Ten Undisputable Qualities You Must Have. The qualities we imbibe in our relationship or marriage in deliberate ways are what will be responsible for our overall health in that relationship or marriage! I want to quickly identify this morning ten qualities that should be in every relationship and marriage! They include:
1. Trust 2. Communication 3. Respect 4. Love 5. Affection 6. Honesty 7. Understanding 8. Cooperation 9. Commitment 10. Fun
Let’s discuss this briefly! Ten Undisputable Qualities You Must Have
Trust
This is the backbone of every relationship and marriage
Pro 31:11 (MSG) Her husband trusts her without reserve, and never has reason to regret it.
Trust should be both ways in marriage! Protect that trust by not violating it repeatedly! Once trust is broken repeatedly, it becomes a loophole for the devil to initiate more chaos! Our relationships and marriages will not be chaotic in Jesus’ name!
Ten Undisputable Qualities You Must Have
2. Communication
How can I emphasize the importance of this one? It is so crucial!
Marital communication can improve the health of your relationship by bringing you and your spouse closer together.
Also, on a personal level, talking to your partner about your problems and wishes can help reduce your stress. It can help you sort out your feelings without worrying about the future.
Don’t bring temperament into marriage and then keep saying you are the quiet type. So who is the talking type? Relationships and especially marriage should be a place where you are excited to share and talk constantly.
Also, it is communication that will help you build trust eventually.
Stop thinking your spouse or lover will just know things without talking! It is only the Holy Spirit that has that capacity and your lover or spouse is none of that! Laugh together! Rejoice together! Talk freely with one another!
When you communicate, conflicts are resolved! When you internalize, you are a breeding ground for offense because the devil will ensure he expands the issue in your thought realm till you actually come into a place where you begin to hate and get irritated at the one you are supposed to love!
Don’t allow that in your relationship or marriage! These are two of Ten Undisputable Qualities You Must Have
3 Tips for Finding and Keeping True Love. This is for both single and married. There is no one-size-fits-all answer to the question of how to find a spouse, but there are some things that everyone should keep in mind when looking for love.
First, it is essential to be open to the possibility of love. Secondly, it is important to meet new people and to get out of your comfort zone. Finally, it is essential to be patient and prayerful.
How to Find a Spouse: 3 Tips for Finding and Keeping True Love
If you’re wondering how to find a spouse, you’re not alone. The search for true love is a journey many people go on, and it can be difficult, especially without God But, if you keep the following three things in mind, you’ll be well on your way to finding the partner of your dreams.
3 Tips for Finding and Keeping True Love
1. Be open to the possibility of love.
Too often, people get caught up in finding the perfect partner and end up closing themselves off from the possibilities that are right in front of them. It’s important to be open to the idea of love, even if you don’t think the person you’re currently with is the one. You do this without being emotional or suggestive. You never know when love will find you. Most often, we have allowed our past love failures, broken relationships, and broken hearts, to close up the fact that true love exists. You have to be open and believe in God without compromise. Allow God to do a new thing!
Isa 43:19 (MSG) Be alert, be present. I’m about to do something brand-new. It’s bursting out! Don’t you see it? There it is! I’m making a road through the desert, rivers in the badlands.
As married couples, let go of past mistakes and errors and be open to the possibilities of a new day in your marriage! Don’t dig up the past all the time for that will surely hinder your love from growing!
3 Tips for Finding and Keeping True Love
2. Get out of your comfort zone.
Oftentimes, the people we end up falling in love with are those that we never would have thought to give a second glance. That’s why it’s important to meet new people and get out of your comfort zone. You never know who you’ll meet or where you’ll find love. You can’t be praying for a spouse while you stay in your room all the time. You have to go where you can be found, for example, decent social gatherings, meetings with friends, and so on. Clubs, wild parties, and the likes are the wrong places to look for a spouse!
Pro 13:20 (CEV) Wise friends make you wise, but you hurt yourself by going around with fools.
