I belong to God’s kingdom, I am a member of the unshakable kingdom. I am unshaken, undaunted, and undismayed. in the face of contradictions. I will not compromise, I am satisfied with God, I am gratified with Jesus,
I am sanctified by the Holy Spirit. I am decided for Jesus and my mind is made up, It is settled, there is no going back, No turning back, no retroversion, and no retrogression!
I am sanctified,
There is no doubt. My past might have been a mess, But it is now a message. I might have been abused, But I was not reduced. I might have compromised, But I am now consecrated, The flood came against me, But the blood also came for me. Jesus grabbed my arch-enemy at the jugular, I can now breathe freely.
I am Sanctified,
I put God’s word first place in my life,
I read my Bible daily and I live by the words therein, I live by the Holy Spirit, I walk in the Spirit daily, Meditation of God’s word is my habit, I relish in God’s word, and I value His word.
I honour His word, I eat His word, I speak His word, I think His word, I breathe His word. Jesus is my Redeemer, He is my Savior, He is my guide, and He is my peace. He is my joy, He is my comfort, He is my Lord, and He rules my life.
I am sanctified,
I raise God’s standard in this generation,
I am focused; I am not distracted, deflected, or perturbed. I am not flurried and I am not disconcerted, Depression is not my portion, I will not disappoint God, I will not let Him down. By the Spirit of God, I am strengthened and toughened.
By the Spirit of God, I am energized and stimulated, By the Spirit of God, I am blessed and favoured. By the Spirit of God, I am fortified and stabilized, By the Spirit of God, I am protected and defended, By the Spirit of God, I am intelligent and level-headed.
I am sanctified,
The power of hell is broken.
Its arsenal is bankrupted. Every negative power is subdued. I conquer every opposition,
I defeat every enemy. My mind is blessed, renewed, and refreshed, Every soul tie is severed and broken. All wrong bondings are disbanded and dissolved, I have the mind of Christ, and Lust loses its power over me. I am an overcomer, a subduer, and a surmounter, I am victorious, prosperous, and productive
I am sanctified,
I am not afraid to say No. According to God’s word, I say No. In the name of Jesus, I say No.
By the power of the Holy Spirit, I say No to all forms of sexual perversions!
I am sanctified,
I stand for God, I raise the banner. I am committed to the vision of Kisses and Huggs, I am sold out to its vision, I am aggressively committed, My NO is strong, I live for God,
My victory is certain, My family is established, Favour is my portion. He has signed with His blood, I have also signed with my service and obedience, All glory to His name. I am blessed today, my result is sure, My testimony is secured, and my life is surrounded.
Favour surrounds me today, Joy wells up in me, His word is my light, and his grace upon me. Blessed be His holy name!
I am sanctified!
I am satisfied! It is ratified! And GOD is glorified!
I wish my husband understood this. The time and attention principle. Following God, the next person you should spend time with is your spouse! Spending time with her is so important that you don’t even want to think about what will happen if you don’t spend enough time with her. The scripture indicates that after God created man, He would leave His throne and come down to the garden in the cool of the day to commune with man!
Now read this carefully: “If you don’t spend enough time with her, there will be problems!”
I’ve been coaching couples for over two decades and can tell you that this is one area that many people miss and which the devil has extensively exploited as a route into marital seclusion.
I Wish My Husband Understood This
Consider this:
How did Satan ensnare Eve? He made time for her! Why was Eve so frail? When the devil appeared, Adam was not spending time with her!
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Even while some men are spending significant time with their spouse or soon-to-be spouse, things are not going well. What could possibly go wrong?
Some men are so skilled (pun intended) that they can “listen” without paying any attention!
That is not what we are discussing here! You can be with her for five hours and she still couldn’t reach you!
It is not the time to check Facebook when you want to spend time with her.
It is not the time to respond to emails when you want to spend time with her.
Is that all we’ll be doing? Someone asks. Spend time with her instead of working?
The issue is that you are unaware that part of your job is to make your marriage work!
My lecturer told me there are several degrees of listening when I was studying for a Master’s Degree in Communication and Language Arts many years ago. You can listen for entertainment, like watching a comedy, or for accuracy, like in class, or with precision in other situations, but the ultimate level of listening is what you practice with your spouse.
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It’s called empathetic listening, and it involves listening to her by imagining yourself in her shoes and feeling what she’s feeling.
It’s not the kind of listening to you do while using your laptops, iPads, watching CNN on TV, and taking phone calls.
You should make time for her on a regular basis in any relationship or marriage. This demonstrates your dedication to her. Make yourself available. Don’t allow it to get to the point where she wants to schedule a meeting with you!
What if my profession requires me to travel away from home?
There are two options available to you.
I Wish My Husband Understood This
1. Make it unforgettable whenever you are present.
Don’t fill it with squabbles to the point where the little time you have is filled with regrets. Show maturity. Allow the time you spend together to be an intentional deposit into her emotional bank, so she has plenty to withdraw from when you are not around.
2. Maintain your contact with your spouse by using of social media.
If you are not constantly available and yet do not have time to contact or talk on a regular basis, something is wrong somewhere!
You see, when you truly love someone, you want to stay in touch with them!
I pray that God will give you additional insight into this. In Jesus’ name, I come against every storm in your marriage and declare, “Peace, be still!”
