When To Think About Breaking Up. Should we call it quits or not?
I’ll give you some useful advice today. A little heartbreak is preferable to a lifetime of heartbreak. You might wish to thoroughly consider your choices while praying before making a choice. Keeping this in mind, decisions are what ultimately define us.
1. Keep your future and destiny in mind
When falling in love, it is crucial to keep the future in mind. Can you envision him or her in your future? Is faith in harmony? Are there tasks that must be completed jointly in destiny?
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2. Think about your genotype
As an illustration, AS and AS are off-limits. Avoid deep commitments before learning about your genetics.
A few days of suffering and heartbreak are preferable to a lifetime of suffering and regret.
When To Think About Breaking Up
3. If they have not repented of their sins
If he or she is an atheist or a believer who still engages in frequent sin and shows no sign of repentance. The things of God are treated lightly, and no attempts are being made to get closer to God. He or she is not a churchgoer. You might avoid having a regretful future if you break up.
4. If a person has numerous character defects
Although nobody is flawless, some character defects cannot be overlooked. A break would be preferable if the person abuses alcohol, tobacco, womanizing, fraud, or violence in any way.
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5. If the love isn’t genuine
A breakup is a better alternative if the love is imbalanced and he or she loves you for what he or she can obtain from you. The partnership has no genuine foundation.
When To Think About Breaking Up
6. If there is widespread parental and family opposition
If after prayers, attempts, and exhausting all feasible possibilities, there is still a strong parental disapproval despite prayers, you may wish to contemplate a breakup. In the long run, it may turn out to be direction.
Remember that as God’s child, He desires the best for us and our future.
Blunt truths about Intimacy are snippets culled from Kisses and Huggs Club Devotionals over the years. Today we continue from where we left off yesterday.
19. Ladies put up some electric fence around your bodies – a no-go zone to everybody except your husband
20. Ladies, you are not philanthropists. Stop donating your body to lustful escapades that will culminate in regret
21. There is a subtle dual operation of mammon spirit and perversion spirit you must violently resist in your life
22.. God created you in His image, not as an NGO. Stop all charitable acts of sex. Live with dignity and stay with your spouse
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23. You just met two hours ago. Now you are locked up in a sexual encounter. What a generation! Something is not quite right.
24. Intimacy is not for “settling” quarrels as singles. Verbal communication should not be replaced with sexual intimacy.
25. When you mess up, God wants you to own up and repent. Don’t be like Adam who offered God an excuse. Being truthful to God about your mistake engenders His mercy!
26. Now this is strange, when you ask God for forgiveness genuinely, He forgives and forgets! Total amnesia!
27. When you go back to ask for forgiveness again, He is wondering when that happened, because He already forgot!
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28. To all women that the crowd wants to stone, Jesus tells them, I don’t condemn you! Go and sin no more!
29. Can these bones live? Too far gone into a myriad of sexual perversion & yet God brings you back into His righteousness! The driest of bones can live again!
30. Her price is far above rubies… she would not sell her body or give in to sexual compromise because of some amount of money
31. A virtuous woman protects her husband by satisfying him always sexually. She does not defraud him.
32. A lady pays the price for sexual sanctity by saying No to pre-marital or adulterous sex
33. When you respect your body, others would have no choice but also to respect your body.
We are going to be looking at a lot things about Intimacy
These punchy truths are collected from KHC Devotional over time from different days. Enjoy!
1. Sex is created by God. God in His Holiness invented it and wanted man to enjoy this height of pleasure
2. God invented a protrusion in man and a receptacle in woman, beyond the incredible bonding, God had pleasure in mind
3. “And Adam knew his wife…” (Gen. 4:1) not his girlfriend. That was how God wanted it from the beginning. In Marriage! Stop playing boyfriend – girlfriend games and tantrums. It’s not scriptural.
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4. Any form of compromise points to some selfishness, there is no love in perversion
5. Intimacy remains a balm to married couples, but a killer to singles who lack self control.
6. Intimacy is a marital glue and bonding to couples. Sex before wedding is an illegal bonding with unhealthy soul ties.
7. A true child of God whose mind is renewed will not ask for pre marital sex. He recognises that God is not pleased with such
8. If he makes a mistake, he feels dirty & repents, never to go there again. This is different from a habitual sinner, who continually lives on the iniquity lane.
9. But if he doesn’t feel remorseful, then it wasn’t a mistake. It was deliberate. Something is wrong somewhere
10. A child of God will not be comfortable with repeated sexual mistakes, he will seek to stop and run like Joseph did.
11. Running is the smartest thing to do in an atmosphere of sexual pressure and temptation. Not speaking in tongues!
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12. You cannot be more holy or spiritual than God. If God says “Flee,” don’t say “Let’s reason together!
