How to Become Two Lovebirds Who Love God – Part 3

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How to Become Two Lovebirds Who Love God

8. Guard Against Worldly Influences
The world often promotes values contrary to God’s design for love and marriage—selfishness, lust, materialism, and independence. To remain two lovebirds who love God, you must intentionally resist these influences. Romans 12:2 urges us, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”

Solution: Surround yourselves with godly influences—friends, mentors, sermons, and resources that reinforce biblical principles. Avoid media or activities that promote sinful behaviors or undermine your commitment to Christ-centered love.

9. Dream and Plan with God at the Center
As you envision your future together, include God in your plans. Whether it’s career goals, family planning, or ministry aspirations, seek His will and trust His timing. Proverbs 16:3 says, “Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and He will establish your plans.”

Solution: Pray about major decisions and evaluate them against Scripture. Ensure that your dreams align with God’s purposes, knowing that His plans are always greater than anything you could imagine (Jeremiah 29:11).

10. Enjoy Each Other While Honoring God
Loving God doesn’t mean neglecting romance or fun—it means enjoying each other within the boundaries of His design. Song of Solomon celebrates marital intimacy and affection, showing that God delights in our enjoyment of one another.

Solution: Create space for laughter, adventure, and romance. Plan date nights, write love notes, or simply spend quality time connecting. Keep physical intimacy pure and sacred, reserving it for marriage if you’re not yet wed.

Final Thought:
Becoming two lovebirds who love God requires intentionality, humility, and a steadfast commitment to putting Him first in everything. As you prioritize your relationship with God, serve others together, communicate openly, and extend grace to one another, you’ll find that your love deepens and flourishes in ways that honor Him.

Remember, Ecclesiastes 4:12 says, “Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” When you add God as the third strand in your relationship, you create an unbreakable bond that reflects His love to the world.

So today, recommit yourselves to loving God wholeheartedly and loving each other sacrificially. Let your relationship be a testimony of His faithfulness and goodness, shining brightly in a world desperate for true love. After all, “Love is patient, love is kind… It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres” (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)—just as God loves us.