In a not-so-distant past, we were blessed with a tiny boy, a mere handful in my palm. Fast forward to the present, he’s graduated and already working.
The pace of time is astonishing! In a couple of years, I would easily and successfully become a grandpa! What?
I am still trying to feel like a dad and now the granddad thing is beckoning gently!
The scripture in Ephesians 5:15-16 urges us to walk wisely, redeeming the time, for the days are challenging. In simpler terms, make the most of every opportunity, given the desperate times we live in.
Seize the Moment, Dear Couples
Now is the time for couples to unite and make the most of every chance. Avoid spending half your lifetime in disputes and suspicions, robbing yourselves of the power found in the prayer of agreement. The synergy between husband and wife should result in abundant productivity, touching lives around you positively.
Break Free from Energy-Wasting Patterns
Unnecessary quarrels, prolonged silences, and attempts to change your spouse are all energy-draining activities. Romans 13:11 (MSG) cautions against getting so absorbed in daily obligations that you lose track of time and God. Your time can be maximized only with God.
Rom 13:11 (MSG) But make sure that you don’t get so absorbed and exhausted in taking care of all your day-by-day obligations that you lose track of the time and doze off, oblivious to God.
The Dawn is Near
Romans 13:12 (MSG) emphasizes that the night is nearly over, urging us to be awake to what God is doing.
Rom 13:12 (MSG) The night is about over, dawn is about to break. Be up and awake to what God is doing! God is putting the finishing touches on the salvation work he began when we first believed.
The urgency is clear – time is fleeting. The dreams in your diary and the aspirations you’ve carried for years should not linger; it’s time to give birth to them.
Don’t Squander Precious Minutes
Romans 13:13 (MSG) reminds us not to waste a minute, discouraging frivolity and indulgence. Couples should work together, aligning with the purpose for which they came together, avoiding squabbles and distractions.
The Path Forward
To make the glory embedded in your union a reality, couples must decide to follow God, forgive easily, love unconditionally, and pray fervently.
I sincerely pray for your strength and unity, that the purpose for which your family came together becomes a reality.
This morning, I want to delve into a crucial principle outlined in the scriptures, one that guarantees daily victory in our work, relationships, marriages, and life in general.
The power lies in the words we speak. Uttering words with our mouths is a potent force that steers the course of our lives.
These spoken words possess such influence that they can overwhelm our lives, shaping and controlling the events that unfold. Recognizing this, Jesus Christ emphasized the significance of words, stating,
“It is the spirit that quickeneth; the flesh profiteth nothing: the words that I speak unto you, they are spirit, and they are life” (John 6:63, KJV).
From the moment of birth, we emit sounds as a sign of life. As we grow, words form, marking our progression. In relationships, words play a pivotal role, from expressing romantic interest to exchanging vows on a wedding day. Marriage thrives on a consistent exchange of loving words.
Even in matters of faith, confessing certain words is essential. The act of proclaiming the Lordship of Jesus brings about a powerful experience.
Proverbs 13:2-3 underscores the significance of words in the spiritual realm. Positive affirmations lead to a fruitful life, while negative expressions open the door to destructive forces.
In the spiritual dimension, the devil understands the potency of words. He endeavors to inject negative thoughts, hoping they find verbal expression. Verbalizing negativity transforms thoughts into tangible experiences.
The crucial question to ponder is, “What are you saying?” Proverbs admonishes that by keeping our mouths, we safeguard our lives. Therefore, monitoring our speech becomes imperative.
Avoid statements like:
“I don’t even understand my life.”
“I am very confused.”
“I think there is a curse working against me.”
Negative words give power to undesirable experiences. Refrain from using hurtful words in relationships. Never belittle your partner with demeaning remarks or indulge in verbal abuse.
For singles enduring verbal abuse, seek help. Recognize that such behavior often worsens after marriage. If your intended partner consistently employs hurtful words, consider seeking counseling.
Words are potent and must be used responsibly. Don’t stay in love with someone whose words consistently demotivate and weaken you.
May understanding abound, and may our words be a source of life and encouragement.
At a recent marital gathering, a common question surfaced: Is it acceptable for married couples to indulge in pornography? My unequivocal response was a resounding No!
1. The Spiritual Dimension of Pornography
James 1:14-15 cautions against being carried away by one’s lust, leading to sin and eventual death.
“Pastor, why would you say so? At least, we are married, and we can do anything in the sanctity of our marriage!”
James 1:14-15But each one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his own lust. Then when lust has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and when sin is accomplished, it brings forth death.
There’s an unseen force behind pornography—the strongman of perversion.
Engaging with it, whether single or married, invites negative spiritual influence. Transference of spirits can occur, impacting your home and family negatively.
Reject the subtle attempts of the devil to infiltrate your sacred space through disguised pornography.
2. The Gripping Pull of Addiction
Beyond dirtying your heart with explicit content, pornography exerts a formidable pull on your emotions. Addiction becomes a real danger, with the allure of more extreme forms of perversion.
