Understanding Timing In Marriage

Understanding Timing In Marriage

Reading Time: 2 minutes

Understanding Timing In Marriage. I once listened to a message by Bishop T.D Jakes titled, “Timing Is Everything.”

Sometimes what makes one thing bad and the same thing good is just about timing. What makes words spoken to a loved one good, bad or hurting beyond how it is spoken, is timing.

As husbands and wives, we have to study and understand proper timing. A good and skillful wife understands and uses the concept of timing to her advantage.

Women have great power and influence because they were created by God to be needed by men. God made man in Genesis 2, after He had made animals, plants, sun, and moon, He said it is not good for man to be alone. I will make a helper meet for him.

Men are not good (according to God’s standards without their wives).

Women are not just gifted more than men and extremely sophisticated, they are very much needed by men. Their make determines their functionality. Every woman is made and created to nurture and carry babies. God trusted women with the next generation.

Women are so much valuable in men’s life. 

They have to understand this and carry themselves with this mentality. Wives, you have to defend your value. 

You have the responsibility of ensuring you are not devalued for any reason. The value you place on yourself will determine the value placed on you. Have you ever seen a buyer paying more than the value placed on the commodity? Never, the buyer pays the value placed on the commodity.

The wife’s power of influence works better when the right timing is put into consideration. 

The concept of right timing when put to use by the couple makes to things work better in the marriage. 

Eccl 3:1
There’s an opportune time to do things, a right time for everything on the earth: 

A right time for birth and another for death, A right time to plant and another to reap, A right time to kill and another to heal, A right time to destroy and another to construct, A right time to cry and another to laugh,

Understanding Timing In Marriage is crucial for knowing the right time to doing things as couples. 

It becomes the wrong timing for the wife to make her grievances known to her husband when he is already feeling down. Men are territorial beings and will like to be in charge and in control. So telling your husband, you are not happy about something automatically puts his defence up.

Husbands, it becomes wrong timing for you not to consider the fact that your wife is an emotional being and sermonize her over a mistake she is already sorry about.

As couples let us be mindful of the things we do or don’t do considering whether it’s the right timing or not.

Our marriage will thrive!

I have understanding of the right time and seasons in my marriage

Father give me wisdom to consider the right timing before acting in Jesus name 

Eccl 3:1 There’s an opportune time to do things, a right time for everything on the earth: 

Consider the timing before acting. You don’t act out your feelings everytime

Eccl 3

Do you have a personal question about today’s devotional?
Send your questions to Whatsapp HERE

Do you want to Give to Support Kisses & Huggs Club? Go HERE to do so.

Digital Revolution

Pre-Wedding/Marriage Counseling Course

31 Days Marriage Challenge Course (For Couples)

Web Development/Design Course

Yesterday’s Devotional In Video – SINGLES

Yesterday’s Devotional In Video – COUPLES

Join Whatsapp & Telegram Community

Singles’ WhatsApp Group
Couples’ WhatsApp Group

Telegram Channel (Join Channel for Audio Messages, Video Links, and Devotional Links)
Telegram Group

Latest Audio Messages (Pastor Dunamis)

NEW Daily Prayer Schedule

1. Oil For Today  (Morning)
5.00am – 5.25am
Platform: Clubhouse 
( FOLLOW ME and then Search for Shouts of Grace Nation )

2. Tongues 2 Bed (Evening)
9.00pm – 10.00pm
Platform: Clubhouse 
( FOLLOW ME and then Search for Shouts of Grace Nation )

Latest Video – School of Relationships and Marriage

Latest Videos – Shouts of Grace Center

Latest Short Videos

Instagram Feed


If you ever played or desired to play in the Digital Economy  Space, then here is the opportunity you can’t afford to not take full advantage of and get on board to take a strategic position and leverage on the TAFABOT Digital Market Revolution.

The prelaunch onboarding portal is opened the second time, with global target admittance of only 5k signups, and will be closed permanently, till the main launch, having initially completed 10k  Earlybird signups in 21days.


So, when someone hints or shares a great and evolutionary opportunity with you, especially if you don’t have to PAY to signup,  you may not wait to figure it all out but pay ATTENTION to get the details to immediately get in to take a position, then figure the rest later…

TAFABOT – Revolutionalising the dynamics of the digital markets.


Facebook Comments Box
Understanding Timing In Marriage


To Top