13. So, learn to run away! Use your legs. 5 minutes before there would be sex, both parties would unusually know
14. Iniquity is perpetuated in an atmosphere of secrecy. It takes a closed door to close up your destiny! Open that door!
15. Sex is different from love, or else every prostitute will fall in love with her client
16. Singles who have pre marital sex constantly end up confused and the relationship breaks, because of violating God’s principles.
17. Adultery makes you an adulterated specimen
18. Your body is good enough, you don’t need someone fondling it to accept this fact. No man or woman can affirm you
The second question is how Delilah eventually got Samson despite Samson knowing she planned to deliver him to his foes. You can see it straight now!
Jdg 16:16 KJV And it came to pass, when she pressed him daily with her words, and urged him, so that his soul was vexed unto death;
She pressed him with words!
Hullo There, My Name Is Delilah
The lesson is straightforward. If you notice that a person is not the kind to relate to, disconnect immediately. If you make some room, you will be inundated with ‘words!’
Words are like spirits!
You’ll be strained with words the moment you start going on harmless dates with that improper individual. Your spirit will be so troubled that before you know it, you’ll be cooperating with things that can harm you and jeopardize your relationship with God.
Run if he or she is not a child of God! Run if he or she is not your spouse! You will compromise if you allow yourself to be pressured with words! Before you know it, with words, you will let down your guards. How did Satan get Eve? With words. He didn’t need to put a gun to her head.
Married Couples! Do not go silent on each other. Use good words to constantly oil the engine of your marriage!
Hullo There, My Name Is Delilah
Delilah’s second card is seen below:
Jdg 16:15 MSG She said, “How can you say ‘I love you’ when you won’t even trust me? Three times now you’ve toyed with me, like a cat with a mouse, refusing to tell me the secret of your great strength.”
How many times have you done this?
How many times have you heard that from guys or ladies in a courtship requesting pre-marital sex?
“If you truly love me, bla…bla…bla.”
I’ve given you two techniques utilized to ‘complete’ Samson’s fate!
Learn from their experience. For the wise, a single word suffices. God grant you the wisdom and strength to flee every ‘Delilah’ in your life!
My Name Is Delilah. Samson and Delilah’s story never ceases to fascinate me. Samson was called, anointed, and assigned by God. He was among the fortunate few whose birth was announced by an angel! That was the significance of his birth and assignment.
He did, however, have a dreadful weakness: women! Samson had a penchant for women. When he saw a woman, he would utterly lose his bearings. His erection would become his direction.
Jdg 16:1 KJV Then went Samson to Gaza, and saw there a harlot, and went in unto her.
When it came to girls, he was uncontrollable! Despite being anointed and appointed, he later proved to be a failure since he refused to address his shortcoming.
He was so disorganized that all it took for him to lose his bearing was to ‘see’ a woman. He once saw a lady and couldn’t speak correctly! “…get her for me to wife!” he exclaimed.
Jdg 14:2 KJV And he came up, and told his father and his mother, and said, I have seen a woman in Timnath of the daughters of the Philistines: now therefore get her for me to wife.
My Name Is Delilah
Samson was the type of person he was. The end result? His eyes had been gouged out, and he had been caught off guard in the middle of his days.
Delilah sought to learn the secret of Samson’s power in order to kill him. Samson was well aware of Delilah’s desire.
Samson tricked Delilah three times about the secret of his power, and each time the Philistines came to murder him, so Samson understood exactly what Delilah’s aim was. Nonetheless, he clung to Delilah and refused to let go.
How many of us are in this situation right now? We find ourselves in an unholy relationship that we know is deeply flawed, but we refuse to let go!
You fall in love with someone who continuously abuses you, yet you do not flee for your life. You fall in love with someone who isn’t in love with you.
You fall in love with someone who does not value you.
You fall in love with someone who beats you up at the slightest provocation, and yet you cling to that connection.
You can see that the person you’re madly in love with is taking you straight to hell, but you still cling to them. You can see that the person you love is preparing to expose you to the world of illegal drug use, but you continue to express your love!
You can tell that the person you met at church is not a true child of God based on what he or she has done to and with you, but you refuse to listen to warnings.
My Name Is Delilah
My suggestion to you this morning is straightforward. Don’t end up like Samson.
You have a gift; don’t waste it by begging God to let you die!
Don’t let it lead to you being delivered right into the hands of your adversaries. Don’t let it get so bad that your spiritual eyes are severed and you can’t see the perfect law of liberty!
Don’t let the brother or sister who has been greatly utilized by God become a pitiful sight to behold.
Escape for your life! If Samson had fled, he could have been rescued. However, his lack of discipline led to his death. Flee! That is what the Bible says. When the Bible says to run, don’t say, ‘Let’s reason together!’
