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Finding Who To Marry; A Conversation – Part 1

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Feb 9, 2022 | Singles

Reading Time: 2 minutes

Angie is a single lady of twenty-nine while Betty is a married woman of about thirty-seven years of age. Angie visits Betty who is her mentor.

Angie: Hullo Auntie

Betty: How are you, Angie?

Angie: I am fine

Betty: No, you are not fine. Why is your face like this? (Looking at her intently)

Angie: That is how my face is Auntie; I like frowning.

Betty: No, that is not your face, something is definitely wrong.

Angie: Ok, Auntie, if I tell you, hope you will not laugh at me?

Betty: No, trust me now?

Angie: Ok, Auntie, na husband wahala o! (It is the issue of marriage)

Betty: (laughing)

Angie: You promised you won’t laugh o

Betty: Ok…but seriously, is that the only issue?

Angie: Yes now, Auntie, or won’t I marry?

Betty: But this frown on your face doesn’t solve it

Angie: It is not easy, I am just depressed about it all

Betty: This your face, if I am the man and I see this face, honestly I will take off

Angie: What happened to my face?

Betty: Take a look at the mirror

Angie: Auntie, it is not that bad, it is just the way I feel

Betty: You don’t get it. You want a husband, and now you put up an attitude that will discourage the exact thing you are looking for. Can’t you see that the purpose is defeated?

Angie: It is not easy, and that is how I feel

Betty: You cannot live by your feelings because feelings are fickle, and they don’t represent well. You have to learn to trust God that He will not disappoint you.

Angie: I trust God, I am even praying and fasting

Betty: I disagree with you on that

Angie: But God knows I trust him o…God looks in the heart, not my face.

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not miss it in marriage.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, open the eyes of my understanding.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Eph 1:18 [GW] Then you will have deeper insight. You will know the confidence that he calls you to have and the glorious wealth that God’s people will inherit.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray for insight

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Isaiah 7