This devotional is a continuation from yesterday. If you missed it, go here
5. Overwhelmed with Responsibilities:
Life’s pressures—work, finances, family obligations—can leave men feeling overwhelmed and unable to commit further. Philippians 4:6-7 encourages us, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, present your requests to God.” Supporting him spiritually can lighten his load. Being overwhelmed is another reason why men often delay decisions.
6. Lack of Clarity:
Sometimes, men delay because they lack clarity about what they want or where the relationship is headed. James 1:5 promises, “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault.” Encourage open conversations while trusting God for direction.
7. Fear of Losing Freedom:
Commitment requires sacrifice, and some men often delay for fear of losing their independence. Remind him that true freedom comes from surrendering to God’s plan. Galatians 5:1 says, “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free.”
8. Avoidance of Conflict:
Men may delay addressing issues to avoid uncomfortable conversations or potential conflict. However, unresolved problems only grow worse. Proverbs 27:5-6 states, “Better is open rebuke than hidden love.” Gentle honesty can help resolve tension constructively.
9. Testing Compatibility:
Some men delay commitment because they’re still assessing whether the relationship is right. Amos 3:3 asks, “Do two walk together unless they have agreed to do so?” Building mutual understanding and shared values can reassure both partners.
10. Misaligned Priorities:
For some, career, hobbies, or other pursuits take precedence over relationships. A man who prioritizes worldly success over relational health may need redirection. Matthew 6:33 reminds us, “Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” Encourage him to align his priorities with God’s will.
In relationships, one common frustration women express is that men often delay —whether it’s making decisions, committing to the next step, or addressing important issues. While every man is different, there are recurring patterns and reasons behind these delays. Understanding why men often delay can help foster patience, communication, and growth in your relationship.
Here are 10 reasons men often delay and how faith can guide you through these challenges.
1. Fear of Failure:
Many men often delay because they fear they won’t measure up or succeed. Whether it’s proposing, starting a family, or taking on a new responsibility, the pressure to “get it right” can paralyze them. Proverbs 29:25 reminds us, “Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is kept safe.” Encourage him to trust God rather than his own abilities.
2. Uncertainty About Readiness:
Some men often delay because they genuinely don’t feel ready for the next step. This could stem from financial concerns, emotional maturity, or life goals that aren’t aligned yet. Ecclesiastes 3:1 teaches, “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.” Trusting God’s timing can ease anxiety about readiness.
3. Past Wounds:
Unresolved pain from past relationships or personal struggles can cause hesitation. If he’s been hurt before, he may need time to heal before moving forward. Psalm 147:3 assures us, “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” Pray for his healing and offer grace as he processes his emotions. These wounds are one reason why men often delay commitment.
4. Desire for Perfection:
Men often delay because they’re waiting for the “perfect” moment or solution. But perfectionism isn’t realistic—or biblical. Matthew 5:48 calls us to strive for godliness, not flawlessness. Help him focus on progress over perfection.
I will conclude on this topic tomorrow. Don’t miss it.
The Mystery About Intimacy Part 1 – Rev. Funke Felix-Adejumo
Have you ever wondered about the secrets and mysteries surrounding intimacy? Get ready to discover an enlightening perspective that will open your eyes and help you understand the true purpose of intimacy. In this article, we will delve into the teachings of Reverend Funke Felix-Adejumo and explore the deeper aspects of this fascinating topic.
Introduction.
Welcome to a fascinating journey into the mysteries of intimacy! Yes, this topic is often avoided or superficially addressed, but today we’re going beyond appearances to discover the depth and richness hidden behind this divine gift.
Reverend Funke Felix-Adejumo, a powerful and respected voice in the body of Christ will guide us through this delicate yet crucial topic. Prepare for your eyes to be opened to a new understanding of intimacy and how it can enrich your life in ways you’ve never imagined before.
The Divine Purpose of Intimacy.
According to Reverend Funke, intimacy is not just a physical act but a profound expression of the union between two souls. God, in His infinite wisdom, created intimacy as a gift to humanity but with a much higher purpose than mere pleasure.
Intimacy and Connection. Intimacy is the means through which two individuals can connect on a deeper level, strengthening the emotional and spiritual bonds that unite them. It is a way to express love, trust, and vulnerability.
Procreation. While intimacy can be a source of pleasure, its primary purpose is procreation. God designed intimacy so that humans can bring new life into the world and fulfill their calling to be fruitful and multiply.
Marital Unity. Intimacy should be reserved for the context of marriage, where two individuals come together in a sacred covenant before God. It is within this framework that intimacy achieves its fullest meaning and potential.
Holiness and Purity. Intimacy is not something dirty or sinful but an expression of the holiness and purity that God desires for His children. When practiced according to divine principles, intimacy becomes a blessing and a reflection of God’s glory.
We will go deeper tomorrow and continue with Part 2
