Have you ever prayed about something and then you imagine exactly how God should answer? Thinking, “He’ll do it this way, at this time, and everything will fall perfectly into place.” But then, nothing happens, or worse, God shows up in a way that feels completely opposite to what you expected. Frustrating, right? That was exactly how Naaman felt.
Naaman’s story teaches a valuable lesson. When prophet Elisha told him to wash in the River Jordan seven times, he was offended. Why? Because it didn’t align with how he thought God would work. Naaman expected a grand display of Elisha calling on God, waving his hand, and instantly healing him. Instead, the solution was simple and humbling.
How often do we do the same? We pray, but deep down, we’ve already imagined how God should answer. Maybe it’s healing, provision, or finding the right partner, and we’ve mapped out exactly how it should happen. Then, when God doesn’t follow our plan, we are disappointed, frustrated, or even offended.
But here is the truth. God’s ways are not ours, and His thoughts are far above ours as recorded in Isaiah 55:8. Like Naaman, we need to let go of our expectations and trust that God knows best. His instructions may seem unconventional, and His timing may stretch our patience, but His plans for us are always good (Jeremiah 29:11).
Are you waiting for God to send the right person, but it feels like the wait is too long? God is asking you to work on your character first. Perhaps in marriage, the journey looks nothing like the dream you envisioned. Whatever the case, always remember that God’s instructions may not always make sense to us, but obedience brings breakthroughs.
Naaman was only healed when he humbled himself and followed God’s word, even though it was not what he expected. In the same way, our blessings often lie on the other side of trust and surrender to God.
So today, let go of the“how” and“when.” Stop trying to control the process. Trust His plan, obey His word, and believe wholeheartedly that He has good things in store for you.
There are many secrets to being blessed, all encapsulated in God’s word.
However, I’d like to share one of them with you this morning!
Let’s examine the scripture.
2Sa 6:11 (KJV) And the ark of the LORD continued in the house of Obededom the Gittite three months: and the LORD blessed Obededom, and all his household.
The ark of the Lord here was why the house of Obededom was being blessed.
God has given us express instruction for the coming year on Kisses and Huggs Club and in Shouts of Grace Center!
This is what we have started in the mornings with Prayer Storm and in the evenings with Praise Storm.
We are building an ark unto the Lord with our daily prayers and praise. This is why I encourage you to participate in what we are doing on Global Prayer and Praise Storms (GPPS).
It is a covenant to PRAY in the mornings (30 Mins) and PRAISE in the nights (30 Mins)
The Prayer and Praise sessions are also available afterward on YouTube because of different time zones.
Let us come together and build this ark together! Go to kissesandhuggs.org to learn more.
Let’s delve into another scripture to explore the significance of having an ark in our lives.
2Sa 6:12 (KJV) And it was told king David, saying, The LORD hath blessed the house of Obededom, and all that pertaineth unto him, because of the ark of God. So David went and brought up the ark of God from the house of Obededom into the city of David with gladness.
Look at that. The Lord blessed his house and all that pertain unto him!
This is what I pray for you in the coming year!
May God bless you and bless all that pertain unto you in Jesus’ name!
Pray these prayers:
O Ark of Glory, come into my tabernacle after the order of Obed-Edom, in Jesus name
I receive grace and strength to pray and praise daily in the coming year through Global Prayer and Praise storms in Jesus’ name
Lord, let your ark rest in my house and my abode in Jesus’ name!
I adore the word “ability”! It’s a potent word that embodies boundless possibilities with grace. However, when the word “disability” or “disabled” is used, it instantly conveys a sense of weakness and negativity!
An able man is what every woman wants!
However, the narrative even gets stronger when the reference is God.
One such reference can be found here:
2Co 9:8 (KJV) And God is able to make all grace abound toward you; that ye, always having all sufficiency in all things, may abound to every good work:
We are aware of God’s immense power and His ability to perform both great deeds and undo them. However, does He possess the power to intervene in our lives and bring about positive change?
The good news is that God is indeed capable of doing so!
Well, good news. God is able!
What is He able to do?
He is able to make all grace abound. This refers to abundance, a place of overflow, and more than enough.
Let’s check the Passion Translation:
2Co 9:8 (TPT) Yes, God is more than ready to overwhelm you with every form of grace, so that you will have more than enough of everything—every moment and in every way. He will make you overflow with abundance in every good thing you do. He is going to overwhelm you with every form of grace!
