Don’t Idolise Marriage

Marriage is beautiful, but marriage is not God.

Some singles worship the idea of marriage, thinking it will complete them, fix them, or finally make them happy. The problem is, if you’re empty while single, you’ll still be empty while married. A wedding ring does not heal brokenness. Only Jesus does.

For couples, the danger is slightly different. You can make marriage itself the idol. Sometimes children, routines, or even your spouse take the place of God. Then you find yourself frustrated because no human can give you what only God was meant to supply.

That’s why Matthew 6:33 is so powerful:

“Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”

Singles, prepare your heart by anchoring your identity in Christ—not in someone’s last name. When you know who you are in God, you won’t settle for someone who treats you like less.

Couples, sustain your marriage by keeping Jesus at the centre—not on the sidelines. Pray together. Read the Word together. Make major decisions by asking, “What would please God in this situation?” When you let Him lead, your love won’t just survive; it will thrive.

Marriage is a gift, but it is not the source. God is the source. Healthy marriages are made up of whole people—not half-people looking for completion.

So whether single or married, fix your eyes on God first. Marriage makes a good companion, but a terrible master.