Love and Money: Let’s Talk About It

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Money can be awkward to talk about.

But trust me — it’s even more awkward when you don’t.

Singles should not be afraid to ask questions about money early. Not because you’re being materialistic, but because how someone handles money reveals how they handle responsibility.

Do they save? Are they drowning in debt but pretending otherwise? Do they tithe, give, plan, or just spend whatever comes in?

You’re not asking for bank statements on the first date—just be observant.

Money isn’t the foundation of love, but it can break what love is trying to build if you ignore it too long.

For married couples, here’s the truth:

You’re not just sharing a bed—you’re sharing a budget. And if you’re not on the same page financially, you’ll end up blaming each other for stress that could have been avoided.

Here are a few simple things that may help:

1. Talk about money regularly, not only when there’s a crisis.

Set a time each month to go over income, expenses, plans—with grace, not tension.

2. Don’t hide money.

Secret accounts, silent spending, or “it’s my money” attitudes only create distrust. Even if you earn more, you’re building together.

3. Create a plan that reflects both of you.

One person may love saving, the other may enjoy giving or investing. Find a rhythm that honours both your personalities, not just one.

4. Pray about your finances.

Seriously. Invite God into your money decisions. He’s not just the God of miracles—He’s the God of wisdom.

When money becomes a conversation instead of a battle, your relationship will breathe easier. Because love thrives where trust lives, and how you handle money says a lot about trust.