8. Guard Against Worldly Influences The world often promotes values contrary to God’s design for love and marriage—selfishness, lust, materialism, and independence. To remain two lovebirds who love God, you must intentionally resist these influences. Romans 12:2 urges us, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
Solution: Surround yourselves with godly influences—friends, mentors, sermons, and resources that reinforce biblical principles. Avoid media or activities that promote sinful behaviors or undermine your commitment to Christ-centered love.
9. Dream and Plan with God at the Center As you envision your future together, include God in your plans. Whether it’s career goals, family planning, or ministry aspirations, seek His will and trust His timing. Proverbs 16:3 says, “Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and He will establish your plans.”
Solution: Pray about major decisions and evaluate them against Scripture. Ensure that your dreams align with God’s purposes, knowing that His plans are always greater than anything you could imagine (Jeremiah 29:11).
10. Enjoy Each Other While Honoring God Loving God doesn’t mean neglecting romance or fun—it means enjoying each other within the boundaries of His design. Song of Solomon celebrates marital intimacy and affection, showing that God delights in our enjoyment of one another.
Solution: Create space for laughter, adventure, and romance. Plan date nights, write love notes, or simply spend quality time connecting. Keep physical intimacy pure and sacred, reserving it for marriage if you’re not yet wed.
Final Thought: Becoming two lovebirds who love God requires intentionality, humility, and a steadfast commitment to putting Him first in everything. As you prioritize your relationship with God, serve others together, communicate openly, and extend grace to one another, you’ll find that your love deepens and flourishes in ways that honor Him.
Remember, Ecclesiastes 4:12 says, “Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” When you add God as the third strand in your relationship, you create an unbreakable bond that reflects His love to the world.
So today, recommit yourselves to loving God wholeheartedly and loving each other sacrificially. Let your relationship be a testimony of His faithfulness and goodness, shining brightly in a world desperate for true love. After all, “Love is patient, love is kind… It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres” (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)—just as God loves us.
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4. Study Scripture Together God’s Word provides wisdom, encouragement, and direction for your relationship. Reading and discussing Scripture allows you to align your hearts with His truth and build intimacy through shared faith. Psalm 119:105 declares, “Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path.”
Solution: Set aside time weekly to read the Bible together. Choose devotionals or books of the Bible that address marriage, love, and godly living. Discuss how you can apply what you’ve learned to your relationship.
5. Practice Forgiveness and Grace No relationship is perfect, and misunderstandings or mistakes will happen. Becoming two lovebirds who love God means extending forgiveness freely, just as He forgave us (Ephesians 4:32). Holding onto resentment creates distance, while grace draws you closer.
Solution: Be quick to apologize when wrong and equally quick to forgive. Remind yourselves that no one is without flaws, and your commitment to grace reflects God’s unconditional love for you.
6. Cultivate Communication Rooted in Love Healthy communication is essential for any relationship, especially one centered on God. James 1:19 encourages us to be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry. Loving communication builds trust and prevents unnecessary conflicts.
Solution: Speak kindly, avoid harsh words, and seek understanding before responding. Practice active listening by truly focusing on what your partner is saying without interrupting or jumping to conclusions.
7. Celebrate Spiritual Milestones Just as you celebrate anniversaries and achievements, take time to acknowledge spiritual milestones in your journey together. Whether it’s answering a prayer, overcoming a trial, or seeing fruit from your ministry efforts, celebrating these moments reinforces your shared faith.
Solution: Mark special occasions by giving thanks to God, journaling your blessings, or planning meaningful dates to reflect on His faithfulness. These celebrations remind you of God’s hand in your relationship.
A relationship that thrives isn’t just about two people falling in love—it’s about two people growing together in love for each other and for God. When Christ is at the center of your relationship, you create a foundation that withstands life’s challenges and reflects His glory. Here’s how you can become two lovebirds who not only adore each other but also passionately pursue God as a couple.
1. Prioritize Your Relationship with God First Before you focus on loving each other, ensure that both of you are deeply rooted in your individual relationships with God. Jesus said in Matthew 6:33, “Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” A strong spiritual connection with God enables you to love one another selflessly and faithfully.
