10 Ways to Know He Is the Right Man for You – Part 3

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This is the concluding part of our series on knowing the right man for you.

8. He Builds Trust Through Consistency

Trust doesn’t happen overnight—it’s earned through consistent behavior over time. The right man for you will align his words with his actions, proving himself dependable and faithful. Psalm 15:4 describes a trustworthy person as someone “who keeps an oath even when it hurts.”

Pay attention to how he handles commitments, promises, and challenges. Consistency is a hallmark of genuine character.

9. He Seeks Wise Counsel and Accountability

A wise man surrounds himself with godly influences and isn’t afraid to ask for guidance. Proverbs 12:15 says, “The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to advice.” If he values input from pastors, mentors, or trusted friends, it shows he’s intentional about growing spiritually and relationally.

Additionally, accountability ensures that he remains grounded and accountable in areas like purity, finances, and decision-making.

10. He Shares Your Vision for the Future

Finally, the right man for you will share your vision for building a Christ-centered home, raising children (if applicable), and serving the Kingdom together. Amos 3:3 asks, “Do two walk together unless they have agreed to do so?”

Alignment in core values—such as family, ministry, finances, and lifestyle—is essential for long-term unity. A shared vision ensures that you’re heading in the same direction, hand in hand.

Choosing the right man for you isn’t about perfection—it’s about partnership. No one will meet every ideal, but these qualities provide a solid framework for evaluating whether he’s the right person to journey with you through life.

Above all, seek God’s guidance in prayer and trust His timing. Jeremiah 29:11 assures us, “For I know the plans I have for you… plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

If you believe he could be the one, continue nurturing the relationship with patience, discernment, and reliance on God’s wisdom. Remember, a godly man will reflect Christ’s love and leadership in everything he does—and together, you’ll build a legacy rooted in faith, love, and obedience to God’s calling.