Married couples, your marriage vows are very sacred and needs to be kept as such. Extramarital affairs should be avoided at all costs. Marriage should be held in high esteem and the bed must remain undefiled.
We should always make sure we fulfill our roles as married couples. Marriage is for companionship, where both parties stay and stick with each other no matter what.
The chief culprit in developing extra-marital affairs is when either of the party is not a real companion. Real companionship is not just about pictures all over social media.
Issues in marriage don’t have to be left unaddressed. These issues start like ordinary and minor issues. The devil does not attack us at full force all at once. He introduces his attacks in subtle ways.
Every married couple needs a marriage counselor or a mentor, where these issues are addressed.
Extramarital affairs start when we try to meet marital needs outside of the sanctity of marriage. You should never be close to any opposite sex other than your wife or husband.
An attempt to do that is looking for trouble. Don’t ever put yourself into a tight corner. The devil usually set up certain atmosphere for adultery.
I know there are different situations. I have heard of rape cases or situations where the lady was drugged. That’s why it’s good to pray and commit our ways into God’s hands and be led by the Holy Spirit.
The truth is that extramarital relationships are not worth it. The Bible says that stolen waters is sweet but in the end, it’s like gravel in the mouth. Work on your own marriage no matter what.
I know that there are some extreme cases where the husband or wife is so impossible and there’s just a yearning for love and companionship. Just hold on, pray, seek help and trust God will sort it out rather than seek pleasures outside. You will yet smile again.
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not have extramarital affairs
PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Father help me to stand faithful
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Psa 86:11 (KJV) Teach me thy way, O LORD; I will walk in thy truth: unite my heart to fear thy name.
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Avoid all forms of extramarital affairs
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2 Samuel 16 – 18
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Thank you sir for the teaching, God will help me to stay faithful and be a real companion to my spouse.
I will be faithful to my spouse in the name of Jesus
I will not have extra marital affair. I will stay faithful and committed to my husband. We talk about issues, we don’t allow it slide . Devil you have no place in my marriage .
Daddy, thank you for the insights we daily receive sir.
How sweet it will be if that friendship during courtship can sail through the pressures and hurdles in marriage.
These pressures or differences tend to make one find his or her spouse uninteresting, the displeasure in you won’t even make you see your handsome bobo or beautiful babe……you begin to see another handsome or beautiful perfect being out there. You begin to find solace in such person…to think of it, if you ask their spouses to talk about them, the also may be making the same complaint you are facing in your marriage. God help us to us to stay focused.
To enjoy real companionship, we must understand each others needs and make effort to fulfil those needs. Mehn, if my spouse meet my all my needs lasan, jeru trip will become sweeter and easily accessible. Infact, both of us will always be looking forward to having the trip. God help us in this institution of marriage to stay true to each other, to stick closer to one another, to be best friends and enjoy real companionship.
May God help us to overcome every pressure that wants to pull us apart, In Jesus Name.
God help us to tend our grasses to always be green.
I say no to extramarital affair, i will stay faithful in my marriage,In Jesus Name..
“Issues in marriage don’t have to be left unaddressed. These issues start like ordinary and minor issues. The devil does not attack us at full force all at once. He introduces his attacks in subtle ways.”