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3 Important Things In Marriage. So we started this amazing topic yesterday. This is Part 2. For us to easily remember, the 3 important things that sustain us in marriage are in ‘P’.

Yesterday, we looked at the Peace of God, which is so important. As we journey in our marriage till life do us part, (which by the way is a long time)

God knows that life will happen on the way. So in His love and Mercy, He made His Peace available to us for the taking.
3 Important Things In Marriage

The second thing we will be looking at is:

2.  Discovery of your Person

God is the source of every life because He breadth the breadth of life into Adam, and we all became a living soul. 

This life became regenerated when we received Christ into our lives and became born again.

However, we all carry a piece of God. We are all masterpieces and are unique in our personalities.
People are the same and no one is a waste or useless. The DNA of God in us.

Let’s look at Colossians 3 verse 3 in different translations.

 Col 3:3 (TPT)
Your crucifixion with Christ has severed the tie to this life, and now your true life is hidden away in God in Christ

Col 3:3 MSG
Your old life is dead. Your new life, which is your real life—even though invisible to spectators—is with Christ in God. He is your life. When Christ (your real life, remember) shows up again on this earth, you’ll show up, too—the real you, the glorious you.  Meanwhile, be content with obscurity, like Christ.

Col 3:3 AMPC
For [as far as this world is concerned] you have died, and your [new, real] life is hidden with Christ in God.

We know from this scripture in different translations, that we have a new, real life that is hidden in Christ.

This hidden life is the real you. You have to discover that real you, if not you will never be fulfilled in life and of course in marriage.

You are not what people are calling you. You are not what your spouse is calling you. You are not what your present situation is calling you. It’s not new, people will call you based on what they can see. 

They don’t know you, they didn’t create you so they should never call you, or better still you should not answer what others call you (if it is not in line with the Word of God)

Lazy wife, good for nothing husband, stubborn wife, barren wife, depressive wife, harsh husband, liar, cheat, useless and the list goes on. Even in bible days, people called blind Bartimeous, Rahab the harlot, and even Jesus of Nazareth.

Like Jesus, we have to know who we really are. Only then can we fulfill our marriage mandate. Marriage is an assignment. It takes you to discover who you are to be able to function well.

It takes a wife who has discovered herself and a husband who has discovered himself to be one. Unity in marriage is impossible without a discovery of oneself.

This discovery is a personal journey you have to embark on. It is also a spiritual journey because it takes you going back to God in sincere prayers and studying the Word.

The more you know Christ, the more you discover yourself because your real life is hidden in Christ.

May we discover ourselves in Jesus’ name.

God bless your marriage. This is the second of 3 Important Things In Marriage

My new real life is hid in Christ. My life is hid not from me but for me to discover.

Lord, cause the eyes of my understanding to be flooded with light, that I may discover myself in Jesus name

Col 3:3 AMP
For you died [to this world], and your [new, real] life is hidden with Christ in God.

Go on a personal journey to discover yourself

Col 3


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