth so laugh.

Glory to God.

Go Ahead And Laugh at the Devil

May the sound of rejoicing and laughter never cease from your home and marriage

God bless your marriage 

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY 
God has already given me the victory so I can laugh at the devil

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY 
Keep my eyes on your finished work Lord 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 
Ps 2:1-2, 4 KJV
Why do the heathen rage, And the people imagine a vain thing? The kings of the earth set themselves, and the rulers take counsel together, Against the LORD, and against his anointed, saying, He that sitteth in the heavens shall laugh: The Lord shall have them in derision

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Laugh your way to victory

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY 
Psalm 2

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Things That Will Sustain You In Marriage

Things That Will Sustain You In Marriage

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We will be concluding this topic today and this is Part 3

Yesterday we looked at the second thing that will Sustain you in marriage, which is

2. Discover yourself ( if you missed this, check it HERE).

Things That Will Sustain You In Marriage

3. Discover your purpose.

This is very much similar to the discovery of your Person. It is after you have discovered your person that you can embark on the journey to discover your purpose. 

When the purpose of a thing is not known, abuse is inevitable. The purpose of anything determines its function. When your purpose is known, greatness is inevitable because you can move faster to get things done. 

Imagine if you have a washing machine and you don’t know what it’s used for. You still take out all your family clothes outside to wash with your hands. What a waste of time and energy.

Fulfillment and joy in life are some dividends of discovering your purpose. There is an inner joy that comes to your life, which your spouse can’t give you knowing you are doing exactly what you have been created to do. 

Many spouses are unhappy because they are not doing what they were created to do. Many husbands and wives are doing jobs that are just stressing their lives. They experience burn out and their loved ones partake of their burnout. 

Your wife can only help you fulfill the assignment you are aware God gave you. 

Your purpose is to be discovered, not decided by you. You don’t decide what you are created to be. Your purpose predates your existence. 

Discovery of your purpose is one of the Things That Will Sustain You In Marriage. Our purpose was already determined before God formed us.

Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations. Jeremiah 1:5 KJV

Your Marriage has a purpose. You didn’t just get married to have sex, give birth to babies, have a nice job, live in a fine house, and use bone straight weave on. 

This journey to discover purpose is done as you seek God. He is the creator of your life and your marriage. He knows your specific purpose. 

Go to His word and seek His face in prayer. Be sincere and intentional, and He will reveal your purpose to you. 

Some indications can help in your discovery of purpose. What do you naturally like doing? What are your gifts? What are the things you do without effort?

Take time and discover your purpose.

God bless your marriage

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY 
God created me for a purpose. He doesn’t created without a purpose. I have open eyes and I discover my purpose 

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY 
Lord, cause the eyes of my understanding to be flooded with light, that I may discover my purpose in life in Jesus name 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 
Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations. Jeremiah 1:5 KJV

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Ask God to reveal your purpose and that of your marriage to you.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY 
Jer 1

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3 Important Things In Marriage

3 Important Things In Marriage

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3 Important Things In Marriage. So we started this amazing topic yesterday. This is Part 2. For us to easily remember, the 3 important things that sustain us in marriage are in ‘P’.

Yesterday, we looked at the Peace of God, which is so important. As we journey in our marriage till life do us part, (which by the way is a long time)

God knows that life will happen on the way. So in His love and Mercy, He made His Peace available to us for the taking.
3 Important Things In Marriage

The second thing we will be looking at is:

2.  Discovery of your Person

God is the source of every life because He breadth the breadth of life into Adam, and we all became a living soul. 

This life became regenerated when we received Christ into our lives and became born again.

However, we all carry a piece of God. We are all masterpieces and are unique in our personalities.
People are the same and no one is a waste or useless. The DNA of God in us.

Let’s look at Colossians 3 verse 3 in different translations.

 Col 3:3 (TPT)
Your crucifixion with Christ has severed the tie to this life, and now your true life is hidden away in God in Christ

Col 3:3 MSG
Your old life is dead. Your new life, which is your real life—even though invisible to spectators—is with Christ in God. He is your life. When Christ (your real life, remember) shows up again on this earth, you’ll show up, too—the real you, the glorious you.  Meanwhile, be content with obscurity, like Christ.

Col 3:3 AMPC
For [as far as this world is concerned] you have died, and your [new, real] life is hidden with Christ in God.

We know from this scripture in different translations, that we have a new, real life that is hidden in Christ.