For married couples, create fun in your marriage. Do new things together. Be creative in the bedroom without toying with perversions. Enjoy yourselves and avoid continual tantrums and quarrels
3 Tips for Finding and Keeping True Love
3. Be patient and prayerful
The right person will come along when the time is right. Just remember to keep your trust in God, and the rest will fall into place.
Stay prayed up. Prayers have a way of protecting you from falling into traps!
Luk 22:40 (MSG) When they arrived at the place, he said, “Pray that you don’t give in to temptation.”
As married couples, never underestimate the power of prayers! Pray in other to keep the devil off your marital turf! Rather than get hurt all the time and stay in strife, learn to have conversations with God!
The Rise of The Watchmen. I come to Kisses and Huggs Club this morning as a watchman, and I speak to some of you as watchmen.
I come this morning blowing the trumpet and sounding an alarm upon this land regarding pre-marital sex and other perversions. There is war upon the land! There is aggression from hell marching vigorously to render the marriage covenant useless and make rubbish of sexual purity.
The enemy is advancing. I hear the sound of the trumpet. The Rise of The Watchmen
Eze 33:3-7 (MSG) and if the watchman sees war coming and blows the trumpet, warning the people, [4] then if anyone hears the sound of the trumpet and ignores it and war comes and takes him off, it’s his own fault. [5] He heard the alarm, he ignored it—it’s his own fault. If he had listened, he would have saved his life. [6] “‘But if the watchman sees war coming and doesn’t blow the trumpet, warning the people, and war comes and takes anyone off, I’ll hold the watchman responsible for the bloodshed of any unwarned sinner.’ [7] “You, son of man, are the watchman. I’ve made you a watchman for Israel. The minute you hear a message from me, warn them.
I am here to warn you. I saw what Daddy Freeze wrote in response to a certain instance on social media and saying the Bible is not against premarital sex.
War in the land! How many people slept with each other and broke their sanctity on the days when this sound was made?
Most of the conclusions on social media are sadly unscriptural and straight from hell. The sound coming from social media is muffled and confused. A deliberate attempt to confuse a generation that is within confusion already. A generation beleaguered with sexual looseness, intricately woven together in a trilogy of lust, power, and mammon spirit.
You cannot draw the truth from social media! Do you want the truth? Go back to the beginning. The law of Moses came with some permissions. Jesus summarized the drama when he said
Mat 19:8 (KJV) …but from the beginning it was not so.
Whatever lapses you see in Old Testament came through the law. To get the truth, we go back to Adam and Eve.
Sex at random, pre-marital sex, one-night stands, and the like will remain a stench to heaven. Oral sex, anal sex, and all the cousins will remain a sin! Technology and AI will not later that!
As a watchman, talking to watchmen, hear the voice of the Lord this day! The Rise of The Watchmen
Eze 33:26 (MSG) You rely on the sword, you engage in obscenities, you indulge in sex at random—anyone, anytime. And you still expect to own this land?’
To own your portion in this land, to fulfill God’s counsel, to preserve your soul, sex at random and other perversions will remain a sin.
I have done my job as a watchman this morning. Do your job as a watchman as well.
Stop sleeping with your fiancée. You are not married yet. Stop desecrating her if you really love her. Stop twisting the scriptures to feed your lust.
Stay faithful to your spouse. Small girls with big gods will end up in regrets, both the gods and the girls.
What does God want? The Rise of The Watchmen
Eze 33:11 (MSG) “Tell them, ‘As sure as I am the living God, I take no pleasure from the death of the wicked. I want the wicked to change their ways and live. Turn your life around! Reverse your evil ways! Why die, Israel?’
Thus saith the Lord this morning, “Turn your life around! Reverse your evil ways! Why die?
You will not die in Jesus’ name, because you will not ignore this sound.
Now as watchmen, go ahead and make the right sound. It is our responsibility to release the right sound from heaven to swallow up every sound of sexual perversion!
