When Apologies Don’t Come Easily

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Tobi and Amaka had just argued. Tobi knew he was wrong, but pride kept his lips sealed. Amaka waited for the words “I’m sorry,” but instead she got silence. Days passed, tension grew, and what started as a small spark became a wall between them.

Does that sound familiar? For some, saying “sorry” feels harder than climbing a mountain. But here’s the truth: apologies heal wounds faster than silence ever will.

Dear Singles, don’t ignore this in dating. If the person you’re with never admits fault, pay attention. A heart that cannot bend in humility will eventually break under pride. The ability to say “I was wrong” is a sign of maturity, not weakness.

And you, too, are you humble enough to apologise?

Couples, hear this: stop waiting for the other person to blink first. If you were wrong, say so quickly. Even if you were not wrong but your words hurt, apologise for the pain caused. Forgiveness flows where humility leads.

He who conceals his sins does not prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy. Proverbs 28:13

Don’t let pride kill love. It’s not about who wins—it’s about keeping the bond alive. “I’m sorry” might just save your relationship more than you realise.

May God help us.