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Top 10 Things a Woman Wants in a Man Part 2

We will continue with Part 2 of this topic today. 

6. Intellectual Stimulation
While beauty may be in the eye of the beholder, a woman’s heart is often won through intellectual foreplay. She wants a partner who can engage her mind, challenge her beliefs, and expand her horizons. Discuss thought-provoking topics, share your knowledge, and never stop learning together. Intelligence can be sexy! Women love men who are knowledgeable and can engage in interesting conversations. Psa 49:3 says “My mouth shall speak of wisdom; and the meditation of my heart shall be of understanding.”

So, how can you engage in intellectual foreplay and win a woman’s heart?

  1. Discuss thought-provoking topics. Engage in conversations about a wide range of subjects
  2. Share your knowledge. Be open to sharing your own expertise and experiences, while also being receptive to learning from your partner.
  3. Never stop learning together. Make a habit of exploring new ideas and experiences together. 

7. Faithfulness: Standing by Her Side

Faithfulness is a fundamental quality in any successful relationship. A woman wants a man who will stand by her side, through thick and thin. It’s about being dependable, committed, and dedicated to your partner. A dependable man is someone who keeps his promises, supports his partner, and is consistently there when needed. “The Lord detests lying lips, but he delights in people who are trustworthy”  Proverbs 12:22. One of the ways you can demonstrate faithfulness is by keeping your promises. Always follow through on your commitments, whether they involve grand gestures or small, everyday tasks. 

8. Emotional Expression: The Power of Vulnerability

Emotional expression is the ability to express your feelings in a healthy way. It is one of the top ten things a woman wants. A woman wants a man who can be vulnerable, who can show his emotions, and who can be open about his needs. It’s a sign of strength, not weakness. Every woman wants a man that is not secretive. Ability to keep secrets and hide vital information from your spouse is the beginning of adulterous relationships. Adultery is never a good idea. Pro 6:27 says “Can a man take fire in his bosom, and his clothes not be burned?”

9. Trustworthiness: The Foundation of Any Relationship

Trust is the foundation of any successful relationship. A woman wants a man who is reliable, honest, and faithful. It’s about being transparent, keeping promises, and maintaining integrity. This means being honest about your feelings, intentions, and actions.

As the Bible says, “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs” 1 Corinthians 13:4-5. A trustworthy man keeps his promises, just as God keeps His promises to us Psalm 105:4. When both partners trust each other, they can build a strong and lasting bond.

10. Passion: The Spark that Keeps the Fire Burning

Passion is the spark that keeps the fire burning in any relationship. It is one of the top ten things a woman wants. A woman wants a man who is passionate about life, his interests, and their relationship. It’s about being enthusiastic, spontaneous, and adventurous. A woman wants a man who is romantic and who can satisfy her in the bedroom! A woman wants a man who can connect with her physically and emotionally. Songs of Solomon 2:10 (KJV) My beloved spake, and said unto me, Rise up, my love, my fair one, and come away. Kindly take note that as singles, a sexual relationship is a No-No! Sexual intimacy should be reserved till after the wedding.! Commitment to purity honors the sacred bond between two people and allows the relationship to grow and flourish in other areas before the ultimate expression of love is shared.


Becoming the ultimate catch is not about changing who you are, but about embracing your authentic self. By incorporating these top ten qualities, you’ll become the most attractive and irresistible man in her eyes. Remember, it’s about being confident, emotionally intelligent, ambitious, and passionate – a true partner in every sense of the word.

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