And you’ll be blessed with an abundance of everything you desire!
He’ll shower you with prosperity in every righteous endeavor you undertake!
Isn’t that incredible?
In Jesus’ name, you will have an abundant and overflowing experience in the coming year! You will not lack anything; you will not be in a state of panic or chaos.
Pray the following three prayers:
Pray that every aspect of your business, career, job, or ministry will yield abundant fruit in Jesus’ name.
Confess by faith the flow of new ideas, visions, and breakthroughs.
Pray for the wisdom to take action that will result in blessing and abundance!
Hey there! If you’re reading this, you’re probably wondering if praying together can actually make a difference in your relationship. Spoiler: It absolutely can. Let’s break down why praying together as a couple isn’t just a “churchy” thing, but something that can genuinely deepen your connection. We’ll cover everything from picking the right moment to finding prayers that resonate with both of you. So grab a coffee, sit with your partner (or shoot them a link!), and let’s talk about inviting God into your relationship, as you pray —together.
Why Praying Together Builds an Unbreakable Bond
Praying as a couple? It’s basically relationship glue. When you pray together, you’re not just ticking off a “spiritual” checkbox. You’re letting each other in on your deepest hopes, fears, and dreams, which opens the door to some seriously amazing conversations. Suddenly, what used to be “small talk” or day-to-day chatter turns into heartfelt moments where you both feel heard and valued.
Here’s what prayer can do for your relationship:
Strengthen Communication: Sharing prayers is like opening up a direct line to each other’s hearts.
Create Shared Values: When you’re on the same spiritual page, you’re building a foundation that keeps you grounded through all of life’s ups and downs.
Offer Support and Security: Knowing you’ve got someone praying for you (and with you) creates a beautiful sense of safety and trust.
Find Your Vibe: Choosing the Best Time and Place for Prayer
Alright, so you’ve decided to try praying together. Now let’s talk logistics. Finding the right time and place can make a huge difference! Here’s a quick checklist to help make your prayer time something you actually look forward to:
Pick a Routine: Try setting aside a few specific times each week (or daily, if that works) for prayer. This could be right before bed or in the morning with coffee.
Create a Chill Environment: A cozy spot in your home, a quiet park, or even a corner by the window can become “your spot.” Add a Bible or a little art that feels meaningful.
Eliminate Distractions: This one’s key—put your phones on silent, and let roommates or family know not to disturb. It’s your sacred time together!
Types of Prayers to Bring You Closer
Not all prayers are the same, and that’s actually awesome. Different kinds of prayer let you connect in different ways. Here’s a mini-guide to some prayers that’ll help you build a strong, spiritual bond:
Gratitude Prayers: Taking a few moments to thank God for each other and the blessings in your lives can shift your focus from any frustrations to the good things you share. (Pro tip: this one works wonders on bad days.)
Intercessory Prayers: Here’s where you pray for each other’s needs, big or small. Maybe one of you has a job interview or a big exam—praying for each other builds that emotional and spiritual support.
Personal Growth Prayers: These are about you as individuals, not just as a couple. Each of you shares a bit about your personal growth goals and then prays for each other to succeed. It’s like being your partner’s biggest spiritual cheerleader!
Try This: Create a Couple’s Prayer List
A joint prayer list? Yes, it’s as simple as it sounds. Take a few minutes each week to jot down the things you’re praying for, both individually and as a couple. You might be surprised at how it encourages open conversations.
Set a Time for It: Maybe once a week on a chill Friday night or Sunday afternoon, list what you’re each praying for.
Update Regularly: Make a point of checking in on those items. Not only does this keep things relevant, but it also gives you a chance to celebrate when prayers are answered.
Incorporate into Daily Prayers: If it’s a regular list, bring it into your daily or weekly prayer sessions, even if just for a few minutes.
Mix It Up: Adding Scripture to Your Prayers
Scripture isn’t just for Sunday mornings; it can add depth and inspiration to your prayer time together. Here’s how to make it feel natural and meaningful:
Choose a Theme: Pick scriptures that reflect what’s happening in your life. If you’re focused on patience, for example, try passages that speak to that (like 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 on love).