This hidden life is the real you. You have to discover that real you, if not you will never be fulfilled in life and of course in marriage.

You are not what people are calling you. You are not what your spouse is calling you. You are not what your present situation is calling you. It’s not new, people will call you based on what they can see. 

They don’t know you, they didn’t create you so they should never call you, or better still you should not answer what others call you (if it is not in line with the Word of God)

Lazy wife, good for nothing husband, stubborn wife, barren wife, depressive wife, harsh husband, liar, cheat, useless and the list goes on. Even in bible days, people called blind Bartimeous, Rahab the harlot, and even Jesus of Nazareth.

Like Jesus, we have to know who we really are. Only then can we fulfill our marriage mandate. Marriage is an assignment. It takes you to discover who you are to be able to function well.

It takes a wife who has discovered herself and a husband who has discovered himself to be one. Unity in marriage is impossible without a discovery of oneself.

This discovery is a personal journey you have to embark on. It is also a spiritual journey because it takes you going back to God in sincere prayers and studying the Word.

The more you know Christ, the more you discover yourself because your real life is hidden in Christ.

May we discover ourselves in Jesus’ name.

God bless your marriage. This is the second of 3 Important Things In Marriage

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY 
My new real life is hid in Christ. My life is hid not from me but for me to discover.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY 
Lord, cause the eyes of my understanding to be flooded with light, that I may discover myself in Jesus name

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 
Col 3:3 AMP
For you died [to this world], and your [new, real] life is hidden with Christ in God.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Go on a personal journey to discover yourself

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY 
Col 3

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3 Things That Sustains You In Marriage

3 Things That Sustains You In Marriage

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3 Things That Sustains You In Marriage. Why do we write devotionals every day and invest time and energy to keep pumping the word to you? It is because we need to keep hearing these words. There are so many voices struggling to get your attention, and you are what you hear.

Whatever we give our attention to will influence our actions, that is, how we behave.

Our intention is that your marriage can be all God says it will be. The more you hear or read, the more you will recover and be converted.

So this morning, I will be writing on 3 Things That Sustains You In Marriage

The first thing is:

1. The peace of God.

Many of us wonder what the peace of God is. Some believe that when I have a good job, have money to pay my bills, have no trouble at work, attend parties at weekends, and my children go to a good private school, then I have the peace of God.

I wish I could tell you that life without struggles is all there is to the peace of God.

We all know that life happens. Sometimes good people have bad problems that they can’t even account for. It seems as we grow older,  we begin to experience life. That was why I loved being a child, but the reality is that no one can be a child forever. Even children now have issues which is no fault of theirs.

This world is on a downward movement and will always have troubles no matter what.

Our father is so good and merciful that He has already made provisions for us to overcome and navigate this world. He gave us His peace.

John 14:27 AMPC
Peace I leave with you; My [own] peace I now give and bequeath to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Do not let your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid. [Stop allowing yourselves to be agitated and disturbed; and do not permit yourselves to be fearful and intimidated and cowardly and unsettled.] 


The peace of God is one of 3 Things That Sustains You In Marriage. No matter what comes along the way or what the devil throws at you, His peace will sustain you.

When God speaks, He speaks peace. He is the prince of peace and He says peace be still to any raging storm in our lives or marriage.

Jesus wouldn’t just speak, you have to consciously have Him on your side. Have Him on your boat. Have Him in your home and marriage.

At the wedding in Cana of Galilee, Jesus was invited. 

(John 2). He was not only invited but He was also recognized and acknowledged. His words were taken as important enough to obey whatever He said.

Do you want to experience peace in the midst of chaos? Let Jesus, the Word be given priority. Whatever He (the Word) says then do it. 

What He (the word) says may not make logical sense just like it didn’t make any sense to fill water pots with water when they needed wine.  

Whatever situation you are in that wants to steal the peace from your marriage, just listen to the prince of peace. He has peace in His custody. 

May the Lord grant you His peace in Jesus’ name, Amen.