How to Become Responsible Lovers. Over the years, from counseling experiences, and even from the scriptures, one surefire reason for a marriage to fail is a lack of mentoring or tutelage.
God’s kingdom is so intricately planned that you are not expected to remain isolated.
Here’s what God says:
God setteth the solitary in families: he bringeth out those which are bound with chains: but the rebellious dwell in a dry land. (Psalms 68:6 KJV)
In His wisdom, God has surrounded us not only with physical families but also with spiritual families. You must be able to recognize and stay with your spiritual family.
God has placed a man or woman over you to whom you can seek knowledge and who will be able to speak into your life during storms.
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There are times when you are confronted with a problem, but the solution is only a sentence or two away in the lips of a God-anointed servant.
How to Become Responsible Lovers
This is why I am often afraid of couples who have no one to hold them accountable. I am often afraid of couples that do not have mentors. Someone correctly stated that you need mentors to avoid life’s tormentors!
Now I’ll explain why it’s critical to maintain accountability in marriage.
There are instances when couples seek counseling and there is just one way to go after listening to them.
So I’d like to pose the question,
“Who do you think is your spouse’s mentor?”
It is always disappointing when the response is
“Nobody, sir!”
As a result, I frequently reword the question,
“Who does your husband admire? “Who can speak to him?”
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Then comes a sadder response.
“Nobody, sir!”
Then I’d give it one more shot.
“What about his parents?” I would ask.
“He doesn’t pay attention to his parents!” Nobody can communicate with him!”
At this moment, the situation appears to be dire… since it is difficult to assist a solitary person!
A soul that has been disenfranchised is a vulnerable soul.
One of the most important aspects of marriage is the question of accountability!
How to Become Responsible Lovers
Let me close with this verse:
Without counsel purposes are disappointed: but in the multitude of counsellors they are established. (Proverbs 15:22 KJV)
Purposes might be sincere, but when they are unaided, they can lead to frustration and disappointment.
Check it out in The Message translation:
Refuse good advice and watch your plans fail; take good counsel and watch them succeed. (Proverbs 15:22 Message)
Good morning! Your relationships and marriages are blessed!
Today, we’ll look at the signs of an unhappy or dying relationship and marriage. This will allow us to diagnose and eliminate these problems swiftly. Let’s get started.
Signs of a Dying Relationship or Marriage
1. When trust has died and has been cremated
The foundation of any marriage’s success is trust.
Create trust! Please don’t break it! Without trust, the marriage has no foundation.
How do you sever trust?
When you consistently disappoint your partner with lies and deception, trust will crumble. When confidence in a marriage is lost, the end is imminent. You cannot do without trust! Build trust deliberately through honesty.
Do everything you can to maintain trust by being truthful to a fault. Let your spouse r finance be able to line up your words with your actions! Be completely honest.
A trust may be re-established once it has been destroyed, but it takes time and perseverance.
Signs of a Dying Relationship or Marriage
2. When the couple disregards God
There is really little you can accomplish without God.
God is the one who builds homes. God is the architect of marriage.
It is a waste of time to strive to construct without God.
Psa 127:1 (KJV) Except the LORD build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the LORD keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain.
As a form of retaliation, some couples engage in adulterous acts. It is only a matter of time before the impending crash becomes apparent.
Iniquity is always a destructive path. Don’t toe that path!
Sin’s wages are death, thus when sin enters a marriage system, it dies by default.
I pray your marriage does not end in divorce!
I prophesy over your marriage and household, and I pray that God will protect you in Jesus’ name!
Hello and good morning! I’ll pick up where I left off yesterday.
We started with some prayer topics that every couple should pray, and we looked at two of them yesterday. We continue from there.
3. Remove selfishness from my heart.
This is another prayer that every couple and singles should say together. Selfishness simply implies failing to consider your spouse/fiancee. In what ways may couples be self-centered? Let me name a few.
Gal 5:17 For there is a root of sinful self-interest in us that is at odds with a free spirit, just as the free spirit is incompatible with SELFISHNESS. These two ways of life are antithetical, so that you cannot live at times one way and at times another way according to how you feel on any given day.
No More Selfishness Towards My Lover
a. Communication selfishness
You enjoy talking to the whole world except your loved one. That is inappropriate!.
You simply forget to converse with your spouse! You have no recollection of it. It’s understandable if you don’t talk to or call others very often. But don’t you think something is amiss when you virtually live on Whats App or Messenger, chatting up the entire world except your spouse or loved one?
You absolutely must change your approach! Allow your spouse to be your biggest fan! The most important conversations on your phone should be with your spouse, not with an old acquaintance or family member.
Pastor, we see every day! It makes no difference. Protect your marriage by doing whatever you can. You cannot truly say you tried unless you have given it your all and made some mindset modifications.
The same way for singles in courtship. Decide to ignore the whole world rather than your lover.
No More Selfishness Towards My Lover
b. Shopping selfishness
Do you go shopping and just buy your things, fully forgetting about your spouse? That’s not quite fair!
Even if the shopping is for you, make sure you grab something for your spouse. This is how you keep the flames alive.
Dear husbands, don’t buy all the electronics unless you also buy some lady stuff. Dear lady, don’t get all the powders and make-up kits unless you also buy some guy items! Be prudent.
Pray that God should remove selfishness from your heart in every way!
