Dangerous Myths All Singles Must Let Go

Dangerous Myths All Singles Must Let Go

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There are myths every single should disbelief. Let me show you some.

1. The reason I am not married is because I am not beautiful

You see, beauty is in the beholder’s eyes. When you truly meet your spouse, you will be beautiful to him however you look.

Why do you think you are ugly? It is probably because some people told you that. Well, that is their opinion. However you look, somebody will soon see you and tell you you are beautiful. 

I always say humourously that you are fearfully and wonderfully made. You will be fearful (ugly) to some and you will be wonderful (beautiful) to others.

Psa 139:14 KJV
I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.

When you meet your spouse, you will be beautiful.

2. God is punishing me because of my past mistakes.

God never consults your past to determine your future. Let’s take a look at the scripture.

Heb 10:17 KJV
And their sins and iniquities will I remember no more.

God will not only forgive you, He will forget about it. He would erase it out of His records. And listen to me, what God has forgiven and forgotten, don’t let the devil who is the accuser of brethren hold you on it.

Here is what Message translation says:

Heb 10:17 MSG
He concludes, I’ll forever wipe the slate clean of their sins.

What God has concluded on, don’t allow the devil to add another paragraph. Where God has put a full stop, don’t allow anybody to change it to a comma. 

3. A woman can never successfully submit to her husband

Submission to one’s husband is not a negotiation, it is an instruction from God. When you submit to your husband, you will bring yourself into a season of unprecedented favour, an unleashing of creativity and flowing in the fullness of God’s blessings over your life. Why? Because you are obeying God, even when it is not easy.

1Pe 3:1-2 AMP
(1) IN LIKE manner, you married women, be submissive to your own husbands [subordinate yourselves as being secondary to and dependent on them, and adapt yourselves to them], so that even if any do not obey the Word [of God], they may be won over not by discussion but by the [godly] lives of their wives, (2) When they observe the pure and modest way in which you conduct yourselves, together with your reverence [for your husband; you are to feel for him all that reverence includes: to respect, defer to, revere him–to honor, esteem, appreciate, prize, and, in the human sense, to adore him, that is, to admire, praise, be devoted to, deeply love, and enjoy your husband]. 

4. There is certainly a curse working against me.

Curses are real. But the liberation from curses is even more real! The devil is wicked, but God is loving.

Through the death and resurrection of the Lord Jesus Christ, we have been redeemed from curses of the law. We have been made free. No devil should be allowed to lord it over you again!

Gal 3:13-14 MSG
Christ redeemed us from that self-defeating, cursed life by absorbing it completely into himself. Do you remember the Scripture that says, “Cursed is everyone who hangs on a tree”? That is what happened when Jesus was nailed to the Cross: He became a curse, and at the same time dissolved the curse. And now, because of that, the air is cleared and we can see that Abraham’s blessing is present and available for non-Jews, too. We are all able to receive God’s life, his Spirit, in and with us by believing–just the way Abraham received it.

I will conclude on these myths tomorrow. Don’t miss it.

I am free from myths and wrong beliefs.

Pray that God will deliver you from known and unknown myths
“And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us.” (Rom 5:5, KJV)

Challenge every myth you know about marriage.

Zechariah 5-9


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