Solution: Spend time daily in prayer, Bible study, and worship—individually and together. Encourage each other to grow spiritually and hold each other accountable to stay close to God.
2. Pray Together Regularly Prayer unites hearts like nothing else can. When you pray together, you invite God into every aspect of your relationship—your joys, struggles, dreams, and decisions. Acts 4:24 says, “When they heard this, they raised their voices together in prayer to God.”
Solution: Make prayer a regular habit. Start by thanking God for your relationship, interceding for each other’s needs, and seeking His guidance for your future. Even short prayers throughout the day can keep your bond spiritually vibrant.
3. Serve Others as a Team Serving others shifts the focus from yourselves to reflecting God’s love to the world. It strengthens your unity and deepens your shared purpose. Galatians 5:13 reminds us, “Serve one another humbly in love.”
Solution: Volunteer together at church, mentor younger couples, or participate in community outreach programs. Serving side by side fosters teamwork and gratitude for what you have as a couple.
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Before God brings the right person into your life, He often focuses on making you the right person. Many singles spend years praying for the perfect partner but overlook the importance of preparation. Ruth wasn’t sitting idly by waiting for Boaz; she was living faithfully, serving diligently, and growing in character. It was her consistency in doing the right things that positioned her for divine connection.
Proverbs 31:30 says, “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” Godly relationships are not built on outward attraction but on inward transformation. When your heart is yielded to God, He refines your values, strengthens your patience, and builds your faith.
Becoming the right person means developing the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22–23), learning self-control, and being content in God’s timing. It means letting God work on your weaknesses and heal areas that could later harm your relationship. Philippians 2:13 says, “it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill His good purpose.”
Don’t just pray for a partner; pray to be the kind of person who adds value, love, and stability to someone’s life. When God sees your readiness, He aligns your steps with His perfect plan.
One of the hardest challenges for those trusting God for a life partner is learning to wait without growing impatient or making decisions out of fear, loneliness, or pressure. Many of us have experienced situations where we rushed into relationships because it “felt right” or because everyone around us seemed to be moving faster. Yet God’s timing is not about convenience or immediate gratification—it is about alignment, preparation, and purpose.
Ecclesiastes 3:1 (NLT)For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven.
The above passage reminds us that everything has its season. Love is no exception. There is a time to meet, a time to court, a time to commit, and a time to wait. Learning to discern these seasons is crucial if you want a relationship that lasts, glorifies God, and nurtures your heart.
Discerning God’s timing begins with recognizing the difference between desire and direction. Desire can be emotional, impulsive, and focused on comfort or companionship. Direction is spiritual, intentional, and rooted in God’s plan for your life. Singles often confuse the two, rushing because they feel ready emotionally or because society pressures them to “settle down.” God wants you to pause, reflect, and ask: Is this person, situation, or opportunity aligning with His plan, or am I acting on my own timing?
Another key aspect is preparation versus presence. God may bring the right person into your life, but your heart may not yet be ready to receive them fully. Timing often involves internal growth—healing past wounds, developing patience, clarifying your values, and strengthening your faith. Discernment requires self-examination: Are you seeking a relationship to fill a void, or are you ready to share life with someone in a healthy, intentional way?
God’s timing is often revealed through peace, confirmation, and alignment with Scripture. When a potential relationship is truly from Him, it often comes with clarity, consistency, and a sense of calm that aligns with Godly wisdom. Conversely, if you feel constant stress, confusion, or guilt, it may be a sign that the timing is off or that the person is not yet right. God may use circumstances, delays, or even closed doors to prepare you, sharpen your discernment, and guide you toward someone who will honor both Him and your heart.
Practical ways to discern God’s timing include prayerful reflection, seeking counsel from trusted mentors or spiritual leaders, observing actions over words, and paying attention to how your relationship aligns with God’s standards and your spiritual growth. Waiting is not passive—it is active preparation, learning, and listening. It is growing into the person God wants you to be so that you are ready to receive the love He has been orchestrating.
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CONCLUSION
True love rarely happens by accident—it comes in God’s perfect timing, and it is meant to strengthen, encourage, and build both hearts spiritually and emotionally. Trust Him, prepare intentionally, and let your discernment guide you to a relationship that is not only fulfilling but deeply God-centered.
