Are You Going the Same Way?

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Are You Going the Same Way?

Two people can walk side by side and still not be heading the same direction. (This is the point I say, “Selah.” Lol)

It’s easy to confuse chemistry with compatibility.

You enjoy the same music, laugh at the same memes, and finish each other’s sentences… but, my friend, are your values aligned?

Do your visions complement?

Are your lives truly walking in the same direction—or just crossing paths for a while?

Dear singles, before you fall in love with someone’s smile, pay attention to their moves.

Where are they headed in life?

Do they honour God when no one’s watching?

Can they lead—or follow—when needed?

It’s better to walk alone than to link arms with someone headed somewhere God didn’t send you.

Dear married couples, just because you have said “I do” doesn’t mean you should stop aligning.

Life changes. Goals evolve. Priorities shift.

So, keep checking in:

Are we still walking together or just sharing a roof?

Are we still talking about our future, or just our bills?

Are we building something eternal—or just surviving the day?

This agreement is important in relationships and marriage.

“Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” Amos 3:3

Agreement doesn’t mean sameness. It means unity. Understanding. Intentional movement in the same direction.

Whether you’re waiting, dating, or already deep into the journey, the question remains:

Are we going the same way?

If not, it’s time to pause, pray, and realign.

Because when hearts move in sync, the journey becomes joy, regardless of the twists and turns.