Faith doesn’t always feel good. There are days when emotions scream louder than truth, and trusting God feels hard. Yet Scripture calls us to “walk by faith, not by sight” (2 Corinthians 5:7).
Feelings fluctuate, but faith remains anchored in who God is, unchanging, faithful, and true. When life gets heavy, our emotions can cloud our judgment. Fear, anxiety, and disappointment can make us forget what God has already done. That’s why the Psalmist asks in Psalm 42:5, “Why, my soul, are you downcast? Put your hope in God.” Faith speaks to the soul and reminds it of God’s promises.
Choosing faith over feelings means deciding that your trust in God will not depend on circumstances. It’s waking up and declaring, “Even if I don’t see it yet, God is still good.” Isaiah 26:3 assures us that “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.”
Faith stabilizes your heart in seasons of uncertainty. It teaches you to pray instead of panic, and sing praises instead of complaining. It’s not a denial of how you feel; it’s a decision to let God’s truth define your reality.
Your emotions are valid, but they should never lead your life. When faith leads, peace follows. Trusting God above your feelings will always lead you to victory.
The Love That Builds Together – Priscilla & Aquila
If there’s a couple in Scripture who understood partnership, it’s Priscilla and Aquila. They weren’t just in love—they were in purpose. Together, they built tents, hosted Paul, and taught Apollos about the way of God more accurately.
Their love wasn’t loud, but it was strong. It wasn’t flashy, but it was fruitful.
In the journey of seeking “the one,” look beyond chemistry—look for compatibility in calling. Chemistry is okay, but don’t forget compatibility. Can you build something meaningful with this person? Can they strengthen your faith, or will they stretch your peace?
In marriage, Priscilla and Aquila remind us that love isn’t only about affection; it’s about assignment. As a couple, support each other’s callings. Build something that outlives you. Let your home be more than a comfort zone—make it a kingdom zone.
The world may not remember how perfect your wedding was, but it will remember what your partnership produced.
Love is sweetest when it’s serving purpose together.
We started this series last week. If you missed it, you can read it HERE
Part 2 – Leaving and Cleaving
Genesis 2:24 begins with a key phrase — “A man shall leave his father and mother…” Before the union comes the leaving. This leaving isn’t just about moving out of your parents’ home; it’s about a shift of loyalty, priority, and identity.
When a man or woman marries, their primary allegiance changes. The emotional center that once belonged to parents, siblings, or even friends must now be given to their spouse. Many marriages struggle, not because of external enemies, but because the couple never truly left. They are married physically, but still attached emotionally or financially in unhealthy ways.
To “cleave” means to cling tightly — like glue that bonds two surfaces so firmly that separating them would cause damage. That’s the level of commitment God desires in marriage — one that is permanent, exclusive, and deeply loyal.
For singles, understanding this helps you prepare your heart for true partnership. Learn to build healthy boundaries with family and friends. Learn to stand on your own spiritually and emotionally. When you know how to “leave” rightly, you will “cleave” rightly when the time comes.
For the married, leaving and cleaving is a continuous practice. It means protecting your spouse from unnecessary external interference — whether from family, work, or ministry. It means honoring your spouse as your first human priority after God.
One flesh cannot exist where there’s divided loyalty. A man or woman who hasn’t learned to leave cannot cleave. True intimacy is born when both hearts are fully present and free from competing ties.
We often imagine hearing God as something that happens in deep prayer or during life’s major crossroads—like choosing a spouse or a career. But what if God speaks just as clearly in the grocery aisle, the traffic jam, or while folding laundry?
Joseph, the earthly father of Jesus, teaches us that divine direction isn’t reserved for dramatic moments. He wasn’t a priest or prophet—just a carpenter trying to live right. Yet every time God spoke, Joseph heard.
In Matthew 1:20, when the angel said, “Do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife”, he listened. When told, “Get up, take the child and his mother and escape to Egypt” (Matthew 2:13, NIV), he obeyed. Later, “Go to the land of Israel” (Matthew 2:20, NIV). No thunder. No burning bush. Just quiet clarity in ordinary life.
What made Joseph different wasn’t his holiness—it was his habit of listening. He didn’t treat hearing God as a rare spiritual event but as part of his daily rhythm. His obedience turned ordinary moments into sacred history.
Maybe God’s voice isn’t hiding—it’s just competing with our noise. The ping of notifications. The rush of deadlines. The hum of worry. But when we quiet our hearts, even in the middle of life’s routine, we might catch the whisper of God guiding us through “everyday” issues: which conversation to have, which decision to delay, how to respond in kindness.
Like Joseph, we don’t need a spotlight to hear heaven. We just need to stay tuned. The voice that guided him still speaks steadily, practically, and is present in the details of our ordinary days.
How to Deal with Lack of Commitment and Sacrifice in a Relationship
A relationship without commitment and sacrifice is like a house built on sand; it may stand temporarily, but it will crumble under pressure. If you’re experiencing this struggle, here’s how to address it biblically:
1. Understand God’s design: Marriage requires mutual sacrifice, modeled after Christ’s love for the church. Ephesians 5:25 instructs, “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” This sacrificial love isn’t optional; it’s foundational. Both partners must embrace the call to die to self (Luke 9:23).
2. Communicate your concerns honestly: Proverbs 27:5-6 says, “Better is open rebuke than hidden love. Wounds from a friend can be trusted.” Have a loving but direct conversation about what you’re experiencing. Express specific ways the lack of commitment affects you, avoiding accusation but speaking truth in love (Ephesians 4:15).
3. Examine your own heart first: Matthew 7:3-5 warns against judging others while ignoring our own flaws. Are you modeling the commitment you desire? Sometimes we must lead by example, trusting that our faithfulness will inspire reciprocity.
4. Set healthy boundaries: Commitment requires two willing participants. If your partner consistently refuses to invest in the relationship, you may need to establish boundaries. Proverbs 4:23 advises, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
5. Seek godly counsel: Proverbs 15:22 reminds us, “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” Talk with a pastor, Christian counselor, or trusted mentor who can provide a biblical perspective and practical guidance.
6. Prayer and patience: First Corinthians 13:4-7 describes love as patient and enduring. Pray for your partner’s heart and for wisdom in responding. Remember Philippians 2:3-4: “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.”
Ultimately, both partners must choose daily to commit and sacrifice. Without this mutual decision, the relationship cannot reflect God’s covenant love.