God bless your marriage

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CONFESSION FOR THE DAY 
God has given me His peace. I declare I have peace in the midst of whatever crisis

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY 
Lord in the name of Jesus, give me the tenacity to study your word, the source of peace.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 
Peace I leave with you; My [own] peace I now give and bequeath to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Do not let your hearts be troubled, neither let be afraid. [Stop allowing yourselves to be agitated

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Go for the peace of God in the midst of whatever crisis you may be experiencing 

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY 
John 14

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3 Things That Sustains You In Marriage

Emotional Maturity in Marriage

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Emotional Maturity in Marriage is what we are looking at this morning. Man is a tripartite being. We are spirits, we have a soul and we live inside a body. Our body is the earthly suit that makes us able to live and function on this earth. Exactly what a spacesuit is to astronauts in space, and makes it possible for them to stay and function in space.

We are spirits and really we need to understand we function from the spirit realm. We have to understand our identity as spirits and operate as such.

My focus for this morning is really centered on our Soul. Our soul is what connects our spirit and body together. Our soul is what makes us give expression to our spirit on earth through our bodies.

Our Soul contains our will power, intellect, and emotion. Our willpower is what helps us in decision-making. Our intellect is the faculty that help us function in the intellectual world. Our emotion is the seat of our feelings. It is where we feel pain, hurt, bitterness, loyalty, faithfulness, guilt, joy, etc

3 John1:2 in AMPC
Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in every way and [that your body] may keep well, even as [I know] your soul keeps well and prospers.

Our soul must prosper. We must move from one level to another. We must grow in our soul realm. We should not be directed by our feelings alone in our marriage. This is what Emotional Maturity in Marriage is all about.

Have you ever eaten at a buffet and felt very full? At that moment, you are full but in some hours that changes and you become hungry again. Our feelings are fickle. Our feelings change. 

Don’t take permanent actions based on temporary situations. 

Our feelings are subject to change. When we feel like being bitter we switch to our spirit.

That is how we mature in our souls. Don’t yield to the dictates of your feeling. You are not your feeling.

In the practical sense, it’s not everything, every word, every action you respond to, to mature in your soul. Grow up in your soul.

Guard your heart and your soul for it affects your life and indeed your marriage. It affects your relationship with your spouse. Get rid of every bad feeling, hurt, pain, and negative vibe in your marriage. Replace them with positive emotions.

God bless your marriage. Emotional Maturity in Marriage is a must

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY 
I am not my feelings. I live above my feelings.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY 
Lord, I receive grace to master my feelings.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 
Rom 12:2 (CEV) Don’t be like the people of this world, but let God change the way you think. Then you will know how to do everything that is good and pleasing to him.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
I master my feelings.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY 
3 John 1

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What Do You Call Yourselves?

What Do You Call Yourselves?

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What Do You Call Yourselves? I know couples have sweet names that they call themselves, and that is so sweet. I would like to draw the attention of husbands and wives to the immense power that lies in ‘calling’ ourselves. We tend to lose the power thereof when we lack the revelation behind that action.

The man was created in the image and likeness of God. That means we are in the class of God. We are a speaking spirit.

Gen 2: 23
And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. 

We are to call those things that are not as though they are. 

God allowed Adam to call Eve whatever name he deemed fit. He called her ‘woman’. She is to birth and be the mother of all living things.

We.should call ourselves based on whatever revelation of what we want to accomplish. We are to assume our priestly role. Priests use their mouths to declare. What Do You Call Yourselves?

We have to practice using our faith to call our wives and our husbands. There must first be a desire in your heart.

What do you want your spouse to be? Begin to prophesy. Not just a name you call yourselves, but making a habit of constantly calling your selves what you want to see.

Habakkuk 2:4 says 
…the just shall live by his faith’.

You don’t have any business experiencing whatever you don’t want in your marriage. If you have a mouth and you have God’s word.

Every one of us has a total of 24 hours. Those hours are more than enough to change the course of your marriage and your spouse.

Does your spouse have any unpleasant behaviour? Don’t waste your energy fighting him or him.  The Bible says we will have what we say. We don’t just have what God says, we have what we say. The question is what are you saying?

God wants us to labor to enter His rest. That labor is laboring in the Word. We have to grow our faith consciously,  Just as we build our muscles in the gym. No matter how skinny a person is, you build your muscles by putting them to use.

Begin to use and build your faith muscles. Don’t be moved by sight ( what you can see) be moved by sight. What Do You Call Yourselves?

Be a speaking spirit. Don’t just speak as a “normal” human being. God has given you what to speak. You speak His word.

