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We will be concluding this topic today and this is Part 3

Yesterday we looked at the second thing that will Sustain you in marriage, which is

2. Discover yourself ( if you missed this, check it HERE).

Things That Will Sustain You In Marriage

3. Discover your purpose.

This is very much similar to the discovery of your Person. It is after you have discovered your person that you can embark on the journey to discover your purpose. 

When the purpose of a thing is not known, abuse is inevitable. The purpose of anything determines its function. When your purpose is known, greatness is inevitable because you can move faster to get things done. 

Imagine if you have a washing machine and you don’t know what it’s used for. You still take out all your family clothes outside to wash with your hands. What a waste of time and energy.

Fulfillment and joy in life are some dividends of discovering your purpose. There is an inner joy that comes to your life, which your spouse can’t give you knowing you are doing exactly what you have been created to do. 

Many spouses are unhappy because they are not doing what they were created to do. Many husbands and wives are doing jobs that are just stressing their lives. They experience burn out and their loved ones partake of their burnout. 

Your wife can only help you fulfill the assignment you are aware God gave you. 

Your purpose is to be discovered, not decided by you. You don’t decide what you are created to be. Your purpose predates your existence. 

Discovery of your purpose is one of the Things That Will Sustain You In Marriage. Our purpose was already determined before God formed us.

Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations. Jeremiah 1:5 KJV

Your Marriage has a purpose. You didn’t just get married to have sex, give birth to babies, have a nice job, live in a fine house, and use bone straight weave on. 

This journey to discover purpose is done as you seek God. He is the creator of your life and your marriage. He knows your specific purpose. 

Go to His word and seek His face in prayer. Be sincere and intentional, and He will reveal your purpose to you. 

Some indications can help in your discovery of purpose. What do you naturally like doing? What are your gifts? What are the things you do without effort?

Take time and discover your purpose.

God bless your marriage

God created me for a purpose. He doesn’t created without a purpose. I have open eyes and I discover my purpose 

Lord, cause the eyes of my understanding to be flooded with light, that I may discover my purpose in life in Jesus name 

Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations. Jeremiah 1:5 KJV

Ask God to reveal your purpose and that of your marriage to you.

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