Obedience is one of the purest proofs of love for God. It’s not about following rules for fear of punishment, but about trusting that His instructions lead to life. In Deuteronomy 28:1–2, God promises that if we diligently obey His commands, “all these blessings will come upon you and overtake you.”
Every blessing in Scripture is connected to obedience. Abraham obeyed God even when the instruction made no sense, and his obedience made him the father of nations. Noah built the ark when there was no sign of rain. Mary said yes to an impossible calling. Each act of obedience opened doors no human effort could achieve.
John 14:23 records Jesus’ words: “Anyone who loves me will obey my teaching. My Father will love them, and we will come to them and make our home with them.” True obedience flows from love, not obligation. When you truly love God, you trust Him enough to follow even when you don’t understand.
James 1:22 warns, “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says.” Hearing without action limits your growth. Obedience requires surrender, letting go of your will to embrace Him.
When God gives an instruction, it’s not to burden you but to bless you. Every “yes” you give in faith draws you closer to divine favor, provision, and peace. The secret to living under an open heaven is simple: trust and obey.
One of the most profound truths in Scripture is that God operates outside of time and human limitations. While we often find ourselves striving, planning, and working to accomplish our goals, God has already completed His work on our behalf before we even take the first step. This divine reality is beautifully captured in Isaiah 46:10, where God declares,
“I make known the end from the beginning, from ancient times, what is still to come. I say, ‘My purpose will stand, and I will do all that I please.’”
Let this truth sink deep into your spirit: God finished before you started.
1. His Plans Are Already Established
Before you were born, God had a purpose for your life (Jeremiah 1:5). He didn’t wait for you to figure things out or earn His favor—your destiny was secured in Him long ago. Ephesians 2:10 reminds us,
“For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.”
When you feel uncertain about the future or overwhelmed by the tasks ahead, remember that God isn’t scrambling to figure it out. His plans for you are firm, flawless, and fully established. Your job is not to create your path but to trust and walk in the one He has already laid.
2. The Victory Is Already Won
Before you face any challenge, God has already conquered it. In Revelation 12:11, we read,
“They triumphed over him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony.”
Through Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross, every battle you’ll ever face has been fought and won.
This means that no matter what struggle you’re encountering—whether it’s fear, failure, sickness, or sin—the victory is already yours through Christ. You don’t have to fight alone; lean into the power of His finished work. When you stand firm in faith, you align yourself with the outcome He has already ordained.
3. Grace Precedes Your Effort
God doesn’t wait for you to get everything right before extending His grace. In fact, His grace precedes your efforts. Lamentations 3:22-23 assures us,
“Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.”
Before you even wake up each day, God’s mercy and provision are already in place. You don’t have to perform or prove yourself worthy of His blessings—they flow freely from His heart to yours. Rest in this truth: whatever you strive to achieve today, God’s enabling grace goes before you.
God’s will for man has always been rooted in purpose, growth, and dominion. In the very beginning, He declared His intent in Genesis 1:28: “Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion…” This wasn’t just a suggestion. It was a divine mandate to increase, grow, and take charge.
God is not interested in giving us physical increase at the expense of our souls. His desire is that our growth begins from the inside out. “Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth” (3 John 1:2). Before we ask for blessings, breakthroughs, or expansion, God wants our souls to mature in Him.
Many times, delays in certain areas of our lives are not because we aren’t praying or working hard. It’s not that God is deaf to our cries. Sometimes, it’s simply because our inner man is not yet ready to steward the increase we are asking for. God, in His mercy, withholds what could destroy us.
Apostle Paul captures this in 1 Corinthians 3:6-7: “I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God made it grow.” Increase is a process. Planting must take place. Watering must follow. Then, God releases growth. When there is a lack of spiritual preparation, increase can become a burden rather than a blessing.
Galatians 4:1 says: “As long as the heir is a child, he differeth nothing from a servant, though he be lord of all.” God doesn’t release dominion to spiritual infants. He waits for sons and daughters who are ready to grow in wisdom, faith, and intimacy with Him.
So, what seed are you planting today? What steps are you taking to grow spiritually? Are you preparing your soul for the increase God desires to bring?
I charge you to seek God’s will first, because when the soul prospers, increase follows.
These tips are applicable not only in the context of relationships and marriage but also in business, careers, and everyday life.
1. Pray First, Not Last
Many people decide who they want and then ask God for God’s blessings. They get emotionally attached first, then pray later, hoping for a divine confirmation that matches their feelings.
When your heart is deeply invested, it’s hard to hear God clearly. Instead of seeking God’s will, you start convincing yourself that what you want is what He wants. At that point, it’s easy to mistake His permissive will (what He allows because of your insistence) for His perfect will (what He truly desires for you).
That’s why discernment begins before emotions get involved. Instead of saying, “God, I really like this person; please make it work,” the prayer should be, “Lord, is this your best for me? Show me what I can’t see.”
God is not silent; He will give you an answer, but God won’t force His will on you. If you truly want His best, seek Him first, not after your heart is already entangled. A relationship led by emotions alone may feel right at the moment, but only God’s perfect will brings lasting peace and purpose.
2. Don’t Ignore Red Flags
Love isn’t meant to blind you. If you notice things like dishonesty, emotional instability, lack of accountability, or controlling behavior, don’t overlook them. What seems small now will only grow bigger in marriage. God’s best will never require you to ignore important issues just to “make it work.”
“The prudent sees danger and hides himself, but the simple go on and suffer for it.” (Proverbs 22:3)
3. Listen to Wise Counsel
Sometimes, the people around us can see things we’re too emotionally invested to notice. If your trusted, godly friends, mentors, or family members have serious concerns about your relationship, don’t dismiss them. God often uses wise counsel to confirm His direction.
“Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety.” (Proverbs 11:14)
4. Give It Time
If something is truly from God, time will reveal it. You don’t have to force, chase, or manipulate anything. Patience allows you to observe a person’s true character and consistency before making a lifelong commitment. If it’s right, time will only make it clearer.
“Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him.” (Psalm 37:7)
One of the hardest things is waiting when you feel ready for love. But remember, God’s best is worth the wait. Instead of settling for what’s available, trust that He knows what you need and when you need it. A rushed decision may bring short-term happiness, but God’s best brings long-term fulfillment.
How do you know who is truly right for you? With so many voices from family, friends, culture, and even your own emotions, it can be hard to tell the difference between a good option and God’s best. The truth is, not every good person is God’s person for you.
Someone can check all the boxes on paper, but they still may not be the right fit for your purpose. That’s why discernment is so important. It’s not just about what you want, it’s about seeking God’s wisdom and letting Him guide your heart.
What a Relationship from God looks like:
1. It Aligns with God’s Word
God will never bring someone into your life who pulls you away from Him. If a relationship is leading you to compromise your faith, walk in disobedience, or put someone else before God, then it’s not His best. A godly relationship should strengthen your faith, not weaken it.
“Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers.” (2 Corinthians 6:14)
2. It Brings Peace, Not Confusion
You may not have all the answers when something is from God, but you will have peace. This doesn’t mean the relationship will be perfect, but it won’t leave you in constant anxiety or emotional chaos.
“For God is not a God of confusion but of peace.” (1 Corinthians 14:33)
3. It’s Rooted in Purpose, Not Just Feelings
Being attracted to your partner is great, but that isn’t enough to sustain a godly relationship. God’s best for you is someone who aligns with your purpose and encourages your growth. A person can be kind, loving, and even a Christian, but if they don’t align with what God has called you to do, they may not be the one.
“Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?” (Amos 3:3)