God bless our marriage as we speak the word of blessing over our marriage. It is our responsibility.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY 
I am a speaking spirit. I declare and I call my spouse those things I desire to see.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
O Lord, I receive the Grace to declare as you have spoken in your word in Jesus’ name 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 
Behold, his soul which is lifted up is not upright in him: but the just shall live by his faith. Habakkuk 2:4 KJV 

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Start speaking by faith to your spouse and your marriage 

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Heb 11

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Every Husband Must Hear This

Every Husband Must Hear This

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Every Husband Must Hear This! I feel like the Samaritan woman this morning, who excitedly went into the town and told all the men about Jesus.

The woman then left her waterpot, and went her way into the city, and saith to the men, Come, see a man, which told me all things that ever I did: is not this the Christ?  John 4:28 – 29 KJV 

I believe men really need to hear by revelation and have an encounter with Jesus. It makes all the difference. Men (of course our husbands) are the ones God gave the command, to love their wives like Christ loved the church.

I guess it just makes a lot of sense that they need an encounter with the man Jesus so that they can learn to be like Him. 

What really makes Jesus who He is? What did Jesus represent and what did He come to the world to show us? I believe He came to show us the God kind of faith. To show us how to live the faith life. He lived here on earth as a man to show us how men (by extension, women also) ought to live.

If we are going to love our wives like Christ loved the church, it’s going to be by faith. Jesus wants every Husband to be men of faith. Every Husband Must Hear This

Talking about faith, our example of faith who walked by faith is our father, Abraham. His journey of faith started with God calling him to leave his kindred and father’s house.

I love the Amp translation
NOW [in Haran] the Lord said to Abram, Go for yourself [for your own advantage] away from your country, from your relatives and your father’s house, to the land that I will show you. [Heb. 11:8-10.] And I will make of you a great nation, and I will bless you [with abundant increase of favors] and make your name famous and distinguished, and you will be a blessing [dispensing good to others]. Genesis 12:1 – 2 AMPC

This is the similar instruction God gave to Adam as a key to having a successful marriage.

Therefore a man shall ‘leave’ his father and his mother and shall become united and cleave to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. Genesis 2:24 AMPC 

Every Husband is called to a life of faith. It takes faith to leave the familiar and go on a journey trusting in God.

You cannot love a woman if you are a natural man. Challenges of life will come. What will you overcome them with? The bible says faith is our victory. Faith is what gives us victory 100% of the time.

In leaving your father’s house or kindred, God actually wants us to ‘leave’ the ideals, methods, and ways of this natural world. He wants us to live by another standard. Which is the standard of faith. This is done by renewing our minds.

Husbands you have to be men of faith. Every Husband Must Hear This

Romans 12:2 AMPC
Do not be conformed to this world (this age), [fashioned after and adapted to its external, superficial customs], but be transformed (changed) by the [entire] renewal of your mind [by its new ideals and its new attitude], so that you may prove [for yourselves] what is the good and acceptable and perfect will of God, even the thing which is good and acceptable and perfect [in His sight for you].
 

You love your wife by being ‘a saviour’ to her. You enforce what is written over your marriage.

I remember just before our wedding, I was ill suddenly and was taken to the hospital. I actually passed out.  It was the prayer of faith of my fiance, now my husband that revived me.

Life will be full of crises and challenges. Husbands, the greatest gift you can give your wife and family is to be a man of faith. 

Faith comes by hearing and hearing by the word. Be a man of the word.

Read the word, study it, meditate on it, confess it and begin to live by faith.

 “Look at the proud one, His soul is not right within him, But the righteous will live by his faith [in the true God]. Habakkuk 2:4 AMP

God bless our marriage

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY 
I am a man (woman) of faith. I develop my faith and I experience victory over life’s challenges

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
I receive grace to begin to walk by faith in Jesus’ name

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 
Look at the proud one, His soul is not right within him, But the righteous will live by his faith [in the true God]. Hab 2:4

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Begin to live by your own faith 

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Heb 11

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Don’t Play the Victim In Your Marriage

Don’t Play the Victim In Your Marriage

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Don’t Play the Victim In Your Marriage. I heard the story of a man of God who went hunting together with a friend (the friend was actually the one taking him hunting). He was looking forward to having a quick or fast hunting experience but to his greatest surprise this was not happening.

He then asked his friend “where are the animals?” His friend said, “I will show you a secret.” He made a certain sound, and true to his words, an animal came out from the woods. He asked his friend what was the connection between the sound and the animal coming out?

The friend told him, that was no ordinary sound, but the sound made by animals that are caught in a trap, that are already helpless. Hearing that sound means there was cheap meal available for it.

