God’s Signs vs. Your Feelings

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In a world where emotions are easily mistaken for divine direction, it’s important to pause and ask: How do I truly know this is God’s will for me?

Butterflies are beautiful, but they’re not divine confirmation. That quickened heartbeat when they text or the way they make you smile, though exciting, does not automatically mean they’re God’s best for you. Feelings are fleeting; God’s will is founded in truth and peace.

“The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?” (Jeremiah 17:9, KJV).

Your emotions can scream “yes!” even when God is gently saying “wait” or “no.” That’s why peace in your spirit is more reliable than the thrill in your chest.

Proverbs 3:6 says, “In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.” If it’s truly God, His direction will be clear, not chaotic. His peace will rule in your heart, not anxiety or fear (Colossians 3:15).

You’ll know it’s God when the relationship pushes you closer to Jesus, not away, when purity is protected, not compromised, when conversations are edifying, not manipulative. A relationship led by God will reflect 1 Corinthians 13, which states, patient, kind, honoring, not self-seeking.

God may confirm His will through wise counsel, Scripture, godly mentors, dreams, or even closed doors. Don’t ignore spiritual red flags just because you like the person. Remember, God is not the author of confusion (1 Corinthians 14:33).

Sometimes “the one” won’t fit your list, but they’ll fit your destiny. They will honor your calling, carry God’s grace, and bring out the best in you.

Before you say “yes,” ask: Is this God’s leading or just my longing? Let your emotions be quieted. Allow your spirit to listen. And above all, let God confirm it.

When it’s God, you won’t have to force it. His love story for you will be marked by peace, purpose, and His undeniable presence.

Shalom!