The initial satisfaction from regular pornography may wane, leading to the exploration of increasingly disturbing territories. This journey not only jeopardizes your sexual life but also poses a significant threat to your marriage and spiritual well-being.
3. Unfair Comparisons within Marriage
One often overlooked consequence is the undue pressure placed on a spouse to match the performances witnessed in pornography. Ignorantly demanding such acts can violate your partner’s conscience and erode the sanctity of your relationship.
It’s essential to realize that the scenes depicted are often fueled by drugs, numbing the actors’ humanity.
Requesting your spouse to replicate these acts can lead to strained intimacy, potential infidelity, and a breach of trust.
In conclusion, the pitfalls of introducing pornography into a marriage are numerous and profound.
Later, we’ll delve into strategies to break free from its grips and restore the sanctity of marital relationships.
Stay tuned for practical insights on reclaiming a life free from the clutches of pornography. Until then, remain blessed!
God has given us. Word for this year. Borderless opportunities!
“Borderless” refers to the absence of borders or boundaries. It suggests an environment or situation without limits, restrictions, or defined edges.
Its synonyms include Boundless, Unlimited, Unrestricted, Infinite, Limitless,and so on.
“Opportunities” refer to favorable circumstances, situations, or chances that arise, providing a possibility for advancement, benefit, or success.
The scripture is replete with several people who had boundless opportunities. Examples are David, Joseph, and Daniel!
In 2024, be sensitive! Don’t allow the devil to attack your opportunities.
How does the devil attack opportunities?
These are a few ways:
1. Opportunities may elude one’s perception,
2. Opportunities can be pilfered away,
3. Opportunities are susceptible to squandering.
4. They may be concealed,
5. They may be disregarded.
6. Opportunities can suffer scarcity,
7. Opportunities may prove elusive.
How Do You Seize Opportunities This Year?
1. Cultivate a Prayerful Spirit
2. Commit to Fasting
3. Immerse Yourself in the Word
4. Shun Iniquity
5. Embrace Boldness
6. Cultivate Sensitivity
7. Become a Generous Giver/Tither
8. Maintain Strong Connections
9. Steer Clear of Strife
10. Develop Capacity
Prayers To Take
1. Heavenly Father, guard me against squandering the divine opportunities you present in the name of Jesus!
2. Lord, ensure that my future surpasses my past in the name of Jesus!
3. Father, prevent me from becoming a forgotten tale while I am still alive in the name of Jesus!
4. I declare disgrace upon every power assigned to waste your opportunities in the name of Jesus!
5. May the battles inherited from my parents find no voice in my life; let them be silenced in the name of Jesus!
Instructions this year!
Be sensitive! Be alert.
Be strong to utilize all the opportunities coming out way this year!
2Co 4:1 (AMPC) THEREFORE, SINCE we do hold and engage in this ministry by the mercy of God [granting us favor, benefits, opportunities, and especially salvation], we do not get discouraged (spiritless and despondent with fear) or become faint with weariness and exhaustion.
Hello everyone, today we’re diving into five areas that deserve your contemplation as we approach the final day of the year. These insights aim to guide your reflection, helping you make the most of the remaining time before we usher in the new year.
1. Reflection:
As the curtains draw on this year, seize the chance to step back and ponder your accomplishments and goals. Evaluate your progress with an honest lens, identifying areas for improvement. This self-reflection isn’t just a trip down memory lane; it’s a tool for personal growth, laying the foundation for new aspirations in the year ahead.
2. Gratitude:
In the hustle and bustle, it’s crucial to pause and express gratitude. Take a moment to appreciate the people, experiences, and opportunities that have added joy and fulfillment to your life. Cultivating gratitude isn’t just a nice sentiment; it’s a proven way to enhance overall well-being and maintain a positive outlook.
Has God been good? Have you taken the time to express your gratefulness and appreciation?
3. Family and Friends:
Amidst the year-end rush, reflect on whether you have allocated quality time for your loved ones, especially family and friends. Strong relationships serve as pillars of support and fountains of happiness. Plan activities that create lasting memories, strengthening the bonds that make life richer.
4. Spiritual Growth:
These closing days of the year offer a prime window for spiritual reflection. Engage and practice God’s presence, basking in His glory and enraptured in His grace to endow and endue you for the coming year! Have you gotten a word for the coming year yet? It’s not too late! Spend time in His presence!
5. Giving:
Have you given enough back to your immediate sphere of influence as God blessed you? Were you faithful in tithing and honouring God? Have you helped others around you that you are better off than? Contributing to the community not only has a positive impact on others but also brings a profound sense of fulfillment and purpose to your own life.
Remember, these last hours of the year present a unique opportunity for introspection, growth, and positive transformation. Embrace the time that remains, and let it be a stepping stone to a brighter, more fulfilling future.
