Are you a minister, pastor, church worker, or leader who lives in Ibadan? You are cordially invited to “Equip” a Minister’s Conference with Rev Femi Oduwole and Rev Gbeminiyi Eboda as part of our 9th anniversary convention.
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Love in relationships can sometimes feel like a fire that’s burning low. Life, stress, busyness, or misunderstandings can make the spark fade. But the good news is—fire can be rekindled. Here’s how:
1. Talk, Don’t Assume
Sometimes, all you need is a real conversation. Share your feelings—honestly but kindly. Ask your partner how they’re feeling, too. Silence can kill love, but open communication can bring it back to life.
2. Do the Little Things Again
Remember when you used to say “I love you” more, send sweet messages, or hold hands? Start doing those things again. Small acts can reignite big feelings.
3. Spend Quality Time Together
Make time for just the two of you. No phones, no work, no distractions. Go on a walk, a date, or just talk on the couch. Being together builds connection.
4. Forgive and Let Go
Unforgiveness is like a wall between hearts. If there’s hurt, talk about it and work on healing. Love grows when you release the past.
5. Pray Together
Invite God into your relationship. Praying together helps you feel closer and rebuilds unity.
6. Be Kind on Purpose
Speak gently. Be patient. Show love even when you don’t feel like it. Love is not just a feeling—it’s a choice you make every time.
Love is not lost—it may just need a little attention, care, and warmth. Don’t give up. The fire can burn bright again if you both keep tending to it.
Are you a minister, pastor, church worker, or leader who lives in Ibadan? You are cordially invited to “Equip” a Minister’s Conference with Rev Femi Oduwole and Rev Gbeminiyi Eboda as part of our 9th anniversary convention.
Rev Dunamis and Sophia Okunowo will also be hosting us. Attendance is free, but registration is required. Kindly register HERE
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1. Respect His Role
Acknowledge his position as the leader of the home, not because he’s perfect, but because it’s God’s order.
“Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.” Ephesians 5:22
2. Speak Kindly and With Respect
Use respectful words and tone when speaking to him or about him, even when you’re correcting or disagreeing.
3. Appreciate His Efforts
Say “thank you” often – for providing, protecting, leading, and trying his best.
4. Support His Decisions
Even if you have your views, allow him to lead and trust his judgment. Please share your thoughts, but don’t override him.
Practical Ways To Honor The Man
5. Pray for Him Daily
Cover him in prayer. A man carries weight you may never fully see. Prayer shows you value and support him.
6. Don’t Compete With Him
Don’t try to take over his role or constantly challenge his leadership. Work with him, not against him.
7. Celebrate Him Publicly and Privately
Praise him before the children, friends, and family. Speak highly of him, not down.
8. Seek His Input Before Big Decisions
Let him know you value his opinion. Don’t just inform him—include him.
9. Be His Peace, Not His Stress
Let home be a safe place. Choose patience and understanding instead of nagging or criticizing.
10. Believe in Him
Even when he’s not there yet, show that you trust in who he is becoming.
These small actions speak volumes and help build a healthy, respectful, and loving relationship in which both partners thrive.
How Integrity Can Change Your Relationship and Marriage
Are you a minister, pastor, church worker, or leader who lives in Ibadan? You are cordially invited to “Equip” a Minister’s Conference with Rev Femi Oduwole and Rev Gbeminiyi Eboda as part of our 9th anniversary convention.
Rev Dunamis and Sophia Okunowo will also be hosting us. Attendance is free, but registration is required. Kindly register HERE
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How Integrity can change your relationship and marriage
In simple terms, integrity is doing the right thing even when no one is watching. When both people practice it, love grows in a safe and trustworthy environment..
1. Trust Becomes Solid
Integrity means you say what you mean and mean what you say. When your words and actions match, your partner knows they can trust you. Trust is like the foundation of a house—without it, everything wobbles.
2. You Become Safe for Each Other
When you keep your promises and stay truthful, your spouse or partner feels safe with you. They know you won’t betray their confidence or play games with their emotions
3. It Reduces Unnecessary Fights
Most arguments in relationships come from misunderstandings, half-truths, or broken promises. Integrity clears that out. When you are honest, there’s less drama and less suspicion.
