Sade is just simply toxic in her way of thinking and dealing with issues. This is brought about by several disappointments she has gone through in the hands of guys, especially. She believes life has not been fair to her at all. She watched a lot of her friends get married one by one while nothing seems to be happening in her life.
She prayed and prayed but it was as though God is not listening to her. She got to a place where she actually gave up and she was no longer rejoicing with those who rejoice.
Her pastime became having itchy ears and looking for negative news which seems to excite her. When she hears that someone has a broken relationship, she seems happy. She would not stop at that, but she would consciously begin to spread the news as if it was some good news. This she did and did not even know she was in error.
This is in direct contradiction to what we are supposed to do as believers. It is never in our place to spread negative news. As a matter of fact, what we are supposed to do at such times is to pray for such people, so that such will not be your experience.
When King Saul died, it could have been a time for David to start rejoicing and keep mouthing it all over. But check out what he said here:
Tell it not in Gath, publish it not in the streets of Askelon; lest the daughters of the Philistines rejoice, lest the daughters of the uncircumcised triumph.
2Sa 1:20 (KJV)
He understood covenant. He said the news is not to be published!
My words of advice for you this morning is simple. Avoid being happy when something unfortunate happens to others, even when such people are perceived enemies.
Pray for them and you will unleash a new realm of favour upon your life!
Be blessed in Jesus name!
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I choose to rejoice with those who are happy
PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Oh Lord, help me to genuinely rejoice with those rejoicing.
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Romans 12:15 [ESV] Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Stop spreading bad news
BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Rom 12
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I rejoice with those who rejoice, I weep with those who weep. I am no hypocrite, I love my neighbour as myself
Yes, that’s the spirit.
I choose to rejoice with those who rejoice so that my own joy will surely come.
Your joy will surely come in Jesus name