Finding Who To Marry; A Conversation – Part 4

Finding Who To Marry; A Conversation – Part 4

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Angie: This marriage thing…

Betty: Ok, remain single now?

Angie: I want to marry o…

Betty: Then start working on yourself. Marriage is made up of two real people with their different opinions and perspectives, and if it must last, they must be quick forgivers.

Angie: I have a problem with forgiving people. I am usually deeply hurt.

Betty: Anybody can be hurt, but love is supposed to cover a multitude of mistakes. You have to learn that if you are going to have a good marriage.

Angie: Must I be the one that will be forgiving all the time? Won’t that crush my esteem?

Betty: Which is why you don’t want to marry just anybody because of pressures. You want to marry someone you know that both of you are on the same page in terms of beliefs, serving God, and loving God

Angie: God help me

Betty: When you marry a man that really fears God, it becomes much more easier.

Angie: God, give me a man that loves you

Betty: Wrong prayer

Angie: Eeeeeh! …so what is the right prayer?

Betty: Lord, make me a woman that loves you.

Angie: Ok, Auntie…thank you so much

Betty: You are welcome.

Angie: I have to go now, to think about all you’ve said and see how to apply them.

Betty: Ok, my dear. Always remember that God has a plan for you and that staying close to Him helps you to actualize that plan.

Angie: God will help me.

Betty: You must help yourself first…by your obedience…that will now unlock His help and blessings.

Angie: I hear! I need to go and call this man that wants to sleep in my house tonight. I want to tell him not to bother. We are not married! I want to do it God’s way and I don’t want to delay myself again.

Betty: Good girl!

Angie: Bye, Auntie.

Betty: Bye, I will see you later.

I will not miss it in marriage. I am led of God in finding the right person.

Lord, help me in my journey of finding the right person

John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

Allow God do the finding for you.

John 3


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