This is the crust of my message this morning.

 “There is no virtue in playing the victim”.

Our lives are constantly making sound(s) in the spirit realm. What sound are you making? Are you playing the victim game? Is your life oozing out victory or defeat?

Even in our marriage, if we constantly give a sound of defeat and being beaten, our spouse will not enjoy our company despite loving us.  Don’t Play the Victim In Your Marriage

Another truth is that the sound you produce determines more of what you attract. If you are joyful, you will attract more joy.

Don’t be a victim in your marriage. We all have being through some things. Yes, I know some have been through harder situations than others. Bible tells us, we can handle whatever comes our way.

1 Corinthians 10:13 KJV.
There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it. 


Whatever situation we faced or passed through is to make us better not bitter. We gained experience to comfort others with the comfort where with we were comforted.

2 Corinthians 1:3 – 4 KJV 
Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort; who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God. 

Pick up yourself from your past. Whatever happened in your past, rise above it and don’t live in your past. Don’t keep the memory of your past in your present. You lost your mum, yes, live past it. You lost money, lost relationship, whatever your loss is, get past it and move on.

Move on as though it never happened. Dust yourself. Be like the donkey in a story, who even though dirts were dumped on it  it  “shook it off the dust and stepped on it”.

The more you play the victim the more life will hand you more abuse. When you murmur, complain and grumble about life the “serpent” will bite you. Your sound of murmuring and complaining will attract demons who will give you more reasons to complain.

Keep up your joy. Let the sounds of Glory, of rejoicing and shouts of praise proceed out of you.

In your marriage, you become attractive to your spouse when you are full of life. Depression is a disease that repels. It is repulsive. You want to be your spouses’ friend? Then be responsive, be jovial, be playful, be youthful.

Some times we feel when we play the victim we engender sympathy and pity from others. Yes, we might. But soon they get tried and frustrated. 

We already have all the victory in Christ Jesus. Don’t have an entitlement mentality. The world doesn’t have to revolve around you. Pick up yourself and enjoy life. Don’t Play the Victim In Your Marriage

God bless our marriages.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY 
My mind is renewed by God’s word. I am not a victim of life

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
O Lord, I ask for wisdom in areas where I lack wisdom in Jesus name 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 
Rom 12:2 (CEV) Don’t be like the people of this world, but let God change the way you think. Then you will know how to do everything that is good and pleasing to him.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE
Pick up yourself from whatever happened in your past. Stop being the victim.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
1 Cor 10:13

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Seeing Love From The Eyes of Jesus Christ

Seeing Love From The Eyes of Jesus Christ

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Seeing Love From The Eyes of Jesus Christ. The love of Jesus is an absolute, unconditional and a sacrificial love. A love marked with ultimately giving of Himself. 

The Bible says 

john 3:16, ‘For God so loved the world that He gave His only beloved son, that whosoever shall believe in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.’

He loves us that we may know how to love. He shows us how to love that we may in turn reciprocate that agape love to others especially our spouse. Seeing Love From The Eyes of Jesus Christ will make us appreciate that love.

The love of Jesus is greater than any type of love. It is so deep, it reaches the inner recesses of our heart and the core of our being. It is so wide we can’t get round it , it covers all our being. It is so high we can’t get enough of it. It just overwhelms us. 

Such is the love of Jesus to us. His love was what made Him die on the cross of Calvary. Jesus came to this world as the express image of God the father. He is the expression of the father.  The expression of the fathers love. This love is not selfish or self seeking. It is a love that is faithful and loyal . A love that keeps waiting with arms wide open to receive us. Our weaknesses, faults, short comings, stubbornness,  disobedience not withstanding.

The abba fathers love yearns for us every time, He wants an intimate relationship with us. He wants to be our Yahweh. Our best friend , our shepherd who protect us with His life. He wants to be our defender, the one who fights our battles for us. Our Jehovah Rohi, Shammah, Rapha  and whatever names, He has revealed Himself to us 

Seeing Love From The Eyes of Jesus Christ’s perspective helps us to see how we should love our spouse unconditionally.

God bless our marriage

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I love my spouse with the agape, unconditional love of Christ

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord; let me see and receive your love that I may love my spouse the same way

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
John 3:16 God loved the people of this world so much that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who has faith in him will have eternal life and never really die. 

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Love your spouse

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
John 3

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