Take Turns Reading: Let each person read a passage, then share what it means to you. This can be especially powerful if you’re navigating something tough and need perspective.
Reflect and Discuss: Don’t rush through this part. Talking about how a passage relates to your life as a couple can help you grow individually and together.
Retreats or Time Away: Getting Serious About Spiritual Recharge
Life can get hectic, and sometimes you just need a break. A couple’s prayer retreat (or even a mini staycation) can be a game-changer for your relationship.
Look for Prayer Retreats: These retreats often include guided devotionals and quiet time, allowing you to focus on your relationship with each other and with God.
DIY Your Own Getaway: Can’t make it to a formal retreat? Create your own! Grab an Airbnb in a quiet place or just turn your phones off for a weekend at home, devoting that time to reconnect.
Real Talk: Overcoming Common Challenges in Couple’s Prayer
Praying together isn’t always easy. Different schedules, comfort levels, and prayer styles can make it tricky, but these are all workable challenges.
Time Crunch: If finding time is the problem, try starting small. Even five minutes a day can build a habit without feeling overwhelmed.
Different Prayer Styles: If one of you loves freestyle prayers and the other prefers something structured, find a mix that works. Trade off each time so both styles are respected!
Emotional Vulnerability: Prayer can feel deeply personal, and it’s natural to feel awkward at first. Build trust by starting with gratitude prayers, and work up to more vulnerable topics.
Encouraging Spiritual Growth Together (and Separately)
Just because you’re praying as a couple doesn’t mean you stop growing individually. In fact, sharing personal spiritual growth is a huge part of making a relationship strong.
Reflect and Share: Spend time talking about how each of you is growing spiritually. Maybe one of you is reading a new devotional or working on a character trait.
Support Each Other’s Growth: Pray specifically for each other’s goals and challenges. Knowing your partner supports you on your personal journey can be incredibly encouraging.
Celebrate Progress (Because Why Not?)
Celebrate the milestones in your prayer life together! Whether it’s the anniversary of when you started praying together or just a tough time you got through, take moments to reflect and be grateful.
Prayer Journals: Start a journal where you both write down answered prayers and spiritual milestones. It’s so rewarding to look back and see all that’s happened.
Make It a Tradition: Set a monthly or yearly date to reflect on how far you’ve come. Maybe make it a “date night” tradition where you look back at the big moments in your spiritual journey as a couple.
Praying together doesn’t have to be complicated or formal. Think of it as creating intentional moments to talk, reflect, and grow together. It’s not about getting it “right”; it’s about showing up for each other and for God, inviting Him to walk with you through everything life throws your way. So give it a try—who knows, it might just become one of your favorite parts of your relationship!
Embracing Your Single Season: The Surprising Growth That Comes From Going Solo
Hey there! Let’s talk about something that doesn’t always get the attention it deserves—the beauty of being single. Yes, singlehood! I know, I know—sometimes it seems like everyone around us is finding “their person” or building the latest #CoupleGoals on social media. But here’s the thing: there’s a lot to love (and learn) about spending time on your own spiritual journey. Being single is a unique season that opens up incredible doors to self-discovery, deeper faith, and a stronger relationship with God and yourself. So, let’s dive in and see why embracing this journey can be an absolute game-changer!
1. Singleness as a Space for Spiritual Growth
When you’re single, you’re in a unique position to pursue spirituality on your own terms. Without the emotional ups and downs that can come with a relationship, you have the chance to focus on something that goes beyond romance—your spiritual connection with God. Being single means you can give time to pray, meditate, or simply sit in quiet reflection without feeling like you need to split your attention. This extra space allows you to truly explore questions like, “Who am I?” and “What’s my purpose?” in a way that’s totally focused on you and God.
Think of it like this: When you’re single, it’s like having a season pass to your own spiritual retreat. It’s all about finding peace and purpose in God’s presence, no distractions necessary.
2. Self-Discovery: Finding Out Who God Made You to Be
Let’s be real—relationships can sometimes shape our likes, dislikes, and even our beliefs. But when you’re single, you’ve got all this time to get to know you—the real, unfiltered you. This is the perfect time to figure out what you truly believe, what you’re passionate about, and what your values are. Think of it as doing a deep dive into your soul’s “about me” section.
Here are some ways to get to know yourself better:
Journaling: Writing down your thoughts, dreams, and prayers can help you process what you really want in life and what God might be calling you to.