Bedroom Matters For Singles and Married. The Johnsons have been married for six years, but their bedroom stories have been unpleasant, to say the least. One thinks the other has too much voracious sexual appetite for a human being, while the other is amazed at how one can be so disinterested in that area. So conflicts arose from the inner chambers that seeped into the living room and even followed them to work, affecting workplace productivity. Oh I forgot, vulnerabilities increased, and along with that came the biting of forbidden fruits, which later morphed into gravels in their mouths. The pain came upon their marital dentition, foaming in the mouth and grinding of teeth resulted from the libido mismatch! Needless to say, their carelessness and ignorance in the bedroom became the pedestal upon which other issues were predicated.
On the other hand, Sally who is single and desperate wanted a wedding so much that she felt for the bait of “you can’t find a man who will not ask for pre-marital sex!”
Who says? When was the census conducted? Bedroom Matters For Singles and Married
Did I hear that a certain man was asking for scriptures that show fornication is a sin? Oh, that is not clear enough? How far and crazy can it get?
Where is the scripture that tells us that we should go to the toilet and poo? Where is the scripture that tells us that we should not use rat poison as an ingredient to cook our food? Where is the Scripture that says we would go to University or college?
We often use the scripture to validate or excuse our bond with iniquity! It is like playing a sport with one’s destiny! Some things are too clear in the scripture!
Fornication will always remain a sin, it will not change. Technology and AI will not change that. The high number of compromisers and end-time teachers will not change that as well.
To the married, you are to enjoy your spouse! Your body belongs to one another! We treated this extensively on our Whatsapp Community yesterday and we will continue in the next meeting! From oral stuff to anal adventures, we treated them yesterday!
1Co 7:2-5 (MKJV) [2] But, because of the fornications, let each have his own wife, and let each have her own husband. [3] Let the husband give to the wife proper kindness, and likewise the wife also to the husband. [4] The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband. And likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife. [5] Do not deprive one another, unless it is with consent for a time, so that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer. And come together again so that Satan does not tempt you for your incontinence.
Bedroom Matters For Singles and Married
To the single, keep your chastity! If chastity has been blown apart, retrace your steps and make things right! You cannot be offering your body all over the place and be so generous when you are not an NGO! Keep yourselves. Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit!
Why You Can’t Tolerate Bitterness. The Johnsons have been married for six good years! But they have not been good to themselves. Mrs. Johnson got to discover some things about her husband and she became livid with anger.
Different times of confrontations with her husband yielded nothing other than strong denial.
Her anger, attitude, and subtle withdrawal as a result of trust broken and stubborn denial further aggravated Mr. Johnson because he only saw those actions as disrespect.
Mrs. Johnson became bitter as result. She felt “naked” because of the feeling that her husband couldn’t be vulnerable to her as she was to him.
On the other hand, Mr. Johnson felt rattled and was wondering why she delighted herself in digging up what happened in the past, details of which he claimed he could remember all.
Bitterness crept into their marriage and alongside brought its cousins which even added to the damage.
Heb 12:15 (AMPC) Exercise foresight and be on the watch to look [after one another], to see that no one falls back from and fails to secure God’s grace (His unmerited favor and spiritual blessing), in order that no root of resentment (rancor, bitterness, or hatred) shoots forth and causes trouble and bitter torment, and the many become contaminated and defiled by it—
Take note of the following: Why You Can’t Tolerate Bitterness
Watch out for one another. Be interested in yourselves and love yourselves deeply
Exercise foresight and be on the watch to look [after one another]…
God’s grace, which entails favour and blessing can be lost or can fail
…to see that no one falls back from and fails to secure God’s grace (His unmerited favor and spiritual blessing),
3. Bitterness, also referred to as rancour or hatred is a root! Roots are not seen! But the fruits of chaos confusion, losses, bitter torment, and troubles will shoot up if allowed!
…in order that no root of resentment (rancor, bitterness, or hatred) shoots forth and causes trouble and bitter torment,
4. It defiles many other people including children, families, and sometimes friends!
…and the many become contaminated and defiled by it
Conclusion: Why You Can’t Tolerate Bitterness
Bitterness is not worth it. Don’t allow it in your relationship or marriage. Forgive quickly, love one another, and don’t give the devil a legal ground to afflict you!