4. Respect Grows Naturally
Integrity commands respect. When your partner sees you living out what you say—whether in finances, friendships, or commitments—they naturally respect you more.
5. It Sets a Standard
Living with integrity sets the tone for the relationship. It inspires your partner to also be truthful and upright, making your relationship stronger and more stable.
Are you a minister, pastor, church worker, or leader who lives in Ibadan? You are cordially invited to “Equip” a Minister’s Conference with Rev Femi Oduwole and Rev Gbeminiyi Eboda as part of our 9th anniversary convention.
Rev Dunamis and Sophia Okunowo will also be hosting us. Attendance is free, but registration is required. Kindly register HERE
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In everything give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.” 1 Thessalonians 5:18 (KJV)
Whether you’re preparing for love or already walking in it, gratitude can dramatically shift the atmosphere of your relationship. Gratitude is more than a polite “thank you.” It’s a posture of the heart that opens your eyes to the beauty in others, softens your reactions, and builds a deep emotional connection.
1. Gratitude Shifts Your Focus
Instead of dwelling on what your partner (or future partner) isn’t doing, gratitude helps you focus on what they are doing right. For singles, this cultivates contentment and healthy expectations. For couples, it eases tension and increases appreciation.
Phil 4:8 [NIV] Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things
2. Gratitude Silences Complaining
A thankful heart doesn’t murmur. Complaining weakens intimacy. Gratitude builds it. Choose to celebrate small acts—whether it’s a text message, a thoughtful gesture, or simply being present.
James 3:10 – “Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.”
3. Gratitude Invites Joy
Thankfulness releases joy into your relationship. You become easier to be around. When you’re grateful, you’re not bitter, entitled, or always frustrated.
Pro 17:22 [NIV] A cheerful heart is good medicine,but a crushed spirit driesup the bones.
4. Gratitude Softens Conflicts
Arguments lose their fire when gratitude is present. You’ll respond in love instead of anger. For singles, this helps in forming wise, respectful friendships. For couples, it becomes a glue in tough seasons.
Colossians 3:13-14 [NIV]Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.
5. Gratitude Honors God in Your Love Life
God is pleased when we recognize His goodness, even in relationships. Whether you’re waiting or already committed, gratitude shows your trust in God’s process and His provision.
Psalm 100:4[NIV] Enter his gates with thanksgivingand his courts with praise;give thanks to him and praise his name.
Questions for reflection:
Am I grateful for the people God has placed in my life?
Do I express appreciation regularly or only see faults?
How would my relationship look if I practiced daily gratitude?
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (NIV) reminds us that love is patient, kind, and never gives up. Love isn’t a one-time vow—it’s a daily decision. Small acts of kindness, honest conversations, and thoughtful gestures are the bricks that build a lasting relationship.
2. Stay Rooted in God, Not Your Feelings
Feelings can fluctuate, but God’s Word is constant. John 15:5 (NIV) says, “Apart from me you can do nothing.” When the love feels weak, plug into the source—God. Let His love fill you up so you can love your spouse or partner from a place of strength.
3. Choose Grace Over Grudge
No relationship thrives without forgiveness. Ephesians 4:32 (NLT) says, “Be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.” Let go of offenses quickly. Don’t let small wounds become wide gaps.
4. Remember Why You Started
When you’re tempted to give up, recall the joy, hope, and purpose that brought you together. Revelation 2:4-5 (NIV) encourages us to return to our “first love.” Revisit old memories, shared goals, and spiritual unity that sparked the relationship.
5. Keep Investing Even When It’s Hard
Love requires continual sowing. Effort, time, prayer, and intentionality are seeds. Proverbs 24:3 (NLT) says, “A house is built by wisdom and becomes strong through good sense.” Relationships grow when you keep watering the garden—even during dry seasons.
Galatians 6:9 (NLT) — “So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up.
Don’t abandon what God has called you to build. You are not alone—He’s with you every step of the way. Keep loving, keep showing up, keep building. The harvest of a beautiful, enduring relationship is worth it.