Meditation: Even just 10 minutes a day can help you feel more connected to God and yourself. Quiet time allows you to listen for that still, small voice.
Exploring hobbies: Whether it’s art, music, reading, or hiking, discovering what brings you joy and energy can lead to deep personal insights.
3. Being Present: The Power of Solo Moments
One amazing thing about being single? The chance to really slow down and be present. With fewer distractions, you’re free to enjoy life’s simple moments—like taking a long walk, cooking yourself a great meal, or reading without a deadline. Being present in these moments brings a sense of peace that lets you connect with God in ways that might surprise you.
Try This: Next time you’re out in nature, stop and take a deep breath. Notice the sounds around you, the beauty of the world God made. It’s amazing how these simple, mindful moments can spark a sense of gratitude and spiritual connection.
4. Building a Strong Relationship with Yourself (Yes, You!)
Let’s face it—one of the most important relationships you’ll ever have is with yourself. This time of singleness is all about learning to care for you, not in a selfish way, but in a way that honors who God created you to be. Embracing self-love means treating yourself with the kindness and respect you deserve.
Self-Love Basics:
Self-Care: Make time for things that rejuvenate your mind, body, and spirit. (Yes, that includes taking a nap if you need it!)
Self-Acceptance: Embrace who you are, flaws and all. You don’t have to be perfect to be worthy.
Self-Respect: Hold true to your values, even when no one else is watching. This builds a solid foundation for future relationships and life in general.
Fun Tip: Treat yourself to a “date” now and then. Go to that cool art exhibit or try the restaurant you’ve been eyeing. Spending time with yourself can feel just as fulfilling as any romantic date night.
5. Trying Out Spiritual Practices That Fuel Your Faith
Being single is the perfect time to dive into spiritual practices without having to fit anyone else’s schedule. Whether you’re into early-morning meditations, evening Bible studies, or late-night worship jams, you’re free to experiment and find what feeds your spirit best.
Spiritual Practices to Try:
Meditation: A simple way to connect with God by quieting your mind.
Yoga: Not only is it great for your physical health, but it’s also amazing for mental clarity and peace.
Nature Walks: Sometimes, the best way to feel close to God is to step outside and appreciate His creation.
Each of these practices can help you grow spiritually while you’re on your own journey. And who knows—these practices might become habits that stay with you, no matter your relationship status!
6. Engaging with Community Without Losing Yourself
One of the biggest perks of being single? The freedom to invest time in friendships and communities that inspire and support you. Volunteering, joining small groups at church, or getting involved in activities you love are all ways to build deep connections. In these spaces, you’re able to give your time and energy in ways that fill you up rather than drain you.
Pro Tip: Try finding a community where you can be fully yourself, quirks and all. You’ll be surprised at how fulfilling it can be to connect with people who love you as you are and encourage you to grow.
7. Embracing Freedom and Honoring Your Choices
Being single means you get to call the shots, and this kind of freedom is powerful! Want to backpack across Europe? Learn a new language? Or maybe just spend your Saturday watching movies? This is your time to embrace your personal freedom and make choices that align with what God has put on your heart.
Instead of seeing singleness as a waiting room, see it as a launchpad to go after what you’re passionate about and to make the most of this season. After all, each of us has a unique purpose, and our single years can be an incredible time to pursue it fully.
8. Acceptance as a Path to Peace
If there’s one thing that brings peace in this season, it’s acceptance. Accepting where you are in life, instead of wishing you were somewhere else, can make all the difference. Singleness isn’t a holding pattern; it’s a time that can be just as fulfilling as any other season. Accepting this truth lets you live with freedom and gratitude, knowing that God’s timing is always right.
Encouraging Thought: Think of this time as God’s invitation to know Him more deeply and to truly grow into the person He created you to be.
Wrapping It Up: Embrace Your Journey
If you’re single right now, this time is a gift, even if it doesn’t always feel that way. It’s a time for you to grow spiritually, learn about yourself, and discover the amazing person God made you to be. So don’t just wait for the “next chapter”—live fully in this one. Embrace your journey, lean into your faith, and remember: this season of singleness has its own set of blessings that can shape your life in incredible ways.
Embrace where you are, enjoy the freedom, and let this time be all about discovering more of God and more of who you are.
