Things have rapidly changed over time. The Gen Zs and Millenials will laugh at how we used to do this love thing, while old-school folk will find it ridiculous how Gen Zs do things in their attempt to love.
Here are a few differences.
1. Asking a lady out was done face to face. There were no mobile phones. A few would write letters starting with “Doxology to you”
Today, Gen Zs can do all these using the popular “WhatsApp chats”
This makes the whole love thing playful, and yes, that is what it has become.
2. We used to go before the Lord to seek His face concerning who to marry! Often, with fasting, patience, and waiting on God to give a definite instruction.
Today, people mostly simply choose who they want and then pray to God to approve their choice. People decide who they want by simply checking social media profiles and drawing conclusions from there.
I believe strongly that God wants to lead us and guide us and has preferences for us. We can find this in the place of prayer and seeking His face.
Most people have been married under the permissive will of God. When people insist on who they want before God, they mostly always end in His permissive will. However, the ultimate plan of God is that we get married under the perfect will of God.
3. Fornication was an action that was treated as a sin and with stiff penalties and punishments for those who could not zip their trouser.
Today, the word “fornication” is becoming too blunt and is being replaced with “getting to know one another.” Today, people use “sex” to greet one another and entertain each other. Sin has been normalized and democratized.
However, God’s word remains the same. His standards and his laws haven’t changed a bit.
Act 17:30 (KJV) And the times of this ignorance God winked at; but now commandeth all men every where to repent:
I will conclude with the Message Translation:
Act 17:30-31 (MSG): “God overlooks it as long as you don’t know any better—but that time is past. The unknown is now known, and he’s calling for a radical life-change. [31] He has set a day when the entire human race will be judged and everything set right. And he has already appointed the judge, confirming him before everyone by raising him from the dead.”
Hey there, friend! Whether you’re two weeks into dating or celebrating a decade together, keeping the spark alive is all about cherishing the story you’re writing together. Let’s dive into how you can celebrate your love story in fun, meaningful ways that resonate with who you are as a couple.
Why Celebrating Your Love Story Matters
Here’s the deal: relationships need TLC to grow. Think about it—when God designed relationships, He didn’t intend for them to feel stale or routine. Genesis 2:24 talks about two becoming one, a deep and dynamic connection. Celebration is like watering that unity, helping your relationship thrive. Plus, who doesn’t love an excuse to make new memories?
When you intentionally celebrate your love story, you’re not just reminiscing; you’re building on what you’ve got. It’s about looking back, looking forward, and savoring the now.
Creative Ways to Celebrate Your Journey
No, you don’t need a Pinterest-worthy plan or a big budget. Celebrating your relationship can be as low-key or grand as you want. Here are a few ideas:
1. Bring Back the OG Vibes
Revisit the spot where you first met, had your first date, or said “I love you.” If you can’t go there physically, recreate it at home—cook the meal, play the playlist, and relive the magic.
2. Create a Scrapbook of Your Story
Think of it like your personal highlight reel. Include photos, movie stubs, handwritten notes, and maybe even a sticky note with your inside jokes. Every time you flip through it, you’ll remember how far you’ve come.
3. Schedule “Us Time” Regularly
Whether it’s a weekly coffee date or Sunday afternoon hikes, carve out time to connect. It doesn’t have to be fancy—it just needs to be intentional. Bonus: it’s a built-in excuse to unplug from your phone.
Adding a Dash of Spontaneity
Routine can be comforting, but let’s be real—it can also get a little…meh. Here’s where spontaneity comes in. Proverbs 17:22 says, “A joyful heart is good medicine.” Why not shake things up with surprise moments that spark joy?
1. The Sweet Note Surprise
Leave a sticky note on their mirror with a quick “You’re my favorite human” or something that makes them laugh. It’s small but shows you care.
2. Try Something New Together
Have you ever taken a cooking class together? Tried paddleboarding? Volunteered at church as a team? Shared adventures build bonds, and they make for great “remember when” moments.
3. Spontaneous Getaways (Even If It’s Local)
Book a last-minute Airbnb nearby or set up a backyard picnic. Adventure doesn’t have to mean plane tickets—it’s about doing something out of the ordinary together.
Handling the “Dry Seasons”
Every relationship hits those seasons where the spark feels more like a flicker. And that’s okay! It doesn’t mean the love is gone—it’s a chance to refocus and grow.
Here’s some encouragement from Ecclesiastes 4:9-10: “Two are better than one…for if they fall, one will lift up his companion.” Lean into your faith, pray together, and ask God to reignite the flame.
Quick Fixes for Dry Seasons
Start a gratitude journal together. Write one thing daily that you’re thankful for about each other.
Go tech-free for a day and focus entirely on each other.
Have a “questions night” where you ask each other fun, deep, or random questions.
Celebration, but Make It Fun
The bottom line? Your love story deserves to be celebrated because it’s uniquely yours. Whether you’re laughing over burnt pancakes on a surprise breakfast date or reflecting on how God’s guided your relationship, every moment matters.
So go ahead, plan that date, leave that note, and celebrate the amazing gift of your relationship. And remember: you’re not just keeping the spark alive—you’re letting it grow into something even brighter.
Now, what’s your next move? Dinner for two, or maybe starting that scrapbook? Whatever it is, celebrate boldly and love deeply—you’ve got this!
