How To Breathe New Life Into A Struggling Love Life. It all begins with love but along the way, life happens and the twinkle in the eyes disappears, the racing heartbeats at the sight of the one you love slow down and take their time, and the butterflies lose colour and no longer flap their wings. The love is dying!
All they professed seemed far away! What are the signs that love is struggling?
How To Breathe New Life Into A Struggling Love Life
Communication goes on strike
This is one sure way to know love is dying! The mute button is applied in the relationship or marriage and you are just going through the motions. As singles, you don’t know whether the path being trudged is the aisle. As married, the once exuberance and ecstasy that enraptures you at the sight of your lover seemed to have vaporized.
You must fight to keep the communication going in that relationship or marriage! When communication becomes strained and conversations become more argumentative than supportive, this could be a sign that love is fading. One thing you can do to breathe new life into communication is the use of gentle soft words!
Proverbs 15:1 says, “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger
What are other signs?
How To Breathe New Life Into A Struggling Love Life
Sad Memories Erupt
If your memories of the relationship become filled with negativity and unhappy experiences, this could indicate that love is fading. If depression and despondency take over, if sadness and forlornness abide in the home, it’s a sure sign love is waning!
Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.
You have to deliberately focus on positive areas and move away from all negative vibes!
The reality is that the eruptions of those sad memories flooding your heart are engineered from hell, to keep you down, wearied, and to give up on that relationship our marriage!
You must learn the art of forgiveness or else, you will allow the root of bitterness to take hold. Sure you don’t want this!
I pray that God will heal your relationship or marriage in Jesus’ name!
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Dear Lady, What Is Your Price? We live in a world today where human dignity has been eroded to the point where perversion and things unheard of have become the order of the day!
I am writing to both singles and married this morning!
Let’s go with the singles first. What is your price? As in, how much are you? Interesting question, right?
Well, the reality is that men are constantly pricing you, and you know what, men know how to price you so low, sometimes even take you without a dime!
Maybe the first question is should you even ever be for sale?
In the days gone yonder, they would parade girls naked and prize them as slaves, to be used as sex slaves or some more demeaning use. The buyers would literally move around to check the body and choose a fellow human being like they are buying a goat!
This still happens today, in the world of prostitution!
What is your price?
In the scriptures, Jacob worked for fourteen years to win his true love, Rachael!
Today, some guys are willing to work for less than two minutes before taking ladies to bed, and the crazy part, there are ladies who are ready for such as a result of battered self-esteem, ignorance, and sometimes sex addiction.
Dear Lady, What Is Your Price? What should your price be?
Pro 31:10 (KJV) Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
Your price is far above Naira and Dollar! If you can know the worth of the blood of Jesus, then you can know the price of God’s daughters!
1Pe 1:18-19 (MSG) It cost God plenty to get you out of that dead-end, empty-headed life you grew up in. [19] He paid with Christ’s sacred blood, you know. He died like an unblemished, sacrificial lamb.
That was how you got out of the dead end! By His precious blood! It was costly!
Dear Lady, What Is Your Price?
How dare you open your laps for some sweet-tongued fellow in less than an hour? No, he should come and request the “flower” from your parents! He shouldn’t site your cleavage not to talk of rummaging through the inner crevices of your pleasure zones! Sounds archaic? Well, it is the way to life and peace with God!
No level of perversion will make God review His word! Do you find yourself too far gone? Sex? Oral Sex? Masturbation? and many more? God’s everlasting arm of love is opened to accept you back and give your life meaning and purpose when you return to Him! He would clean you up, wipe your slate clean and give you a new beginning!
My point is made with the singles! Now to married couples, after the wedding, your body is no longer yours, it belongs first to God as the temple of the Holy Spirit, and then to your spouse for consistent and unhindered sexual gratification!
Sex in marriage is not a reward nor is it a punishment tool! It’s a duty!
1Co 7:4 (AMPC) For the wife does not have [exclusive] authority and control over her own body, but the husband [has his rights]; likewise also the husband does not have [exclusive] authority and control over his body, but the wife [has her rights].
The Lady, Her Lover, And Her Lord. Sally is a child of God, but she has also recently fallen in love with George. George’s starry eyes were always probing into forbidden regions. Sally truly loved him but she knew she would not be able to give him what he really wanted. She hates to let him go, but she loves her God more than to offend Him!
Mrs. Johnson is caught between pleasing the Lord and pleasing her husband. She must submit to her husband while she must not violate God’s injunctions!
Life often pulls in different directions by the various relationships and responsibilities that we have. We have relationships with our family, our friends, our colleagues, and perhaps most importantly, with ourselves.
But one of the most complex and multifaceted relationships that we can have is the one between a lady, her lover, and her Lord.
The Lady, Her Lover, And Her Lord.
The lady here is the central figure, the one who must navigate the complex dynamics between her lover and her Lord.
Her lover represents the passion, excitement, and emotional fulfillment that she seeks in life. He is the one who brings joy to her heart and light to her eyes. He is the one that causes the butterflies to flap their wings within her crevices.
But while her lover is a critical part of her life, he is not the only one.
Her Lord, on the other hand, represents a different kind of love. It is a love that is rooted in spiritual and moral values, and that calls her to live a life of purpose and meaning. Her Lord provides her with guidance, wisdom, and comfort, and helps her to see beyond the immediate to the greater good.
Her Lord must not be violated in order to please her lover!
So what happens when these three entities intersect? When the lady, her lover, and her Lord come together, a delicate balance must be struck.
A tripartite role must be fulfilled. The lady must find a way to honor both her lover and her Lord, to find a way to satisfy the emotional needs of her heart while also fulfilling the spiritual and moral obligations of her soul.
One of the most important things that the lady can do is to be true to herself. She must be honest with herself about her needs and desires, and she must seek to understand the motivations of both her lover and her Lord. By doing so, she can begin to build a foundation of mutual respect and understanding, which will help her to navigate the complexities of her relationships.
Another important factor is communication. The lady must be open and honest with both her lover and her Lord, and she must strive to build a relationship of trust and understanding with each of them. This means being willing to listen, flexible, and to find common ground where she can, without offending God.
The Lady, Her Lover, And Her Lord.
Ultimately, the lady, her lover, and her Lord are all critical components of a fulfilled and meaningful life. As the lady seeks to understand and honor each of these relationships, she will find that they can complement and enrich each other, rather than competing or conflicting.
By striving to live a life that is true to herself, and that is guided by her Lord, she will find the peace, happiness, and fulfillment that she desires.
It is noteworthy that there is no wife who passionately seeks to submit and please her husband while also pleasing the Lord that will not in the process discover her purpose and fulfillment in life! It is a powerful system that God has put in place!
In conclusion, the relationship between the lady, her lover, and her Lord is a complex and multifaceted one. With the help of the Holy Spirit and by His grace, she can execute this relationship balance without neglecting any. May we all strive to live our lives in such a way that brings joy, peace, and fulfillment to ourselves and those around us in Jesus’ name!
